\ufeffI telefonova t\u00eb dashurit<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Ju lutem, a mund t\u00eb m\u00eb shpjegoni k\u00ebto dy \u00ebndrra q\u00eb kam par\u00eb: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n 1. Mora n\u00eb telefon t\u00eb dashurin dhe m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj e motra, q\u00eb realisht, nuk e njoh. Ngaq\u00eb d\u00ebgjova z\u00eb femre, isha gati ta shaja.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n 2. N\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb, kam par\u00eb sikur kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7un me t\u00eb dashurin dhe ishim t\u00eb ndar\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Djalin e mbaja un\u00eb dhe sikur e kisha d\u00ebrguar te sht\u00ebpia e t\u00eb dashurit, q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte numrin e k\u00ebtij t\u00eb fundit. A mund t\u00eb m\u00eb tregoni, \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thon\u00eb? Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – <\/strong>\u00cbndrrat tuaja,\nsi e para, ashtu edhe e dyta, tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj shqet\u00ebsimi q\u00eb keni brenda jush,\nn\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb person. Nuk jeni shum\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqur nga lidhja q\u00eb keni, sepse k\u00ebrkoni\nm\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa thjesht lidhje, k\u00ebrkoni seriozitetin, q\u00eb nuk arrini ta gjeni si\u00e7\nduhet. Kjo gj\u00eb ju b\u00ebn shpesh t\u00eb dyshoni n\u00eb lidhje me t\u00eb dashurin. N\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen\ndo t\u00eb shp\u00ebrthej\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb xhelozie mes jush, nga ndonj\u00eb keqkuptim ose\nprovokim nga ana e tij. Djali i vog\u00ebl q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, jeni po ju, q\u00eb keni nevoj\u00eb\np\u00ebr v\u00ebmendje dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtim nga ana e tij. Ju, me mendjen tuaj, b\u00ebni\nshum\u00eb plane, por ai nuk p\u00ebrfshihet, ndaj do t\u00eb kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb brisht\u00eb q\u00eb\nnga ana tjet\u00ebr, do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb reflektoni akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb mbi lidhjen q\u00eb\nkeni. Ju urojm\u00eb fat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sht\u00ebpi, shi dhe d\u00ebbor\u00eb…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Para disa net\u00ebsh, kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nsikur kisha shkuar p\u00ebr vizit\u00eb te xhaxhai; nuk ishim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tij, por n\u00eb\nnj\u00eb nd\u00ebrtes\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, ende t\u00eb pand\u00ebrtuar. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb isha atje, po binte nj\u00eb\nshi shum\u00eb i madh, i furish\u00ebm, i cili pas disa momentesh, pushoi. Pastaj pash\u00eb q\u00eb\nkishte r\u00ebn\u00eb d\u00ebbor\u00eb larg n\u00eb male, kur nuk vonoi shum\u00eb dhe filloi t\u00eb binte dhe\naty ku ishim ne. M\u00eb pas, un\u00eb, bashk\u00eb me djalin e xhaxhait, vendos\u00ebm t\u00eb\nngjiteshim nj\u00eb kat m\u00eb sip\u00ebr t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb akoma m\u00eb mir\u00eb, kur pa\narritur akoma, u d\u00ebgjua nj\u00eb ul\u00ebrim\u00eb dhe na u b\u00eb sikur u rr\u00ebzua nusja e xhaxhit e\nishte vrar\u00eb te k\u00ebmba. Pasi pushoi d\u00ebbora, un\u00eb vendosa t\u00eb largohesha dhe dola e\nmora nj\u00eb taksi, e cila kishte brenda pasagjer\u00eb q\u00eb nuk i njihja. U b\u00eb nat\u00eb dhe\nfillova t\u00eb frik\u00ebsohesha, sepse nuk e dija si do t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, pasi edhe\nmakina ku kisha hipur nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb \u00e7onte gjer n\u00eb destinacion. Ashtu, e\nsikletosur, u zgjova nga gjumi. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb parashikon kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nme holl\u00ebsi? Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – <\/strong>E nderuar\nlexuese, \u00ebndrra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb goxha e gjat\u00eb dhe dometh\u00ebn\u00ebse. V\u00ebrtet keni par\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit\ntuaj, por shpesh ata p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb ju nuk ia lejoni vetes\nn\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. K\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebr shembull, n\u00ebse jeni nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e p\u00ebrgjegjshme, e\ndh\u00ebn\u00eb pas ndjenj\u00ebs s\u00eb detyr\u00ebs apo p\u00ebrkushtimit ndaj familjes, p\u00ebr ju, t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit\nn\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr simbolizojn\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju vet\u00eb nuk mund ta p\u00ebrballoni ose nuk ia\nlejoni dot vetes. N\u00eb nj\u00eb aspekt tjet\u00ebr, ato simbolizojn\u00eb probleme me familjen\nose n\u00eb ndjenjat personale. K\u00ebshtu, \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb dalloni emocionet q\u00eb\nju shkaktojn\u00eb kryesisht k\u00ebto lloj \u00ebndrrash, pasi aty mund t\u00eb gjesh \u00e7el\u00ebsin e\nzgjidhjes n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Nd\u00ebrsa sht\u00ebpia q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson mendjen tuaj,\nfamiljen dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit m\u00eb t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb. N\u00ebse shikoni nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtim, do t\u00eb\nthot\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju shfaqen mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb reja, plane q\u00eb duhen realizuar, pasi keni\nnevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndryshim dhe rinovim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs s\u00eb t\u00eb\njetuarit. Po k\u00ebshtu, sht\u00ebpia ka edhe nj\u00eb kuptim tjet\u00ebr: Nd\u00ebrtimin e\npersonalitetit tuaj, bot\u00ebs suaj t\u00eb brendshme dhe t\u00eb jashtme. Nd\u00ebrsa shiu ka\nshum\u00eb kuptime, por n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, lidhur me pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb vazhdim, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson\npast\u00ebrtin\u00eb dhe rigjenerimin. Ju jeni person pozitiv, por n\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme\nkeni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb jeni dikush tjet\u00ebr, keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb rigjeneroheni dhe t\u00eb gjeni\nenergji t\u00eb reja p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara. Bora p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson vetmin\u00eb dhe ankthin q\u00eb ju\nmb\u00ebrthen her\u00eb pas here. Pra, bora, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 bukuris\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson tek ai person,\ntregon edhe nj\u00eb lloj vetmie dhe melankolie q\u00eb ndjen personi q\u00eb e shikon.\nPersonat q\u00eb kalojn\u00eb shum\u00eb probleme n\u00eb jet\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsisht dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm,\nshohin shum\u00eb shpesh \u00ebndrra me d\u00ebbor\u00eb. T\u00eb parit e nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb bie, rr\u00ebshqet, reflekton\ns\u00ebrish ankthin dhe frik\u00ebn tuaj ndaj di\u00e7kaje q\u00eb p\u00ebr ju ka shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi dhe q\u00eb\nkeni frik\u00eb ta humbisni. Ju jeni shum\u00eb e pafajshme, prandaj edhe vuani shum\u00eb p\u00ebr\n\u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ju ndodh. I mendoni t\u00eb gjith\u00eb si veten, ndaj dhe shpesh ju ndodh q\u00eb\nt\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjeheni shum\u00eb leht\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, pas k\u00ebtij shpjegimi kaq t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, ju\nthem q\u00eb taksia q\u00eb keni par\u00eb, simbolizon nj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb t\u00eb papritur e cila do t\u2019jua\nleht\u00ebsoj\u00eb shum\u00eb jet\u00ebn dhe do t\u00eb arrini t\u00eb realizoni projektet p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat keni\nkoh\u00eb q\u00eb i keni humbur shpresat. Prandaj, nuk duhet t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb, sepse fati do\nt\u00eb jet\u00eb me ju shum\u00eb shpejt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Demi u transformua n\u00eb luan<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha n\u00eb makin\u00eb me gruan, djalin e t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn e k\u00ebtij t\u00eb fundit.\nP\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment, n\u00eb kryq\u00ebzim u shfaq nj\u00eb dem shum\u00eb i madh, i cili donte t\u00eb na\nsulmonte. Mor\u00ebm nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebsor\u00ebsh dhe mbet\u00ebm t\u00eb izoluar n\u00eb nj\u00eb zon\u00eb t\u00eb\nv\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Pastaj, demi u transformua n\u00eb nj\u00eb luan shum\u00eb t\u00eb madh. I ngriti putrat\ndrejt dritares s\u00eb makin\u00ebs dhe ishte gati p\u00ebr t\u00eb na sulmuar, por p\u00ebr fat, un\u00eb u\nzgjova nga gjumi\u2026 \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n –\nD\u00ebshira juaj ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shkonit mir\u00eb me familjen dhe t\u00eb kaloni\nvet\u00ebm momente qet\u00ebsie, por ja q\u00eb papritur do t\u00eb hapet nj\u00eb debat shum\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00eb\nq\u00eb do t\u2019ju nevrikos\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe ju do t\u2019u kund\u00ebrviheni t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve, si ai demi\napo luani q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. Jeni gati t\u2019i sulmoni t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, vet\u00ebm e\nvet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb dilni ju i fituar. N\u00eb fakt, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb k\u00ebshtu. Duke qen\u00eb se ju\njeni m\u00eb i madhi i familjes, ju p\u00ebrket juve t\u00eb shuani sherret dhe t\u00eb rifitoni\nqet\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshironi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ankth<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Pash\u00eb n\u00eb\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb frym\u00ebmarrje dhe shum\u00eb ankth. Shkova me vrap n\u00eb\nbanjo dhe pash\u00eb se k\u00ebt\u00eb siklet ma shkaktonte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e kisha n\u00eb goj\u00eb. Pas nj\u00eb\np\u00ebrpjekjeje t\u00eb st\u00ebrmundimshme, arrita ta hiqja k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb nga goja. Ishte nj\u00eb\nobjekt n\u00eb form\u00eb rrethi, me p\u00ebrb\u00ebrje xhelatine, n\u00eb ngjyr\u00eb jeshile. Kur e hoqa,\nfillova t\u00eb ndihesha m\u00eb i leht\u00ebsuar n\u00eb frym\u00ebmarrje, por kisha rrahje t\u00eb forta\nzemre. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n –\nDikush apo di\u00e7ka e ndodhur ju ka b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb nervoz dhe juve ju duhet vet\u00ebm t\u00eb\ngjeni rastin q\u00eb ta nxirrni jasht\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mllef q\u00eb ju \u00ebsht\u00eb mbledhur.\nN\u00ebnnd\u00ebrgjegjja ju b\u00ebn thirrje t\u00eb \u00e7liroheni nga k\u00ebto tensione, duke iu hapur\nnjer\u00ebzve tuaj. Vet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb ndiheni mir\u00eb. E gjitha kjo do t\u2019ju l\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb\nshije paksa t\u00eb hidhur dhe zemra do t\u2019ju rrah\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb fort kur ta kujtoni, por\ngjithsesi, n\u00eb fund, do t\u00eb ndiheni i \u00e7liruar dhe i qet\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrisht. Ky ishte\nparashikimi i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs suaj. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \ufeffI telefonova t\u00eb dashurit – Ju lutem, a mund t\u00eb m\u00eb shpjegoni k\u00ebto dy \u00ebndrra q\u00eb kam par\u00eb: 1. Mora n\u00eb telefon t\u00eb dashurin dhe m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj e motra, q\u00eb realisht, nuk e njoh. Ngaq\u00eb d\u00ebgjova z\u00eb femre, isha gati ta shaja. 2. N\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb, kam par\u00eb sikur kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7un me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-22064","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22064","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22064"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22064\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22064"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22064"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22064"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}