{"id":22200,"date":"2019-04-22T22:00:27","date_gmt":"2019-04-22T20:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22200"},"modified":"2019-04-22T16:55:31","modified_gmt":"2019-04-22T14:55:31","slug":"%ef%bb%bfbejne-seks-me-mua-dhe-largohen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/%ef%bb%bfbejne-seks-me-mua-dhe-largohen\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffB\u00ebjn\u00eb seks me mua dhe largohen"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>&#8211; Jam A., 23 vje\u00e7e.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em> Para nj\u00eb viti kreva marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien time t\u00eb par\u00eb seksuale, por pas k\u00ebsaj, ai u zhduk.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em> Edhe pse kalova nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb,<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em> thash\u00eb t\u00eb provoja s\u00ebrish q\u00eb t\u00eb krijoja nj\u00eb lidhje normale me dike tjet\u00ebr, por aty kuptova q\u00eb un\u00eb isha diku gabim edhe her\u00ebn e par\u00eb, pasi m\u00eb ndodhi e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb. Tani nuk kam m\u00eb besim tek asnjeri. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihem shum\u00eb keq. \u00c7far\u00eb gabimi b\u00ebj?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Dy eksperiencat tuaja t\u00eb para n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet\nseksuale, ju na thoni q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb zhvilluar n\u00eb p\u00ebrputhje me pritjet tuaja. Pas\nkryerjes t\u00eb aktit seksual, ata u larguan nga jeta juaj. P\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, keni\nkrijuar nj\u00eb mosbesim t\u00eb thell\u00eb, q\u00eb ju shtyn t\u00eb arrini n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimin: \u201cKa shum\u00eb\nmund\u00ebsi q\u00eb faji t\u00eb jet\u00eb i imi p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb ka ndodhur dhe tani nuk mund t\u00eb kem\nbesim tek askush\u201d. Nga vjen ky p\u00ebrfundim? \u00cbsht\u00eb i arsyesh\u00ebm? Do ndiqnit t\u00eb\nnj\u00ebjtin arsyetim n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nj\u00eb mikesh\u00eb ju k\u00ebrkon k\u00ebshill\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb tem\u00eb t\u00eb\nngjashme? Mendoj se jo. Ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ju ta nxitnit mikesh\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb\nshmangte p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsimet, p\u00ebrderisa e gjith\u00eb \u201cp\u00ebrvoja\u201d e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb e bazuar\nvet\u00ebm n\u00eb dy njer\u00ebz. Ndoshta do ta sqaronit se, duke k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00ebndrim\nnegativ, mund t\u2019i krijoj\u00eb vetes kushte p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb seksuale t\u00eb dob\u00ebt dhe\np\u00ebrfundimisht, do ta inkurajonit at\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rihyr\u00eb n\u00eb loj\u00ebn e dashuris\u00eb me\nshpresa t\u00eb reja, duke kap\u00ebrcyer zhg\u00ebnjimin q\u00eb kaloi. E nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb vlen edhe p\u00ebr\nju. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se pranoni t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat kritere p\u00ebr t\u00eb interpretuar p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e\ndikujt tjet\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb paradoksale t\u00eb mbani q\u00ebndrim negativ ndaj vetes suaj. A \u00ebsht\u00eb\ne mundur t\u00eb fitoni k\u00ebshtu besimin e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve? Un\u00eb ju uroj lumturi, e dashur!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Lexuesit\np\u00ebrgjigjen:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Gabimi q\u00ebndron se ke zgjedhur njer\u00ebzit e\ngabuar ose je dor\u00ebzuar shum\u00eb shpejt&#8230; <strong>Manjola\nMuka<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Jam n\u00eb nj\u00eb mendim me Manjol\u00ebn. <strong>Fati Foti Tosi <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; <\/strong>Duhet t\u00eb gjesh forca t\u00eb ringrihesh duke vendosur me kujdes notat mbi\npentagramin e jet\u00ebs. \u00cbsht\u00eb kosto e madhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn. Jeta\nvazhdon&#8230;!<strong> Kuksiani Kuksianishovv<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Eksperiencat n\u00eb jet\u00eb jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb vlefshme.\nP\u00ebr mendimin tim, s\u2019ka asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u shqet\u00ebsuar, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 faktit q\u00eb tani di di\u00e7ka\nm\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn, e dashur. Take easy (merre leht\u00eb) jeta duhet jetuar me t\u00eb\nmirat dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqiat e saj. \ud83d\ude42 <strong>Rozeta\nVruzhja<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; T\u00eb gabuarit&#8230; Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra jon\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nm\u00ebsuar, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb jemi qenie njer\u00ebzore. K\u00ebshtu rritemi. Por, ti nuk ke gabuar.\nKe provuar, si t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe k\u00ebshtu ke kuptuar se ai nuk ishte njeriu i duhur\np\u00ebr ty. E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh p\u00ebrpara dhe t\u00eb kuptosh se nuk mund t\u00eb kemi\nkurr\u00eb siguri p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb dhe se nuk duhet t\u00eb ndihemi kurr\u00eb n\u00eb faj, p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha\ngj\u00ebrat q\u00eb na ndodhin. Ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gabim, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb. <strong>Manuela Lamaj<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Jam A., 23 vje\u00e7e. Para nj\u00eb viti kreva marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien time t\u00eb par\u00eb seksuale, por pas k\u00ebsaj, ai u zhduk. Edhe pse kalova nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, thash\u00eb t\u00eb provoja s\u00ebrish q\u00eb t\u00eb krijoja nj\u00eb lidhje normale me dike tjet\u00ebr, por aty kuptova q\u00eb un\u00eb isha diku gabim edhe her\u00ebn e par\u00eb, pasi m\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":8476,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,93],"tags":[515],"class_list":["post-22200","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","category-udhekryq","tag-psikolog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22200","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22200"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22200\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8476"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22200"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22200"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22200"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}