{"id":25079,"date":"2020-04-16T16:38:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T14:38:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=25079"},"modified":"2020-04-16T16:38:36","modified_gmt":"2020-04-16T14:38:36","slug":"prinderim-si-te-zhvillojme-pavaresine-tek-femijet-5-keshilla-per-tu-mbajtur-parasysh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2020\/04\/prinderim-si-te-zhvillojme-pavaresine-tek-femijet-5-keshilla-per-tu-mbajtur-parasysh\/","title":{"rendered":"Prind\u00ebrim; Si t\u00eb zhvillojm\u00eb pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt? 5 k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr t\u2019u mbajtur parasysh!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>NGA AURORA LUSHEJ<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Logopede\/ Terapiste ABA<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mund t\u00eb duket m\u00eb e leht\u00eb dhe m\u00eb e shpejt\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebni gj\u00ebrat gati p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u2019i lejoni ata t\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb vet\u00eb. Kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt rriten, ata duhet t\u00eb marrin m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi. Ti nuk po i b\u00ebn nder f\u00ebmij\u00ebs kur kryen \u00e7do detyr\u00eb bazike p\u00ebr ta. N\u00eb fakt, duke u m\u00ebsuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, ata mund t\u00eb zhvillojn\u00eb var\u00ebsin\u00eb ndaj jush apo t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve edhe p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb vogla (imagjinoni nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb adoleshent q\u00eb ju pyet p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht se mund t\u2019i b\u00ebje vet\u00eb fare mir\u00eb!).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb rritni vet\u00ebbesimin dhe p\u00ebrgjegjshm\u00ebrin\u00eb tek f\u00ebmija juaj, ndiqni k\u00ebto 5 k\u00ebshilla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>B\u00ebj nj\u00eb list\u00eb<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Krijo nj\u00eb list\u00eb me detyra q\u00eb f\u00ebmija yt duhet t\u2019i b\u00ebje vet\u00eb, si p\u00ebrshembull, t\u00eb vishet apo t\u00eb mbledh\u00eb lodrat e tij. Flit me ta p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb ata mendojn\u00eb se mund t\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt, mund t\u2019i praktikojn\u00eb&nbsp; n\u00eb pranin\u00eb tuaj. Eleminoni detyrat q\u00eb mendoni se ata nuk jan\u00eb gati p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb. Mbani mend, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebrformojn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb kur e din\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb pritet nga ata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"2\"><li><strong>Mos prit p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebri<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb akoma duke zhvilluar dhe duke njohur aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre motore, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb incident\u00eb t\u00eb tilla si: derdhja e qum\u00ebshtit kur duan ta mbushin got\u00ebn vet\u00eb. Kur ndodhin t\u00eb tilla incidente, mundohuni t\u00eb mos i kritikoni apo t\u00eb reagoni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb tilla q\u00eb ata t\u00eb ndihen keq. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ndihmojeni ta provoj\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri derisa ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb. B\u00ebjeni t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb gabime, asnj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb perfekt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"3\"><li><strong>Jepi koh\u00ebn e duhur<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb sesa t\u00eb rriturit p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar detyra t\u00eb caktuara. Jepini koh\u00ebn e duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar stresin tek ata. P\u00ebrshembull, n\u00ebse f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u00ebnd i duhen 10 minuta p\u00ebr t\u00eb veshur rrobat e veta n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, filloni rutin\u00ebn ditore m\u00eb her\u00ebt. Me praktik\u00eb, ata do m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb shpejt t\u00eb gjitha detyrat e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"4\"><li><strong>Zhvillo nj\u00eb rutin\u00eb<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr rutin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb menaxhuar p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre. N\u00ebse rutina ditore ndryshon vazhdimisht, ata do b\u00ebhen t\u00eb hutuar. Shpjegojini atyre kur duhet t\u00eb kryejn\u00eb detyrat e tyre. P\u00ebrshembull, tregojini q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i mbledhin lodrat e tyre para se t\u00eb flen\u00eb gjum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"5\"><li><strong>Lavd\u00ebroje<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb vler\u00ebsohen p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb. Lavd\u00ebrojini ata kur b\u00ebjn\u00eb detyra n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pavarur, mbi t\u00eb gjitha n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ata e kishin t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta b\u00ebnin n\u00eb fillim. Jepini kurajo kur ata ndihen t\u00eb frustruar p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk e kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Kur ju i jepni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb kryejn\u00eb detyrat vet\u00eb, ata fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillojn\u00eb konceptin e p\u00ebrgjegjshm\u00ebris\u00eb dhe arritjeve. Kur rriten, ata do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin aft\u00ebsin\u00eb e zgjidhjes s\u00eb problemeve (kur f\u00ebmija i kryen vet\u00eb detyrat e tij, ai m\u00ebson t\u00eb zgjidh\u00eb \u201cproblemet\u201d q\u00eb dalin rrug\u00ebs, p\u00ebrshembull, kur i marrin lodr\u00ebn n\u00eb park dhe duhet t\u00eb gjej\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si ta marr\u00eb lodr\u00ebn p\u00ebrs\u00ebri) n\u00eb kap\u00ebrcimin me leht\u00ebsi t\u00eb situatave t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira. N\u00eb terma afatgjat\u00eb, nxitja e pavar\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrgjegjshm\u00ebris\u00eb, formon nj\u00eb karakter me vet\u00ebbesim dhe vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsim t\u00eb lart\u00eb, t\u00eb respektuesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb nevojat e tij dhe ti arrij\u00eb ato!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Burimi: Humanum.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>NGA AURORA LUSHEJ Logopede\/ Terapiste ABA Mund t\u00eb duket m\u00eb e leht\u00eb dhe m\u00eb e shpejt\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebni gj\u00ebrat gati p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u2019i lejoni ata t\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb vet\u00eb. Kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt rriten, ata duhet t\u00eb marrin m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi. Ti nuk po i b\u00ebn nder f\u00ebmij\u00ebs kur kryen \u00e7do detyr\u00eb bazike p\u00ebr [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":25080,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,49],"tags":[2809],"class_list":["post-25079","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","category-shendet","tag-prinderimi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25079","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25079"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25079\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25080"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25079"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25079"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25079"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}