{"id":24382,"date":"2020-03-01T22:32:32","date_gmt":"2020-03-01T21:32:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=24382"},"modified":"2020-03-01T22:32:38","modified_gmt":"2020-03-01T21:32:38","slug":"femije-qe-thone-jo-nga-lorela-garuli-psikologe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2020\/03\/femije-qe-thone-jo-nga-lorela-garuli-psikologe\/","title":{"rendered":"F\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb thon\u00eb &#8220;jo&#8221;&#8230;! Nga Lorela Garuli, psikologe!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/lorela-kopertine-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19340\" srcset=\"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/lorela-kopertine-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/lorela-kopertine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/lorela-kopertine-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/lorela-kopertine.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kund\u00ebrshtimi q\u00eb nisin t\u00eb shfaqin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ndaj prind\u00ebrve\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje e pranishme <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">dhe e njohur p\u00ebr familjet q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 2-3 vjecare dhe paraqet jo vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb problematik\u00eb, por shpesh l\u00eb vend dhe p\u00ebr keqkuptime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Keqkuptime, pasi fakti q\u00eb f\u00ebmija fillon t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb e t\u00eb thot\u00eb jo, prind\u00ebrve mund t\u2019u duket si akt rebelimi apo sikur nuk po menaxhojn\u00eb dot edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre e q\u00eb nuk po kryejn\u00eb rolin e tyre si prind\u00ebr. N\u00eb fakt, asgj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00ebse normale q\u00eb f\u00ebmija rreth mosh\u00ebs 2-vjecar\u00eb t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala se po kund\u00ebrshton; por n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb shfaq\u00eb pavar\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij, autonomin\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron dhe mendon. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tregues i nj\u00eb zhvillimi t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm k q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb dij\u00eb t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim mbi gj\u00ebrat dhe ngjarjet q\u00eb ndodhin rreth tij. Kjo, p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtimi nuk kthehet n\u00eb negativiz\u00ebm dhe b\u00ebhet e vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb komunikimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Megjithat\u00eb, duke pasur parasysh q\u00eb f\u00ebmija tashm\u00eb po rritet dhe fillon t\u00eb paraqes\u00eb uni-n e tij, ka disa m\u00ebnyra sesi prindi mund ta zbus\u00eb dhe kanalizoj\u00eb pozitivisht kund\u00ebshtimin dhe refuzimin nga ana e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb ket\u00eb alternativa dhe mund\u00ebsi zgjedhjeje; n\u00ebse i paraqiten disa t\u00eb tilla ai sigurisht do t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej tyre dhe nuk ka pse t\u00eb thot\u00eb jo apo t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb prindi i thot\u00eb, sepse sigurisht po i lihet atij n\u00eb dor\u00eb vendimmarrja dhe zgjedhja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u00ebmija duhet nxitur t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb individualisht dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pavarur. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se dhe n\u00eb rastet q\u00eb ai ju thot\u00eb jo, ta vler\u00ebsoni pozitivisht t\u00eb menduarit e tij kritik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ju si prind\u00ebr, p\u00ebrpiquni ta vendosni veten n\u00eb vendin e tij. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb shum\u00eb energji dhe d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb eksploruar cdo gj\u00eb q\u00eb i rrethon. Duke qen\u00eb shum\u00eb kureshtar\u00eb, shpeshher\u00eb frustrohen e ndihen keq kur pengohen dhe nuk u lejohet t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb &nbsp;duan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ju mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni ta shp\u00ebrqendroni p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb situate n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e dini q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb jo; nisni nj\u00eb loj\u00eb, nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim, nj\u00eb ngjarje, nj\u00eb tregim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Natyrisht q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tuaj do t\u2019i vendosni dhe limite, sepse i sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb pozitivisht p\u00ebr t\u2019u organizuar e p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjer\u00eb t\u00eb pasigurt pa ankth. Por n\u00eb cdo rrethan\u00eb, limitet duhen argumentuar, shpjeguar, komunikuar me qet\u00ebsi dhe m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara n\u00eb koh\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burimi: Humanum.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kund\u00ebrshtimi q\u00eb nisin t\u00eb shfaqin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ndaj prind\u00ebrve\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje e pranishme dhe e njohur p\u00ebr familjet q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 2-3 vjecare dhe paraqet jo vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb problematik\u00eb, por shpesh l\u00eb vend dhe p\u00ebr keqkuptime. Keqkuptime, pasi fakti q\u00eb f\u00ebmija fillon t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb e t\u00eb thot\u00eb jo, prind\u00ebrve mund t\u2019u duket si akt [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":24383,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[2227,364],"class_list":["post-24382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-psikologe-lorela-garuli","tag-psikologu-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24382","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24382"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24382\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24383"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24382"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24382"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24382"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}