Testi i shtatzanis\u00eb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nsikur b\u00ebra test shtatzanie dhe m\u00eb doli pozitiv. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pozitive; do t\u00eb thot\u00eb\nq\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo projekti apo plani t\u00eb b\u00ebni k\u00ebto dit\u00eb, do t\u2019ju dal\u00eb i suksessh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dh\u00ebmb\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb sikur shkova me mamin n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe un\u00eb q\u00ebndrova\njasht\u00eb te shkall\u00ebt me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment po e shihnim nj\u00ebri-tjetrin e pastaj\nfilluam t\u00eb flisnim. Pas pak ai u afrua q\u00eb t\u00eb puthej me mua, por dh\u00ebmb\u00ebt e tij\nprek\u00ebn dh\u00ebmb\u00ebt e mia. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Aleksja.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb\nm\u00ebnyre bisedat mes jush dhe mamas\u00eb suaj n\u00eb lidhje me \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e zemr\u00ebs. Por, edhe\nn\u00ebse nuk i keni biseduar me t\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim q\u00eb keni brenda jush e\nshqet\u00ebson edhe maman\u00eb, gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me fatin tuaj. Ndoshta ju mendoni se\nkur do t\u00eb vij\u00eb dita q\u00eb do t\u2019i prezantoni nj\u00eb djal\u00eb serioz q\u00eb edhe ajo t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohet\np\u00ebr ju, por \u00ebndrra ju k\u00ebshillon q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb mendoni p\u00ebr veten e pastaj p\u00ebr\nmaman\u00eb. Nuk duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni zgjedhje apo t\u00eb merrni vendime p\u00ebr hat\u00ebr t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve,\nn\u00ebse nuk e ndieni. Dh\u00ebmb\u00ebt n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast tregojn\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn\nse si silleni, sepse shpeshher\u00eb, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb tregoni se jeni nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e ngroht\u00eb\ndhe e dashur, te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt krijoni p\u00ebrshtypje t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, si nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb agresive\ndhe e ftoht\u00eb. Ndaj mundohuni t\u00eb tregoni an\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb sepse jo gjithmon\u00eb\nagresiviteti apo indiferenca \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse n\u00eb syt\u00eb e nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb mund t\u00eb\njet\u00eb i interesuar p\u00ebr ju. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Flirtimi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Kam\npar\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha me t\u00eb dashurin tim pran\u00eb nj\u00eb taksie. Ai q\u00ebndronte n\u00eb\nder\u00ebn e pasme, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb n\u00eb der\u00ebn para dhe donim t\u00eb takoheshim sepse kishim\nshum\u00eb mall, por di\u00e7ka na pengonte p\u00ebr t\u2019u bashkuar. Brenda n\u00eb taksi ishte edhe\nnj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb flirtonin me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Un\u00eb mendova: \u201cPo sikur t\u00eb flirtoj\u00eb edhe\ni dashuri im me at\u00eb gruan?\u201d. Ktheva koken m\u00ebnjan\u00eb dhe mu b\u00eb sikur i dashuri m\u00eb\nmori p\u00ebr krahu dhe m\u00eb \u00e7oi n\u00eb familjen e tij q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb prezantonte me ata. Aty u\nzgjova. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb keni\nkujdes sepse n\u00eb dit\u00ebt n\u00eb vazhdim, mes jush do t\u00eb lind\u00eb nj\u00eb debat q\u00eb do t\u2019ju\nb\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb shk\u00ebputeni nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri p\u00ebr disa dit\u00eb. Por, kjo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e\np\u00ebrkohshme. Do t\u00eb ket\u00eb p\u00ebrplasje mendimesh dhe xhelozira mes jush, por pas k\u00ebsaj\ndo t\u00eb vijn\u00eb dit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mira dhe do t\u00eb rilind\u00eb nj\u00eb dashuri m\u00eb serioze dhe m\u00eb e\nfort\u00eb se ajo q\u00eb kishit m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ndodh q\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb z\u00ebnkat sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb p\u00ebr mir\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu\ndo t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb p\u00ebr ju. Ai do ta shikoj\u00eb lidhjen shum\u00eb seriozisht dhe mund t\u2019i\nlind\u00eb edhe ideja q\u00eb t\u2019ju prezantoj\u00eb me familjen. Gjithsesi, duhet t\u00eb jeni edhe\nju shum\u00eb e kujdesshme dhe paksa tolerante ndaj tij. Ju urojm\u00eb fat! <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ora dhe\ndjali <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Jam\n28 vje\u00e7e dhe m\u00eb ndodh shpesh t\u00eb shoh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ora t\u00eb ndryshme. Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb pash\u00eb\nsikur dikush m\u00eb dha nj\u00eb or\u00eb dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cShpejto, po t\u00eb ik\u00ebn koha\u201d. M\u00eb pas pash\u00eb\ndjalin q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqen, i cili m\u2019u afrua dhe ma b\u00ebnte me shenj\u00eb tek ora. Pastaj m\u00eb\nktheu shpin\u00ebn duke qeshur. S\u2019e kuptova se \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka… <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Or\u00ebt n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\np\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb momente t\u00eb caktuara t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, koh\u00ebn q\u00eb po kalon, di\u00e7ka t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme,\npra, kan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime, por kjo varet nga p\u00ebrmbajtja e \u00ebndrr\u00ebs. \u00cbndrra q\u00eb keni\npar\u00eb ju, ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me nj\u00eb person i cili d\u00ebshiron me \u00e7do kusht t\u00eb jet\u00eb af\u00ebr\njush dhe ju nuk arrini dot ta kuptoni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Pra, \u00ebndrra ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me jet\u00ebn\ntuaj private, me koh\u00ebn q\u00eb po ju ik\u00ebn. N\u00ebse keni nj\u00eb lidhje, ose n\u00ebse dikush ju\nintereson, mund t\u2019ju ik\u00eb si rast n\u00ebse nuk i kushtoni v\u00ebmendjen e duhur. Djali q\u00eb\nju ka kthyer shpin\u00ebn, n\u00eb fakt, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shenj\u00eb e mir\u00eb, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb\nshum\u00eb koh\u00eb, por ju s\u2019e keni vler\u00ebsuar dhe mund t\u2019ju ik\u00eb si rast. Urojm\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb\nthjesht nj\u00eb paralajm\u00ebrim. N\u00ebse jeni ende n\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse keni di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u2019i\nshprehur k\u00ebtij personi, \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti t\u00eb b\u00ebheni m\u00eb \u201cluftarake\u201d ndaj gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb\nd\u00ebshironi n\u00eb jet\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Isha lakuriq<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – E kam\npar\u00eb veten sikur isha lakuriq n\u00eb ballkonin e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. E ndieja q\u00eb m\u00eb shikonin,\npor nuk m\u00eb vinte turp. M\u00eb pas sikur po b\u00ebja dush po n\u00eb ballkon. A ka ndonj\u00eb\nkuptim? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – \u00cbndrra juaj tregon se ju jeni nj\u00eb person i\npavarur dhe keni v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb lirie brenda vetes. Nuk ju intereson se\n\u00e7far\u00eb mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe kjo ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiheni mir\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregon\ngjithashtu q\u00eb ndiheni e \u00e7liruar nga gjith\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr ju.\nDushi tregon p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsim t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimet. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Testi i shtatzanis\u00eb – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur b\u00ebra test shtatzanie dhe m\u00eb doli pozitiv. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb, ju lutem? – Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pozitive; do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo projekti apo plani t\u00eb b\u00ebni k\u00ebto dit\u00eb, do t\u2019ju dal\u00eb i suksessh\u00ebm. Dh\u00ebmb\u00eb – N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb sikur shkova me mamin n\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21160,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-23656","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23656","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23656"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23656\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23656"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23656"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23656"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}