{"id":22138,"date":"2019-04-18T12:00:21","date_gmt":"2019-04-18T10:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22138"},"modified":"2019-04-18T11:39:57","modified_gmt":"2019-04-18T09:39:57","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-83","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/astrologia-shpjegon-83\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon..!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

M\u00eb bleu shum\u00eb unaza<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur babai m\u00eb kishte bler\u00eb shum\u00eb unaza, nga nj\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do gisht t\u00eb dor\u00ebs. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ishin si nj\u00eb set. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un\u00eb mora nj\u00eb dhe e provova te gishti i fejes\u00ebs, por nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu shum\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb dukej sikur m\u00eb rrinte shum\u00eb i madh dhe gjithashtu, modeli nuk ma mbushte syrin. Pastaj erdhi mami dhe ia tregova unazat, duke provuar p\u00ebrs\u00ebri t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn unaz\u00eb. Edhe mami im, e p\u00eblqeu shum\u00eb. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje nga ju, ju lutem. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Unaza\nka vler\u00eb simbolike dhe shpesh, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson ndryshim, vazhdim\u00ebsi, d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb\ndal\u00eb nga rrethi, n\u00ebse jeni n\u00eb monotoni. N\u00eb rastin tuaj, simbolikisht, shpreh d\u00ebshir\u00ebn\ntuaj p\u00ebr nj\u00eb bashkim t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm me fatin. Ju d\u00ebshironi q\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb\nlidhjen tuaj t\u00eb jet\u00eb zyrtare dhe t\u2019u tregoni edhe atyre q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb se ju\ntashm\u00eb e arrit\u00ebt at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi. Ju keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni rrethin tuaj\nfamiljar dhe t\u00eb forconi akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb lidhjet me personin e zemr\u00ebs. Keni shum\u00eb\nkandidat\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb e tregon fakti q\u00eb keni marr\u00eb shum\u00eb unaza, ama\nvet\u00ebm nj\u00eb person ju p\u00eblqen m\u00eb shum\u00eb se askush tjet\u00ebr. Babai, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, tregon\nq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb person q\u00eb zgjedhjen jua l\u00eb juve n\u00eb dor\u00eb, pasi ka shum\u00eb besim te\nju. Gjer k\u00ebtu, \u00ebndrra \u00ebsht\u00eb e bukur, ama fakti q\u00eb keni v\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb unaz\u00eb e cila ju\nrrinte pak e madhe, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb keni kujdes se mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni zgjedhjen e\ngabuar e cila n\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme, mund t\u2019ju sjell\u00eb shum\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjime, nd\u00ebrsa mami q\u00eb\nkeni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, tregon dashurin\u00eb e pakusht\u00ebzuar, ngroht\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe mb\u00ebshtetjen\nq\u00eb do ta keni gjithnj\u00eb nga ajo. Pra, mesazhi p\u00ebr ju \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i qart\u00eb: B\u00ebni\nnj\u00eb hap mbrapa, para se t\u00eb vendosni p\u00ebrfundimisht p\u00ebr zgjedhjen e unaz\u00ebs s\u00eb\nduhur. Ndoshta duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni edhe ndihm\u00ebn e prind\u00ebrve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zjarri<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ju lutem, a mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb\nsimbolizon zjarri n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? Shoh shpesh \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla, me zjarr e me tym,\nsikur luftoj. Nuk e marr vesh pse m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shpifur kjo lloj \u00ebndrre pothuajse \u00e7do\nnat\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Zjarri\nka dy kuptime, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shenj\u00eb depresioni, por edhe shenj\u00eb e fatit dhe e g\u00ebzimit,\nvaret gjithnj\u00eb nga konteksti i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs. Mund t\u00eb ndodheni n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb ku ju\npo ndrydhni brenda vetes shum\u00eb ndjesi dhe do t\u00eb vij\u00eb shum\u00eb shpejt dita q\u00eb do t\u00eb\nshp\u00ebrtheni, por rrezikoni t\u00eb l\u00ebndoni veten dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb.\nNdiheni t\u00eb paqart\u00eb, t\u00eb pasigurt\u00eb dhe keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00ebn e dikujt, ama nuk\ne k\u00ebrkoni dhe ndoshta kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse e shikoni shpesh zjarrin, sepse\njeni t\u00eb mbushur nga brenda dhe keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shp\u00ebrtheni, por jo duke mbjell\u00eb\ndhimbje. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se zjarri ka qen\u00eb i shndritsh\u00ebm, at\u00ebhere \u00ebsht\u00eb shenj\u00eb pozitive\nsepse tregon fat t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen. N\u00ebse ka qen\u00eb zjarr i shoq\u00ebruar me tym,\ntregon p\u00ebr nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb e t\u00eb dyshimt\u00eb dhe nuk jeni t\u00eb qart\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb\npo ndodh ose se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb rreth jush. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se keni par\u00eb vet\u00ebm\nzjarr, pa tym fare, at\u00ebhere ju pret nj\u00eb g\u00ebzim i papritur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kam par\u00eb ushtar\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam Alda. Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr para dy\nnet\u00ebsh ushtar\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt m\u00eb kishin rrethuar dhe m\u00eb thonin: \u201cUshtrohu si ne,\nduhet t\u00eb disiplinohesh, se na e hoqe mendjen\u201d. Un\u00eb nuk jam n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb policie,\nndaj edhe u habita kur i pash\u00eb. Gjith\u00eb nat\u00ebn kam par\u00eb ushtar\u00eb. Ju lutem, m\u00eb\nthoni, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E\ndashur Alda, meshkujt ushtar\u00eb q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ju paralajm\u00ebrojn\u00eb p\u00ebr vet\u00ebdisiplin\u00eb,\nsepse mund t\u00eb jeni ju ajo q\u00eb provokon turbullira dhe grindje rreth vetes. Duhet\nt\u2019i kushtoni vetes m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, t\u00eb vet\u00ebkontrolloheni, sepse po ju del\nsituata nga duart dhe fare mir\u00eb mund t\u00eb humbni ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr\nju. Duhet t\u00eb tregoni an\u00ebn tuaj m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe t\u00eb lini m\u00ebnjan\u00eb grindjet e t\u00ebrheqjen\ne v\u00ebmendjes n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet sherreve. Ju jeni fem\u00ebr dhe keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb\nreputacion tjet\u00ebr, ndryshe nga ajo \u00e7far\u00eb keni menduar ju se e t\u00ebrheq v\u00ebmendjen.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Engj\u00ebjt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr engj\u00ebj t\u00eb cil\u00ebt m\u00eb\nafroheshin dhe m\u00eb thonin: \u201cNa ke af\u00ebr, mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetesh te ne. Mos ki frik\u00eb,\npor na lejo t\u00eb t\u00eb duam e t\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmojm\u00eb\u201d. Ishte tamam engj\u00ebll me krah\u00eb, si\u00e7 i\nshohim n\u00ebp\u00ebr filma. Pres nj\u00eb parashikim, ju lutem, k\u00ebt\u00eb jav\u00eb. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Engj\u00ebjt\nn\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb dhembshurin\u00eb, vet\u00ebdijen, p\u00ebrkujdesjen, figur\u00ebn prind\u00ebrore,\ndashurin\u00eb, nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr mbrojtje etj. Ju po kaloni nj\u00eb moment delikat, ndiheni i\/e\ntrishtuar dhe keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb dashuri, sidomos nga familja. Jeni n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim\nt\u00eb nj\u00eb figure prind\u00ebrore dhe mb\u00ebshtetjeje, por edhe n\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit nuk jan\u00eb me\nju, pran\u00eb jush \u00ebsht\u00eb dikush q\u00eb mjafton t\u2019i zgjasni dor\u00ebn dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb gati t\u2019ju\nfal\u00eb gjith\u00eb dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn keni nevoj\u00eb. Mjafton t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb i\/e hapur\ndhe t\u00eb pranoni ndihm\u00ebn e dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb ju ofrohet. Jeni me fat, prandaj nuk\nduhet t\u00eb trishtoheni. Engj\u00ebjt, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, jan\u00eb shenj\u00eb pozitive p\u00ebr t\u00eb\ntashmen dhe t\u00eb ardhmen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fytyr\u00eb e \u00e7ar\u00eb dhe gjak<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb ta shoh\u00ebsh veten n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nsikur e ke fytyr\u00ebn t\u00eb \u00e7ar\u00eb dhe t\u00eb rrjedh gjak? Ama, nuk kisha fare dhimbje. E\npreka fytyr\u00ebn dhe nuk m\u2019u b\u00ebn\u00eb duart me gjak, edhe pse e kisha plot me t\u00eb \u00e7ara.\nNdodhesha n\u00eb nj\u00eb ambient ku mbizot\u00ebronte bardh\u00ebsia. Pres nj\u00eb parashikim se jam\ne shqet\u00ebsuar. Faleminderit. Klara.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E\ndashur Klara, s\u00eb pari, nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni, mendoni se ishte thjesht nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr.\n\u00cbndrra q\u00eb keni par\u00eb me fytyr\u00ebn, tregon koh\u00ebn e tanishme, aktivitetet e p\u00ebrditshme,\nndonj\u00eb person fallco q\u00eb sillet rreth jush, ndjesit\u00eb tuaja etj. \u00c7do pjes\u00eb e\ntrupit t\u00eb njeriut \u00ebsht\u00eb e nd\u00ebrlidhur me gjendjen shpirt\u00ebrore, ekzistenciale dhe\npik\u00ebpamjet tona. Fytyra \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb shikoni ju te vetja n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme.\nN\u00eb rastin tuaj, do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb ndiheshit ndryshe q\u00eb edhe t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse\ndhe t\u00eb keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendje, gj\u00eb q\u00eb duket sikur ju mungon koh\u00ebt e fundit. Nga\nana tjet\u00ebr, tregon q\u00eb jeni v\u00ebrtet e zem\u00ebruar dhe e brengosur, ndoshta me\npersonin e zemr\u00ebs. Ju duket sikur \u00ebsht\u00eb faji juaj, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu.\nJu jeni nj\u00eb person i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm dhe e ardhmja juaj paraqitet shum\u00eb e mir\u00eb.\nGjaku simbolizon fuqin\u00eb q\u00eb keni, si dhe fakti q\u00eb s\u2019keni ndjer\u00eb dhimbje, do t\u00eb\nthot\u00eb q\u00eb keni karakter t\u00eb fort\u00eb. Derdhja e gjakut, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb gjithashtu q\u00eb\ngjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb; edhe hidh\u00ebrimi, edhe zem\u00ebrimi dhe do t\u00eb vijn\u00eb dit\u00ebt e\nbukura, ashtu si\u00e7 ju d\u00ebshironi. P\u00ebr momentin, ndiheni e r\u00ebn\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrisht, por\nkeni p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb q\u00eb shum\u00eb shpejt do t\u00eb dilni nga kjo gjendje dhe do t\u00eb ndiheni\nm\u00eb mir\u00eb se kurr\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm se di\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e qart\u00eb: Kushdoqoft\u00eb ai person p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb cilin ju shqet\u00ebsoheni shum\u00eb dhe q\u00eb e konsideroni person t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb\nshum\u00eb i drejt\u00eb me ju. Ju jeni e past\u00ebr n\u00eb shpirt, e pafajshme dhe sjellja juaj\nndaj tij \u00ebsht\u00eb po e till\u00eb. Mjedisi i bardh\u00eb tregon shpirtin tuaj t\u00eb bukur, por\nq\u00eb nuk vler\u00ebsohet si\u00e7 duhet nga pala tjet\u00ebr. At\u00ebhere, hiqni dor\u00eb sa jeni ende n\u00eb\nkoh\u00eb, sepse di\u00e7ka m\u00eb e bukur ju pret. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

M\u00eb bleu shum\u00eb unaza – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur babai m\u00eb kishte bler\u00eb shum\u00eb unaza, nga nj\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do gisht t\u00eb dor\u00ebs. Ishin si nj\u00eb set. Un\u00eb mora nj\u00eb dhe e provova te gishti i fejes\u00ebs, por nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu shum\u00eb. M\u00eb dukej sikur m\u00eb rrinte shum\u00eb i madh dhe gjithashtu, modeli nuk ma […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21160,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-22138","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22138","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22138"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22138\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21160"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22138"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22138"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22138"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}