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Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje\np\u00ebr seksin\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Doktor Evi, i vler\u00ebsoj shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet\ntuaja. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, pasi kam nevoj\u00eb ta di… Pas masturbimit, un\u00eb urinoj\nshum\u00eb. Un\u00eb masturbohem shpesh. Mos \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo pasoj\u00eb e k\u00ebtij fakti? Mos vall\u00eb i\nkam problemet e urinimit nga kjo gj\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk e di\nmosh\u00ebn tuaj, por si\u00e7 kam th\u00ebn\u00eb edhe her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, masturbimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i d\u00ebmsh\u00ebm,\np\u00ebrve\u00e7se n\u00ebse ndikon n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Megjithat\u00eb, theksojm\u00eb se varet edhe\nnga m\u00ebnyra se si masturboheni, sepse organet seksuale jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeshme\ndhe delikate. N\u00ebse nga masturbimi me forc\u00eb ndodh q\u00eb t\u00eb irritohen organet\nseksuale mashkullore t\u00eb brendshme, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb vezikula seminale, prostata etj., si\nrezultat mund t\u00eb keni edhe urinim t\u00eb shpesht\u00eb. Gjithsesi, un\u00eb do t\u2019ju sugjeroja\nt\u00eb b\u00ebnit nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb dhe analiz\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb i qart\u00eb me veten tuaj dhe t\u00eb\nkuptoni shkakun e urinimit t\u00eb shpesht\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam 30 vje\u00e7 dhe madh\u00ebsin\u00eb e\npenisit e kam 14 cm. Dua t\u00eb di, a ndikon p\u00ebr keq n\u00ebse d\u00ebshiroj t\u00eb kem f\u00ebmij\u00eb?\nArrij n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm shum\u00eb shpejt, prandaj ju lutem m\u00eb thoni, mos ndikon madh\u00ebsia?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Madh\u00ebsia e penisit nuk ndikon n\u00eb ardhjen shpejt n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. Plus q\u00eb, madh\u00ebsia e penisit 14 cm, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak penges\u00eb p\u00ebr pasjen e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb rrini i qet\u00eb. Nuk keni asnj\u00eb problem me madh\u00ebsin\u00eb e penisit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam shum\u00eb e shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nfejuarin tim. Vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gabim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl q\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb (jo tradhti), e shoh q\u00eb\nhakmerret ndaj meje n\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka. Edhe p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie s\u2019i bie nd\u00ebrmend. Thua ka\nprobleme seksuale? Si ta kuptoj k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb? Nuk mjafton vet\u00ebm kjo, por m\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb\nurren t\u00eb gjitha femrat. Si ta marr vesh \u00e7far\u00eb ka?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Urojm\u00eb q\u00eb\ni fejuari juaj t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb nga ai tip meshkujt t\u00eb cil\u00ebt hyjn\u00eb te hakmarr\u00ebsit,\nsepse k\u00ebta jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshmit. Nuk mund ta p\u00ebrcaktojm\u00eb dot n\u00ebse ka probleme\nseksuale apo vazhdon t\u2019ju mbaj\u00eb m\u00ebri p\u00ebr at\u00eb t\u00eb ashtuquajtur \u201cgabim\u201d, n\u00ebse mund\nt\u00eb quhet i till\u00eb ai i juaji. Urrejtjen, k\u00ebta meshkuj nuk e kan\u00eb vet\u00ebm\np\u00ebr nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr t\u00eb caktuar, por p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb far\u00ebn e grave dhe ofendimi m\u00eb i\nvog\u00ebl i femrave, i shtyn edhe drejt tradhtis\u00eb, por urojm\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb ky\nshkaku i refuzimit t\u00eb t\u00eb fejuarit tuaj p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Meshkujt hakmarr\u00ebs kan\u00eb zakonisht k\u00ebto tipare: I v\u00ebn\u00eb\nvetes q\u00ebllim ta detyrojn\u00eb far\u00ebn e grave t\u00eb vuaj\u00eb sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur.\nAta u afrohen femrave, i shtien n\u00eb dor\u00eb dhe pastaj, pa pik\u00eb m\u00ebshire, i\nbraktisin. Por, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, nuk hyni ju, prandaj nuk mund t\u00eb themi q\u00eb ai b\u00ebn pjes\u00eb\nn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kategori. Tregohuni m\u00eb e ngroht\u00eb me t\u00eb, afrohuni duke b\u00ebr\u00eb muhabet t\u00eb\nqet\u00eb, duke i treguar se jeni shum\u00eb e interesuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe q\u00eb jeni gati t\u00eb\nflisni p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, mos i impononi asgj\u00eb, por afrojuni me dinak\u00ebri,\nq\u00eb ai t\u00eb mos ndihet i trysnuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kemi\ntre muaj q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebjm\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale, s\u2019e di \u00e7far\u00eb ka. E pyes dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb\n\u201cjam i stresuar n\u00eb pun\u00eb\u201d e kaq. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson. A ndikon stresi te nd\u00ebrprerja\ne marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ka nj\u00eb kategori meshkujsh q\u00eb v\u00ebrtet, kur jan\u00eb t\u00eb\nstresuar n\u00eb pun\u00eb, kjo gj\u00eb u ndikon edhe n\u00eb jet\u00ebn seksuale. Zakonisht, k\u00ebta meshkuj\nnuk u flasin grave t\u00eb tyre p\u00ebr k\u00ebto probleme sepse duan t’u shmangen v\u00ebrejtjeve\ne kritikave dhe aq m\u00eb keq, skandaleve, mir\u00ebpo njeriu pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste\nk\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje, nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkrahje dhe fillon t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb jasht\u00eb familjes s\u00eb\ntij. Prandaj b\u00ebni kujdes dhe n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb silluni si nj\u00eb shoqe me t\u00eb; m\u00eb\npas tregoni nevojat fiziologjike. E kuptoj, edhe ju keni t\u00eb drejt\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb\nk\u00ebrkoni, por p\u00ebrpiquni ta kuptoni. Interesohuni p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn e tij, \u00e7far\u00eb\nproblemesh ka etj. B\u00ebhuni shoku, shoqja e tij dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb do ta afroni m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb pran\u00eb vetes. B\u00ebhu si\u00e7 mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb e dashur n\u00eb fillimet e saj me nj\u00eb\npartner. P\u00ebrk\u00ebdhele sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe afroji mb\u00ebshtetje, dhe do t\u00eb shikoni q\u00eb do\njet\u00eb ai q\u00eb do k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb intimitet me ju. Ndryshe po nuk pati rezultat, mund t\u00eb\nket\u00eb problem sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor ose duhet shikuar seriozisht mardh\u00ebnia juaj n\u00eb \u00e7ift. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Un\u00eb s\u2019e\narrij orgazm\u00ebn me partnerin sepse rri e kontraktuar nga frika e shtatzanis\u00eb,\npor ai s\u2019m\u00eb kupton. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, kur masturbohem, un\u00eb arrij n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. Duhet ta\nquaj problem k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb mes meje dhe partnerit?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Femrat, gjithmon\u00eb, gjat\u00eb momentit seksual, duke\nmos u p\u00ebrqendruar te partneri i vet, nga frika e ndonj\u00eb shtatzanie apo ndonj\u00eb\nshkak tjet\u00ebr, nuk arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. \u00cbsht\u00eb interesante q\u00eb disa femra nuk e\narrijn\u00eb orgazm\u00ebn gjat\u00eb aktit seksual, por e arrijn\u00eb fare mir\u00eb, gjat\u00eb\nmasturbimit. Masturbimi te femrat mund t\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsoj\u00eb deri diku nj\u00eb aktivitet\nseksual, pra, nj\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm n\u00eb aktivitet seksual. M\u00ebnyra e masturbimit ndryshon\nnga nj\u00ebri person te tjetri, por n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, ato kan\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb\np\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt, ngacmimin dhe f\u00ebrkimin e klitorisit. K\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb mund t\u2019ia b\u00ebni t\u00eb\nqart\u00eb edhe partnerit. Un\u00eb nuk e shikoj k\u00ebt\u00eb si problem tuajin, por t\u00eb partnerit\ntuaj. Ai duhet t\u2019ju qet\u00ebsoj\u00eb dhe t\u2019ju siguroj\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019do t\u00eb ngeleni shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb.\nDuhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb i ngroht\u00eb me ju, q\u00eb ju t\u00eb arrini t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026 – Doktor Evi, i vler\u00ebsoj shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet tuaja. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, pasi kam nevoj\u00eb ta di… Pas masturbimit, un\u00eb urinoj shum\u00eb. Un\u00eb masturbohem shpesh. Mos \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo pasoj\u00eb e k\u00ebtij fakti? Mos vall\u00eb i kam problemet e urinimit nga kjo gj\u00eb? – Nuk e di mosh\u00ebn tuaj, por si\u00e7 kam th\u00ebn\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50,88],"tags":[1237,405],"class_list":["post-22036","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","category-seksologu","tag-pyetje-pergjigje","tag-seksologu-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22036","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22036"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22036\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22036"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22036"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22036"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}