{"id":23620,"date":"2019-10-28T11:52:50","date_gmt":"2019-10-28T10:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=23620"},"modified":"2019-10-28T11:52:52","modified_gmt":"2019-10-28T10:52:52","slug":"%ef%bb%bfflet-sociologia-marsida-simo-ja-si-mund-te-ndihmohen-nenat-e-reja-te-papergatitura-shpesh-te-traumatizuara-ne-ankth-dhe-te-frustruara-prej-te-tjereve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/10\/%ef%bb%bfflet-sociologia-marsida-simo-ja-si-mund-te-ndihmohen-nenat-e-reja-te-papergatitura-shpesh-te-traumatizuara-ne-ankth-dhe-te-frustruara-prej-te-tjereve\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffFlet sociologia Marsida Simo; Ja si mund t\u00eb ndihmohen n\u00ebnat e reja t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgatitura, shpesh t\u00eb traumatizuara, n\u00eb ankth dhe t\u00eb frustruara prej t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Sa mund t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb takimet n\u00eb grup n\u00ebnat e reja t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgatitura,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 shpesh t\u00eb traumatizuara, n\u00eb ankth dhe t\u00eb\nfrustruara prej t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A jan\u00eb gati n\u00ebnat p\u00ebr k\u00ebto takime?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nga Marsida Simo, sociologe, email marsidasimo@hotmail.com<\/a>, cel 0693160059<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Si lindi ideja e takimeve?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Pik\u00ebrisht\nn\u00eb koh\u00ebn pasi linda djalin tim  do doja\nt\u00eb kisha mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb merrja pjes\u00eb n\u00eb takime me n\u00ebna t\u00eb reja. Isha pothuaj e\npap\u00ebrgatitur, ose m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb them e pap\u00ebrgatitur fare. Dy jav\u00ebt e para, ndoshta\nedhe m\u00eb tep\u00ebr ishin aq t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira aq mbyt\u00ebse, sa mendoja q\u00eb nuk do i kaloja\nkurr\u00eb. Shtigjet e shp\u00ebtimit ishin zhdukur, nuk kisha asgj\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb dukej\nk\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. Frika m\u00eb pushtoi. Fal\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit tim dhe prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb mi, un\u00eb u\np\u00ebrmir\u00ebsova shpejt. Pak m\u00eb von\u00eb krijova objektiva t\u00eb rinj n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time te re.\nDeri sa n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga sirtar\u00ebt e mendjes time ruajta iden\u00eb e organizimit t\u00eb\ntakimeve me n\u00ebnat e reja s\u00eb shpejti n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-A ka kurse prenatale n\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Besoj n\u00eb shum\u00eb qytete t\u00eb vendit ton\u00eb nuk ofrohet nj\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim i till\u00eb. E mendoj k\u00ebt\u00eb sepse vet\u00ebm k\u00ebt\u00eb vit ne muajin qershor doli nj\u00eb njoftim nga mediat, se n\u00eb Maternitetin Mbret\u00ebresha Geraldin\u00eb kan\u00eb nisur takime p\u00ebr kurse prenatale. Nuk dihet n\u00ebse ky kurs u zhvillua nj\u00eb her\u00eb apo do t\u00eb jen\u00eb periodike. Mos t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb se ekipi i mjek\u00ebve gjinekologe n\u00eb maternitetin \u201cMbret\u00ebresha Geraldin\u00eb\u201d pret numrin m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb lindjeve n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. \u00c7do vit n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb maternitet priten 7000 lindje. Po ashtu, duhet theksuar se n\u00eb maternitetet tona, pavar\u00ebsisht zhvillimeve n\u00eb infrastruktur\u00eb e m\u00eb tej,\u00a0 i mungon nj\u00eb\u00a0 psikolog p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar pran\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb re. N\u00ebnat q\u00eb kan\u00eb shkuar si rast urgjence, apo n\u00ebnat q\u00eb kan\u00eb pasur edhe shtrime p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb ne k\u00ebto spitale mund ta v\u00ebrtetojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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-P\u00ebrse lind nevoja p\u00ebr takime n\u00eb grup me\nn\u00ebnat e reja?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

-N\u00ebnat gjat\u00eb shtatzanis\u00eb mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb imazh t\u00eb caktuar n\u00eb kok\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb ofruar nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, se si duhet ta p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb \u00e7do n\u00ebn\u00eb e p\u00ebrjeton n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Dikush mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb ankth dhe stres gjat\u00eb muajve t\u00eb par\u00eb, dikujt pagjum\u00ebsia i sjell irritim n\u00eb muajt e fundit, e dikush e kalon n\u00eb harmoni t\u00eb plot\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa pas lindjes, n\u00ebnat jan\u00eb pothuaj t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgatitura. Ato nuk din\u00eb ta mbajn\u00eb foshnj\u00ebn e tyre, nuk din\u00eb ta ushqejn\u00eb, ta nd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb, ta lajn\u00eb, a duhet ta nxjerrin n\u00eb natyr\u00eb apo t\u00eb rrin\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, ti nderin rrobat nat\u00ebn apo her\u00ebt n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes. K\u00ebto e shum\u00eb pyetje, grumbullohen n\u00eb mendjen e tyre e cila sjell problem n\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin mendor. Ndaj, ka ardhur koha (edhe pse duhet t\u00eb kishte ardhur me koh\u00eb), t\u00eb organizoheshin takime n\u00eb grup. K\u00ebto takime nuk b\u00ebjn\u00eb mrekulli, por t\u00eb \u00e7lirojn\u00eb nga nj\u00eb m\u00ebrzitje, ndan problemin dhe kupton q\u00eb nuk je e vetme q\u00eb po kalon situat\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, pyet dhe merr p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb ndihmuese, inkurajuese, mund t\u00eb qash pa t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb dikush \u201cna… se ndjell keq\u201d, vetja t\u00eb duket s\u00ebrish normale edhe pse deri dje t\u00eb dukej absurde, b\u00ebn mike t\u00eb reja dhe t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb pa pasur asnj\u00eb interes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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-Cilat n\u00ebna mund t\u00eb marrin pjes\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk\n\u00ebsht\u00eb e th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00ebnat q\u00eb marrin pjes\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto takime jan\u00eb patjet\u00ebr n\u00eb\ndepresion apo t\u00eb prirura p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb tilla. \u00c7do n\u00ebn\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr takime t\u00eb\ntilla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb nj\u00eb takim q\u00eb do organizoja, nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e re, shtatzan\u00eb, me shprehu me entuziaz\u00ebm se donte te vinte n\u00eb takim. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb para takimit, m\u00eb shkruajti se i shoqi nuk ishte dakort me k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra “grash” ku shajn\u00eb burrat e kushedi tjet\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebnim. Dikush tjet\u00ebr nuk ma hapi me telefonin kur ora po shkonte gati p\u00ebr ta nisur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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-Si p\u00ebrfundim\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam\ne bindur q\u00eb n\u00eb realitetin ton\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb t\u00eb kuptohen si duhet k\u00ebto\ntakime me n\u00ebnat. Por m\u00eb e sigurt jam p\u00ebr nevoj\u00ebn e padiskutueshme q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb\ngjitha n\u00ebnat p\u00ebr organizime t\u00eb tilla. Aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb ku sipas\nmentalitetit disa n\u00ebna i detyrojn\u00eb t\u00eb mbeten shtatz\u00ebna edhe pse s`jan\u00eb gati.\nDisa i sugjerojn\u00eb n\u00ebnave t\u00eb reja t\u00eb han\u00eb si t\u00eb ishin bag\u00ebti p\u00ebr therrje, t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb\nbrenda kat\u00ebr mureve se e do zakoni, disa i frustrojn\u00eb duke i m\u00ebsuar gj\u00ebra t\u00eb\npaqena, i ulin vet\u00eb vler\u00ebsimin duke i krahasuar me eksperiencat e tyre t\u00eb\nm\u00ebparshme, etj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Misioni\nvazhdon, n\u00ebse d\u00ebshironi mos nguroni, qoft\u00eb edhe duke pyetur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sa mund t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb takimet n\u00eb grup n\u00ebnat e reja t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgatitura,  shpesh t\u00eb traumatizuara, n\u00eb ankth dhe t\u00eb frustruara prej t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve? A jan\u00eb gati n\u00ebnat p\u00ebr k\u00ebto takime? Nga Marsida Simo, sociologe, email marsidasimo@hotmail.com, cel 0693160059 -Si lindi ideja e takimeve? -Pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb koh\u00ebn pasi linda djalin tim  do doja t\u00eb kisha mund\u00ebsi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":23621,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[2707],"class_list":["post-23620","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-marsida-simo"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23620","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23620"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23620\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23621"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23620"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23620"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23620"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}