Persh\u00ebndetje miq t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs Intervista! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Po shkruaj dhe un\u00eb p\u00ebr dicka q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 28 vjec. Shqet\u00ebsimi im lidhet me motr\u00ebn time e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb 4 vjet m\u00eb e vog\u00ebl se un\u00eb. Pra \u00ebsht\u00eb 24 vjece. P\u00ebr fatin ton\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb babai jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb marr\u00eb me treg\u00ebti k\u00ebtu e 20 vjet para dhe ne nuk kemi njohur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb v\u00ebsht\u00ebrsi ekonomike. P\u00ebrkundrazi, na jan\u00eb plot\u00ebsuar disa d\u00ebshira q\u00eb ndoshta bashk\u00eb moshatar\u00ebve tan\u00eb nuk u plot\u00ebsohen, madje u konsiderohen teka t\u00eb tepruara. Prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb kan\u00eb investuar tek ne shum\u00eb n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb arsimit. Na kan\u00eb cuar n\u00eb shkolla jasht\u00eb v\u00ebndit dhe nuk kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb vit q\u00eb nuk na kan\u00eb cuar n\u00eb kurse verore, n\u00eb v\u00ebnde t\u00eb ndryshm\u00eb. Me pak fjal\u00eb jemi rritur me gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat nuk na ka munguar asnnj\u00ebher\u00eb asgj\u00eb, por dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb kemi marr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb kultur\u00eb paksa t\u00eb ndryshme nga pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebve tan\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Mami m\u00eb thot\u00eb shpesh q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit k\u00ebtu jan\u00eb t\u00eb djall\u00ebzuar dhe shohin interesat e tyre n\u00eb rrall\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr cdo gj\u00eb. Cdo dit\u00eb i v\u00ebrtetoj fjal\u00ebt e saj. Un\u00eb e kaloj pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb koh\u00ebs n\u00eb Itali k\u00ebtu vij\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr pushime verore. Pak a shum\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb b\u00ebn edhe motra ime vet\u00ebm se koh\u00ebt e fundit ka ndryshuar shum\u00eb. Shkak \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. N\u00eb fillim mendoja se lidhja e tyre do t\u00eb ishte vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb aventur\u00eb verore dhe secili pastaj do t\u00eb shikonte jet\u00ebne\u00a0 tij. M\u00eb dukej gj\u00eb normale kjo gj\u00eb, duke q\u00ebn\u00eb se t\u00eb dy ishim shum\u00eb t\u00eb rinj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb vendime t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Por ky djal\u00eb ndikoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb jo t\u00eb p\u00eblqyeshme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e motr\u00ebs time. Kur u kthyem n\u00eb Itali ajo e kishte m\u00ebndjen tek ai djal\u00eb dhe mezi priste q\u00eb ne t\u00eb ktheheshim n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Sajoj lloj- lloj sebepesh q\u00eb t\u00eb vinte sa m\u00eb shpesh.Kjo kishte disa t\u00eb k\u00ebqija. E para, sepse anashkalonte dhe pse kjo ishte shkolla e dyte q\u00eb po vazhdonte,dhe e dyta sepse shp\u00ebrdoronte parat\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve. Sa m\u00eb shpesh takohej me k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb i m\u00ebshonte ides\u00eb q\u00eb donte t\u00eb kthehej n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. \u00a0Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb sipas palneve t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve ajo pasi t\u00eb mbaronte shkoll\u00ebn do t\u00eb shkonte n\u00eb Gjermani. Kishin investuar gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb b\u00ebhej e zonja dhe ta nd\u00ebrtonte jet\u00ebn e saj n\u00eb nj\u00eb v\u00ebnd m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb ka befasuar shu\u00ebm\u00ebsht\u00eb sjellja e saj gjat k\u00ebsaj vere q\u00eb kemi ardhur p\u00ebr pushime. Esht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb si lod\u00ebr e atij djali. E sjell ai v\u00ebrdall\u00eb dhe c\u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e keqa ajo as nuk arrin ta kuptoj\u00eb. Q\u00eb kur ka ardhur e mban t\u00eb dashurin me para. I paguan cdo gj\u00eb i b\u00ebn dhurata madje i jep dhe lek\u00eb xhepi. P\u00ebr mua kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dicka e papranueshme, sidomos kur t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto i b\u00ebn me parat\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve. Mjafton q\u00eb ai t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj dicka dhe kjo ja blen me vrap. Nuk m\u00eb duket aspak normale q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb ajo t\u00eb paguaj kafet dhe ai t\u00eb mos fus\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb dor\u00ebn n\u00eb xhep. Sa her i them q\u00eb mos i shp\u00ebrdoro parat\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb japin prind\u00ebrit m\u00eb k\u00ebq b\u00ebn. M\u00ebnyra tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb se si e traj\u00ebton motr\u00ebn time ky djal\u00eb. Thuajse gjat gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs b\u00ebn batuta ofenduese p\u00ebr motr\u00ebn time,dhe kjo e m\u00ebncura ime qesh pa pik\u00eb lidhje.\u00a0 Kur i them se ai nuk t\u00eb do dhe e trajton si idiote, ajo p\u00ebrpiqet ta justifikoj\u00eb,edhe pse thell\u00eb-thell\u00eb m\u00eb duket sikur e di q\u00eb un\u00eb kam t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Ngela duke i folur por gjithmon\u00eb b\u00ebn sikur m\u00eb d\u00ebgjon dhe pastaj vazhdon keq e m\u00eb keq. Kulmi \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ky djal\u00eb insiston tani q\u00eb t\u00eb fejohet me motr\u00ebn time. T\u00eb dy jan akoma t\u00eb rinj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb vendosur dicka kaq e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme sa \u00ebsht\u00eb martesa. Por ai e ka v\u00ebn\u00eb motr\u00ebn time n\u00eb nj\u00eb pozit\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb zgjell\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb fejohen ose q\u00eb t\u00eb ndahen. Me sa kuptoj ajo ka r\u00ebn\u00eb br\u00ebnda dhe cdo gj\u00eb i duket fush\u00eb me lule. Nd\u00ebrsa atij nuk i b\u00ebhet von\u00ebp\u00ebr motr\u00ebn time por i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb parat\u00eb q\u00eb ajo i jep. E di se m\u00eb mir\u00eb se motra ime nuk ka ku gjen\u00eb dhe po e b\u00ebn\u00eb cdo gj\u00eb me llogari. M\u00eb vjen keq dhe p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb investuan gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebne tyre, dhe motra ime t\u00eb kthehet e t\u00eb jetoj p\u00ebrs\u00ebri k\u00ebtu kaq e re. T\u00eb them t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn, e kam mot\u00ebr dhe m\u00eb vjen inat q\u00eb ta trajtoj\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00ebq\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb as sa gjysma e saj. Ajo meriton m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kaq, vet\u00ebm se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gj\u00ebndje ta kuptoj\u00eb. Ai ka arritur q\u00eb ta v\u00ebr\u00eb motr\u00ebn time jo vet\u00ebm kund\u00ebr meje, por edhe kund\u00ebr prind\u00ebrve. Na thot\u00eb se n\u00eb qoft\u00ebse nuk e prnojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb si t\u00eb fejuarin e tij do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij dhe neve nuk do t\u00eb na shikoj\u00eb dot m\u00eb me sy. Un\u00eb dyshoj se ky djal\u00eb do t\u00eb vazhdoj t\u00eb rri me time mot\u00ebr n\u00ebse ajo nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb parat\u00eb q\u00eb i japin prind\u00ebrit. E di q\u00eb ai do ta l\u00ebr\u00eb dhe ajo do t\u00eb kthehet prap tek ne. K\u00ebshtu mendojn\u00eb dhe mami me babin, por na vjen keq q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjehete t\u00eb vuaj. Duam q\u00eb ta kuptoj se po gabon. Si tja hapim syt\u00eb k\u00ebsaj\u00eb vajze 24 vjecare q\u00eb p\u00ebr momentin i duket vetja sikur i din t\u00eb gjitha dhe vler\u00ebson m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb interesaxhi se sa familjen e tij\u00eb. Familja q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekur q\u00eb asaj mos ti mungoj\u00eb asgj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb rritet me gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat. Shpresoj shum\u00eb q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb reflektoj dhe t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se n\u00eb cfar\u00eb situate \u00ebsht\u00eb sepse un\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk e di se si mund t\u00eb reagoj n\u00eb qoft\u00ebse ata do t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb akoma. Faleminderit. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Persh\u00ebndetje miq t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs Intervista! Po shkruaj dhe un\u00eb p\u00ebr dicka q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson\u00eb shum\u00eb. Jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 28 vjec. Shqet\u00ebsimi im lidhet me motr\u00ebn time e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb 4 vjet m\u00eb e vog\u00ebl se un\u00eb. Pra \u00ebsht\u00eb 24 vjece. P\u00ebr fatin ton\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb babai jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb marr\u00eb me treg\u00ebti k\u00ebtu e 20 vjet […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21093,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23070"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23070\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21093"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}