{"id":22275,"date":"2019-04-25T19:30:11","date_gmt":"2019-04-25T17:30:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22275"},"modified":"2019-04-25T14:04:08","modified_gmt":"2019-04-25T12:04:08","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-86","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/astrologia-shpjegon-86\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon…!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ish-e\ndashura<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb sikur isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb emision televiziv bashk\u00eb me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ajo nisi t\u00eb fliste di\u00e7ka, por ishte e paqart\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngaq\u00eb m\u00eb erdhi keq, nd\u00ebrhyra dhe i thash\u00eb se do ta ndihmoja un\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shprehej m\u00eb mir\u00eb. M\u00eb pas i f\u00ebrkoja barkun dhe i thash\u00eb: \u201cDua t\u00eb kem f\u00ebmij\u00eb me ty\u201d. Ajo m\u2019u drejtua: \u201cPo ti ke qen\u00eb i lidhur!\u201d. M\u00eb pas m\u00eb erdhi familja ime bashk\u00eb me ish-t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn, e cila m\u00eb tha nga ana e saj: \u201cGjith\u00e7ka ishte nj\u00eb loj\u00eb dhe un\u00eb jam p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me ty\u201d. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb, ju lutem, kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra\njuaj lidhet me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb tashmen tuaj, q\u00eb bashkohen n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb.\nEmisioni televiziv jan\u00eb rrethi juaj shoq\u00ebror dhe presionet (n\u00ebse mund t\u00eb quhen\nk\u00ebshtu) q\u00eb ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb aktive. Dikush ju q\u00ebndron af\u00ebr,\nose ju e njihni tani von\u00eb dhe po ju imponohet q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb di\u00e7ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr ju.\nD\u00ebshironi t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb lidhje, por k\u00ebt\u00eb doni ta b\u00ebni jo sepse ndjeni v\u00ebrtet, por\nsepse d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb harroni n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre at\u00eb q\u00eb keni pasur n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn.\nIsh-e dashura \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma e pranishme n\u00eb mendjen e zemr\u00ebn tuaj dhe mund t\u2019ju\nshfaqet papritur. Keni l\u00ebn\u00eb gj\u00ebra pezull dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ju nevojitet t\u00eb sqaroheni\nnj\u00eb her\u00eb me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn e pastaj t\u00eb mendoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen. Ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb\nju t\u00eb ktheheni me at\u00eb q\u00eb keni pasur, prandaj mos filloni angazhime t\u00eb reja\nsepse mund t\u00eb l\u00ebndoheni dhe t\u00eb l\u00ebndoni edhe persona t\u00eb pafajsh\u00ebm rreth jush. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fotografi e vjet\u00ebr<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Para dy dit\u00ebsh kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nsikur isha te sht\u00ebpia e ish-burrit tim (n\u00eb realitet, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo), ku m\u00eb doli\nish-vjehrra dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cUn\u00eb t\u00eb nxora nga kjo sht\u00ebpi. \u00c7far\u00eb do q\u00eb vjen p\u00ebrs\u00ebri?\u201d.\nAjo kishte n\u00eb dor\u00eb nj\u00eb shirit t\u00eb kuq t\u00eb varur dhe nj\u00eb fotografi t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr. Kur\npo kthehesha te sht\u00ebpia ime, m\u00eb than\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019mund t\u00eb kaloja nga qendra e qytetit\nsepse kishte fest\u00eb, po martohej dikush. Arrita n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe nuk e gjeta babain\naty, ndaj i thash\u00eb v\u00ebllait: \u201cM\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ishte k\u00ebtu, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e merrte vesh\nse un\u00eb kam nj\u00eb shok\u201d. Pres nj\u00eb shpjegim. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E\nnderuar lexuese, ju nuk jeni shk\u00ebputur totalisht nga jeta q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb\nkaluar\u00ebn. Jan\u00eb edhe situatat dhe problemet e dit\u00ebs q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrplasin papritur me\npersona q\u00eb i p\u00ebrkasin s\u00eb shkuar\u00ebs, por \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb shk\u00ebputeni\ntotalisht nga k\u00ebta persona dhe t\u00eb shikoni p\u00ebrpara sepse dikush mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb q\u00ebllime\nv\u00ebrtet serioze ndaj jush, sado q\u00eb ju dukeni person pesimist. Fotografia e vjet\u00ebr\np\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson t\u00eb gjitha pjes\u00eb e historis\u00eb suaj t\u00eb kaluar, q\u00eb nuk ju l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ngrini\nkok\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb shijoni at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb keni tani e t\u00eb jetoni e lumtur. Duhet t\u00eb merreni\nm\u00eb shum\u00eb me veten, sepse frika q\u00eb keni shprehur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e devijimi i rrug\u00ebs\ndrejt qendr\u00ebs, tregojn\u00eb se gjendja juaj aktuale nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe aq e mir\u00eb. Ju\nndiheni e frik\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr arsye q\u00eb vet\u00ebm ju mund t\u2019i dini. Duhet t\u00eb reshtni s\u00eb\nmenduari negativisht dhe s\u00eb pasuri frik\u00eb. Q\u00ebndroni me kok\u00ebn lart, shijojeni\nmomentin dhe at\u00eb q\u00eb keni n\u00eb krah. \u00cbsht\u00eb jeta juaj dhe e askujt tjet\u00ebr, ndaj\nkeni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb jetoni qoft\u00eb edhe hapur fare, pa pasur nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb fshiheni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I dashuri n\u00eb\nburg<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur m\u00eb telefonoi nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb ndodhej n\u00eb burg dhe donte t\u00eb lidhej me\nmua. Pasi e kund\u00ebrshtova, ai m\u00eb tha: \u201cRri me mua se un\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj t\u2019i mbash\nvetullat lart\u201d. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo? E kam t\u00eb dashurin n\u00eb burg.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\n\u00cbndrra juaj tregon q\u00eb do t\u00eb merrni shum\u00eb shpejt lajme nga i dashuri. Ai do t\u2019ju\nflas\u00eb p\u00ebr ndjenjat q\u00eb ka karshi jush, por ju do t\u00eb jeni e l\u00ebkundur, ndoshta\nsepse ai ndodhet n\u00eb burg. \u00c7\u2019t\u2019ju themi, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u2019ju urojm\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn p\u00ebr ju?!\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb puthi nj\u00eb i panjohur<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po qaja me lot n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Nj\u00eb mashkull\nm\u2019u afrua p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb ngush\u00eblluar dhe m\u00eb puthi n\u00eb buz\u00eb. Ishte nj\u00eb puthje shum\u00eb e\nbut\u00eb, e thell\u00eb dhe shum\u00eb prek\u00ebse. Jam befasuar nga kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sepse s\u2019e prisja\nq\u00eb dikush t\u00eb m\u00eb vinte pran\u00eb dhe t\u00eb m\u00eb merrte me t\u00eb mira. Dua nj\u00eb shpjegim k\u00ebt\u00eb\njav\u00eb, mund\u00ebsisht. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra\nju paralajm\u00ebron t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb balancim n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj sepse jeni shum\u00eb e \u00e7orientuar\nkoh\u00ebt e fundit. Duhet ta hiqni frik\u00ebn e brendshme q\u00eb keni sepse kjo gj\u00eb po ju\ntorturon m\u00eb shum\u00eb se\u00e7 duhet. Nga situata q\u00eb ia krijoni ju vetes me frik\u00ebn dhe\nankthin q\u00eb keni, shkaktoni pasiguri. Lot\u00ebt q\u00eb keni derdhur tregojn\u00eb dhembshuri\ndhe p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsim t\u00eb gjendjes emocionale, \u00e7lirim shpirt\u00ebror dhe g\u00ebzim p\u00ebr ju, nd\u00ebrsa\nputhja nga mashkulli i panjohur tregon dashuri, ngroht\u00ebsi, qet\u00ebsi dhe harmoni t\u00eb\ncilat d\u00ebshironi t\u2019i keni edhe n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb\nsigurt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb, sepse jeni natyr\u00eb shum\u00eb e ndjeshme e keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetje,\npor nga ana tjet\u00ebr, keni shum\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni nj\u00eb lidhje, p\u00ebr arsye q\u00eb mund t\u2019i\ndini vet\u00ebm ju. N\u00ebse ju p\u00eblqen dikush, ju ka shprehur ndjenjat dhe ju ndjeni p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb, \u00ebndrra ju sugjeron t\u00eb provoni dhe ta jetoni dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn keni\nnevoj\u00eb. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para\nkomisionit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Pash\u00eb n\u00eb\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb provim. P\u00ebrpara kisha nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb t\u00eb madhe ku ishte\nulur komisioni. Papritur, tavolin\u00ebs iu afrua shoqja ime q\u00eb kishte veshur nj\u00eb\nbluz\u00eb plastike transparente. Gjith\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ishin aty filluan t\u00eb qeshnin me\nbluz\u00ebn e saj. Edhe un\u00eb u \u00e7udita. Nj\u00ebri nga ata q\u00eb po b\u00ebnin provim i tha nj\u00eb\nan\u00ebtari t\u00eb komisionit, rreth t\u00eb gjasht\u00ebdhjetave: \u201cJa, \u00e7far\u00eb ka veshur ajo!\u201d.\nAi, \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht, nuk reagoi si ne, por sikur ishte m\u00ebsuar me k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra. \u00c7\u2019do\nt\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo lloj \u00ebndrre?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nThuhet q\u00eb jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb provim n\u00eb vetvete. Si\u00e7 shihet nga \u00ebndrra, ju\nvazhdimisht i n\u00ebnshtroheni gjykimit t\u00eb familjes tuaj. Keni ca koh\u00eb q\u00eb jeni n\u00eb\nkonflikt me familjen, sepse ata nuk jan\u00eb dakord me zgjedhjet tuaja n\u00eb jet\u00eb.\nEdhe personi me bluz\u00eb transparente q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, jeni ju vet\u00eb. Ju\njeni e frik\u00ebsuar nga ideja q\u00eb ata tashm\u00eb din\u00eb \u00e7do dob\u00ebsi tuaj\u00ebn dhe shohin\nqart\u00eb edhe pasigurit\u00eb tuaja. Kjo s\u2019ju p\u00eblqen aspak. Megjithat\u00eb, nj\u00eb person i\nmoshuar n\u00eb familjen tuaj duket m\u00eb pak paragjykues se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. \u00cbsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb\nju t\u00eb flisni me at\u00eb, pasi kjo do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e vendosur n\u00eb ato\n\u00e7far\u00eb doni t\u00eb b\u00ebni apo thoni. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ish-e dashura – N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb sikur isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb emision televiziv bashk\u00eb me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Ajo nisi t\u00eb fliste di\u00e7ka, por ishte e paqart\u00eb. Ngaq\u00eb m\u00eb erdhi keq, nd\u00ebrhyra dhe i thash\u00eb se do ta ndihmoja un\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shprehej m\u00eb mir\u00eb. M\u00eb pas i f\u00ebrkoja barkun dhe i thash\u00eb: \u201cDua t\u00eb kem f\u00ebmij\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20058,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-22275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22275"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22275\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20058"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}