{"id":2341,"date":"2014-08-20T11:58:49","date_gmt":"2014-08-20T11:58:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=2341"},"modified":"2014-08-20T11:58:49","modified_gmt":"2014-08-20T11:58:49","slug":"a-di-te-besh-shoping","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/08\/a-di-te-besh-shoping\/","title":{"rendered":"A di t\u00eb b\u00ebsh shoping?"},"content":{"rendered":"

A i planifikon mir\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb blen, sikur t\u00eb ishin nj\u00eb investim i ardhsh\u00ebm apo blen kur ta jep truri dhe kur shikon di\u00e7ka t\u00eb bukur n\u00eb vitrin\u00eb? P\u00ebr ta zbuluar n\u00ebse di t\u00eb b\u00ebsh shoping, b\u00ebj kuicin ton\u00eb…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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1. Ke kaluar nj\u00eb dit\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb keqe. P\u00ebr ta marr\u00eb veten, ti:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. B\u00ebn nj\u00eb banj\u00eb me shkum\u00eb n\u00eb vask\u00eb, ndez ca qirinj dhe shtrihesh atje me nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr n\u00eb dor\u00eb.<\/p>\n

b. Rri turivarur, derisa yt shoq t\u00eb fton t\u00eb hani dark\u00eb jasht\u00eb.<\/p>\n

c. Blen nj\u00eb fustan t\u00eb ri n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn nga puna n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe m\u00eb pas, planifikon t\u00eb blesh edhe k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt, \u00e7ant\u00ebn dhe v\u00ebth\u00ebt q\u00eb shkojn\u00eb me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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2. Maksimumi i parave q\u00eb ke shpenzuar n\u00eb shoping:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. 100 mij\u00eb lek\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fustan feste, por e ktheve t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen, me pretendimin se nuk t\u00eb p\u00eblqeu.<\/p>\n

b. 150 mij\u00eb lek\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kostum, sepse kishe nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb pune dhe doje t\u00eb b\u00ebje figur\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

c. 180 mij\u00eb lek\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pal\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme, pavar\u00ebsisht se nuk ke me \u00e7far\u00eb t\u2019i kombinosh.<\/p>\n

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3. P\u00ebr dit\u00eblindje, bashk\u00ebshorti t\u00eb b\u00ebn nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb surpriz\u00eb: Dy bileta avioni p\u00ebr n\u00eb Itali. Ti:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. Merr me vete xhinset dhe bluzat m\u00eb t\u00eb rehatshme q\u00eb ke. Sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb, atje s\u2019t\u00eb njeh kush.<\/p>\n

b. Blen nj\u00eb fustan t\u00eb ri q\u00eb ta kesh p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb dark\u00eb.<\/p>\n

c. E p\u00ebrdor udh\u00ebtimin si justifikim p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb rroba t\u00eb reja dhe merr me vete shum\u00eb bagazhe.<\/p>\n

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4. Shkon n\u00eb fest\u00eb me nj\u00eb fustan t\u00eb bukur. Kur nj\u00eb shoqja jote t\u00eb pyet ku e ke bler\u00eb, ti…<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. I thua q\u00eb e ke marr\u00eb hua. Kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb harxhoje nj\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe parash p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fustan q\u00eb do ta vesh\u00ebsh vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb.<\/p>\n

b. I thua se e ke bler\u00eb lir\u00eb fare, me zbritje!<\/p>\n

c. Pranon q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fustan firmato, por e ul nja 100 mij\u00eb lek\u00eb \u00e7mimin real, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos shokosh shoqen t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n

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5. Ke lexuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb revist\u00eb se kan\u00eb dal\u00eb n\u00eb mod\u00eb shk\u00eblqyesit e buz\u00ebve me ngjyra pastel. Ti: <\/strong><\/p>\n

a. E l\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb mod\u00ebn dhe vazhdon t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh at\u00eb q\u00eb ke p\u00ebrdorur gjithmon\u00eb.<\/p>\n

b. Provon nja 2-3 ngjyra n\u00eb dyqan dhe kthehesh n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me shk\u00eblqyesin q\u00eb t\u00eb shkonte m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n

c. Blen disa me ngjyra t\u00eb ndryshme, pasi t\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb ndryshosh luk sa m\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur.<\/p>\n

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6. Ke nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb blesh urgjentisht lines n\u00eb supermarket. Kthehesh prej andej me:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. Nj\u00eb pako t\u00eb madhe me lines q\u00eb jepeshin falas p\u00ebr reklam\u00eb.<\/p>\n

b. Nj\u00eb pako maksi, versioni ekonomik. K\u00ebshtu, do t\u00eb jesh e furnizuar p\u00ebr nj\u00ebfar\u00eb kohe.<\/p>\n

c. Kap\u00ebse flok\u00ebsh, mbathje pambuku q\u00eb nuk e di n\u00ebse t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb (pasi i bleve me ofert\u00ebn: paguaj nj\u00eb, merr dy) dhe nj\u00eb pako t\u00eb vog\u00ebl me lines, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn mezi t\u00eb dol\u00ebn lek\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

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7. N\u00eb vitrin\u00ebn e nj\u00eb dyqani t\u00eb ka z\u00ebn\u00eb syri nj\u00eb xhaket\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur. Ti:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. B\u00ebn sikur s\u2019e ke par\u00eb dhe vazhdon t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n

b. Pyet shit\u00ebsen kur do t\u00eb b\u00ebhen zbritjet e ardhshme dhe vendos t\u00eb kthehesh prap\u00eb.<\/p>\n

c. Futesh me vrap brenda dhe e blen menj\u00ebher\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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8. Blerja e k\u00ebpuc\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb art m\u00eb vete, q\u00eb…<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. Duhet t\u2019i lihet Sara Xhesika Parkerit. T\u00eb harxhosh kaq shum\u00eb para p\u00ebr k\u00ebmb\u00ebt?<\/p>\n

b. E ke perfeksionuar me kalimin e koh\u00ebs. Ke bler\u00eb disa pal\u00eb t\u00eb rehatshme, por shik dhe ndonj\u00eb pal\u00eb t\u00eb cilat t\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00eblqyer shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n

c. Je futur n\u00eb borxh p\u00ebr to.<\/p>\n

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9. Nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira t\u00eb pun\u00ebs t\u00ebnde…<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. Ndodhet af\u00ebr nj\u00eb supermarketi, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb e ke t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh pazar rrug\u00ebs p\u00ebr n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<\/p>\n

b. Ndodhet af\u00ebr nj\u00eb dyqani rrobash me okazion, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ti gjithmon\u00eb shkon atje p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontrolluar mos gjen di\u00e7ka t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

c. Ndodhet pran\u00eb dyqaneve m\u00eb n\u00eb mod\u00eb t\u00eb qytetit, ku ti shkon shpesh.<\/p>\n

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Ke dh\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje a. Je dor\u00ebshtr\u00ebnguar!<\/strong><\/p>\n

K\u00ebsaj radhe, justifikimi: \u201cNuk kam \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb vesh\u201d mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Ti \u00e7uditesh pse shoqet e tua refuzojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb shoping me ty? S\u00eb pari, ato duhet t\u00eb durojn\u00eb kur ti shkon e provon nj\u00ebqind gj\u00ebra n\u00ebp\u00ebr dyqane dhe pastaj nuk blen asgj\u00eb. S\u00eb dyti, u duhet t\u00eb durojn\u00eb komentet e tua p\u00ebr \u00e7mimet e rrobave. Ti e ke mbushur dollapin me rroba t\u00eb vjetra, demode dhe gjithmon\u00eb u ke marr\u00eb borxh shoqeve rroba, k\u00ebpuc\u00eb, \u00e7anta, bile edhe byzylyk\u00eb. Bler\u00ebsit kursimtar\u00eb jan\u00eb poli i kund\u00ebrt i bler\u00ebsve kompulsiv\u00eb; ata me kok\u00ebfort\u00ebsi nuk pranojn\u00eb t\u00eb harxhojn\u00eb para, edhe sikur kjo t\u2019i privoj\u00eb nga shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra. P\u00ebr shembull, nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb q\u00eb tregon se je bler\u00ebs i till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb refuzimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb rroba t\u00eb reja, duke pretenduar se rrobat mund t\u00eb vishen shum\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr disa vjet me radh\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb jen\u00eb grisur apo prishur. Ti ndjen ankth kur shpenzon para (pa p\u00ebrmendur ndjenj\u00ebn e fajit kur blen di\u00e7ka \u201cluksoze\u201d). Miqt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit, shpejt do t\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjyer dhe n\u00eb siklet nga natyra jote. Mundohu t\u2019ia b\u00ebsh qejfin vetes her\u00eb pas here dhe do ta shoh\u00ebsh sa mir\u00eb do t\u00eb ndjehesh. Sipas terapist\u00ebve, nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ta v\u00ebsh veten n\u00eb vendin e nj\u00eb njeriu q\u00eb harxhon shum\u00eb. Kjo do t\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb ta lirosh pak dor\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb veprosh pa u ndjer\u00eb n\u00eb faj.<\/p>\n

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Ke m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje b. Je bler\u00ebse e zgjuar<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ti je e dh\u00ebn\u00eb pas mod\u00ebs, por di edhe t\u00eb kursesh. Me nuhatjen t\u00ebnde t\u00eb holl\u00eb, di t\u00eb gjesh rrobat q\u00eb jan\u00eb me zbritje, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ke krijuar nj\u00eb garderob\u00eb unike dhe me \u00e7mime t\u00eb arsyeshme. Koh\u00ebt e fundit, njer\u00ebzit kan\u00eb manin\u00eb t\u00eb mbledhin sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb rroba, megjith\u00ebse nuk i veshin ato. Bler\u00ebs i zgjuar \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb ka nj\u00eb dollap plot me rroba, t\u00eb cilat i p\u00eblqen t\u2019i vesh\u00eb. Sekreti p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb bler\u00ebs i till\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb krijosh nj\u00eb strategji t\u00eb caktuar, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb rend\u00ebsh pas veshjeve me zbritje. Nj\u00eb bler\u00ebs i till\u00eb di t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb p\u00ebrfitimin maksimal nga parat\u00eb e tij, t\u00eb p\u00ebrziej\u00eb garderob\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb nj\u00eb stil t\u00eb vetin shik q\u00eb t\u00eb mos duket sikur sapo ka dal\u00eb nga nj\u00eb katalog mode. Shopingu i zgjuar fillon n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Kushtoji pak koh\u00eb dollapit t\u00ebnd, shih \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb mungon, hiq qafe ato q\u00eb s\u2019t\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb e s\u2019i vesh dhe b\u00ebj nj\u00eb list\u00eb gj\u00ebrash q\u00eb t\u00eb duhen. N\u00ebse i gjen me zbritje m\u00eb pas, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb bonus.<\/p>\n

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M\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje C. Maniake pas shopingut<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kujdes! Futja n\u00eb dyqan mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e rrezikshme p\u00ebr gjendjen t\u00ebnde financiare. Dollapi yt po plas, ke nj\u00eb tuf\u00eb t\u00eb madhe rrobash t\u00eb paveshura dhe ti investon m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebpuc\u00eb, sesa p\u00ebr \u00e7okollata. Si shum\u00eb gra t\u00eb tjera, ti je e fiksuar pas shopingut, por \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb pyes\u00ebsh veten: Pse je duke bler\u00eb? Ke ndjesin\u00eb sikur t\u00eb mungon di\u00e7ka dhe e plot\u00ebson duke bler\u00eb rroba? \u00c7far\u00eb nevojash t\u00eb fshehta ta paplot\u00ebsuara ke q\u00eb mundohesh t\u2019i z\u00ebvend\u00ebsosh me blerjen e rrobave? Grat\u00eb e fiksuara pas blerjeve nuk mund t\u2019i kontrollojn\u00eb d\u00ebshirat e tyre impulsive p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb. Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, ato jan\u00eb gati t\u00eb hyjn\u00eb borxh, t\u00eb g\u00ebnjejn\u00eb familjen dhe miqt\u00eb, bile edhe t\u00eb humbasin pun\u00ebn. N\u00ebse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet q\u00eb ke me parat\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb pabalancuara, ka gjasa q\u00eb edhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tjera q\u00eb keni t\u00eb jen\u00eb k\u00ebshtu.<\/p>\n

Ndiq k\u00ebto k\u00ebshilla q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh bler\u00ebse e zgjuar:<\/p>\n

1. Merr me vete nj\u00eb shoqe (jo bler\u00ebse si ti) q\u00eb kupton impulset e tua dhe t\u00eb ndihmon t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh kur v\u00ebrtet ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka.<\/p>\n

2. Mos i merr me vete kartat e kreditit kur del p\u00ebr shoping.<\/p>\n

3. Shtyji blerjet, p\u00ebr shembull, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb. N\u00ebse ke d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb blesh di\u00e7ka, l\u00ebre p\u00ebr t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen dhe gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe mendo me vete n\u00ebse v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb duhet. Ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb dit\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr d\u00ebshira t\u00eb ket\u00eb kaluar.<\/p>\n

4. Cakto nj\u00eb buxhet t\u00eb caktuar dhe mos e kalo at\u00eb. B\u00ebhu praktike, por cakto edhe nj\u00eb shum\u00eb fikse p\u00ebr rastet e jasht\u00ebzakonshme.<\/p>\n

5. B\u00ebj nj\u00eb list\u00eb (n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe larg tundimeve), p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbuluar se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb nevojitet me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb duhet n\u00eb garderob\u00ebn q\u00eb e ke tashm\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

A i planifikon mir\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb blen, sikur t\u00eb ishin nj\u00eb investim i ardhsh\u00ebm apo blen kur ta jep truri dhe kur shikon di\u00e7ka t\u00eb bukur n\u00eb vitrin\u00eb? P\u00ebr ta zbuluar n\u00ebse di t\u00eb b\u00ebsh shoping, b\u00ebj kuicin ton\u00eb…   1. Ke kaluar nj\u00eb dit\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb keqe. P\u00ebr ta marr\u00eb veten, ti: a. B\u00ebn […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[304],"class_list":["post-2341","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-test","tag-test-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2341","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2341"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2341\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2341"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2341"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2341"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}