{"id":22181,"date":"2019-04-20T21:30:26","date_gmt":"2019-04-20T19:30:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22181"},"modified":"2019-04-20T17:09:01","modified_gmt":"2019-04-20T15:09:01","slug":"%ef%bb%bfzbulo-perkedheljet-qe-do-te-zbusnin-cdo-burre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/%ef%bb%bfzbulo-perkedheljet-qe-do-te-zbusnin-cdo-burre\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffZbulo p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet q\u00eb do t\u00eb \u201czbusnin\u201d \u00e7do burr\u00eb\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Fjala \u201ct\u00eb dua\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e pagabueshme p\u00ebr t\u2019i treguar partnerit se e do, por p\u00ebr fat, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Disa gjeste, p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje dhe prekje mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb tek partneri but\u00ebsi, dhembshuri, pasion, joshje ose d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb mbrojtur dhe gjith\u00e7ka pa th\u00ebn\u00eb as edhe nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb vetme. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Mjafton t\u00eb v\u00ebsh n\u00eb praktik\u00eb nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje q\u00eb distanca mes teje dhe atij t\u00eb zhduket. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>K\u00ebt\u00eb nuk e themi ne, por specialist\u00ebt. Sipas tyre, secila nga k\u00ebto prekje v\u00eb n\u00eb l\u00ebvizje nj\u00eb reaksion kimik dhe biologjik n\u00eb trup, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb partneri t\u00eb ndjehet m\u00eb i lidhur me ty. Sigurisht secili nga k\u00ebto gjeste provokon nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb ndryshme (romantike, seksuale, mbrojt\u00ebse, etj). <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>N\u00eb vazhdim po t\u00eb shpjegojm\u00eb\ndisa nga k\u00ebto gjeste p\u00ebr t\u2019i v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb praktik\u00eb\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. V\u00ebr kok\u00ebn mbi supin e tij<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjest mjaft i \u00ebmb\u00ebl\ndhe delikat, mbi t\u00eb gjitha sepse afrimi tek supi i tij \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjest q\u00eb t\u00eb\nsjell nd\u00ebrmend dit\u00ebt e para t\u00eb lidhjes. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga hapat e afrimit fizik\nt\u00eb \u00e7ifteve q\u00eb sapo jan\u00eb njohur. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, n\u00ebse pas muajsh ose vitesh lidhjeje\nme partnerin afrohesh n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb me t\u00eb, do ta b\u00ebsh t\u00eb ndjej\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e\ndit\u00ebve t\u00eb para. Edhe di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr: Kur t\u2019i afrohesh dhe t\u00eb v\u00ebsh kok\u00ebn n\u00eb supin\ne tij v\u00ebr re n\u00ebse mbyll syt\u00eb. N\u00ebse e b\u00ebn, nuk ka dyshim q\u00eb ndjenja e but\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe\n\u00ebmb\u00eblsis\u00eb q\u00eb ti i provokon ka mbetur e pandryshuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. P\u00ebrk\u00ebdheli dor\u00ebn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Imagjino q\u00eb ti dhe partneri jeni\nduke darkuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb restorant dhe papritur t\u00eb pushton d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr ta puthur.\nMbase t\u00eb ka ndodhur m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb her\u00eb, por mendon se p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb\nvendi i duhur p\u00ebr k\u00ebto skena erotike. At\u00ebhere, mjafton t\u2019i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel\u00ebsh leht\u00eb\ndor\u00ebn, q\u00eb ta kuptoj\u00eb se po digjesh nga d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Rr\u00ebshqit ngadal\u00eb dor\u00ebn t\u00ebnde\nmbi t\u00eb tij\u00ebn dhe thuaji se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi burr\u00eb i jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde. Sipas gjuh\u00ebs\ns\u00eb trupit, n\u00ebse e v\u00eb dor\u00ebn e tij mbi t\u00ebnden do ta kuptoj\u00eb se ti ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr\nmbrojtje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. P\u00ebrk\u00ebdhele n\u00eb qaf\u00eb dhe flok\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pas nj\u00eb dite t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb pune,\nsigurisht q\u00eb t\u00eb dashurit t\u00ebnd i p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb masazh i gjat\u00eb. N\u00ebse ke mund\u00ebsi mund\nt\u2019ia b\u00ebsh, por duhet t\u00eb dish se vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr dy minuta mund t\u2019ia leht\u00ebsosh lodhjen\ndhe stresin duke i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur qaf\u00ebn dhe flok\u00ebt nga pas kok\u00ebs. Pjesa e poshtme\ne qaf\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e ndjeshme ndaj prekjes dhe ngroht\u00ebsis\u00eb. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, nj\u00eb\np\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje e thjesht\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb zon\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb q\u00eb partneri t\u00eb relaksohet dhe ta\npushtoj\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjesi rehatie. Dhe ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja: Kur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb\nharron lodhjen dhe tensionet, automatikisht zemra e tij hapet dhe, pa e kuptuar\nas vet\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb i aft\u00eb t\u00eb shpreh\u00eb emocione dhe d\u00ebshira. P\u00ebrfito kur ai t\u00eb jet\u00eb\npara kompjuterit ose televizorit p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetuar se ato q\u00eb t\u00eb tham\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. P\u00ebrqafoje shum\u00eb fort<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur ndahesh nga partneri, mos u\nmjafto me nj\u00eb puthje t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb. P\u00ebrqafoje me forc\u00eb p\u00ebr disa sekonda, me p\u00ebll\u00ebmb\u00ebt\ne duarve t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetura n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn e sip\u00ebrme t\u00eb kurrizit dhe bashkoje gjoksin t\u00ebnd\nme t\u00eb tijin. Kur v\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde pran\u00eb t\u00eb tij\u00ebs, po i d\u00ebrgon nj\u00eb mesazh sublim\nq\u00eb e do dhe kujdesesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, ky gjest zgjon d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e tij,\nsepse muskujt q\u00eb ndodhen te pjesa e sip\u00ebrme e kurrizit jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhur drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\nme qendr\u00ebn e k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb n\u00eb trurin e mashkullit. Presioni i duarve t\u00eb tua mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb\nzon\u00eb do t\u00eb stimuloj\u00eb pasionin e tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. Masazhoji leht\u00eb kok\u00ebn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00eb kujtohet skena e filmit\n\u201cKujtime nga Afrika\u201d, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn Meril Strip lan kok\u00ebn e Robert Redfordit?\nDuket shum\u00eb erotike dhe romantike. Arsyeja \u00ebsht\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00ebdo prekjeje ose p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljeje\nn\u00eb l\u00ebkur\u00ebn e kok\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb e k\u00ebndshme q\u00eb zgjon shum\u00eb ndjesi,\nsepse kjo zon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mbushur me mbaresa nervore. N\u00ebse do t\u2019i tregosh\npartnerit q\u00eb di si t\u00eb aktivizosh k\u00ebt\u00eb burim k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie, p\u00ebrfito nga nj\u00eb e diel\u00eb\nparadite kur t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb shtrat, p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb masazh. Me p\u00ebll\u00ebmb\u00ebt e dor\u00ebs\ndhe majat e gishtave b\u00ebj l\u00ebvizje rrethore n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kok\u00ebn. Kujto q\u00eb, sa m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe t\u00eb prek\u00ebsh, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb zona do t\u00eb stimulosh, pra, edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb\nk\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi do t\u00eb ndjej\u00eb partneri. Mundohu t\u2019u kushtosh v\u00ebmendje t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb zonave\naf\u00ebr fytyr\u00ebs dhe pjes\u00ebs s\u00eb poshtme t\u00eb qaf\u00ebs, sepse jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeshmet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6. T\u00ebrhiqi but\u00eb veshin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme\nt\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb sken\u00eb erotike n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit q\u00eb partneri t\u00eb veproj\u00eb. Megjith\u00ebse\nnuk e beson, mjafton t\u00eb dish t\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel\u00ebsh llap\u00ebn e veshit q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ndizet.\nKjo zon\u00eb, nj\u00ebsoj si p\u00ebll\u00ebmb\u00ebt e duarve dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebve, ka pika t\u00eb ndjeshme t\u00eb\nlidhura me pjes\u00eb t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb trupit. N\u00ebse i masazhon me l\u00ebvizje rrethore llap\u00ebn\ne veshit, je duke i aktivizuar energjin\u00eb e nj\u00eb \u201cpjese\u201d (se cil\u00ebs, e kuptoni vet\u00eb)\ntjet\u00ebr t\u00eb trupit brenda dy minutash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>7. Futi krahun<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur sh\u00ebtit me partnerin ti shpesh\ni fut krahun, megjith\u00ebse nuk e di pse e b\u00ebn. Kur nd\u00ebrthur krahun t\u00ebnd me t\u00eb\ntijin, ajo q\u00eb b\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb shtimi i siguris\u00eb s\u00eb tij, sepse n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb i thua\nse je krenare q\u00eb je gruaja (ose e fejuara) e tij dhe t\u00eb p\u00eblqen q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb shohin\np\u00ebrkrah tij. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, mendo se kur dy persona jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhur p\u00ebr krahu,\nsinkronizojn\u00eb edhe hapat. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre sh\u00ebtitjeve romantike\nai do t\u00eb ndjej\u00eb se lidhja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb totale, e p\u00ebrkryer, q\u00eb jeni nj\u00eb \u00e7ift i\nmrekulluesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb dy ndjeheni krenar\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>8. Kape p\u00ebr beli<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00ebr nj\u00eb burr\u00eb, beli \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga\nzonat m\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeshme. Kur i rrethon belin me krah dhe v\u00eb dor\u00ebn n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn e\nposhtme t\u00eb kurrizit ai ndjen nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht nj\u00eb afrim fizik dhe emocional.\nEkspert\u00ebt e gjuh\u00ebs trupore sigurojn\u00eb se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb zona m\u00eb e ndjeshme dhe s\u00eb cil\u00ebs\nnuk i kushtojm\u00eb aq kujdes sa duhet. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr kur t\u00eb vendos\u00ebsh\nt\u00eb kap\u00ebsh partnerin t\u00ebnd nga beli, b\u00ebje me kujdes. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme\nai do t\u00eb marr\u00eb mesazhin se nuk do ta l\u00ebndosh kurr\u00eb. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, pa e\nkuptuar as vet\u00eb p\u00ebrse, ai do t\u00eb ndjej\u00eb se mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb besim te ti dhe do t\u00eb\nafrohet me ty m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa e imagjinon. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, dashuria dhe sintonia me\npartnerin \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb nga \u00e7\u2019e imagjinojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>9. Prekja e faqes<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Megjith\u00ebse keni vite bashk\u00eb,\nakoma mund t\u00eb arrish ta b\u00ebsh partnerin t\u00ebnd q\u00eb t\u2019i dridhen gjunj\u00ebt nga k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia.\nSi? Mjafton t\u2019i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelsh me but\u00ebsi faqen, q\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehet p\u00ebrs\u00ebri i emocionuar\nsi n\u00eb fillim. Fal\u00eb k\u00ebtij gjesti delikat mbi fytyr\u00eb, partneri do ta ndjej\u00eb se\ndashuria juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma gjall\u00eb dhe ai vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb po aq romantik dhe\neksitues sa n\u00eb fillim. Her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, kur t\u00eb jeni duke par\u00eb televizor, p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheli\nfytyr\u00ebn pa th\u00ebn\u00eb asnj\u00eb fjal\u00eb. N\u00ebse e b\u00ebn papritur, ai do t\u00eb ndjehet si n\u00eb\ntakimet e para. \u00c7far\u00eb pret p\u00ebr ta v\u00ebrtetuar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet q\u00eb nuk u p\u00eblqejn\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. T\u2019i pickosh fytyr\u00ebn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kujdes vajza\u2026 Tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\nt\u2019i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel\u00ebsh fytyr\u00ebn ose t\u2019i t\u00ebrheq\u00ebsh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb delikate flok\u00ebt dhe tjet\u00ebr\ngj\u00eb ta kap\u00ebsh nga faqja ose nga hunda. N\u00ebse b\u00ebn k\u00ebto t\u00eb dytat do t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb se\npo e qorton p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka, si\u00e7 b\u00ebnte mamaja ose profesori i shkoll\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Ta kap\u00ebsh nga tulet e belit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kemi th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb beli \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga zonat\nm\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeshme, por nd\u00ebrsa nj\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb stimuluese, ta kap\u00ebsh\nnga tulet me forc\u00eb do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb humbas\u00eb besimin n\u00eb vetvete dhe do ta marr\u00eb si\nnj\u00eb qortim p\u00ebr kilet e tep\u00ebrta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. T\u2019i shtr\u00ebngosh fort dor\u00ebn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00ebse e kap p\u00ebrdore me but\u00ebsi dhe \u00ebmb\u00eblsi\ni tregon se je e dashuruar me t\u00eb, por n\u00ebse i shtr\u00ebngon dor\u00ebn sikur po takon nj\u00eb\nshok, situata do t\u2019i duket e ftoht\u00eb dhe agresive. Kjo mund ta b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb vihet n\u00eb\npozicionin e vet\u00ebmbrojtjes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. Ta gudulis\u00ebsh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Megjith\u00ebse mendon se p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelja\ne ngadalt\u00eb e shput\u00ebs s\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebs mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb seksi, e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se\nshum\u00eb djemve u duket nj\u00eb tortur\u00eb q\u00eb u shuan d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr seks. Mbase do t\u2019i provokosh\ndisa gudulisje t\u00eb bezdisshme dhe n\u00eb fund, d\u00ebshira e tij e vetme do t\u00eb ishte t\u00eb\nhiqje duart nga trupi i tij. &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fjala \u201ct\u00eb dua\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e pagabueshme p\u00ebr t\u2019i treguar partnerit se e do, por p\u00ebr fat, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja. Disa gjeste, p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje dhe prekje mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb tek partneri but\u00ebsi, dhembshuri, pasion, joshje ose d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb mbrojtur dhe gjith\u00e7ka pa th\u00ebn\u00eb as edhe nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb vetme. 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