{"id":22384,"date":"2019-05-11T14:00:04","date_gmt":"2019-05-11T12:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22384"},"modified":"2019-05-11T13:17:22","modified_gmt":"2019-05-11T11:17:22","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-90","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/05\/astrologia-shpjegon-90\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon…!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Rrjeta\nmerimangash<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shkova n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi q\u00eb nuk e njihja fare dhe aty kishte shum\u00eb rrjeta merimangash. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment u bllokova nga rrjetat e tyre dhe i thirra nj\u00eb shokut tim, por ai nuk l\u00ebvizi fare dhe un\u00eb fillova ta shaja. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kishte shum\u00eb merimanga dhe un\u00eb fillova t\u2019i vrisja, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri ndihesha e bllokuar dhe nga sikleti, u zgjova nga gjumi. Ju lutem, a mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sht\u00ebpia e\npanjohur ku keni shkuar, tregon q\u00eb do t\u2019i futeni nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjeje ose nj\u00eb rruge\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb panjohur q\u00eb do t\u2019ju sjell\u00eb disa probleme. Vet\u00eb rrjetat e merimang\u00ebs\ntregojn\u00eb probleme e pengesa t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, do t\u00eb m\u00ebrziteni\nshum\u00eb. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb do t\u00eb keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb, nuk do t\u00eb arrini ta merrni\nat\u00eb, sepse edhe ata q\u00eb ju mendoni se i keni shum\u00eb af\u00ebr, n\u00eb k\u00ebto momente, nuk\njan\u00eb af\u00ebr jush. Do t\u2019ju duhet t\u00eb luftoni vet\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi,\nose t\u00eb dilni nga rruga q\u00eb i jeni futur, pa e menduar shum\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, fakti\nq\u00eb keni filluar t\u2019i vrisni merimangat, tregon q\u00eb do t\u2019ia dilni mban\u00eb, sepse\nkarakterizoheni si person i\/e guximsh\u00ebm dhe q\u00eb rrezikoni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

U putha me ish-t\u00eb dashurin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– U b\u00eb ca koh\u00eb q\u00eb\nshoh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ish-t\u00eb dashurin sikur m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafon, m\u00eb ledhaton, m\u00eb puth dhe\nndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, kryejm\u00eb edhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie intime. S\u2019e kuptoj pse e shikoj kaq shum\u00eb\nn\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr… Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, a ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb? Pres p\u00ebrgjigje\nk\u00ebt\u00eb jav\u00eb. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra t\u00eb tilla, si\u00e7 edhe jam shprehur n\u00eb raste t\u00eb tjera,\nna shfaqen p\u00ebr disa arsye. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb shprehin mallin, ndjenjat q\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb\nakoma p\u00ebr at\u00eb djal\u00eb, mendimet e p\u00ebrditshme dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, b\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe\nparashikime t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta. Sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb, \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb p\u00ebr mir\u00eb dhe\nn\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve shprehin shqet\u00ebsimet q\u00eb ju provokojn\u00eb gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs, t\u00eb cilat\nju p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u2019i anashkaloni. Mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb mendimet q\u00eb keni akoma p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00eb ju\nshtyjn\u00eb t\u00eb shikoni \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla. Puthja\nn\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, zakonisht, paraqet zgjimin e ndjenjave t\u00eb epshit seksual ose ndonj\u00eb\npjes\u00eb t\u00eb personalitetit q\u00eb e keni l\u00ebn\u00eb pas dore, ose \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb\np\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat ndjenja erotike dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. Shumica e lidhjeve t\u00eb\ndashuris\u00eb fillojn\u00eb me puthje dhe vazhdojn\u00eb me p\u00ebrqafime. N\u00ebse n\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn tuaj\nputhja ishte e zjarrt\u00eb, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb d\u00ebshira juaj ende e parealizuar ose ajo q\u00eb\ntham\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr, d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u2019i jetuar s\u00ebrish ato momente. P\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht,\n\u00ebndrra juaj tregon nevoj\u00ebn e dashuris\u00eb, ngush\u00ebllimit, miq\u00ebsis\u00eb, afeksionit nga\nana e tij, ose n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, t\u00eb personave me seks t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt. Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb,\nju k\u00ebrkoni nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe. Po ashtu, d\u00ebshironi bashkimin fizik\ndhe shpirt\u00ebror me ish-t\u00eb dashurin. Gjithsesi, n\u00ebse ju shikoni q\u00eb kjo d\u00ebshir\u00eb nuk\nvjen n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale, as nga ish-i juaj, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb ta k\u00ebrkoni k\u00ebt\u00eb dashuri\ndiku tjet\u00ebr. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Linda f\u00ebmij\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Para dy net\u00ebsh kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nsikur kisha lindur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe isha vet\u00ebm fare, pa njeri pran\u00eb. Pas pak\nerdhi babai i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u00eb na shikonte se ku jetonim. N\u00eb fillim, bebushi m\u2019u\nduk sikur ishte djal\u00eb, kurse m\u00eb pas e pash\u00eb q\u00eb ishte vajz\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka\nkjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ju lutem? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>Lindja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, simbolizon d\u00ebshirat e\npaplot\u00ebsuara p\u00ebr t\u00eb patur f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Po qe se keni patur ndjenja negative, at\u00ebhere\n\u00ebndrra paralajm\u00ebron shtatz\u00ebni t\u00eb mundshme, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk e d\u00ebshironi p\u00ebr\nmomentin. N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, lindja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs paraqet mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb reja, si dhe\np\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb reja n\u00eb zhvillimin e personalitetit tuaj. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, mund t\u00eb\njen\u00eb disa plane tuajat p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen, por q\u00eb ndiheni e frenuar p\u00ebr t\u2019i\nrealizuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019i \u00e7uar p\u00ebrpara. Kurse babai q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, po p\u00ebrs\u00ebri tregon\nd\u00ebshir\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur mb\u00ebshtetjen mashkullore t\u00eb nj\u00eb familjari ose dikujt\nq\u00eb e keni, ose q\u00eb do ta keni p\u00ebr zem\u00ebr n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen. Gjithsesi, \u00ebndrra n\u00eb fund\nju tregon q\u00eb ju do t\u00eb realizoni ato \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi, pavar\u00ebsisht probemeve apo\npengesave q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju dalin rrug\u00ebs. Fati \u00ebsht\u00eb me ju. K\u00ebt\u00eb e tregon fakti q\u00eb i\nkeni par\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00ebdolloj gj\u00ebje\nq\u00eb t\u00eb nisni, do t\u2019ju realizohet, edhe pse me pak mundim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lexonim gazeta<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr isha me nj\u00eb shoqen time q\u00eb e\nkam pasur n\u00eb klas\u00eb, por s\u2019kisha shum\u00eb muhabet me t\u00eb. M\u00eb pas pash\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb\nshokun tim. Ishim ulur n\u00eb nj\u00eb karrige dhe kishim n\u00eb dor\u00eb gazeta. I lexonim me\nshum\u00eb kureshtje dhe i shk\u00ebmbyem shum\u00eb her\u00eb k\u00ebto gazeta. Nuk ishin as gazeta politike,\nas sportive, por di q\u00eb po lexonim thashetheme t\u00eb ndryshme nga bota e muzik\u00ebs\ndhe e VIP-ave, kryesisht. A b\u00ebn ndonj\u00eb parashikim kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Gazetat n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nkan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime. Zakonisht, n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e \u00ebndrrave, gazetat kan\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr dometh\u00ebnie\np\u00ebr lajmet q\u00eb sjellin. N\u00eb themel t\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs suaj q\u00ebndron d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb shtuar\nnjohurit\u00eb tuaja se nga natyra jeni mjaft kureshtar dhe i etur p\u00ebr njohuri t\u00eb\nreja. Por mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb dhe kuptim tjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme mund t\u00eb keni\npatur ndonj\u00eb p\u00ebrplasje dhe b\u00ebni thashetheme me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb tuaj pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr ato\n\u00e7far\u00eb kan\u00eb ndodhur. Duhet t\u00eb keni nj\u00ebfar\u00eb kujdesi, sepse ashtu si\u00e7 ndodh, q\u00eb jo\ngjithmon\u00eb gazetat p\u00ebrcjellin lajmin bruto, por edhe i zbukurojn\u00eb ose i\nekzagjerojn\u00eb, edhe ju duhet t\u00eb kini kujdes nga ata shok\u00eb ose shoqe q\u00eb jua p\u00ebrcjellin\nmendimet apo lajmet e fundit sepse jo \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb thon\u00eb ata \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.\nVaret gjith\u00e7ka nga sjellja juaj. N\u00ebse ju do t\u00eb dini se si t\u2019i menaxhoni ndjesit\u00eb\ntuaja, mendimet, opinionet dhe fjal\u00ebt, asgj\u00eb negative nuk ka p\u00ebr t\u2019ju ndodhur.\nN\u00ebse i merrni t\u00eb gjitha si t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta ato \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u2019ju thon\u00eb, mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb\nt\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjeheni, prandaj kini kujdes. Shoku q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb\njet\u00eb epiqendra e lindjes s\u00eb thashethemeve. K\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb, b\u00ebni mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos\nbesoni gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju thot\u00eb. M\u00eb shum\u00eb d\u00ebgjoni sesa veproni apo aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, t\u00eb\nflisni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duke u lutur n\u00eb kish\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Dua t\u00eb di \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb fakti q\u00eb\nun\u00eb shoh shum\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kisha dhe shenjtor\u00eb. Shoh sikur lutem para tyre\ndhe shpesh e shoh veten duke qar\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb lutem. Pres nj\u00eb shpjegim nga ana\njuaj. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e\nth\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb dikush q\u00eb shikon \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla me kisha apo xhami \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb besimtar\nse t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. \u00cbndrra t\u00eb tilla mund t\u00eb simbolizojn\u00eb edhe ndjesin\u00eb e fajit ose d\u00ebshir\u00ebn\np\u00ebr t\u2019u rr\u00ebfyer apo folur me dik\u00eb pasi vuani p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka dhe keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb\nluteni. Ndiheni shum\u00eb i ngarkuar psikologjikisht e shpirt\u00ebrisht koh\u00ebt e fundit\ndhe vajtja n\u00eb kish\u00eb tregon pik\u00ebrisht d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u hapur dhe folur me dik\u00eb.\nMund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe shenja e pavet\u00ebdijes tuaj, q\u00eb keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb kthjelloheni, t\u00eb\nqart\u00ebsoni idet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb qet\u00ebsoheni. Kisha dhe shenjtor\u00ebt p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb edhe qet\u00ebsin\u00eb\nshpirt\u00ebrore. Lot\u00ebt q\u00eb derdhni jan\u00eb ngush\u00ebllim n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Do t\u00eb ndiheni e\nngush\u00eblluar pik\u00ebrisht sepse do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb ajo q\u00eb keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb, do t\u00eb hapeni dhe\ndo t\u00eb flisni pa asnj\u00eb lloj ndrojtjeje apo kompleksi p\u00ebr problemet q\u00eb ju mundojn\u00eb.\nLutjet, shpesh, tregojn\u00eb realizim t\u00eb atyre d\u00ebshirave dhe rikthim t\u00eb shpresave t\u00eb\nhumbura, por thelbi i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs q\u00ebndron n\u00eb p\u00ebrballimin me problemin q\u00eb ju shqet\u00ebson.\nN\u00eb momentin q\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni me t\u00eb dhe do ta pranoni, do t\u00eb ndiheni i qet\u00eb\ndhe i \u00e7liruar. Si \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pozitive, prandaj edhe ju duhet ta merrni si\nt\u00eb till\u00eb. Po qe nevoja, mund t\u00eb shkoni v\u00ebrtet n\u00eb kish\u00eb, t\u00eb luteni e t\u00eb shikoni\nse si do t\u00eb ndiheni m\u00eb pas.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Rrjeta merimangash – Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shkova n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi q\u00eb nuk e njihja fare dhe aty kishte shum\u00eb rrjeta merimangash. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment u bllokova nga rrjetat e tyre dhe i thirra nj\u00eb shokut tim, por ai nuk l\u00ebvizi fare dhe un\u00eb fillova ta shaja. Kishte shum\u00eb merimanga dhe un\u00eb fillova t\u2019i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-22384","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22384","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22384"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22384\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22384"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22384"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22384"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}