{"id":22141,"date":"2019-04-18T18:00:35","date_gmt":"2019-04-18T16:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22141"},"modified":"2019-04-18T11:46:54","modified_gmt":"2019-04-18T09:46:54","slug":"me-tradhetoi-me-nje-djale-sa-femijet-e-vet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/me-tradhetoi-me-nje-djale-sa-femijet-e-vet\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00eb tradh\u00ebtoi me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb sa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vet!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje miq t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj, jam nj\u00eb baba 40 vje\u00e7ar, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>i p\u00ebrkushtuar, q\u00eb p\u00ebr vite me radh\u00eb kam qen\u00eb besnik ndaj familjes dhe jam munduar gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs t\u00eb kem nj\u00eb sjellje perfekte, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>mir\u00ebpo kjo gj\u00eb duket sikur nuk mjafton n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shoq\u00ebri mashtruese q\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk arrin t\u2019ia shikosh edhe pas shum\u00eb viteve bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam S. dhe kam jetuar p\u00ebr vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra n\u00eb kryeqytet. U b\u00ebn\u00eb dy vite q\u00eb jetoj n\u00eb Durr\u00ebs, n\u00eb bregdet, sepse nuk mund t\u00eb jetoja m\u00eb n\u00eb pafytyr\u00ebsin\u00eb e kryeqytetit dhe t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb aty. Si\u00e7 ju thash\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, un\u00eb isha i martuar prej disa vitesh dhe kisha dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm. Familja jon\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb familje e thjesht\u00eb, prej kat\u00ebr pjes\u00ebtar\u00ebsh dhe un\u00eb e gruaja ishim shtyllat e familjes. Jam munduar gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb mbaj nj\u00eb ekuilib\u00ebr mes meje dhe saj sepse n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mendoja do t\u00eb kishim nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb past\u00ebr e nj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb. Un\u00eb isha shum\u00eb i hapur me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe mundohesha t\u00eb flisja \u00e7do gj\u00eb me ta, p\u00ebr t\u2019i mbajtur af\u00ebr. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz m\u00eb p\u00ebrg\u00ebzonin e m\u00eb thoshin \u201csi familja juaj nuk ka\u201d. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb isha shum\u00eb i lumtur sepse n\u00eb fasad\u00ebn e falsitetit, ku un\u00eb jetoja, nuk i kuptoja gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb m\u00eb ndodhnin mbas shpine. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb bukur un\u00eb po pija kafe me ca miq t\u00eb lagjes dhe ngrihesha e ulesha nga lokali pasi kisha pun\u00eb te mekaniku aty af\u00ebr. Nj\u00ebri nga burrat me t\u00eb cilin po rrija rast\u00ebsisht, kur kaloi gruaja ime aty, duke menduar se un\u00eb kisha l\u00ebvizur, tha: \u201cSa ku\u00e7k\u00eb grua q\u00eb nuk l\u00eb gj\u00eb pa b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe ia b\u00ebn burrit 8 me 2!\u201d. Un\u00eb dhe shok\u00ebt e tavolin\u00ebs mbas meje, shtang\u00ebn. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb m\u00eb kishin v\u00ebn\u00eb re q\u00eb isha kthyer dhe un\u00eb b\u00ebra habi si ma tha k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb n\u00eb sy. U ngrita dhe u p\u00ebrlesha me fjal\u00eb me at\u00eb. Ai i mohoi direkt fjal\u00ebt e th\u00ebna dhe m\u00eb tha se nuk e kishte pasur p\u00ebr gruan time sepse aty nuk po kalonte vet\u00ebm ajo. Ika n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi i nxehur n\u00eb maksimum dhe debatova me gruan, duke i treguar \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Ajo qeshi me t\u00eb madhe dhe m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr nj\u00eb familje shembullore si e jona, sepse duan t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb shok\u00eb. N\u00eb familjet e veta, \u00e7far\u00eb nuk po u ndodh!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u00ebto fjal\u00eb i\nmora p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebqena, edhe pse n\u00eb zem\u00ebr nuk isha i qart\u00eb. Gjith\u00eb nat\u00ebn nuk vura\ngjum\u00eb n\u00eb sy. U m\u00ebrzita sa nuk ka m\u00eb. Disa shok\u00eb t\u00eb mit\u00eb m\u00eb than\u00eb se ai fliste\nnga inati, por argumentet q\u00eb ata m\u00eb dhan\u00eb, nuk ishin aspak t\u00eb besueshme dhe\nfillova t\u00eb kisha dyshimet e mia. Kaluan shum\u00eb dit\u00eb nga ai incident dhe un\u00eb nuk\nisha i qet\u00eb. Vazhdova t\u00eb pyesja miqt\u00eb tan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt dhe ata m\u00eb lan\u00eb t\u00eb\nkuptohej se n\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishte di\u00e7ka e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ata nuk do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb ma thonin\naq hapur. Kunata ime i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb v\u00ebllait se kishte d\u00ebgjuar di\u00e7ka, por q\u00eb nuk\nkishte qejf t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhynte n\u00eb familjet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Dy djemt\u00eb ishin t\u00eb rritur\ndhe m\u00eb vinte turp nga vetja p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb mendoja. Un\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk e kisha\ntradhtuar gruan time, pasi ishim dashuruar q\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl dhe me shum\u00eb sakrifica,\ne kishim marr\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Dit\u00ebt dhe or\u00ebt me t\u00eb pran\u00eb ishin t\u00eb mbushura me dyshime.\nVendosa t\u00eb shkoja tek AMC-ja dhe t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoja nj\u00eb nder personal nj\u00eb mikut tim.\nAi m\u00eb tha se nuk b\u00ebhej dhe se nuk mund t\u00eb hapte arkiva pa b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb\nkall\u00ebzim penal dhe se zgjidhja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb ishte t\u2019i vija nj\u00eb num\u00ebr me kontrat\u00eb.\nN\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, fatura, para se t\u00eb d\u00ebrgohej tek ajo, do t\u00eb kalonte n\u00eb dor\u00ebn\ntime. Ashtu b\u00ebra. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb vere, ika dhe mora p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb familjen numra me\nkontrat\u00eb. \u00c7unat u g\u00ebzuan shum\u00eb, por ajo nuk dukej e lumtur. Kur e pyeta se pse\nnuk u k\u00ebnaq p\u00ebr dhurat\u00ebn q\u00eb i b\u00ebra, ajo insistoi q\u00eb t\u00eb mbante numrin e vjet\u00ebr.\nKjo m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb mendoja dhe i thash\u00eb se mund t\u2019i mbante t\u00eb dy. Kaluan dy muaj\ndhe n\u00eb telefonin me kontrat\u00eb vinin vet\u00ebm telefonatat e shoqeve t\u00eb pun\u00ebs, pasi\najo ishte infermiere te materniteti. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb un\u00eb e mblodha disi mendjen\ndhe mendova se gjith\u00eb ai dyshim ishte i kot\u00eb pasi un\u00eb as n\u00eb raportin ton\u00eb\nbashk\u00ebshortor, nuk kisha v\u00ebn\u00eb re ftohje nga ana e saj. Ishte data 1 gusht dhe\nne, pas pak dit\u00ebsh, do t\u00eb niseshim me pushime n\u00eb det. Un\u00eb aty kisha nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi\nt\u00eb vog\u00ebl q\u00eb e kisha bler\u00eb me kursimet e mia dhe, sa her\u00eb vinte vera, rrinim m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb atje sesa n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Mblodh\u00ebm \u00e7do gj\u00eb dhe para se t\u00eb niseshim, gruaja do\nt\u00eb shkonte t\u00eb na blinte gj\u00ebrat e fundit q\u00eb na mungonin p\u00ebr pushime. E hipa n\u00eb\nmakin\u00eb pasi edhe un\u00eb do t\u00eb dilja t\u00eb nd\u00ebrroja gomat e makin\u00ebs. E zbrita te tregu\ni fruta-perimeve dhe p\u00ebr vete po shikoja ndonj\u00eb gomisteri t\u00eb af\u00ebrt. Pash\u00eb rreth\ne rrotull, por nuk kishte dhe vendosa t\u00eb shkoja te nj\u00eb aty af\u00ebr pun\u00ebs sime.\nSapo mora kthes\u00ebn, pash\u00eb nj\u00eb makin\u00eb q\u00eb e kisha par\u00eb shum\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb lagje, nj\u00eb\nfuoristrad\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb kaloi p\u00ebrbri me nxitim dhe mendova me vete se pse nxitonte aq\nshum\u00eb. Nuk arrita t\u00eb shihja mir\u00eb, vet\u00ebm vura re q\u00eb ai djali kishte dik\u00eb n\u00eb\nsediljen e pasme. U habita se pse duhet t\u00eb m\u00eb kalonin me aq nxitim kur u fut\u00ebn\nvet\u00ebm te nj\u00eb kthes\u00eb m\u00eb posht\u00eb. I b\u00ebra telefon gruas p\u00ebr ta pyetur ku ishte e n\u00ebse\ndo t\u00eb vonohej shum\u00eb dhe nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, po shkoja te gomisteria. Nuk ma hapi\ntelefonin dhe m\u00eb ktheu pas 10 minutash nj\u00eb mesazh: &#8220;Do t\u00eb vonoj pak sepse\npo i zgjedh t\u00eb fresk\u00ebta, por ti vazhdo p\u00ebr n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi se ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb\ntakoj edhe Drit\u00ebn (kunat\u00ebn) e t\u2019i jap nj\u00eb kafe\u201d. Kur e pash\u00eb un\u00eb mesazhin, kishte\nkaluar gjysm\u00eb ore sepse po merresha me gomat dhe nuk e kisha v\u00ebn\u00eb re. Mbaruam\naty dhe un\u00eb, duke e ditur q\u00eb mbasdite do niseshim p\u00ebr rrug\u00eb, i telefonova p\u00ebr t\u2019i\nth\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn t\u00eb nxitonte. Zemra po m\u00eb thoshte di\u00e7ka, edhe pse nuk isha i\nbindur e nuk doja t\u00eb gabohesha. Ndjeja nj\u00eb ankth t\u00eb pap\u00ebrshkruesh\u00ebm, por fajin ia\nlija edhe vetes sepse ndoshta shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra ia kisha ngulitur vetes pa dashur. E\nmora n\u00eb telefon dhe m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj. E pyeta ku ishte dhe m\u00eb tha se ishte akoma n\u00eb\ntreg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Mir\u00eb, &#8211; i\nthash\u00eb, &#8211; po vij t\u00eb t\u00eb marr!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Jo, mos\nhajde se kam edhe pak pun\u00eb! &#8211; m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj dhe m\u00eb tha se do m\u00eb merrte kur t\u00eb\nmbaronte, q\u00eb t\u00eb shkoja p\u00ebr ta marr\u00eb. Aty fillova t\u00eb dyshoja. Mora v\u00ebllain n\u00eb\ntelefon dhe e pyeta n\u00ebse gruaja e tij kishte dal\u00eb p\u00ebr kafe. \u201cJo, m\u00eb tha, \u00ebsht\u00eb\nn\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, po m\u00eb b\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb\u201d. E pyeta n\u00ebse gruaja ime t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn e kishte\nftuar dhe v\u00ebllai e pyeti, por kunata tha se nuk i kishte r\u00ebn\u00eb telefonit. N\u00eb\nmoment e kuptova se di\u00e7ka po ndodhte. Ika n\u00eb kthes\u00ebn q\u00eb kishte marr\u00eb ajo makina\ndhe p\u00ebr fat, ishte nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb e vetme e ngusht\u00eb pallatesh. Parkova makin\u00ebn diku\naty dhe dola n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb. I rash\u00eb telefonit, por ajo nuk m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj m\u00eb. Mendja\nm\u00eb shkonte te m\u00eb e keqja. Imagjinoja kur ajo t\u00eb m\u00eb kalonte aty dhe thoja me\nvete se do t\u2019i dilja makin\u00ebs para derisa t\u00eb ndalej. Q\u00ebndrova edhe 20 minuta t\u00eb\ntjera aty dhe nuk kishte asnj\u00eb l\u00ebvizje t\u00eb makin\u00ebs, kur papritur e pash\u00eb nga\nlarg tek vinte p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb n\u00eb krye t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs. Nuk u mendova shum\u00eb dhe mora nga\nmakina pistolet\u00ebn q\u00eb e mbaja p\u00ebrher\u00eb p\u00ebr arsye sigurie. Ata erdh\u00ebn deri n\u00eb\nnj\u00ebfar\u00eb pike, nd\u00ebrsa kur m\u00eb pan\u00eb, ndaluan p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00ebse isha un\u00eb. Un\u00eb e vura\nre q\u00eb ndaluan dhe desh\u00ebn t\u00eb ecnin mbrapsht. U sula n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb kur \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb shikoja? K\u00ebmb\u00ebt\nm\u2019u pren\u00eb kur pash\u00eb n\u00eb timon nj\u00eb djalosh e shumta 25 vje\u00e7. Kur i drejtova\npistolet\u00ebn, ai ndali dhe zbriti n\u00eb tok\u00eb duke u dridhur. Ajo u mundua t\u00eb strukej\npas sediljes. I thash\u00eb: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Dil sepse q\u00eb\nnga fillimi e kam ditur se ku je! T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, a b\u00ebre qejf para se t\u00eb nisemi p\u00ebr\npushime?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Z\u00ebri po m\u00eb\ndridhej dhe nj\u00eb mendje m\u00eb thoshte t\u2019i vrisja t\u00eb dy e t\u2019i lija aty, por mendova\n\u00e7unat e mi q\u00eb do t\u2019i lija n\u00eb rrug\u00eb dhe nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, rruga u mbush me kalimtar\u00eb.\nAjo doli e p\u00ebrlotur duke m\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar falje. Djali i ri m\u2019u ul n\u00eb gjunj\u00eb e m\u00eb\nthoshte se nuk e kishte ditur q\u00eb ajo ishte e martuar, mir\u00ebpo k\u00ebto i thoshte\nvet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar nga situata. E kapa p\u00ebr flok\u00ebsh gruan time dhe e futa n\u00eb\nmakin\u00eb. Atij djalit i thash\u00eb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Bravo t\u00eb\nqoft\u00eb se asnj\u00eb faj nuk ke ti, joooo! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ika drejt e\nn\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. \u00c7unat ishin aty dhe, kur e pan\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrlotur e mua t\u00eb \u00e7mendur n\u00eb\nat\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, filluan t\u00eb pyesnin se \u00e7far\u00eb kishte ndodhur. Nuk u dhash\u00eb asnj\u00eb\nshpjegim, vet\u00ebm e futa n\u00eb dhom\u00eb dhe e godita sa forc\u00eb kisha. E di, gabova sepse\nnuk duhej t\u2019i ndyeja duart n\u00eb at\u00eb trup m\u00ebkatar q\u00eb na kishte hedhur posht\u00eb t\u00eb\ngjith\u00ebve p\u00ebr flirte me adoleshent\u00eb, por ja q\u00eb situata shkoi aq r\u00ebnd\u00eb sa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\nthirr\u00ebn policin\u00eb. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb e mor\u00ebn vesh se \u00e7far\u00eb kishte ndodhur. N\u00eb fakt, t\u00eb\ngjith\u00eb e dinin. At\u00eb dit\u00eb, vet\u00ebm un\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kishim marr\u00eb vesh di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Njer\u00ebzit e\nmi dhe shoq\u00ebria m\u00eb than\u00eb se nuk kishin se si t\u00eb ma thonin pasi un\u00eb mburresha\ngjithmon\u00eb me gruan dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi. N\u00eb mendjen time un\u00eb kisha krijuar familjen\nperfekte dhe kurr\u00eb nuk e kisha ditur se ka edhe njer\u00ebz t\u00eb till\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb\ninstikteve, hedhin posht\u00eb vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra dashurie, edhe pse tani isha i bindur se\nn\u00eb gjith\u00eb ato vite, vet\u00ebm un\u00eb kisha dashuruar v\u00ebrtet. Ajo nuk m\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi kurr\u00eb\nt\u00eb falur, madje as djemve nuk u ka k\u00ebrkuar. Iku t\u00eb jetonte tek e motra, pa na\nth\u00ebn\u00eb lamtumir\u00eb. Jam i bindur se ndjenja e fajit do ta rob\u00ebroj\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn\ndhe shpresoj t\u2019i ndodh\u00eb k\u00ebshtu. Mendoj se edhe pse gjendja e saj fizike ishte e\nr\u00ebnduar, i takonte t\u2019u jepte nj\u00eb shpjegim t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Un\u00eb ua shpjegova\ngjith\u00eb situat\u00ebn pasi ata nuk ishin shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl sesa djali me t\u00eb cilin m\u00eb\nkishte tradhtuar, mir\u00ebpo ajo si n\u00ebn\u00eb duhet t\u2019ua thoshte versionin e saj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pas ndarjes,\nt\u00eb gjith\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrg\u00ebzuan, vet\u00ebm se pas ndarjes, un\u00eb nuk kisha m\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr\nfjal\u00ebt e tyre. Shoq\u00ebria ime e mir\u00eb dhe miqt\u00eb e mi m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt, nuk duhet ta\nkishin lejuar familjen time t\u00eb shkonte deri n\u00eb at\u00eb grad\u00eb. Po t\u2019i kishte ndodhur\nnj\u00eb mikut tim, un\u00eb do t\u00eb kisha vepruar ndryshe, por kjo tashm\u00eb nuk ka m\u00eb\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsi sepse n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb, kur nuk ke gruan p\u00ebr vete, nuk mund t\u2019i kesh as\nmiqt\u00eb e ask\u00ebnd tjet\u00ebr. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>U b\u00ebn\u00eb dy\nvjet q\u00eb un\u00eb dhe djemt\u00eb kemi ardhur dhe jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb Durr\u00ebs. U b\u00ebn\u00eb dy vjet q\u00eb\njeta jon\u00eb ka ndryshuar totalisht. Tani, p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi, un\u00eb jam edhe baba,\nedhe n\u00ebn\u00eb. Edhe pse ka raste kur ndihemi tre meshkuj t\u00eb vet\u00ebm, e dim\u00eb q\u00eb\ndashuria q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri tjetrin \u00ebsht\u00eb e past\u00ebr. Ata nuk duan m\u00eb t\u2019ia din\u00eb\np\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn dhe un\u00eb as kam dashur ta di m\u00eb, as me \u00e7far\u00eb merret, as \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebn. Vet\u00ebm\nnj\u00eb gj\u00eb nuk ia b\u00ebj hallall: Tradhtin\u00eb me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb sa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vet! Kjo ka\ntreguar se ajo p\u00ebr mua nuk ka ndjer\u00eb kurr\u00eb dashuri dhe se n\u00eb momentin kur ne\nishim m\u00eb mir\u00eb, k\u00ebrkonte nga jeta di\u00e7ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk mund t\u2019ia jepja\nm\u00eb un\u00eb. I them me gjith\u00eb zem\u00ebr: \u201cQofsh p\u00ebrjet\u00eb e mallkuar sepse na shkat\u00ebrrove!\u201d.\nUn\u00eb nuk martohem m\u00eb sepse jetoj me dashurin\u00eb time dhe \u00e7unat e mi, por jam\nkurioz t\u00eb di, ti me k\u00eb jeton?! A thua ata djemt\u00eb e rinj vijn\u00eb t\u00eb t\u2019i thajn\u00eb\nlot\u00ebt kur ndihesh vet\u00ebm, apo ata tashm\u00eb nuk t\u00eb p\u00ebrfillin m\u00eb as p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb qejfet\ne tyre?! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kjo histori\ndhe sidomos rreshtat e fundit, shkojn\u00eb si dedikim p\u00ebr Led\u00ebn! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje miq t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj, jam nj\u00eb baba 40 vje\u00e7ar, i p\u00ebrkushtuar, q\u00eb p\u00ebr vite me radh\u00eb kam qen\u00eb besnik ndaj familjes dhe jam munduar gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs t\u00eb kem nj\u00eb sjellje perfekte, mir\u00ebpo kjo gj\u00eb duket sikur nuk mjafton n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shoq\u00ebri mashtruese q\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk arrin t\u2019ia shikosh [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21406,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[95],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22141","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-rrefime-mekatesh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22141","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22141"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22141\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21406"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22141"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22141"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22141"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}