{"id":23238,"date":"2019-09-02T13:44:01","date_gmt":"2019-09-02T11:44:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=23238"},"modified":"2019-09-02T13:44:07","modified_gmt":"2019-09-02T11:44:07","slug":"%ef%bb%bfa-mund-te-marre-kujdestarine-e-djalit-partneri-im-i-ri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/09\/%ef%bb%bfa-mund-te-marre-kujdestarine-e-djalit-partneri-im-i-ri\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffA mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb kujdestarin\u00eb e djalit partneri im i ri?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kam qen\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb e martuar dhe kam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl 4 vje\u00e7. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Para 2 vjet\u00ebsh kam mbaruar gjyqin me ish bashk\u00ebshortin\u00a0 dhe djalin e kam un\u00eb me kujdestari. Tani jam njohur me nj\u00eb turk dhe dua t\u00eb martohem por dua edhe q\u00eb djali t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb si prind\u00ebrim nga turku, ose t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn n\u00eb kujdestari. A mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet kjo gj\u00eb, n\u00ebse po si? Ju lutem nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Avokat Harbi Aliaj, tel 068 20 44 002:-<\/strong> P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! P\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia prind\u00ebrore p\u00ebrfshin t\u00ebr\u00ebsin\u00eb e t\u00eb drejtave dhe detyrave q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebr q\u00ebllim t\u00eb sigurojn\u00eb mir\u00ebqenien emocionale, sociale dhe materiale t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, duke u kujdesur p\u00ebr t\u00eb, duke mbajtur raporte vetjake me t\u00eb, duke i siguruar atij mir\u00ebrritjen, edukimin, arsimimin, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsimin ligjor dhe administrimin e pasurive t\u00eb tij. Kufijt\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore shtrihen deri n\u00eb arritjen e mosh\u00ebs madhore t\u00eb t\u00eb miturit. Pavar\u00ebsisht se p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia prind\u00ebrore u p\u00ebrket dhe ushtrohet s\u00eb bashku nga t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit n\u00eb lidhje me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e lindur gjat\u00eb martes\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre ose jasht\u00eb martese, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb njohur nga t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit; shpesh ndodh q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs mund t\u00eb humbasin p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb prind\u00ebrore n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet nj\u00eb vendimi penal q\u00eb i ka d\u00ebnuar ata si autor\u00eb ose si bashk\u00ebpuntor\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vep\u00ebr penale ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, si bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vep\u00ebr penale t\u00eb kryer nga f\u00ebmija i tyre ose n\u00ebse jan\u00eb d\u00ebnuar p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb nga shkaqet e braktisjes s\u00eb familjes, p\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb ata nuk kan\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr detyrimet q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndaj saj. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs kan\u00eb vdekur, jan\u00eb n\u00eb pamund\u00ebsi t\u00eb ushtrojn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb prind\u00ebrore p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb pazot\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb vepruar, t\u00eb munges\u00ebs ose p\u00ebr arsye ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, f\u00ebmija mund t\u2019i besohet nj\u00eb an\u00ebtari t\u00eb familjes, nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb caktuar si kujdestar, nj\u00eb familjeje kujdestare ose edhe nj\u00eb institucioni t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesjes. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nj\u00ebri nga prind\u00ebrit \u00ebsht\u00eb para pamund\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb ushtrimit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore ose kur nj\u00ebri nga prind\u00ebrit ka vdekur, p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia prind\u00ebrore ushtrohet nga prindi tjet\u00ebr. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs kan\u00eb zgjidhur martes\u00ebn, ushtrimi i p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore b\u00ebhet sipas vendimit t\u00eb Gjykat\u00ebs n\u00eb lidhje me pasojat e zgjidhjes s\u00eb martes\u00ebs. Para se gjykata t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb vendim t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohsh\u00ebm ose p\u00ebrfundimtar lidhur me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e ushtrimit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore, t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs s\u00eb vizit\u00ebs ose t\u00eb besuarit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs nj\u00ebrit ishbashk\u00ebshort, th\u00ebrret nj\u00eb psikolog ose punonj\u00ebs social, i cili, para se t\u00eb jap\u00eb mendimin, duhet t\u00eb marr\u00eb t\u00eb dh\u00ebna p\u00ebr gjendjen materiale dhe morale t\u00eb familjes, kushtet n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat jetojn\u00eb dhe ku \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e p\u00ebrshtatshme t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb f\u00ebmija. N\u00eb rast se gjykata arrin n\u00eb konkluzionin se f\u00ebmija, p\u00ebrkoh\u00ebsisht, duhet t\u2019i besohet nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb tret\u00eb ose nj\u00eb familjeje kujdestare, duhet t\u00eb marr\u00eb mendimin e sektorit t\u00eb ndihm\u00ebs dhe sh\u00ebrbimeve sociale pran\u00eb bashkis\u00eb s\u00eb vendit ku zhvillohet gjykimi. Gjykata vendos p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e ushtrimit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore ose p\u00ebr t\u2019i besuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn nj\u00eb t\u00eb treti, mbi baz\u00ebn e k\u00ebrkes\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebs prej pal\u00ebve, pjes\u00ebtar\u00ebve t\u00eb familjes ose prokurorit, n\u00eb rast se ka shkaqe t\u00eb r\u00ebnda q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura me ushtrimin abuziv t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore. Gjyqtari, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, merr n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb: a) marr\u00ebveshjen e b\u00ebr\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet ish-bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve; b) mendimin dhe ndjenjat e shprehura nga f\u00ebmija i mitur, duke vler\u00ebsuar mosh\u00ebn dhe zhvillimin e tij; c) mendimin e psikologut ose t\u00eb sektorit t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbimeve sociale pran\u00eb bashkis\u00eb, pasi k\u00ebta t\u00eb ken\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn. Prindi, q\u00eb nuk i \u00ebsht\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb f\u00ebmija p\u00ebr rritje dhe edukim, ruan t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn t\u00eb mbik\u00ebqyr\u00eb mbajtjen dhe edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs e p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb t\u00eb informohet dhe t\u00eb konsultohet p\u00ebr zgjedhjet e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb lidhen me jet\u00ebn e tij. Ai kontribuon n\u00eb raport me burimet e tij dhe ato t\u00eb prindit tjet\u00ebr. E drejta e vizit\u00ebs dhe e banimit, sipas kushteve t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuara nga gjykata, nuk mund t\u2019i refuzohen, ve\u00e7se p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb r\u00ebnda q\u00eb d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb interesat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Vendimi lidhur me ushtrimin e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore mund t\u00eb ndryshohet n\u00eb \u00e7do \u00e7ast nga gjykata, me k\u00ebrkes\u00ebn e nj\u00ebrit prej ishbashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve, nj\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmi ose t\u00eb prokurorit. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb instituti i kujdestaris\u00eb q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrmendi n\u00eb pyetjen tuaj, rregullon\u00a0 situat\u00ebn n\u00eb rastin kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mitur vendosen n\u00eb kujdestari dhe g\u00ebzojn\u00eb mbrojtje t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb nga shteti kur prind\u00ebrit e tyre jan\u00eb n\u00eb pamund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ushtruar p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb prind\u00ebrore, p\u00ebr shkak se t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit kan\u00eb vdekur ose nuk njihen, jan\u00eb shpallur si t\u00eb pagjetur, u \u00ebsht\u00eb hequr p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia prind\u00ebrore ose u \u00ebsht\u00eb hequr zot\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb vepruar, si dhe p\u00ebr \u00e7do shkak tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb pranuar nga gjykata. Gjykat\u00eb kompetente p\u00ebr vendosjen n\u00eb kujdestari t\u00eb t\u00eb miturit \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo e vendbanimit ose vendq\u00ebndrimit t\u00eb t\u00eb miturit.N\u00eb rast se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb caktuar kujdestar nga prindi q\u00eb ka ushtruar i fundit p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb prind\u00ebrore, gjykata i jep prioritet zgjedhjes s\u00eb kujdestarit midis paraardh\u00ebsve, personave t\u00eb af\u00ebrt t\u00eb t\u00eb miturit, nj\u00eb familjeje kujdestare dhe, si alternativ\u00eb t\u00eb fundit, institucionin publik ose privat. Para se gjyqtari t\u00eb caktoj\u00eb kujdestarin, duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb personin e zgjedhur si t\u00eb till\u00eb dhe t\u00eb marr\u00eb mendimin e t\u00eb miturit n\u00ebse ai ka mbushur mosh\u00ebn dhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7. Gjykata, n\u00eb \u00e7do rast, merr mendimin e sektorit t\u00eb ndihm\u00ebs dhe sh\u00ebrbimeve sociale pran\u00eb bashkis\u00eb ose komun\u00ebs s\u00eb vendit ku zhvillohet gjykimi, i cili p\u00ebrmban ekzaminimin e zhvillimit t\u00eb personalitetit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb kontekstin familjar! Ju uroj m\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam qen\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb e martuar dhe kam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl 4 vje\u00e7. Para 2 vjet\u00ebsh kam mbaruar gjyqin me ish bashk\u00ebshortin\u00a0 dhe djalin e kam un\u00eb me kujdestari. Tani jam njohur me nj\u00eb turk dhe dua t\u00eb martohem por dua edhe q\u00eb djali t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb si prind\u00ebrim nga turku, ose t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":23239,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[87],"tags":[1444],"class_list":["post-23238","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-avokati","tag-kryesore"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23238","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23238"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23238\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23238"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23238"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23238"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}