Net\u00ebt jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb nxehta n\u00eb ver\u00eb… edhe frekuenca e mar\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve tona seksuale shtohet me temperatur\u00ebn, por edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb me mb\u00ebrritjen e pushimeve. Nj\u00eb fenomen q\u00eb shpjegohet sidomos me efektin negativ t\u00eb stresit n\u00eb libidon ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Vera ka ardhur dhe, megjith\u00ebse libidoja jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e lodhur, bashk\u00eb me pushimet lind edhe d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur m\u00eb gjat\u00eb, e p\u00ebrqafimeve n\u00eb natyr\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u2019i kushtuar koh\u00eb vetes, trupit dhe d\u00ebshir\u00ebs t\u00ebnde. \u201cSa her\u00eb q\u00eb shkojm\u00eb me pushime, b\u00ebjm\u00eb dashuri si n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb lidhjes\u201d, rr\u00ebfen Ana, 38 vje\u00e7, e martuar q\u00eb prej 15 vjet\u00ebsh. Pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb vitit \u201cfrekuenca e mar\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e lart\u00eb: Nj\u00eb ose dy her\u00eb n\u00eb muaj, n\u00eb maksimum\u201d.
\nSi shpjegohet fakti q\u00eb d\u00ebshira jon\u00eb p\u00ebr tjetrin shtohet bashk\u00eb me temperatur\u00ebn jasht\u00eb ose i p\u00ebrshtatet m\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebrtacis\u00eb s\u00eb pushimeve sesa frenezis\u00eb s\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme? Duhen dalluar pushimet nga sezonaliteti shpjegon specialisti. Njer\u00ebzit, po edhe kafsh\u00ebt, jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm ndaj ndryshimeve t\u00eb drit\u00ebs dhe nxeht\u00ebsis\u00eb. Ashtu si\u00e7 ka depresione stinore, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb uljes s\u00eb prodhimit t\u00eb serotonin\u00ebs nga mungesa e diellit, ka edhe ulje d\u00ebshire q\u00eb shpjegohet n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Drita dhe nxeht\u00ebsia aleat\u00eb t\u00eb sensualitetit
\nPak\u00ebsimi i libidos n\u00eb dim\u00ebr shpjegohet pra m\u00eb shum\u00eb me natyr\u00ebn ton\u00eb, sesa nga lidhja me personin q\u00eb duam. Prejardhja e fjal\u00ebs d\u00ebshir\u00eb vjen nga latinishtja: \u201cdesira\u201d p\u00ebrcaktonte koh\u00ebn e vitit kur vrojtuesit e qillit nuk e shihnin m\u00eb Sider\u00ebn, yllin e dimrit, q\u00eb quhet edhe Ylli i Mengjesit. Momenti ku Sidera nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e dukshme n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin vend \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb…pranver\u00eb. D\u00ebshira q\u00eb shpreh, edhe n\u00eb origjin\u00ebn e saj, nj\u00eb munges\u00eb, lind pra n\u00eb stin\u00ebn e dashuriv\u00eb, n\u00eb pranver\u00eb.
\nE th\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb prozaike, dit\u00ebt e bukura na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb heqim rrobat e trasha t\u00eb dimrit. Andi, 32 vje\u00e7, i dashuruar pas ver\u00ebs, e shpjegon k\u00ebshtu: \u201c\u00ebsht\u00eb sikur, papritur, t\u00eb pluskonte n\u00eb aj\u00ebr nj\u00eb parfum sensual. Kur isha beqar mund t\u00eb kaloja or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra n\u00ebp\u00ebr kopshtet e kafeneve duke par\u00eb vajzat q\u00eb kalonin. Sot kthehem n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, por, n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, net\u00ebt me gruan time jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb nxehta n\u00eb qershor, se n\u00eb janar\u201d. Edhe mjek\u00ebt nuk e mohojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb ndikim t\u00eb stin\u00ebve dhe ndri\u00e7imit n\u00eb libidon ton\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, jeta jon\u00eb seksuale ndikohet s\u00eb pari nga stresi i jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme.<\/p>\n
Pushimet, nj\u00eb afrodiziak i natyrsh\u00ebm
\nEfekti i par\u00eb i keq mbi d\u00ebshir\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb stresi, thot\u00eb edhe specialisti. Ai na pengon dhe na b\u00ebn t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb seksin. N\u00eb rastin (e rrall\u00eb) t\u00eb nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb qet\u00eb dhe pa probleme, stin\u00ebt mund t\u00eb luajn\u00eb rol, por ajo q\u00eb ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i relaksuar. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, ardhja e ver\u00ebs nuk mjafton t\u00eb nxis\u00eb mar\u00ebdh\u00ebniet n\u00ebse \u00e7ifti i n\u00ebnshtrohet \u00e7do dit\u00eb tensioneve, t\u00eb brendshme, apo t\u00eb jashtme, gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb forta. Duket e thjesht\u00eb dhe e dukshme, por kushti i par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh af\u00ebr fizikisht! Por jan\u00eb t\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00e7iftet q\u00eb vijn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u konsultuar, thot\u00eb specialisti, dhe tek t\u00eb cil\u00ebt v\u00eb re se koha reale q\u00eb kalojn\u00eb bashk\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e reduktuar n\u00eb maksimum. Pushimet, e dimrit ose t\u00eb ver\u00ebs dhe relaksi q\u00eb i shoq\u00ebron ato jan\u00eb pra shpesh afrodiziaku m\u00eb i mir\u00eb.
\nGjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs s\u00eb pushimeve, i l\u00eb lamtumir\u00ebn pun\u00ebs, mbledhjeve q\u00eb s\u2019kan\u00eb fund, afateve dhe skadencave q\u00eb duhen respektuar dhe i hap der\u00ebn k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb nj\u00eb larjeje n\u00eb det, nxirjes n\u00eb diell, lodhjes s\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme t\u00eb nj\u00eb sh\u00ebtitjeje n\u00eb mal, apo pyll. K\u00ebto aktivitete q\u00eb na lejojn\u00eb t\u00eb jemi pran\u00eb tjetrit dhe t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb disponuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb, p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe loj\u00ebrat paraprake t\u00eb mar\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve tona. Pushimet nga b\u00ebjm\u00eb t\u00eb hapur ndaj ndjesive t\u00eb reja. Nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb, fal\u00eb tyre, rigjen d\u00ebshir\u00ebn q\u00eb e mendonte t\u00eb humbur, nuk ka asnj\u00eb ar\u00ebsye p\u00ebr t\u2019u shqet\u00ebsuar, thot\u00eb specialisti. Megjithat\u00eb, pushimet mund t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb krijohen p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb stresit n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme.<\/p>\n
Lodhja, nj\u00eb problem i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, por nj\u00eb justifikim i g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt
\nN\u00ebse, pavar\u00ebsisht konteksit t\u00eb favorsh\u00ebm (pushimeve), \u00e7ifti nuk arrin t\u00eb rikrijoj\u00eb lidhjet, ai p\u00ebrballet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mjaft brutale me realitetin: Ekziston pra di\u00e7ka n\u00eb thelb q\u00eb shpjegon munges\u00ebn e seksit. Pengesat e p\u00ebrmendura n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme, si lodhja, mbase jan\u00eb nj\u00eb alibi. Meri, 40 vje\u00e7, u nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsua p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ver\u00ebn e shkuar: \u201cPrej disa muajsh, im shoq dhe un\u00eb nuk kishim pothuajse fare mar\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. Nj\u00eb situat\u00eb q\u00eb vinte m\u00eb shum\u00eb prej tij, se prej meje. Un\u00eb e qet\u00ebsoja veten, duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se ishte puna, djali i vog\u00ebl q\u00eb mezi flinte, etj. Pastaj shkuam me pushime n\u00eb jug dhe kur, pas tre dit\u00ebsh n\u00eb nj\u00eb hotel t\u00eb bukur, nuk ndjeva as hijen e afrimit mes nesh, e kuptova se situata ishte m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb se kaq. U p\u00ebrballa me tim shoq dhe m\u00eb n\u00eb fund ai pranoi se nuk e dinte se n\u00eb \u00e7\u2019gjendje ndodhej \u00e7ifti yn\u00eb\u201d. P\u00ebr Merin dhe t\u00eb shoqin k\u00ebto pushime nuk ishin momenti i gjall\u00ebrimit q\u00eb prisnin, por ai i zbulimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsie t\u00eb n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsuar deri at\u00ebher\u00eb.
\nMegjithat\u00eb specialist\u00ebt k\u00ebshillojn\u00eb se duhet b\u00ebr\u00eb kujdes dhe nuk duhet t\u00eb jesh i\/e fiksuar pas performanc\u00ebs, me preteksin se jemi m\u00eb pushime. Nuk ka normalitet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fush\u00eb, k\u00ebshillon specialisti. N\u00eb fakt shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte ndihen n\u00ebn presion, n\u00ebn efektin e mediave, etj, por edhe n\u00eb seks ndodh si p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat e tjera, b\u00ebjm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb na p\u00eblqen dhe q\u00eb na shkon p\u00ebr shtat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Net\u00ebt jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb nxehta n\u00eb ver\u00eb… edhe frekuenca e mar\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve tona seksuale shtohet me temperatur\u00ebn, por edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb me mb\u00ebrritjen e pushimeve. Nj\u00eb fenomen q\u00eb shpjegohet sidomos me efektin negativ t\u00eb stresit n\u00eb libidon ton\u00eb. Vera ka ardhur dhe, megjith\u00ebse libidoja jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e lodhur, bashk\u00eb me pushimet lind edhe d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[316,905],"class_list":["post-2399","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-intimitet","tag-dashuri","tag-seks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2399"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2399\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}