{"id":24198,"date":"2020-01-31T12:55:48","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T11:55:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=24198"},"modified":"2020-01-31T12:55:51","modified_gmt":"2020-01-31T11:55:51","slug":"llojet-e-prinderimit-dhe-efektet-e-tyre-mbi-femijet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2020\/01\/llojet-e-prinderimit-dhe-efektet-e-tyre-mbi-femijet\/","title":{"rendered":"Llojet e prind\u00ebrimit dhe efektet e tyre mbi f\u00ebmij\u00ebt"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stili juaj i prind\u00ebrimit<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb nga sa f\u00ebmija juaj <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">peshon deri te se si ai ndihet p\u00ebr veten. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb siguroheni se stili juaj i prind\u00ebrimit \u00ebsht\u00eb duke mb\u00ebshtetur rritjen dhe zhvillimin e sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm, sepse m\u00ebnyra me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nderveproni \u00a0me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj dhe si e disiplinoni at\u00eb do te ndikoj\u00eb te ai p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mamidhebebi.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/4-styles-of-parenting-1024x684-1024x684.jpeg\" alt=\"Image result for llojet e prinderimit&quot;\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Prind\u00ebrimi autoritar<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prind\u00ebrit autoritar\u00eb besojn\u00eb se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb ndjekin rregullat pa p\u00ebrjashtim. Ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb famsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cSepse &nbsp;k\u00ebshtu,them un\u00eb \u201d kur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb v\u00eb n\u00eb dyshim arsyet prapa nj\u00eb rregulli dhe nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar t\u00eb negociojn\u00eb. Fokusi i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb bindja. Nuk i &nbsp;lejojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihen n\u00eb sfidat &nbsp;p\u00ebr zgjidhjen e problemeve, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ata vendosin &nbsp;rregullat dhe zbatojn\u00eb pasojat &nbsp;duke mos u interesuar p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb femija mendon. Prind\u00ebrit autoritar\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin d\u00ebnime n\u00eb vend t\u00eb disiplin\u00ebs. Pra, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb se si t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb zgjedhje m\u00eb t\u00eb mira, ata i bejne f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb ndihen keq p\u00ebr gabimet e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb rriten nga \u00a0prind\u00ebrit e rrept\u00eb autoritar\u00eb kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb ndjekin rregullat\u00a0 shumicen e kohes, por, bindja e tyre vjen me nj\u00eb \u00e7mim. Ata jan\u00eb\u00a0 m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikuar t\u00eb ken\u00eb probleme \u00a0t\u00eb vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimit, sepse mendimet e tyre nuk vler\u00ebsohen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh3.googleusercontent.com\/proxy\/ScyRC3Rw97ejzHCy-G4wqDMU1XUuTuYupH9yBcW_jM-7Z-K3C-XepEh6uws-aEzCcw17hADkdxeOWrEZDZ6rGob8l6xF1QiN7ArQBJO19qZJvO3chIup9xR88A7035f8tJGvGjj63atO_eXpIOPA\" alt=\"Image result for llojet e prinderimit&quot;\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><strong>Prinderimi autoritarian osee demokrat<\/strong><em><strong>.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prind\u00ebrit e autoritarian kan\u00eb rregulla dhe p\u00ebrdorin pasoja, por gjithashtu i marrin parasysh mendimet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre. Ata i vler\u00ebsojne&nbsp; ndjenjat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, por duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb gjithashtu t\u00eb qart\u00eb se t\u00eb rriturit jan\u00eb n\u00eb krye pra p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr ta. Prind\u00ebrit autoritarian investojn\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe energji n\u00eb parandalimin e problemeve t\u00eb sjelljes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs &nbsp;para se ato t\u00eb&nbsp; fillojn\u00eb. Ata gjithashtu p\u00ebrdorin strategji pozitive t\u00eb disiplin\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrforcuar sjelljen e mir\u00eb, si lavd\u00ebrimin &nbsp;dhe sistemet e shp\u00ebrblimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e rritur me disiplin\u00eb autoritariane kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm. Ata gjithashtu kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb marrjen e vendimeve dhe vler\u00ebsimin e rreziqeve t\u00eb siguris\u00eb t\u00eb tyre. Studiuesit kan\u00eb gjetur se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb kan\u00eb prind\u00ebr autoritariane &nbsp;kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb b\u00ebhen t\u00eb rritur t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndihen rehat duke shprehur mendimet e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Prinderimi tolerant<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prind\u00ebrit tolerante jan\u00eb t\u00eb but\u00eb. Ata nd\u00ebrhyjn\u00eb vet\u00ebm &nbsp;kur ka nj\u00eb problem serioz. Ata jan\u00eb shum\u00eb tolerant\u00eb dhe&nbsp; miratojn\u00eb nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim: \u201cf\u00ebmijet jane f\u00ebmij\u00eb\u201d. Kur ata &nbsp;p\u00ebrdorin pasojat, p\u00ebrseri nuk i p\u00ebrdorin per nje koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb. Ata ua kthejn\u00eb priviligjet f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre n\u00ebse ata i p\u00ebrgjerohen &nbsp;ose mund t\u2019i lejojn\u00eb&nbsp; f\u00ebmijet &nbsp;t\u00eb dalin &nbsp;jasht\u00eb nese premtojn\u00eb&nbsp; se do t\u00eb sillen&nbsp; mir\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit tolerant\u00eb marrin rolin e &nbsp;miqve n\u00eb vend t\u00eb rolit prind\u00ebror. Ata shpesh i inkurajojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre q\u00eb t\u00eb flasin me ta p\u00ebr problemet e tyre, por zakonisht nuk b\u00ebjn\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje n\u00eb dekurajimin e &nbsp;zgjedhjeve t\u00eb varf\u00ebra apo sjelljeve t\u00eb k\u00ebqija.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb rriten me prind\u00ebrit tolerant\u00eb&nbsp; kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb mos ken\u00eb arritje t\u00eb lart\u00eb akademike. Ata mund t\u00eb shfaqin m\u00eb shum\u00eb probleme t\u00eb sjelljes pasi nuk e &nbsp;vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb autoritetin dhe rregullat. Shpesh kan\u00eb vet\u00ebbesim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt dhe jane m\u00eb t\u00eb trishtuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Prinderimi neglizhent<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prind\u00ebrit neglizhent\u00eb&nbsp; zakonisht kan\u00eb pak njohuri p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb po b\u00ebjn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre dhe kan\u00eb shum\u00eb pak rregulla. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt mund t\u00eb mos marrin shum\u00eb udh\u00ebzime, ushqim dhe v\u00ebmendje prind\u00ebrore. Prind\u00ebrit neglizhent\u00eb&nbsp; presin q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb rriten. Ata nuk i kushtojn\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb apo energji plot\u00ebsimit t\u00eb nevojave &nbsp;themelore t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Prind\u00ebrit neglizhente mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb neglizhent\u00eb, por jo gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebllimsh\u00ebm. P\u00ebr shembull, nj\u00eb prind me probleme t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor ose probleme me abuzimin e substancave mund t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr nevojat fizike ose emocionale t\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije n\u00eb nj\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme. N\u00eb raste t\u00eb tjera, prind\u00ebrit neglizhente &nbsp;nuk kan\u00eb njohuri p\u00ebr zhvillimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe &nbsp;ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, ata thjesht mbyten me probleme t\u00eb tjera, si puna, pagimi i faturave dhe menaxhimi i nj\u00eb familjeje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u00ebmij\u00ebt me prind\u00ebr t\u00eb pap\u00ebrfshir\u00eb kan\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb luftojn\u00eb me \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimit. Ata kane rezultate shum\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija akademike dhe gjithashtu shfaqin probleme t\u00eb shpeshta t\u00eb sjelljes dhe renditen t\u00eb ul\u00ebt n\u00eb lumturi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stili juaj i prind\u00ebrimit mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb nga sa f\u00ebmija juaj peshon deri te se si ai ndihet p\u00ebr veten. \u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb siguroheni se stili juaj i prind\u00ebrimit \u00ebsht\u00eb duke mb\u00ebshtetur rritjen dhe zhvillimin e sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm, sepse m\u00ebnyra me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nderveproni \u00a0me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj dhe si e disiplinoni at\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":24199,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[2809],"class_list":["post-24198","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-prinderimi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24198","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24198"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24198\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24199"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24198"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24198"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24198"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}