Po sikur centimetrat q\u00eb ju ndajn\u00eb nga bashk\u00ebshorti gjat\u00eb nat\u00ebs, t\u00eb zbulonin forc\u00ebn e lidhjes suaj? T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb konstatimi i nj\u00eb psikologu britanik q\u00eb konfirmon se m\u00ebnyra se si flem\u00eb, thot\u00eb shum\u00eb mbi \u00e7iftin dhe personalitetin ton\u00eb…<\/p>\n
N\u00eb \u00e7\u2019m\u00ebnyr\u00eb flini n\u00eb shtrat, p\u00ebrkrah bashk\u00ebshortit? Kjo duket nj\u00eb pyetje e pafajshme, por n\u00eb fakt, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje shum\u00eb serioze q\u00eb profesori britanik, Ri\u00e7ard Uajzmen, ua ka b\u00ebr\u00eb afro nj\u00eb mij\u00eb personave gjat\u00eb Festivalit Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar t\u00eb Shkencave t\u00eb Edimburgut. Sipas rezultateve t\u00eb pyet\u00ebsorit, sa m\u00eb af\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrit t\u00eb flem\u00eb, aq m\u00eb i fort\u00eb dhe i lumtur \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7ifti yn\u00eb!
\nS\u00eb pari, profesori Uajzmen analizoi pozicionet n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat \u00e7iftet flinin. 42% e personave t\u00eb pyetur than\u00eb se nat\u00ebn flinin kurriz m\u00eb kurriz; ky ishte pozicioni m\u00eb i p\u00ebrhapur, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb 31% than\u00eb se ktheheshin n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin drejtim dhe 4%, q\u00eb preferonin t\u00eb flinin p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Nj\u00eb pik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, e dal\u00eb n\u00eb drit\u00eb nga pyet\u00ebsori, ishte distanca q\u00eb i ndante dy bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt gjat\u00eb gjumit. N\u00eb fakt, 86% e personave q\u00eb flinin ngjitur dhe shtr\u00ebnguar pas nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur, ndryshe nga 66% q\u00eb flinin n\u00eb nj\u00eb distanc\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 75 cm larg nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, sa m\u00eb larg partnerit t\u00eb flini, aq m\u00eb e keqe duket lidhja…
\nMegjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebr psikologun, ky aspekt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb zbulon m\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra: \u201cM\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmi \u00ebsht\u00eb kontakti\u201d, afirmon ai. Pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse flen\u00eb me kurriz apo jo, 94% e t\u00eb pyeturve q\u00eb ruajn\u00eb nj\u00eb kontakt prekjeje gjat\u00eb nat\u00ebs, deklarohen t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur me jet\u00ebn e tyre n\u00eb \u00e7ift, kundrejt 68% t\u00eb atyre q\u00eb nuk preken fare. Sipas profesorit, \u201cb\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr anket\u00ebn e par\u00eb q\u00eb ekzaminon pozicionet e gjumit n\u00eb gji t\u00eb \u00e7iftit. Rezultatet mund\u00ebsojn\u00eb zbulimin e personalitetit dhe lidhjes me partnerin, thjesht duke u pyetur p\u00ebr pozicionin e tyre t\u00eb preferuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur\u201d. Profesori n\u00eb fjal\u00eb ka arritur t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe lidhjen mes tipareve t\u00eb karakterit t\u00eb nj\u00eb personi dhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs se si ai fle: Jan\u00eb personalitetet m\u00eb t\u00eb hapura ato q\u00eb e kalojn\u00eb m\u00eb shpesh nat\u00ebn ngjitur pas partnerit\/es! Megjithat\u00eb, k\u00ebto rezultate nuk duhen marr\u00eb si t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta 100%…
\nVitin e shkuar, nj\u00eb studim kanadez afirmoi se afro 20% e \u00e7ifteve amerikane flinin n\u00eb dhoma t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb ruanin lidhjen dhe nuk ndjeheshin fatkeq\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb mund ta konfirmoj\u00eb edhe Princi Filip dhe Mbret\u00ebresha Elizabet II, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt q\u00eb prej fillimit t\u00eb martes\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, flen\u00eb n\u00eb dhoma t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta dhe s\u00eb shpejti, do t\u00eb festojn\u00eb 67 vjetorin e martes\u00ebs. At\u00ebhere, mos t\u2019ju z\u00ebr\u00eb paniku n\u00ebse partneri ju kthen shpin\u00ebn sonte; kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb medoemos se lidhja po shkon drejt fundit!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Po sikur centimetrat q\u00eb ju ndajn\u00eb nga bashk\u00ebshorti gjat\u00eb nat\u00ebs, t\u00eb zbulonin forc\u00ebn e lidhjes suaj? T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb konstatimi i nj\u00eb psikologu britanik q\u00eb konfirmon se m\u00ebnyra se si flem\u00eb, thot\u00eb shum\u00eb mbi \u00e7iftin dhe personalitetin ton\u00eb… N\u00eb \u00e7\u2019m\u00ebnyr\u00eb flini n\u00eb shtrat, p\u00ebrkrah bashk\u00ebshortit? Kjo duket nj\u00eb pyetje e pafajshme, por n\u00eb fakt, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2507"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2507\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}