{"id":22906,"date":"2019-07-09T20:30:19","date_gmt":"2019-07-09T18:30:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22906"},"modified":"2019-07-09T20:09:09","modified_gmt":"2019-07-09T18:09:09","slug":"%ef%bb%bfta-nxjerr-gruan-jashte-dhe-te-martohem-me-tjetren-si-te-veproj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/07\/%ef%bb%bfta-nxjerr-gruan-jashte-dhe-te-martohem-me-tjetren-si-te-veproj\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffTa nxjerr gruan jasht\u00eb dhe t\u00eb martohem me tjetr\u00ebn, si t\u00eb veproj?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– Jam i martuar prej vitesh tashm\u00eb, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

por fatkeq\u00ebsisht nuk kam\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tashm\u00eb jam n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 55 vje\u00e7. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gruaja ime nuk m\u00eb dhuroi dot\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb sepse kishte probleme, ishte sterile. Por un\u00eb po e vuaj shum\u00eb faktin q\u00eb\nnuk kam f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Prej vitesh familja m\u00eb kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ndahem nga ime shoqe t\u00eb\nmartohem s\u00ebrisht, por gruaja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb aq e mir\u00eb, saq\u00eb nuk ma b\u00ebnte zemra ta\nndaja, m\u00eb dukej si krim dhe sikur do t\u00eb hiqja nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb nga trupi im, shpirti\nim. Tani kam nj\u00eb muhabet shum\u00eb serioz me nj\u00eb grua e cila ka pasur dhe ajo\nfatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb e veta, por \u00ebsht\u00eb pjellore. Dhe duke q\u00ebn\u00eb se e dua patjet\u00ebr nj\u00eb\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, por e dua t\u00eb timin, t\u00eb gjakut tim, vendosa t\u00eb martohem me\nk\u00ebt\u00eb grua. Dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb kam marr\u00eb dhe miratimin e gruas time, m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se\nkam problem martohu, vet\u00ebm t\u00eb lutem mos m\u00eb largo nga kjo sht\u00ebpi. Un\u00eb kam sht\u00ebpi\nt\u00eb madhe, dhe t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn dy dhoma dua t\u2019ja l\u00eb asaj, sepse ajo nuk ka njeri n\u00eb\nfamiljen e saj, prind\u00ebrit si ka, v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit t\u00eb martuar ku do shkoj\u00eb. Por gruaja\nq\u00eb do t\u00eb marr, m\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb duhet ta nxjerr jasht\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk dua ta nxjerr\njasht\u00eb, por ta mbaj n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Kam sht\u00ebpi dy kat\u00ebshe. Dhe familja ime m\u00eb thot\u00eb,\nnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb normale ta mbaj gruan n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi kur t\u00eb martohem. Se di si t\u00eb veproj,\njam n\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebkryq, si t\u00eb veproj, ta nxjerr gruan time, dhe t\u00eb martohem e t\u00eb\nkrijoj familje, apo t\u00eb gjej nj\u00eb grua tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb ta pranoj k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E\nkeni pyetur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb veten tuaj, q\u00eb po te ishit ju ai qe do te ishte steril\ndhe si do te vepronte bashkshortja juaj me ju! Po ta b\u00ebnte k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb ju si do\nndiheshit, a nuk i mjafton asaj dhimbja q\u00eb nuk ka nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vetin, por ju\nvet\u00eb i shkaktoni tek ajo q\u00eb ta ndjeje me shum\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra duhet ti\nmendonit koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, po q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrzesh prej sht\u00ebpie gruan e jetes tuaj, e t\u00eb\nmarr\u00ebsh nje tani ne kete moshe vetem per nje femije, ky quhet biznes. M\u00eb vjen keq\nper ju qe nuk keni nje femij\u00eb tuajin, por tani juve ju ka ardhur koha t\u00eb\nmendoni se m\u00eb k\u00eb duhet te pleqeroni dhe jo te krijoni nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb re, duke\nshkat\u00ebrruar nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Sindi <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ti qenke i lezetsh\u00ebm\nplako sepse e fut veten n\u00eb bela dhe kerkon ta zgjidhin hallin te tjer\u00ebt! Hahaha.\nLinda <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Tani q\u00eb vajte 55 vje\u00e7 b\u00ebhesh\nbaba, se lije dot m\u00eb par\u00eb gruan po tani n\u00eb pleq\u00ebri. Rri rehat se do t\u00eb dali f\u00ebmija\nda\u00ebn ore plakush, mbaj gruan e par\u00eb. Esuida\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ti n\u00ebqoft\u00ebse e do gruan\ntende aq shume sa thua nuk mund tja b\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb duke u martuar me nje tjeter dhe\np\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr tja sjellesh n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Ti mund t\u00eb bir\u00ebsosh nje f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe ta\nrrisesh me gruan qe ke at\u00eb qe thua se e do shum\u00eb. Dhe kjo q\u00eb do t\u00eb vij\u00eb p\u00ebr\nfemije te vjen per pasuri per t\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb gjithcka vazhdo jeten me gruan q\u00eb ke.\nAlesia<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Zot\u00ebri m\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb\nkeq q\u00eb nuk ke f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por n\u00ebse e do gruan t\u00ebnde, mos e godit p\u00ebrs\u00ebri sepse dhe\najo e ka plag\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr q\u00eb nuk ka f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Marsela\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Eh, mos u m\u00ebrzit se\nmosha b\u00ebn t\u00eb veten plako… Aleks <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– O i mjeri ti dashke f\u00ebmij\u00eb\ntani ne pleqeri… Mbaj ore gruan aty e l\u00ebri t\u00eb tjerat se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moshe qe je\nti vetem per interes t\u00eb do… Do hysh ne gjynah po e le gruan dhe merr nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.\nKlodi <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mund t\u00eb drejtohesh tek\nfemijet e braktisur sepse ato kan\u00eb aq nevoje p\u00ebr prinder sa ti nje femije, dhe\nmund te vazhdosh jeten familjare q\u00eb ke ndertuar n\u00eb vite. Henri <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Zgjidhjen m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb ke\nt\u00eb bir\u00ebsosh nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb fuesh n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb t\u00eb don vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr\npasuri. Arjan <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb adoptosh nj\u00eb\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb se t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb dyt\u00eb. Diana\n<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Tani n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh te ra\nndermend me u martu prap\u00eb e me lan\u00eb gruan qe te ka sherby tash sa vjet? T\u00eb ka\nlar\u00eb t\u00eb ka hekurosur te ka sherby, e ti don me e l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb mes te rruges? Po si\nste vjen turp nj\u00eb her\u00eb prej vetes, rri urt\u00eb e sillu mir me gruan qe ke, e leni\nbudalliqet. Gjergj Mirdita.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Gjeja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ty\ndo ishte t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb gruan q\u00eb ke dhe t\u00eb adoptoj\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Krenar <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Do marr xhaja nuse t\u00eb\nre, pak p\u00ebr vete shum\u00eb p\u00ebr ne. Spiro <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po sikur t\u00eb ishe ti\nsterile ca do b\u00ebje? Ik mbytu ro koti. Bruna\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Vazhdo jet\u00ebn me gruan\nq\u00eb ke, t\u00eb b\u00ebsh f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e kot\u00eb se do ta lesh jetim shpejt se\njet\u00ebs nuk i dihet si t\u00eb vjen. Marsida <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– B\u00ebj me rradh\u00eb plako,\nlum si ti q\u00eb ke fatin me zgjedh\u00eb haha. Aldo\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mbaji t\u00eb dyja dhe skan\u00eb\npse t\u00eb zihen. Toni <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mua m\u00eb vjen keq p\u00ebr\nfaktin q\u00eb skeni f\u00ebmij\u00eb po t\u00eb isha n\u00eb vendin tuaj m\u00eb mir\u00eb do kisha bir\u00ebsu nj\u00eb\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb e do e kishit t\u00eb dy nj\u00eblloj sesa t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrosh nj\u00eb mardh\u00ebnie martesore\nme nj\u00eb grua zonj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb martohu po mos m\u00eb largo nga sht\u00ebpia. Pashke <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ke kaluar gjith\u00eb ato\nvite jete me k\u00ebt\u00eb grua nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb ta flak\u00ebsh jasht\u00eb. Alisha <\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Jam i martuar prej vitesh tashm\u00eb, por fatkeq\u00ebsisht nuk kam f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Tashm\u00eb jam n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 55 vje\u00e7. Gruaja ime nuk m\u00eb dhuroi dot f\u00ebmij\u00eb sepse kishte probleme, ishte sterile. Por un\u00eb po e vuaj shum\u00eb faktin q\u00eb nuk kam f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Prej vitesh familja m\u00eb kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ndahem nga ime shoqe t\u00eb martohem s\u00ebrisht, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20625,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22906","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22906","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22906"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22906\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20625"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22906"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22906"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22906"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}