{"id":24977,"date":"2020-04-13T16:31:05","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T14:31:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=24977"},"modified":"2020-04-13T18:44:20","modified_gmt":"2020-04-13T16:44:20","slug":"as-karantina-nuk-e-thyhen-mentalitetin-nga-marsi-simo-sociologe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2020\/04\/as-karantina-nuk-e-thyhen-mentalitetin-nga-marsi-simo-sociologe\/","title":{"rendered":"As karantina nuk e thyhen mentalitetin?! Nga Marsi Simo, sociologe"},"content":{"rendered":"\n


Pas nj\u00eb muaji n\u00eb vet\u00eb izolim,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

tani jemi futur n\u00eb faz\u00ebn e p\u00ebrshtatjes,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

edhe pse shqet\u00ebsimet e ndryshme emocionale jan\u00eb prezente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7do familje tani ka formuar nj\u00eb rutin\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar, ku secili ka m\u00ebnyrat dhe zakonet e veta p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar koh\u00ebn. Megjithat\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb, sht\u00ebpia ka angazhimet e saj duke nisur q\u00eb nga mbajtja past\u00ebr, sistemimi, gatimi etj. N\u00ebse m\u00eb par\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e dit\u00ebs kalonte jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, tani q\u00ebndrimi brenda iu ka kthyer barazin\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve n\u00eb kuptimin ku askush nuk mund t\u00eb justifikohet se punon m\u00eb shum\u00eb, apo lodhet m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. Madje e gjith\u00eb kjo situat\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb mendosh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb pozitive, ku ka nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsuar burrat, apo edhe i ka detyruar t\u00eb merren me gatim, apo me kujdesin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, apo me pastrim etj. Pavar\u00ebsisht se duhet theksuar se ka dhe burra q\u00eb edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb, kan\u00eb qene p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb miri n\u00eb mbar\u00ebvajtjen e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb.
P\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar n\u00ebse disa zakone kan\u00eb ndryshuar apo jo, u shp\u00ebrnda nj\u00eb sondazh online. Pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebsit n\u00eb sondazh iu shtrua nj\u00eb pyetje konkrete duke iu renditur m\u00eb pas disa alternative.
Pyetja e sondazhit:
Si ndahen detyrat n\u00eb familje midis burrit dhe gruas n\u00eb mbar\u00ebvajtjen e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb izolimi?
Pjesa m\u00eb e madhe ishte shprehur se gruaja angazhohet m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Pjesa tjet\u00ebr me nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqindje t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb ishin dy alternativa:
I ndajn\u00eb pun\u00ebt n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb 20%
Vet\u00ebm gruaja punon n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi 20%
Alternativat e tjera nuk ishin p\u00ebrzgjedhur asnj\u00eb her\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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P\u00ebr ta plot\u00ebsuar k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 sondazhit m\u00eb posht\u00eb jan\u00eb renditur edhe disa pjes\u00eb nga disa intervista me gra t\u00eb cilat donin t\u00eb ndanin pik\u00ebpamjen e tyre.

S, 44 vje\u00e7e: \u201cPavar\u00ebsisht se jemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, un\u00eb jam ajo q\u00eb zgjohem e para, diku nj\u00eb or\u00eb para vajzave dhe burrit, q\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00eb n\u00eb vij\u00eb gj\u00ebrat. E kam provuar t\u00eb jem edhe indiferente, por sht\u00ebpia shkon n\u00eb kolaps.\u201d

I, 32 vje\u00e7e: \u201cBurri im edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb angazhohej n\u00eb disa pun\u00eb sht\u00ebpie, por nuk mund t\u00eb themi se i kemi ndar\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb aq t\u00eb barabart\u00eb. Un\u00eb s\u00ebrish b\u00ebj m\u00eb shum\u00eb.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E, 28 vje\u00e7e: \u201cUn\u00eb punoj dhe iki fizikisht n\u00eb pun\u00eb. Burri im nuk ka pun\u00eb p\u00ebr momentin. Kur shkoj n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nuk di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara. F\u00ebmija do t\u00eb ushqehet, sht\u00ebpia duhet sistemuar, en\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb lar\u00eb. M\u00eb p\u00ebrpara ai justifikohej se lodhej n\u00eb pun\u00eb se b\u00ebnte pun\u00eb fizike, kurse tani thot\u00eb nuk kam nerva. Kur shkoj p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur n\u00eb dark\u00eb von\u00eb, m\u00eb z\u00eb frika sesi do zgjohem p\u00ebrs\u00ebri dhe m\u00eb presin gjith\u00eb ato pun\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pas nj\u00eb muaji n\u00eb vet\u00eb izolim, tani jemi futur n\u00eb faz\u00ebn e p\u00ebrshtatjes, edhe pse shqet\u00ebsimet e ndryshme emocionale jan\u00eb prezente. \u00c7do familje tani ka formuar nj\u00eb rutin\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar, ku secili ka m\u00ebnyrat dhe zakonet e veta p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar koh\u00ebn. Megjithat\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb, sht\u00ebpia ka angazhimet e saj duke nisur q\u00eb nga mbajtja […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":24638,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40,86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24977","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24977","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24977"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24977\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24638"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24977"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24977"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24977"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}