{"id":22013,"date":"2019-04-09T20:30:48","date_gmt":"2019-04-09T18:30:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22013"},"modified":"2019-04-09T19:32:10","modified_gmt":"2019-04-09T17:32:10","slug":"%ef%bb%bfa-jemi-vertet-keshtu-ne-grate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/%ef%bb%bfa-jemi-vertet-keshtu-ne-grate\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffA jemi v\u00ebrtet k\u00ebshtu, ne grat\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra thuhen p\u00ebr ne, grat\u00eb. Thuhet se jemi llafazane, dor\u00ebshpuara, emotive&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em> Sigurisht, ka raste q\u00eb k\u00ebto jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, por jo gjithmon\u00eb ama! Ne nuk jemi t\u00eb prera me thik\u00eb, e mori e mira! <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Kemi edhe ne ve\u00e7antit\u00eb tona dhe, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, ju e dini, na shajn\u00eb kot&#8230; E dini \u00e7far\u00eb? Hajde t\u2019i v\u00ebm\u00eb q\u00eb tani ca pika mbi i!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb qaramane<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb qajm\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb dasm\u00ebn e\nshoqes son\u00eb t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb ose kur shohim ndonj\u00eb film t\u00eb dhimbsh\u00ebm, por kjo nuk\nndodh n\u00eb \u00e7do rast. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Pse na ndodh?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kjo gjendje emocionale ekstreme shpjegohet me fjal\u00ebn\n\u201chisteri\u201d. Kjo fjal\u00eb vjen nga greqishtja \u201chustera\u201d, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb mit\u00ebr. Q\u00eb k\u00ebtu,\nfillon keqkuptimi&#8230; K\u00ebt\u00eb imazh prej qaramaneje ia detyrojm\u00eb edhe M\u00ebm\u00ebs Natyr\u00eb.\nMe sa duket, grat\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb prolaktin\u00eb, nj\u00eb hormon q\u00eb gjendet te lot\u00ebt dhe\nkanali yn\u00eb i lot\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshe nga ai i burrave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>E v\u00ebrteta!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb i m\u00ebson djemt\u00eb q\u00eb\nt\u00eb vegj\u00ebl t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb vajzat duhet t\u00eb tregohen t\u00eb dashura dhe\nt\u00eb kujdesn p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Emotiviteti i grave p\u00ebrkundrejt forc\u00ebs s\u00eb karakterit\nmashkullor \u00ebsht\u00eb pra me origjin\u00eb sociale dhe kulturore! Pastaj, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb\nfundit, nuk q\u00ebndron k\u00ebtu handikapi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Sipas Ron Levant, profesor i\nHarvardit, ne femrat jemi t\u00eb afta t\u2019i kuptojm\u00eb ndjenjat dhe pik\u00ebpamjet e t\u00eb\ntjer\u00ebve, ndryshe nga burrat, q\u00eb jan\u00eb \u201cm\u00eb pak t\u00eb zhvilluar emocionalisht\u201d!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Burrat preferojn\u00eb biondet<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb mjafton t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh kopertinat e revistave&#8230;\nNga viti 1950-1980, n\u00eb kopertin\u00ebn e revistave \u201cVogue\u201d, \u201cLadies&#8217;home Journal\u201d\ndhe \u201cPlayboy\u201d, ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb bionde sesa brune apo flok\u00ebkuqe. Konstatimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i\nqart\u00eb, biondet p\u00eblqehen!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Pse na ndodh?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sigurisht, mund t\u00eb lind\u00ebsh bionde, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e\nth\u00ebn\u00eb se do t\u00eb jesh gjithmon\u00eb e till\u00eb. N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, flok\u00ebt kalojn\u00eb n\u00eb\nngjyr\u00eb g\u00ebshtenj\u00eb t\u00eb hapur aty nga mesi i jet\u00ebs. Mbase n\u00eb mendjen e burrave\nekuacioni \u00ebsht\u00eb i thjesht\u00eb: Bionde=rini. Duke l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb disa fenomente t\u00eb\ngrave t\u00eb m\u00ebdha n\u00eb mosh\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00eblqehen, n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi burrat duan t\u00eb martohen me\ngra m\u00eb t\u00eb reja se ata n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, pra, m\u00eb pjellore dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme. Pra joshja\np\u00ebr biondet \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kauz\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb: B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr mbijetes\u00ebn e species\nnjer\u00ebzore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>E v\u00ebrteta!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00ebse mendohemi mir\u00eb, n\u00eb kopertinat e revistave p\u00eblqehen\njo vet\u00ebm Skarlet Xhohanson dhe Sharliz Teron, por edhe Anxhelina Zholi dhe\nPenelop\u00eb Kruz. Revista britanike \u201cFHM\u201d, sapo ka zgjedhur Sheril Kol, me flok\u00eb g\u00ebshtenj\u00eb,\nfemr\u00ebn m\u00eb seksi t\u00eb bot\u00ebs. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb dyt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb Megan Foks, nj\u00eb brune. At\u00ebhere,\nka marr\u00eb fund miti i biondeve? Gjykoni vet\u00eb: Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb studimi t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb vitin\n2005 n\u00eb Universitetin e Unileverit, 1500 burrave u treguan foton e t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn\ngrua me flok\u00eb biond\u00eb, t\u00eb kuq apo brune. Rezultati: M\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjysma e burrave\nzgjodh\u00ebn brunen, si m\u00eb josh\u00ebse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Biondet jan\u00eb budallaqe<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi d\u00ebgjuar barcaleta p\u00ebr biondet, qoft\u00eb\nn\u00eb rrug\u00eb, zyr\u00eb apo gazeta. Edhe ne qeshim me to, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos jemi t\u00eb fundit n\u00eb t\u00eb\nqeshur, pra, t\u00eb mos tregohemi &#8220;bionde&#8221;! \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb biondet\nkan\u00eb nofk\u00ebn e t\u00eb qenit seksi, por edhe pak naive dhe t\u00eb trasha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Pse na ndodh?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sinqerisht, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb ekzistonte nj\u00eb prov\u00eb\nshkencore se inteligjenca varet nga ngjyra e flok\u00ebve, do t\u00eb ishte marr\u00eb vesh\ntashm\u00eb! At\u00ebhere, si shpjegohet kjo klishe? Mbase ekuacioni vazhdon: bionde=rini=naivitet.\nEdhe Merlin Monro, e cila nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb bionde e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, nuk ka ndihmuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\ndrejtim me rolin e saj prej budallaqeje n\u00eb filmin &#8220;Burrat preferojn\u00eb\nbiondet&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>E v\u00ebrteta!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shum\u00eb bionde t\u00eb njohura kan\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer ose shk\u00eblqejn\u00eb\np\u00ebr inteligjenc\u00ebn e tyre: Hilari Klinton, Margaret The\u00e7er ose Sharon Stoun, e\ncila ka nj\u00eb Nivel Inteligjence (QI) te lart\u00eb. Mbase klishen\u00eb e biondes idiote\nmund ta ken\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb brunet, xheloze p\u00ebr fuqin\u00eb e tyre josh\u00ebse ndaj burrave. \u00cbsht\u00eb\nnj\u00eb brune q\u00eb po jua shkruan k\u00ebt\u00eb! E njihnit k\u00ebt\u00eb shaka: Pse barcaletat p\u00ebr biondet\njan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb shkurtra? Q\u00eb t&#8217;i mbajn\u00eb mend brunet!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Femrat e dob\u00ebta jan\u00eb m\u00eb josh\u00ebse<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sipas nj\u00eb sondazhi t\u00eb Institutit Harris, 8 gra n\u00eb\n10 kujdesen p\u00ebr ushqimin q\u00eb han\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebsohen! Sot, \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nqen\u00eb e bukur, duhet t\u00eb jesh e holl\u00eb. P\u00ebrndryshe, pse do t\u00eb harxhonim gjith\u00eb ato\npara p\u00ebr krem\u00ebrat anticelulit, abonime n\u00eb palestra, dieta dhe gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera\ngjith\u00eb vitin?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Pse na ndodh?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shfletoni cil\u00ebndo revist\u00eb fem\u00ebrore dhe do ta\nshihni: Nuk do t\u00eb gjeni femra modele t\u00eb mas\u00ebs mbi 36! Edhe n\u00eb kinema \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta\ngj\u00eb: Sharliz, Anxhelina dhe Xheniferi kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha nj\u00eb bel grenxe dhe k\u00ebmb\u00eb\nkarkaleci. Kudo na hutojn\u00eb me imazhin e vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb holl\u00eb, pa forma, sikur t\u00eb\nishte ideali i bukuris\u00eb absolute. At\u00ebhere, \u00e7far\u00eb na mbetet t\u00eb besojm\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>E v\u00ebrteta!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burrat nuk jan\u00eb dakord me k\u00ebt\u00eb! N\u00eb vitin 2007, nj\u00eb\ngrupi burrash iu treguan imazhe femrash t\u00eb ndara n\u00eb 5 kategori, sipas mas\u00ebs s\u00eb\ntyre trupore. Rezultati: Femra m\u00eb josh\u00ebse kishte nj\u00eb IMT (indeks t\u00eb mas\u00ebs\ntrupore) 20.85 (sipas OBSH-s\u00eb, nj\u00eb IMT normal duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nga 18,5-25). Grat\u00eb\nme IMT m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl mor\u00ebn vler\u00ebsime negative. Por, nj\u00eb IMT 20.85 i korrespondon\nnj\u00eb trupi mesatar, larg modeleve shum\u00eb t\u00eb holla q\u00eb na imponojn\u00eb&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Grat\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb shofere t\u00eb mira<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kemi d\u00ebgjuar shpesh t\u00eb thuhet se grat\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb\nshofere t\u00eb mira, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb parkuar! N\u00eb fakt, duhet ta\npranojm\u00eb, disa prej nesh preferojn\u00eb t&#8217;ia l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb burrit timonin kur \u00ebsht\u00eb\npuna p\u00ebr t\u00eb parkuar. Keni par\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb e kund\u00ebrta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Pse na ndodh?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u00ebtu vihet n\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje m\u00eb shum\u00eb aft\u00ebsia e grave\np\u00ebr t&#8217;i dh\u00ebn\u00eb makin\u00ebs sesa ajo p\u00ebr t\u00eb parkuar. Burrat e gjykojn\u00eb nj\u00eb shofer t\u00eb\nmir\u00eb n\u00ebse di t\u00eb ec\u00eb shpejt, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb femrat kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb problem kriteret e\nsiguris\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>E v\u00ebrteta!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dy studiues australian\u00eb, Barbara dhe Alan Piz,\nmbrojn\u00eb tez\u00ebn se, n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb ekografis\u00eb s\u00eb trurit, 85% e grave nuk zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb\nqarqet neurologjike t\u00eb trurit q\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktojn\u00eb inteligjenc\u00ebn hap\u00ebsinore (aft\u00ebsin\u00eb\np\u00ebr t&#8217;i vendosur n\u00eb nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar), t\u00eb nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb parkuar. Kjo\nteori \u00ebsht\u00eb denoncuar si seksiste. Le t\u00eb studiojm\u00eb statistikat e siguris\u00eb\nrrugore: Ato tregojn\u00eb se grat\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gabime t\u00eb lehta (kalim me t\u00eb\nverdh\u00eb, d\u00ebmtim veture gjat\u00eb parkimit) sesa burrat, por k\u00ebta t\u00eb fundit b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb thyerje t\u00eb kodit rrugor. Pra, mbase nuk jemi aq t\u00eb afta p\u00ebr t\u00eb parkuar,\npor t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nuk jemi aq t\u00eb rrezikshme n\u00eb rrug\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Grat\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebta se\nburrat, fizikisht dhe emocionalisht<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ok, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shpesh burri ai q\u00eb i mban peshat e r\u00ebnda,\npor a mjafton kjo p\u00ebr t\u00eb na cil\u00ebsuar &#8220;seksi i dob\u00ebt&#8221;? Thuhet edhe q\u00eb\ngrat\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb pak rezistente ndaj dhimbjeve dhe s\u00ebmundjeve, m\u00eb t\u00eb brishta\npsikologjikisht dhe, sipas nj\u00eb statistike, vuajn\u00eb dy her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se burrat\nnga depresioni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Pse na ndodh?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00eb pari, n\u00eb planin e forc\u00ebs fizike, supremacia e\nburrave \u00ebsht\u00eb e pakund\u00ebrshtueshme. Por, si t\u00eb shpejgosh faktin q\u00eb kjo ide\nshtrihet edhe n\u00eb fusha t\u00eb tjera? \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se burrat shkojn\u00eb dy her\u00eb m\u00eb\npak te mjeku, por kjo ndodh ngaq\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb neglizhent\u00eb, jo ngaq\u00eb s\u00ebmuren m\u00eb pak.\nNj\u00eb shpjegim tjet\u00ebr: Cikli hormonal fem\u00ebror, q\u00eb e v\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb prov\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb\ntrupin dhe shpirtin e femrave, q\u00eb na b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb brishta n\u00eb disa dit\u00eb t\u00eb caktuara\nt\u00eb muajit!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>E v\u00ebrteta!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shifrat flasin vet\u00eb: Vdekshm\u00ebria te t\u00eb\nporsalindurit, niveli i suksesit n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, jet\u00ebgjat\u00ebsia, numri i vet\u00ebvrasjeve&#8230;\nN\u00eb k\u00ebto pika, statistikat jan\u00eb n\u00eb favor t\u00eb femrave. Mos duhet t\u00eb nxjerrin p\u00ebrfundimin\nse burrat jan\u00eb &#8220;seksi i ri i dob\u00ebt&#8221;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Grat\u00eb preferojn\u00eb burrat e pasur<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb vitin 1949, n\u00eb filmin &#8220;Burrat preferojn\u00eb\nbiondet&#8221; (p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nj\u00eb klishe), Merilin Monro k\u00ebndonte k\u00ebng\u00ebn e famshme\n&#8220;Diamantet jan\u00eb miqt\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb vajze&#8221;, duke e theksuar\nshprehjen e m\u00ebsip\u00ebrme. Pastaj, ka gra q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se burri ideal nuk ekziston, k\u00ebshtu\nq\u00eb burri q\u00eb ke n\u00eb krah, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb para. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Pse na ndodh?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Nj\u00eb puthje mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mir\u00eb, por nuk mund\nt\u00eb paguaj\u00eb qiran\u00eb e apartamentit t\u00ebnd modest&#8221;, vazhdon Merilini n\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00ebn\ne saj. N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e shoq\u00ebrive, grat\u00eb kan\u00eb prioritet rritjen dhe edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve,\nmerren me sht\u00ebpin\u00eb dhe shpenzimet e saj. T\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjshme p\u00ebr nevojat sht\u00ebpiake,\nato e din\u00eb realitetin financiar. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, te nj\u00eb partner kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb\nk\u00ebrkojn\u00eb stabilitetin dhe sigurin\u00eb, p\u00ebrpara pamjes s\u00eb jashtme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>E v\u00ebrteta!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Q\u00eb femrat nuk jan\u00eb interesaxhie, por parashikuese\ndhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjshme. P\u00ebr to \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme gjendja financiare m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr\ninstiktin e mbijetes\u00ebs, sesa p\u00ebr at\u00eb t\u00eb interesit. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, ky stabilitet\nnuk p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsohet vet\u00ebm me numrin e 0-ve n\u00eb llogarin\u00eb bankare. N\u00eb kriteret q\u00eb\nduhen marr\u00eb parasysh futen edhe ambicia, pjekuria dhe sensi i p\u00ebrgjegjshm\u00ebris\u00eb.\nSi p\u00ebrfundim, n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e joshjes jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuara se\nkaq: Dhuntit\u00eb q\u00eb merren parasysh nuk jan\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje serioze, sesa n\u00eb\nnj\u00eb lidhje p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar koh\u00ebn!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Flok\u00ebkuqet jan\u00eb t\u00eb nxehta n\u00eb\nshtrat<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Piktura, let\u00ebrsia, kinemaja&#8230; arti n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi\ni p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson grat\u00eb e nxehta me flok\u00eb t\u00eb kuqe. N\u00eb shum\u00eb tekste biblike,\nprostituta Maria Madalena paraqitet me nj\u00eb floknaj\u00eb t\u00eb kuqe. N\u00ebp\u00ebr poema, Bod\u00ebler,\nVerlen, Apoliner kan\u00eb l\u00ebvduar sharmin dhe sensualitetin e femrave me flok\u00eb t\u00eb\nkuqe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Pse na ndodh?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Grat\u00eb me flok\u00eb t\u00eb kuqe joshin q\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e lasht\u00eb.\nEgjiptian\u00ebt nuk kishin besim tek ato, kurse n\u00eb Mesjet\u00eb, flok\u00ebt e kuq interpretoheshin\nsi nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e lidhjes me djallin apo magjin\u00eb. Dinake, gjaknxehta, pasionante,\ntradhtare: Ngjyra e zjarrit \u00ebsht\u00eb pretekst p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha fantazit\u00eb. P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket\nninfomanis\u00eb s\u00eb flok\u00ebkuqeve, ajo e ka origjin\u00ebn te ngjyra e kuqe, q\u00eb i\nbashkangjitet d\u00ebshir\u00ebs dhe pasionit t\u00eb nxeht\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>E v\u00ebrteta!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00ebrs\u00ebri b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb paragjykim, kur\nviktimat jan\u00eb flok\u00ebkuqet! Asnj\u00eb studim shkencor nuk ka treguar nj\u00eb aktivitet\nseksual ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht t\u00eb shfrenuar ose nj\u00eb epsh t\u00eb tepruar te flok\u00ebkuqet. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra thuhen p\u00ebr ne, grat\u00eb. Thuhet se jemi llafazane, dor\u00ebshpuara, emotive&#8230; Sigurisht, ka raste q\u00eb k\u00ebto jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, por jo gjithmon\u00eb ama! Ne nuk jemi t\u00eb prera me thik\u00eb, e mori e mira! Kemi edhe ne ve\u00e7antit\u00eb tona dhe, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, ju e dini, na shajn\u00eb kot&#8230; E dini \u00e7far\u00eb? 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