{"id":22191,"date":"2019-04-22T16:30:35","date_gmt":"2019-04-22T14:30:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22191"},"modified":"2019-04-22T16:26:12","modified_gmt":"2019-04-22T14:26:12","slug":"%ef%bb%bfjam-i-lumtur-me-gruan-e-divorcuar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/%ef%bb%bfjam-i-lumtur-me-gruan-e-divorcuar\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffJam i lumtur me gruan e divorcuar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb u njoha me syt\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur n\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe menj\u00ebher\u00eb, me shikim t\u00eb par\u00eb, u dashurova me vajz\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur q\u00eb kisha par\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, ne filluam t\u00eb dilnim bashk\u00eb si shok\u00eb, por ajo nuk i dinte ndjenjat q\u00eb un\u00eb kisha p\u00ebr t\u00eb,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb edhe un\u00eb mundohesha t\u00eb isha sa m\u00eb i matur me sjelljen ndaj saj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doja q\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb t\u00eb ishte perfekte dhe mundohesha ta mbaja t\u00eb fsheht\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjeja p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Sigurisht q\u00eb ajo as q\u00eb e imagjinonte at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjeja. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb kalonte koha, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb un\u00eb dashurohesha pas saj, m\u00eb b\u00ebnte p\u00ebr vete gjith\u00e7ka e saj, shikimi, syt\u00eb, buz\u00ebt dhe \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb kishte, ishte perfekte. Nuk po duroja dot m\u00eb dhe vendosa q\u00eb t\u2019ia thoja t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. Isha kurioz t\u00eb zbuloja edhe un\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb mendimi kishte ajo p\u00ebr mua. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb mora guximin dhe e pyeta n\u00ebse ishte e lidhur. Ajo filloi t\u00eb qeshte dhe m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cJo vet\u00ebm e lidhur,\npor jam e martuar dhe e lumtur. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, kam edhe 2 f\u00ebmij\u00eb\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nuk po u besoja\natyre q\u00eb po d\u00ebgjoja, mendova se ishte shaka dhe vura edhe un\u00eb buz\u00ebn n\u00eb gaz, por\npas bised\u00ebs zbulova se ajo q\u00eb kisha d\u00ebgjuar prej saj ishte e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Ajo ishte\ne martuar. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment, m\u2019u duk sikur di\u00e7ka m\u2019u shemb mbi kok\u00eb. \u00cbndrrat e mia\nmor\u00ebn fund, ajo q\u00eb un\u00eb kisha dashur aq shum\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrkiste kurr\u00eb. Zbulova\nse kisha dashuruar njeriun e gabuar. Vendosa ta harroja dhe t\u00eb mos shpresoja m\u00eb\np\u00ebr t\u00eb, por ishte e pamundur, pasi punonim n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn kompani. Pas shum\u00eb e\nshum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjesh p\u00ebr ta harruar, nuk munda dot. Kaloi nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb e gjat\u00eb\nkohe dhe vendosa t\u00eb jepja dor\u00ebheqjen nga puna pasi nuk mund ta shihja dot m\u00eb, \u00e7mendesha\nnga xhelozia kur at\u00eb vinte e merrte i shoqi. Nuk ishte aspak faji i saj, por\nnj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht as imi, duke qen\u00eb se gjith\u00e7ka kishte ndodhur gradualisht. Koh\u00ebt e\nfundit e shihja shum\u00eb t\u00eb hutuar dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitur, doja q\u00eb ta pyesja dhe ta\nndihmoja disi p\u00ebr ta leht\u00ebsuar, pastaj hiqja dor\u00eb dhe mendoja se ishte e kot\u00eb,\npasi do t\u00eb l\u00ebndohesha m\u00eb shum\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb e pash\u00eb\nduke qar\u00eb dhe nuk rezistova dot; shqet\u00ebsimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb i fort\u00eb se un\u00eb dhe\nmenj\u00ebher\u00eb shkova q\u00eb ta pyesja se \u00e7far\u00eb kishte. Ajo, me lot n\u00eb sy, m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj\nse kishte probleme me t\u00eb shoqin. Ky lajm p\u00ebr mua ishte shum\u00eb i bukur, por ajo\nvuante. Fillova t\u2019i q\u00ebndroja pran\u00eb dhe t\u2019ia leht\u00ebsoja dhimbjen, duke shpresuar\nnj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht q\u00eb gj\u00ebrat do t\u00eb ishin n\u00eb avantazhin tim. Pavar\u00ebsisht se asaj nuk\nia kisha shprehur kurr\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjeja p\u00ebr t\u00eb, m\u00eb dukej sikur edhe ajo ndjente\nt\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb. Koha kalonte dhe un\u00eb kaloja edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb me t\u00eb. Tashm\u00eb\ngj\u00ebrat midis saj dhe t\u00eb shoqit ishin p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsuar dhe ata ishin duke u\ndivorcuar. Dit\u00ebn q\u00eb ajo m\u00eb rr\u00ebfeu se do t\u00eb divorcohej, un\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb fund gjeta\nguximin dhe i rr\u00ebfeva at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjeja p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Asaj iu mbush\u00ebn syt\u00eb me lot, m\u00eb\npreku n\u00eb faqe dhe m\u00eb tha q\u00eb isha i ri dhe kisha nj\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrpara. P\u00ebrse duhej\nta mbyllja jet\u00ebn me nj\u00eb grua me dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, do t\u00eb kishte\ngjithmon\u00eb probleme?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb se isha\ni gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb ndaja me t\u00eb \u00e7do vuajtje e \u00e7do problem q\u00eb do t\u00eb kishin. Fillimisht\nnuk pranoi t\u00eb lidheshim, derisa nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, kur ishte shum\u00eb e m\u00ebrzitur, m\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi\nq\u00eb t\u00eb takoheshim dhe ajo ishte dita e nata m\u00eb e bukur e jet\u00ebs sime, sepse e\nkisha n\u00eb krah\u00ebt e mi. Pavar\u00ebsisht se e dija shum\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb ajo nuk ndjente t\u00eb\nnj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb si un\u00eb, e ushqeva veten me shpres\u00ebn se do t\u00eb vinte dita kur edhe\najo do t\u00eb m\u00eb donte nj\u00eblloj si\u00e7 e doja edhe un\u00eb at\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pas shum\u00eb\nperipecish, tashm\u00eb ishim unik\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe ia kisha arritur q\u00ebllimit\nq\u00eb edhe ajo t\u00eb m\u00eb donte. Isha mashkulli m\u00eb i lumtur n\u00eb bot\u00eb, pasi kurr\u00eb nuk e\nhumba shpres\u00ebn q\u00eb ajo nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte e imja. Ashtu sikurse edhe\nfamiljar\u00ebt e mi, shum\u00eb nga ju do t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb q\u00eb jam nj\u00eb budalla q\u00eb kam vepruar\nk\u00ebshtu, duke qen\u00eb se ekzistojn\u00eb mij\u00ebra vajza beqare, por un\u00eb u dashurova me t\u00eb\ndhe p\u00ebr mua, nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi as mosha, as situata n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndodhen t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt,\npor m\u00eb interesojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm ndjenjat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un\u00eb jam njeriu m\u00eb i\nlumtur n\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb kam n\u00eb krah\u00ebt e mi gruan m\u00eb fisnike dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur n\u00eb bot\u00eb.\nSigurisht, jan\u00eb edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb i dua shum\u00eb dhe do t\u2019i konsideroj gjithmon\u00eb si\nt\u00eb mit\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb u njoha me syt\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur n\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe menj\u00ebher\u00eb, me shikim t\u00eb par\u00eb, u dashurova me vajz\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur q\u00eb kisha par\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, ne filluam t\u00eb dilnim bashk\u00eb si shok\u00eb, por ajo nuk i dinte ndjenjat q\u00eb un\u00eb kisha p\u00ebr t\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb edhe un\u00eb mundohesha [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21127,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[249],"class_list":["post-22191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22191"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22191\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21127"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22191"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}