N\u00eb jav\u00ebt e para kur filloi izolimi<\/p>\n\n\n\n
prej Covid-it <\/p>\n\n\n\n
dhe forma e re e t\u00eb punuarit dhe m\u00ebsuarit hyri n\u00eb fuqi, <\/p>\n\n\n\n
u b\u00eb virale nj\u00eb video e nj\u00eb profesori t\u00eb ftuar n\u00eb BBC, t\u00eb cilit iu fut\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e pun\u00ebs nga ku ai po komunikonte me gazetarin. N\u00ebna e tyre i t\u00ebrhoqi me shpejt\u00ebsi t\u2019i nxirrte jasht\u00eb dhom\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb eksperti u shp\u00ebrq\u00ebndrua p\u00ebr ca \u00e7aste.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ky rast \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ilustruar sesi t\u00eb punuarit nga sht\u00ebpia gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj periudhe mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb m\u00eb vete, gjithmon\u00eb n\u00ebse keni f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb? Puna duhet mbajtur por edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt duhen sajdisur. Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb kesh dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ti punon. Por s\u00ebrish n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs, nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb \u00e7amarrok gjithmon\u00eb do doj\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb te prindi kur e di q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Sado q\u00eb t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e pun\u00ebs, ve\u00e7uar nga dhoma e ndenjes tek dera do d\u00ebgjohen trokitje nevoje. Mami, dua qum\u00ebsht, mami u fik televizori, mama, hape der\u00ebn, \u00e7a po b\u00ebn?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
F\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk jan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar ende me k\u00ebt\u00eb model pune. Ata mendojn\u00eb se kur prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se atyre mund t\u2019u flas\u00ebsh dhe t\u2019u k\u00ebrkosh gj\u00ebra e v\u00ebmendje n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb.
At\u00ebher\u00eb a duhen p\u00ebrgatitur dhe trajnuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt? Hmm edhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb me 3-vje\u00e7ar\u00ebt p\u00ebr shembull. Mendoni pak, ju jeni n\u00eb mes t\u00eb nj\u00eb mbledhjeje online dhe papritmas t\u00eb vjen djali i vog\u00ebl e t\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u2019i rregullosh \u00e7orapen. Koleg\u00ebt nga ana tjet\u00ebr do tregojn\u00eb mir\u00ebsjellje, do buz\u00ebqeshin e do t\u00eb t\u00eb japin leje t\u00eb vazhdosh, por s\u00ebrish ti vihesh n\u00eb siklet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ty ndoshta t\u00eb shkon mendja me dredhi q\u00eb me shpejt\u00ebsi t\u2019i heq\u00ebsh z\u00ebrin mikrofonit t\u00ebnd n\u00eb zoom dhe ta fik\u00ebsh kamer\u00ebn. Por prap\u00eb se prap\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb ishte etike dhe s\u2019mund ta p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh shpesh si marifet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fatmir\u00ebsisht n\u00eb disa vende, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn publikisht u jepet p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Dhe pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb shfaqin empati n\u00eb rastet kur pun\u00ebmarr\u00ebsve t\u00eb tyre u dalin gj\u00ebrat nga kontrolli prej forcave f\u00ebminore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Se kur t\u00eb z\u00eb rrota bishtin, duhet aktivizuar fryma e toleranc\u00ebs dhe mir\u00ebkuptimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar sfidat q\u00eb nuk i kishe n\u00eb axhend\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb. Kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se s\u2019do e b\u00ebsh pun\u00ebn. Do e b\u00ebsh se s\u2019b\u00ebn, por duke e mbledhur mendjen q\u00eb nuk je n\u00eb zyr\u00eb dhe se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt do t\u2019i kesh v\u00ebrdall\u00eb nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ti punon. Shkurt, duhet me i dh\u00ebn\u00eb koh\u00ebn e vet gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb reja sa t\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb vend. J.D.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00eb jav\u00ebt e para kur filloi izolimi prej Covid-it dhe forma e re e t\u00eb punuarit dhe m\u00ebsuarit hyri n\u00eb fuqi, u b\u00eb virale nj\u00eb video e nj\u00eb profesori t\u00eb ftuar n\u00eb BBC, t\u00eb cilit iu fut\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e pun\u00ebs nga ku ai po komunikonte me gazetarin. N\u00ebna e tyre i t\u00ebrhoqi me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":25176,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[2977],"class_list":["post-25175","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-jeta-tocila-dedja"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25175","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25175"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25175\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25176"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25175"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25175"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25175"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}