{"id":22023,"date":"2019-04-10T13:30:44","date_gmt":"2019-04-10T11:30:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22023"},"modified":"2019-04-10T13:09:04","modified_gmt":"2019-04-10T11:09:04","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-79","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/astrologia-shpjegon-79\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon..!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

E q\u00ebllova\nme shpulla <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shoku im po u thoshte dy kush\u00ebrinjve t\u00eb tij se kishte shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnte dashuri. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un\u00eb mendova se u shpreh p\u00ebr mua, por n\u00eb fakt, ai d\u00ebshironte nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Nga inati, i dhash\u00eb nja dy shpulla dhe ika.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hyra n\u00eb nj\u00eb dyqan ku kishte veshje intime. Zonja q\u00eb shiste, m\u00eb tha se duhet t\u00eb hidhja t\u00eb gjitha sendet personale t\u00eb nj\u00eb personi dhe un\u00eb mendoja se b\u00ebhej fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person q\u00eb kishte vdekur. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra flet p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn tuaj jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe\np\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn frik\u00ebsoheni. Ju keni frik\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshiheni\ntotalisht n\u00eb lidhjen q\u00eb keni dhe, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, ia vini fajin t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs suaj t\u00eb\nhidhur. Kujtimet nuk ju l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ecni p\u00ebrpara. Edhe zonja q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nduke ju k\u00ebshilluar, ju p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson juve, q\u00eb n\u00eb realitet d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb dilni nga\nvorbulla e kujtimeve t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs. Urojm\u00eb t\u2019ia dilni mban\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Humba trenin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur do t\u00eb shkoja\nn\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim dhe po k\u00ebrkoja gj\u00ebrat e mia, por nuk i gjeta. Koha kalonte dhe\ntreni kishte p\u00ebr t\u2019u nisur shum\u00eb shpejt. Rregullova valixhen, u nisa p\u00ebr te\nstacioni i trenit, por rrug\u00ebs u kujtova se kisha harruar disa dokumente shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nr\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. U ktheva s\u00ebrish mbrapa dhe, kur arrita n\u00eb stacion, kishte shum\u00eb\nnjer\u00ebz q\u00eb m\u00eb penguan p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb stacion. E pash\u00eb trenin t\u00eb ikte, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb\nrrug\u00eb me zigzage dhe dy vagonat e fundit u p\u00ebrplas\u00ebn. Nga ankthi, m\u00eb doli\ngjumi. \u00c7far\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ju lutem? Faleminderit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\ne till\u00eb tregon si gjendjen psikologjike, ashtu edhe karakterin e personit q\u00eb e\nshikon, por n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb tyre, edhe rrjedh\u00ebn q\u00eb merr jeta. Ju jeni natyr\u00eb shum\u00eb\nambicioze dhe shpeshher\u00eb, kjo ju ka \u00e7uar deri n\u00eb nervozitet. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, keni\np\u00ebrfunduar duke u p\u00ebrplasur me problemet e jet\u00ebs apo me persona n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti. \u00cbndrra\nju paralajm\u00ebron q\u00eb n\u00ebse keni disa plane n\u00eb kok\u00eb, merrini shtruar ato, pa\nmenduar se vet\u00ebm ju d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb arrini majat. Duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqeni me ato q\u00eb keni\nsepse shpesh, d\u00ebshirat e m\u00ebdha dhe syri i pangopur ju \u00e7ojn\u00eb n\u00eb situata jo t\u00eb\nmira n\u00eb jet\u00eb. \u00cbndrra tregon q\u00eb ju do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb realizuar ambiciet\ntuaja, por n\u00eb fund nuk do t\u2019i arrini, p\u00ebrkundrazi, mund t\u00eb ndjeni nj\u00ebfar\u00eb r\u00ebnieje\npsikologjike dhe morali, por kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebroheni, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb\nperiudh\u00eb kalimtare dhe ju jeni ende n\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb ta rregulloni situat\u00ebn tuaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stuhi e madhe<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur filloi\nnj\u00eb er\u00eb shum\u00eb e fuqishme. Un\u00eb kisha p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar q\u00eb t\u00eb takoja nj\u00eb shokun tim p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb cilin kam filluar t\u00eb ndjej, por kam shum\u00eb frik\u00eb dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb zihem me t\u00eb. Duke\necur drejt tij, filloi nj\u00eb stuhi shum\u00eb e madhe dhe un\u00eb mundohesha t\u00eb flisja, por\nsikur m\u00eb transformoheshin fjal\u00ebt. K\u00ebshtu, u zgjova. \u00c7far\u00eb parashikon \u00ebndrra? Mariana.\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E\ndashur Mariana, stuhia simbolizon nj\u00eb konflikt t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm ose t\u00eb jasht\u00ebm. E\ngjith\u00eb \u00ebndrra ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me ndjenjat, emocionet dhe shp\u00ebrthimet brenda jush.\nNdodh shpesh q\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb fillojm\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje, ne mendojm\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb keqen,\nfundin e saj, pa e shijuar akoma fillimin. K\u00ebshtu po ndodh me ju. Ju, pa u\nlidhur akoma, keni stres dhe ziheni me t\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla jan\u00eb t\u00eb\npashmangshme. Ju keni \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar dhe, p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, keni thirrur pran\u00eb vetes\nstuhin\u00eb, p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb shijoni kthjellt\u00ebsin\u00eb, qet\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe ndjesit\u00eb e bukura q\u00eb\nt\u00eb fal sidomos fillimi i nj\u00eb lidhjeje. Mendoj se personi q\u00eb dashuroni ka\nkarakter m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe ju e p\u00ebrdorni k\u00ebt\u00eb sjellje p\u00ebr t\u2019u vet\u00ebmbrojtur. Nuk\nduhet t\u00eb dor\u00ebzoheni para emocioneve t\u00eb tilla dhe dob\u00ebsis\u00eb. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb\nreagoni duke u mbrojtur, pse t\u00eb mos tregoni an\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb but\u00eb, femr\u00ebn e ngroht\u00eb\nq\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dashuri? Kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju do t\u00eb dukeni e brisht\u00eb para tij,\np\u00ebrkundrazi, do t\u2019ia b\u00ebni t\u00eb qart\u00eb q\u00eb v\u00ebrtet ndjeni, por keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb\nsiguroheni q\u00eb ndjenjat t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb dyanshme. Fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb nuk i keni nxjerr\u00eb dot n\u00eb\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrr, jan\u00eb mendimet dhe ato \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u2019i shprehni atij, q\u00eb nuk ia\nthoni dot. Duhet t\u00eb shpreheni, ndryshe thjesht do t\u00eb vuani dhe nuk do t\u00eb arrini\nasgj\u00eb nga kjo njohje. N\u00ebse i thoni ato q\u00eb ndjeni dhe ia b\u00ebni t\u00eb qart\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb\nk\u00ebrkoni, do t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoni edhe nga \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla dhe do t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e qet\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Minj n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr shum\u00eb t\u00eb shpifur,\ne cila m\u00eb ka m\u00ebrzitur shum\u00eb. Pash\u00eb sikur po shkoja te shkolla dhe, kur arrita\naty, pash\u00eb q\u00eb klasat ishin mbushur plot me minj n\u00eb \u00e7do cep. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr,\nshikoja disa shok\u00eb t\u00eb mit\u00eb q\u00eb po drogoheshin. U shokova aq shum\u00eb saq\u00eb m\u00eb doli\ngjumi dhe isha b\u00ebr\u00eb qull n\u00eb djers\u00eb. Ori.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E\ndashur Ori, zakonisht, minjt\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e \u00ebndrrave paralajm\u00ebrojn\u00eb dob\u00ebsit\u00eb tona,\nq\u00eb shkaktohen nga v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e komunikimit dhe raportet, qoft\u00eb me an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e\nfamiljes, qoft\u00eb me shok\u00ebt e shoqet e shkoll\u00ebs, qoft\u00eb me t\u00eb dashurin apo dik\u00eb\ntjet\u00ebr. Ndoshta nga natyra jeni e pavendosur dhe sa m\u00eb t\u00eb pavendosur t\u00eb jeni,\naq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr do t\u00eb frik\u00ebsoheni se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh me ju n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Pastaj,\nnumri i madh i minjve paralajm\u00ebro nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por kalimtare.\nSipas \u00ebndrr\u00ebs, ju jeni n\u00eb konflikt me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb tuaj apo t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb ju\nrrethojn\u00eb. Po k\u00ebshtu, duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes nga miq\u00ebsit\u00eb e rreme, sepse shpesh,\nminjt\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb edhe personat q\u00eb fusin hund\u00ebt aty ku s\u2019duhet, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb\nt\u2019ju d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb. Sikleti q\u00eb keni ndjer\u00eb dhe jeni zgjuar e djersitur, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb\nq\u00eb do ta kaloni k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb, e keqja do t\u2019ju dal\u00eb shum\u00eb shpejt e do t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoni.\nVet\u00ebm se, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb, jini m\u00eb e kujdesshme, hapuni sa m\u00eb pak t\u00eb jet\u00eb e\nmundur dhe mos tregoni asnj\u00eb lloj dob\u00ebsie. Kini kujdes se mos infektoheni nga\nintrigat dhe kurthet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ngrej\u00eb rrethi juaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por q\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb\nindirekte mund t\u2019ju prekin edhe juve. Droga p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson s\u00ebmundje, siklet dhe\nperiudh\u00eb stresuese, megjithat\u00eb, si\u00e7 ju thash\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb kalimtare. Thjesht,\nkushtojini m\u00eb shum\u00eb kujdes sh\u00ebndetit tuaj! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

E q\u00ebllova me shpulla – Pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shoku im po u thoshte dy kush\u00ebrinjve t\u00eb tij se kishte shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnte dashuri. Un\u00eb mendova se u shpreh p\u00ebr mua, por n\u00eb fakt, ai d\u00ebshironte nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Nga inati, i dhash\u00eb nja dy shpulla dhe ika. Hyra n\u00eb nj\u00eb dyqan ku kishte […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-22023","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22023","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22023"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22023\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22023"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22023"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22023"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}