{"id":22314,"date":"2019-05-02T20:30:34","date_gmt":"2019-05-02T18:30:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22314"},"modified":"2019-05-02T20:24:10","modified_gmt":"2019-05-02T18:24:10","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-88","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/05\/astrologia-shpjegon-88\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon…!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Sht\u00ebpi e lyer me t\u00eb bardh\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E nderuar astrologe, kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb madhe, e lyer e gjitha me t\u00eb bardh\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vajza u k\u00ebrkoi leje disa personave dhe u tha: “Do martohem me k\u00ebt\u00eb sepse e dua!”.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ata u p\u00ebrgjigj\u00ebn: “Qenka interesant!”. Pastaj, t\u00eb dy dol\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb metropol bashk\u00eb me shum\u00eb \u00e7ifte t\u00eb tjera dhe vazhduam rrug\u00ebn. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbnd\u00ebrr shum\u00eb\npozitive, pavar\u00ebsisht dyshimeve q\u00eb keni her\u00eb pas here n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje q\u00eb keni\nnisur n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Besojini asaj \u00e7far\u00eb ju \u00ebsht\u00eb paraqitur koh\u00ebt e fundit dhe\nmos kini frik\u00eb t\u00eb shkoni m\u00eb tej, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00ebse b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr personin e\nzemr\u00ebs. Do ta keni t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb hidhni nj\u00eb hap t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, por m\u00eb pas do\nt\u00eb ndiheni t\u00eb \u00e7liruar dhe t\u00eb qet\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb\nshum\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, pa asnj\u00eb lloj pengese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mace ngjyr\u00eb hiri<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Isha te sht\u00ebpia e gjyshes n\u00eb fshat dhe\nndodhesha vet\u00ebm n\u00eb dhom\u00eb. Isha ulur dhe po shikoja nga dritarja, shikoja gjelb\u00ebrim,\npor thosha me vete: “Pse nuk mund t’i g\u00ebzoj un\u00eb!”. M\u00eb pas, m\u00eb erdhi\npran\u00eb nj\u00eb mace ngjyr\u00eb gri. E mora n\u00eb dor\u00eb e po e p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelja dhe ajo m\u00eb\nshikonte sikur m\u00eb njihte prej koh\u00ebsh. Aty u zgjova nga gjumi. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka,\nju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Shpesh,\nngjyra e hirt\u00eb ose e th\u00ebn\u00eb ndryshe, argjend, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimin. N\u00eb rastin\ntuaj, gjith\u00e7ka nga jasht\u00eb ju duket shum\u00eb e bukur, por di\u00e7ka brenda jush ju\ntrishton shum\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit dhe ju pengon t\u00eb shijoni gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju shfaqet.\nMacja, ve\u00e7 t\u00eb tjerash, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson po veten tuaj q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje, p\u00ebr\nm\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendje dhe nj\u00eb shtys\u00eb t\u00eb madhe q\u00eb t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi e t’i g\u00ebzohet\njet\u00ebs. Pse nuk mund t’i g\u00ebzoheni jet\u00ebs? \u00c7far\u00eb nuk shkon te ju? P\u00ebrgjigjen mund\nta jepni vet\u00ebm ju. N\u00ebse nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebndeti n\u00eb mes, at\u00ebhere asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr nuk ka\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebrpara qet\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe lumturis\u00eb suaj. Thuajini vetes “mjaft”\ndhe dilni e jetojeni jet\u00ebn; hidheni d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimin tutje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Puthje<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur k\u00ebrkoja t\u00eb m\u00eb\nputhnin me \u00e7do kusht ose q\u00eb puthja njer\u00ebz mbar\u00eb dhe pa i njohur. Di vet\u00ebm q\u00eb\nisha si e etur p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb puthje. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb parashikon kjo gj\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra ka shum\u00eb kuptime, por n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, puthja \u00ebsht\u00eb simbol i af\u00ebrsis\u00eb dhe\ni intimitetit. Shpjegimi i saj varet nga shum\u00eb element\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb tregon\np\u00ebr disa dilema q\u00eb keni. Kujt d\u00ebshironi t’i q\u00ebndroni pran\u00eb? Thjesht, tregon q\u00eb\nkeni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr af\u00ebrsi, p\u00ebr lidhje shoq\u00ebrore dashurore dhe jeni person mjaft i dashur\ne i ndjesh\u00ebm. Nuk ju p\u00eblqen vetmia dhe angazhoheni gjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebr raporte t\u00eb\nmira me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Duhet t\u00eb kini durim, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti i duhur t\u00eb krijoni nj\u00eb\nlidhje t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb sepse nuk jeni e qet\u00eb me veten. \u00cbsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb lidhjet t\u00eb\nkrijohen kur jeni e qet\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrisht ose psikologjikisht.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nusja e ish-t\u00eb dashurit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nusen e ish-t\u00eb\ndashurit tim, sikur babai i saj e la p\u00ebr pak \u00e7aste tek un\u00eb se i doli nj\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe\nun\u00eb fillova t\u00eb bisedoja me t\u00eb, duke e pyetur n\u00ebse e donte burrin. Ajo m’u\np\u00ebrgjigj: “Edhe po, edhe jo!” sepse asaj i p\u00eblqente nj\u00eb djal\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.\nDy net\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb pash\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebn e ish-t\u00eb dashurit me nusen e tij, por nuk ishte\najo, por nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7’do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju nuk reshtni s\u00eb menduari dit\u00eb e nat\u00eb p\u00ebr ish-t\u00eb\ndashurin tuaj. Nusja q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr jeni po ju, p\u00ebrball\u00eb vetes. Pra, si\nnusja, ashtu edhe ju, n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, jeni po ju. Ju jeni n\u00eb luft\u00eb me veten. Her\u00eb\nmundoheni t\u2019ia mbushni mendjen vetes q\u00eb s\u2019duhet t\u00eb mendoni m\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe her\u00eb e\nd\u00ebshironi shum\u00eb. Gjithashtu, edhe ish-i dashuri ju mendon dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb penduar q\u00eb\n\u00ebsht\u00eb martuar, por kjo duket nj\u00eb lidhje e pamundur. N\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen, ju do t\u00eb\np\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb rilidheni, por do t’ju dalin pengesa t\u00eb shumta. Sipas \u00ebndrr\u00ebs, lidhja\njuaj duket e pamundur. Ne ju k\u00ebshillojm\u00eb t\u00eb reshtni s\u00eb menduari p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb,\nt\u00eb mos i hapni telashe vetes. B\u00ebhuni egoiste, mendoni p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr. Ai nj\u00eb dit\u00eb\nju la dhe u martua, pra, nuk mendoi fare p\u00ebr ju, nd\u00ebrsa ju vuani akoma. Ka djem\nbeqar\u00eb sa t\u00eb duash. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb ashensor<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha n\u00eb ashensor dhe shtypa\nbutonin e katit t\u00eb tret\u00eb. Kur arriti n\u00eb at\u00eb kat, ashensori filloi t\u00eb l\u00ebvizte me\nnj\u00eb shpejt\u00ebsi aq t\u00eb madhe sa nuk arrinte t\u00eb ndalonte derisa shkoi n\u00eb \u00e7ati; vet\u00ebm\naty ndaloi. U zgjova nga gjumi. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra juaj tregon q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb\nb\u00ebni shum\u00eb kujdes ku e hidhni hapin k\u00ebto dit\u00eb, pasi mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni me t\u00eb\npapritura q\u00eb mund t’ju trembin ose t’ju v\u00ebn\u00eb para nj\u00eb problemi t\u00eb panjohur p\u00ebr\nju. N\u00ebse ndodh q\u00eb tashm\u00eb e keni hedhur at\u00eb hap, l\u00ebrini ngjarjet t\u00eb rrjedhin si\u00e7\ndo ju vijn\u00eb sepse nuk keni \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni. \u00cbsht\u00eb si puna e gripit q\u00eb, sado t\u00eb\nmundohesh ta ndal\u00ebsh, do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb pun\u00ebn e vet. Vet\u00ebm t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb se pas k\u00ebsaj\ndo t\u00eb ndiheni e \u00e7liruar dhe fati do t\u00eb jet\u00eb me ju. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Isha shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme q\u00eb m\u00eb ka tronditur\nshum\u00eb. Sikur isha shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, megjith\u00ebse e dija q\u00eb nuk isha e martuar. Ata t\u00eb\nfamiljes sime nuk e dinin. Ndihesha n\u00eb siklet, sepse edhe pak dhe barku do m\u00eb\ndukej. S\u2019dija \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb b\u00ebja; t\u2019ua thoja apo t\u00eb fshihesha? Djalin me t\u00eb cilin kisha\nngelur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, nuk e shihja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Doja ta kisha pran\u00eb, por s\u2019e kisha\ndhe ndjeja dhimbje. Pran\u00eb kisha maman\u00eb. Ajo m\u00eb pyeti \u00e7far\u00eb kisha dhe un\u00eb i\nthash\u00eb: \u201cJam shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb!\u201d. P\u00ebr momentin, ajo u trondit. Pastaj fillova t\u00eb\nul\u00ebrija nga dhimbjet dhe mami m\u00eb \u00e7oi n\u00eb spital, ku e abortova f\u00ebmij\u00ebn. Qaja me\nd\u00ebnes\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa mami m\u00eb q\u00ebndronte pran\u00eb dhe m\u00eb thoshte: “Duhet t\u00eb m\u00eb kishe\nth\u00ebn\u00eb moj bij\u00eb”. U zgjova duke qar\u00eb…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra paska qen\u00eb v\u00ebrtet e trishtueshme. M\u00eb vjen keq, por m\u00eb duhet t\u2019ju\nthem q\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nuk paralajm\u00ebron situata t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme p\u00ebr ju. P\u00ebrgatituni\nshpirt\u00ebrisht sepse do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb thyerje n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj. F\u00ebmija q\u00eb keni\nhumbur n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria juaj, q\u00eb do t\u00eb marr\u00eb fund. I dashuri do t\u2019ju\nbraktis\u00eb. Fillimisht, do t\u00eb ndiheni keq, por do ta gjeni mb\u00ebshtetjen\nshpirt\u00ebrore te mamaja. Gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb qart\u00ebsohet, do t\u00eb \u00e7liroheni dhe do t\u00eb\nndiheni mir\u00eb sepse do ta kuptoni q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh hapur me njer\u00ebzit\ne sht\u00ebpis\u00eb sepse ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb vetmit q\u00eb mund t’ju ndihmojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga\nsituata e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Ne urojm\u00eb q\u00eb asgj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto t\u00eb mos ndodh\u00eb dhe \u00ebndrra t\u00eb\nngelet vet\u00ebm \u00ebnd\u00ebrr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sht\u00ebpi e lyer me t\u00eb bardh\u00eb – E nderuar astrologe, kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb madhe, e lyer e gjitha me t\u00eb bardh\u00eb. Vajza u k\u00ebrkoi leje disa personave dhe u tha: “Do martohem me k\u00ebt\u00eb sepse e dua!”. Ata u p\u00ebrgjigj\u00ebn: “Qenka interesant!”. Pastaj, t\u00eb dy […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[2482],"class_list":["post-22314","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-shpjegimi-i-endrrave"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22314","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22314"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22314\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22314"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22314"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22314"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}