{"id":22037,"date":"2019-04-10T23:00:40","date_gmt":"2019-04-10T21:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22037"},"modified":"2019-04-10T20:58:20","modified_gmt":"2019-04-10T18:58:20","slug":"%ef%bb%bfsi-bie-ne-dashuri-ne-burre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/%ef%bb%bfsi-bie-ne-dashuri-ne-burre\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffSi bie n\u00eb dashuri n\u00eb burr\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Dihet si bien grat\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri: Or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra para pasqyr\u00ebs, munges\u00eb oreksi… Po burrat? Lexoni m\u00eb posht\u00eb…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ai ka sy vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ju<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb shqisa e par\u00eb q\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb burrat q\u00eb bien n\u00eb dashuri. N\u00ebse ai nuk rri dot pa ju par\u00eb me nj\u00eb shikim t\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl, k\u00ebtu po ndodh di\u00e7ka… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kujdes, ai nuk po sheh t\u00eb prapmet tuaja; ai m\u00eb n\u00eb fund po ju SHEH juve! Ai nuk e kupton se pse t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nuk mbesin me goj\u00eb hapur kur ju shohin: Ju jeni e mrekullueshme, nj\u00eb per\u00ebndesh\u00eb! Gjithashtu, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb po bie n\u00eb dashuri, ka nevoj\u00eb t\u2019ju shoh\u00eb, ju k\u00ebrkon me sy pa pushim (pak a shum\u00eb, si nj\u00eb qenush q\u00eb sapo ka par\u00eb nj\u00eb miz\u00eb!). Ky fenomen mund t\u00eb shfaqet edhe me vones\u00eb, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb ju e njihnit prej koh\u00ebsh, mund t\u00eb mahnitet pas shk\u00eblqimit t\u00eb flok\u00ebve tuaj. Pra, jini vigjilente! N\u00ebse vini re se llogaritari i ri ju sheh me sy prej merluci, buz\u00ebqeshini, ose ikni me vrap, si ta mendoni… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb gjith\u00eb vesh\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb bie pre e sharmit tuaj, drejton drejt jush t\u00eb gjitha shqisat q\u00eb\ni ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb N\u00ebna Natyr\u00eb. Ekuacioni \u00ebsht\u00eb i thjesht\u00eb: Ai do t\u2019ju njoh\u00eb, pra, ju d\u00ebgjon!\nTregojini p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb tuaj dhe ai do t\u00eb zbutet… Folini p\u00ebr nj\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsi\nq\u00eb ju \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe ai do t\u00eb irritohet… Rr\u00ebfejini sa shum\u00eb keni vuajtur gjat\u00eb\ngripit t\u00eb fundit dhe ai do t\u00eb bjer\u00eb n\u00eb ekstaz\u00eb… N\u00ebse ai interesohet p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb\npo thoni dhe nuk mjaftohet vet\u00ebm me \u201cpo, po…\u201d (duke menduar: \u201cPo marr nj\u00eb\npamje t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendruar, po pres sa t\u00eb mbaroj\u00eb dhe mbase, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjes,\narrij ta puth…\u201d), n\u00ebse i dukeni pasionante, zbavit\u00ebse (ju jeni, sigurisht,\nvet\u00ebm se ai tani po e kupton, m\u00eb n\u00eb fund), at\u00ebhere \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb q\u00eb ka r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb\ndashuri me ju. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Ai ju mbron<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ndryshimi thelb\u00ebsor n\u00eb psikologjin\u00eb e nj\u00eb burri t\u00eb dashuruar \u00ebsht\u00eb se ju\njeni b\u00ebr\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju ndodh\u00eb, ndjehet prej\ntij gati n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb personale. Ju jeni e lumtur; edhe ai \u00ebsht\u00eb pak k\u00ebshtu… Ju\njeni e trishtuar; ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb… Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, ai nuk do t\u2019ju shoh\u00eb t\u00eb vuani\ndhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, do t\u00eb mundohet t\u2019ju mbroj\u00eb e t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr ju: \u201cDo edhe patatet\ne mia? S\u2019ke ngr\u00ebn\u00eb pothuajse fare!\u201d (ai \u00ebsht\u00eb gati t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb ushqimin e vet me\nty dhe kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb pak…), \u201cT\u00eb ta fryj un\u00eb \u00e7ajin? \u00cbsht\u00eb pak i nxeht\u00eb\u201d (ndodh\nm\u00eb rrall\u00eb, p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb mir\u00eb). Ai b\u00ebhet gati t\u2019i hidhet n\u00eb fyt shefit tuaj q\u00eb ju\nka ngarkuar pak si shum\u00eb me pun\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit. Megjithat\u00eb, mos u shqet\u00ebsoni,\nai do t\u00eb dij\u00eb ta mbaj\u00eb veten. Ndjehesh mir\u00eb n\u00ebse ke pran\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr\nty, apo jo? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Ai ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ju<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb bie n\u00eb dashuri, ka nevoj\u00eb t\u2019ju shoh\u00eb, t\u2019ju flas\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt, ai\nka nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb dini se ekziston dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, nuk ju ndahet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment.\n\u201c\u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebsh sot?\u201d, \u201cMe k\u00eb?\u201d, \u201cDo t\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebroj?\u201d. Ah, gati harrova, duke\nfilluar nga momenti q\u00eb ai ngjitet pas jush, do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb pak xheloz…\n\u00cbsht\u00eb normale kjo. N\u00ebse, p\u00ebr shembull, nj\u00eb burri q\u00eb nuk ndjen asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, i\nthoni: \u201cSot do t\u00eb darkoj me ish-in tim\u201d, ai do t\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjet: \u201cPo, mir\u00eb, po\npastaj?\u201d. N\u00ebse i thoni t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb atij q\u00eb ju sheh si mrekullia e tet\u00eb e bot\u00ebs,\nka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb reagoj\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb emotive: Fytyr\u00eb e skuqur, megjith\u00ebse merr\nfrym\u00eb (fort), dh\u00ebmb\u00eb t\u00eb shtr\u00ebnguar, t\u00eb pasme t\u00eb kontraktuara: \u201c\u00c7FAR\u00cb? Pse? Ke\nnevoj\u00eb t\u00eb takohesh me t\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb jam k\u00ebtu?\u201d, ose di\u00e7ka t\u00eb till\u00eb. Me nj\u00eb\nfjal\u00eb, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i dashuruar ngjitet pas jush si midhja pas shk\u00ebmbit…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. I dukeni e bukur (gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs…)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebt\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje ju jeni krehur e veshur, sikur do t\u00eb shkoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb \u00e7mimin\nOskar dhe sigurisht, i dukeni e bukur. Por gj\u00ebja e bukur \u00ebsht\u00eb se, sido q\u00eb t\u00eb\njet\u00eb, atij do t\u2019i dukeni e bukur ose t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn, e lezetshme. Pas dehjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb\nnate m\u00eb par\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, ai do t\u00eb deklaroj\u00eb: \u201cJe kaq e lezetshme! Dukesh si nj\u00eb\nrakun i vog\u00ebl, me ata rrath\u00ebt e zinj posht\u00eb syve!\u201d dhe e mendon v\u00ebrtet… Fraz\u00eb\ntjet\u00ebr tipike: \u201cSinqerisht, t\u00eb preferoj pa grim!\u201d, ose: \u201cM\u00eb duket shum\u00eb seksi\nbarkaluci yt i fryr\u00eb\u201d. Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb se ai ju sheh me sy t\u00eb\ndashuruar. Sigurisht, kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndenjur me tuta gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn,\np\u00ebr t\u00eb mos depiluar sqetullat apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur fillin dentar n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e\ntij… Megjith\u00ebse dashuria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e verb\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb\nmiope…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Ai b\u00ebn l\u00ebshime<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7\u2019mund t\u00eb thuash p\u00ebr nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb pranon t\u2019ju sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb si var\u00ebse rrobash\npara kabin\u00ebs s\u00eb prov\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00eb dyqani rrobash, apo pranon t\u00eb pij\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7aj n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb\ne kush\u00ebrir\u00ebs suaj, ose t\u00eb shoh\u00eb 12 or\u00eb rresht \u201cSht\u00ebpiaket e d\u00ebshp\u00ebruara\u201d, vet\u00ebm\nq\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb pran\u00eb jush? Dhe, \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb thuash p\u00ebr nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb\nndryshoj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb jetes\u00ebs si burr\u00eb i lir\u00eb (dakord, beqar maniak…),\nvet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb me ju? N\u00eb fakt, mendoj se ai ka v\u00ebrtet shum\u00eb, shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb\nb\u00ebj\u00eb seks me ju, ama n\u00ebse tashm\u00eb ju njeh me dh\u00ebmb\u00eb e dh\u00ebmball\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka\nkrejt ndryshe. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i aft\u00eb t\u00eb sakrifikoj\u00eb mir\u00ebqenien e tij personale vet\u00ebm\np\u00ebr t\u2019jua b\u00ebr\u00eb qejfin juve dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb burr\u00eb… Edhe ai\nvet\u00eb nuk u beson dot syve. Si\u00e7 k\u00ebndonte Elton Xhon te \u201cMbreti Luan\u201d: \u201cA e\nndjeni dashurin\u00eb sonte?\u201d… Grrrr…!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ai b\u00ebn Dashuri me ju<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pas nj\u00eb darke t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ai ju fton n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Disa minuta m\u00eb von\u00eb, ju b\u00ebni\ndashuri. M\u00ebsojeni se, n\u00eb mendjen e tij, ky burr\u00eb ka kap\u00ebrcyer nj\u00eb etap\u00eb\nvendimtare. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb duke b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri me D t\u00eb madhe… Ai nuk e imagjinon m\u00eb\nveten si yll t\u00eb filmit t\u00eb vet pornografik, ai kujdeset p\u00ebr ju, se \u00e7far\u00eb ndjeni,\n\u00e7far\u00eb prisni prej tij. Nj\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00ebs i ri \u00ebsht\u00eb futur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb sjelljes:\nBut\u00ebsia. N\u00eb fakt, q\u00ebllimi i tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00eblthisni nga k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia,\np\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur p\u00ebrshtypjen se \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201corgaz\u00ebm-man\u201d, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Q\u00ebllimi i\ntij tani, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00eblthisni nga k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia se po ndani s\u00eb bashku nj\u00eb\nintimitet, q\u00eb vet\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebrit dashuri kur je i dashuruar, mund ta shkaktoj\u00eb… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Ai do t\u00eb banoj\u00eb me ju<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb n\u00eb fund, vjen nj\u00eb dit\u00eb kur ai \u00ebsht\u00eb aq i \u00e7mendur, sa instikti i\nvetmitarit shkrihet aty p\u00ebr aty. Burri \u00ebsht\u00eb gati t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb me ju \u201cshpell\u00ebn\u201d e\ntij, ose nj\u00eb \u201cshpell\u00eb\u201d tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb re. K\u00ebshtu, pra, mashkulli i dashuruar, q\u00eb\nderi dje e kishte t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnte nj\u00eb hap t\u00eb till\u00eb, e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb me ju, n\u00eb\nnj\u00eb moment romantizmi. Po aq e qart\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo n\u00ebse ju jep \u00e7el\u00ebsat e\napartamentit t\u00eb tij. Kuptojeni si: \u201cNuk asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb fshehur, ti mund t\u00eb\nzbarkosh k\u00ebtu kur t\u00eb duash. K\u00ebto q\u00eb t\u00eb dhash\u00eb jan\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsat e mbret\u00ebris\u00eb dhe ti\nje mbret\u00ebresha ime…\u201d. E ekzagjerova pak\u00ebz, por nj\u00eb histori dashurie q\u00eb lind \u00ebsht\u00eb\ngjeniale, apo jo? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dihet si bien grat\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri: Or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra para pasqyr\u00ebs, munges\u00eb oreksi… Po burrat? Lexoni m\u00eb posht\u00eb… 1. Ai ka sy vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ju Shikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb shqisa e par\u00eb q\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb burrat q\u00eb bien n\u00eb dashuri. N\u00ebse ai nuk rri dot pa ju par\u00eb me nj\u00eb shikim t\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl, k\u00ebtu po ndodh […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":16432,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22037","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22037","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22037"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22037\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16432"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22037"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22037"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22037"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}