{"id":22011,"date":"2019-04-09T20:00:06","date_gmt":"2019-04-09T18:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22011"},"modified":"2019-04-09T19:29:41","modified_gmt":"2019-04-09T17:29:41","slug":"%ef%bb%bfmekatoj-se-e-dua-burrin-tim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/%ef%bb%bfmekatoj-se-e-dua-burrin-tim\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffM\u00ebkatoj se e dua burrin tim!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00eb dashur lexues, mund t\u2019ju them me pak fjal\u0451 se kjo ka qen\u0451 java m\u0451 e keqe e jet\u00ebs sime. N\u00eb fakt, tani q\u00eb jam qet\u00ebsuar, mendoj ndryshe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mendoj se gj\u0451ja m\u0451 e r\u0451nd\u0451sishme p\u0451r nj\u0451 grua e sidomos p\u0451r nj\u0451 n\u0451n\u0451 \u0451sht\u0451 sh\u0451ndeti dhe lumturia e f\u0451mij\u0451s, por n\u0451 fillim isha fiksuar pas gj\u0451rave koti\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Do t\u2019i lutesha redaksis\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb let\u00ebr ta botonte te rubrika \u201cRr\u00ebfime m\u00ebkatar\u00ebsh\u201d, ndon\u00ebse nuk e di n\u00ebse ky \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebkati i tim shoqi, apo m\u00ebkati im, q\u00eb e dua aq shum\u00eb at\u00eb&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gjith\u00e7ka nisi nga nj\u0451 mesazh n\u00eb telefon. Ia k\u0451rkova\nburrit telefonin sepse nuk kisha lek\u0451 t\u2019i telefonoja nj\u0451 shoqes sime e ta ftoja\np\u0451r nj\u0451 kafe n\u0451 sht\u0451pi, kur befas, pash\u00eb nj\u0451 mesazh: \u201cSh\u0451ndet, se nuk ta them\ndot me z\u0451\u2026 Ta them pastaj\u201d. Pash\u0451 emrin q\u0451 e kishte d\u0451rguar, por n\u0451 vend t\u0451\nemrit, im shoq kishte shkruar emrin e firm\u0451s ku punon. Nuk e mora shoqen n\u0451\ntelefon dhe menj\u0451her\u0451 u ngrita n\u0451 k\u0451mb\u0451 e shkova te dhoma tjet\u0451r, ku rrinte\nburri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Kush ta ka \u00e7uar k\u0451t\u0451 mesazh? &#8211; e pyeta, duke u munduar\nt\u00eb ruaja qet\u00ebsin\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Nuk e di \u2013 tha ai. N\u0451 t\u0451 v\u0451rtet\u0451, fytyra e tradhtoi, sepse\nu zbardh komplet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Si nuk e di? I kujt \u0451sht\u0451 ky num\u00ebr? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Nuk e di, pra! &#8211; vazhdonte loj\u0451n ai. N\u0451 fakt, ai e ka\nzakon t\u0451 m\u0451 torturoj\u00eb me fjal\u0451 e t\u0451 mundohet ta fsheh\u00eb fajin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po mir\u0451 at\u0451here, po e pyes un\u0451 se kush \u0451sht\u0451. Ja, ta\nmarr n\u0451 telefon!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atij ndoshta nuk i shkonte mendja se mund ta merrja n\u0451\ntelefon dhe nuk u ngrit fare t\u0451 merrte telefonin nga duart e mia. K\u0451t\u0451 doja edhe\nun\u0451. I rash\u0451 numrit dhe nga ana tjet\u00ebr, m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj nj\u0451 grua. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Mir\u0451mbr\u0451ma! &#8211; i thash\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Mir\u0451mbr\u0451ma! &#8211; ma ktheu ajo, pa m\u0451 th\u0451n\u0451 gj\u0451 tjet\u0451r,\nedhe pse e njihte numrin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; I keni d\u0451rguar nj\u0451 mesazh k\u0451tij numri sot! Pse? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Si pse? Po ai \u0451sht\u0451 kolegu im!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &#8211; Po pse\ni shkrove nj\u0451 mesazh t\u0451 till\u0451? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &#8211; Sepse\nishte shefi e nuk flisja dot me z\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &#8211; Dhe ti\nnuk mund ta kaloje nj\u0451 teshtim\u0451 t\u0451 tij pa i th\u0451n\u0451 \u201csh\u0451ndet\u201d?! Po e di ti se ai \u0451sht\u0451\ne martuar dhe nuk duhet t`i \u00e7osh mesazhe jasht\u0451 temave t\u0451 pun\u0451s? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &#8211; Dua t\u2019i\n\u00e7oj &#8211; tha &#8211; dhe do t`i \u00e7oj prap\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nga kjo p\u0451rgjigje, sa nuk plasa nga inati. Burri hynte e\ndilte nga nj\u0451ra dhom\u0451 n\u0451 tjetr\u0451n dhe vinte duart n\u0451 kok\u0451 her\u0451 pas here. Un\u0451\npastaj nd\u0451rrova ton n\u0451 telefon. Ajo u shqet\u0451sua dhe ia dha telefonin burrit t\u0451\nsaj. Ai m\u0451 foli me nj\u0451 z\u0451 kompetent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; \u00c7`keni moj zonj\u0451 q\u0451 na shqet\u0451soni? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; \u00c7`kam un\u0451? Po ja, gruaja jote i ka d\u0451rguar nj\u0451 mesazh\nburrit tim sot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; E pastaj? \u00c7`grua je ti q\u0451 i kontrollon burrit telefonin?\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po t\u0451 kishe kontrolluar ti gruan t\u0451nde, nuk do t\u00eb kishim\narritur deri k\u0451tu. &#8211; i thash\u0451 dhe e mbylla telefonin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur e mbylla telefonin, burri m\u0451 tha lloj-lloj gj\u0451rash. Ai\ne kishte zakon q\u0451 p\u0451r nj\u0451 gj\u0451 t\u0451 vog\u0451l, m\u0451 shante, imagjinoni se si m\u0451 shau pas\nk\u0451saj. Mes t\u0451 tjerave, kishte problem se mos ia merrnin vesh koleg\u0451t e tjer\u0451 t\u00eb\nnes\u0451rmen n\u0451 pun\u0451 k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb kishte ndodhur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po n\u0451se nuk \u0451sht\u0451 ndonj\u0451 mesazh i r\u0451nd\u0451sish\u0451m, pse\nmerakosesh se do ta marrin vesh t\u0451 tjer\u0451t? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Nuk shqet\u00ebsohem p\u0451r mesazhin, por se gruaja ime m\u0451\nkontrollon telefonin! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u0451 fakt, nuk ishte k\u0451shtu. Ai mendonte se \u00e7`shpjegim do\nt`i jepte shefit p\u0451r mesazhin. U zum\u0451 shum\u0451 at\u0451 nat\u0451 dhe si gjithmon\u0451, nuk\narrita ta vija para gabimit. P\u0451rs\u0451ri, si p\u0451rher\u0451, faji ra mbi mua q\u0451 e kisha\nmarr\u0451 n\u0451 telefon dhe e kisha turp\u0451ruar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0451 nes\u0451rmen i telefonova me num\u0451r t\u0451 fsheht\u0451 koleges s\u00eb\ntij. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Mir\u0451m\u00ebngjes &#8211; thash\u0451 dhe ajo ma ktheu me xhentiles\u0451, sepse\nnuk e dinte kush isha. &#8211; Kam nj\u0451 let\u0451r p\u0451r shefin tuaj dhe do t\u0451 doja t\u0451 m\u0451\ntregonit adres\u0451n sepse nuk e di. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po kush jeni ju? Nuk jam e autorizuar t`jua jap, pa e\nditur kush jeni&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; N\u0451 fakt, mendoj se juve do t`ju interesonte m\u0451 tep\u0451r t\u0451\ndinit se \u00e7far\u0451 kam shkruar n\u0451 at\u0451 let\u0451r. I kam shkruar p\u0451r sjelljen t\u0451nde me\nkoleg\u0451t e tu e n\u0451 ve\u00e7anti, me kolegun e zyr\u0451s ngjitur t\u0451ndes. Ke dy dit\u0451 afat t\u0451\nm\u0451 takosh e t\u0451 m\u0451 sqarosh p\u0451r mesazhin mua e pastaj ia jap n\u0451 dor\u0451 shefit letr\u0451n\nvet\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po, kur t\u0451 duash jam gati, vet\u0451m m\u0451 thuaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Mir\u0451, nes\u0451r n\u0451 17, t\u0451 pres. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E mbylla telefonin dhe vura re se po m\u0451 dridheshin duart.\nNuk e dija me \u00e7\u2019do t\u0451 p\u0451rballesha. Ajo ishte nj\u0451 nga koleget e burrit dhe\nndoshta mund t\u0451 ishte edhe e dashura e tij. E \u00e7\u2019mund t\u0451 b\u0451ja un\u0451? N\u0451 kok\u0451 m\u0451\nerdhi nj\u0451 mendim se kisha gabuar. Nejse, tani nuk kthehej prapsht dhe ora e\ntakimit erdhi, po \u00e7\u2019do t\u2019i thoja? Nuk dija asgj\u0451, \u00e7do gj\u0451 ia lash\u0451 rastit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po prisja te lokali ku e kishim l\u0451n\u0451 t\u0451 takoheshim. Ajo\nerdhi bashk\u0451 me burrin e vet. N\u0451 fillim, u ul\u0451n p\u0451rball\u0451 meje dhe burri m\u0451\npyeti se si isha dhe si m\u0451 shkonin pun\u0451t. Iu p\u0451rgjigja. Pastaj filloi ajo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; E dashur zonj\u0451, ky \u0451sht\u0451 nj\u0451 keqkuptim. Un\u0451 nuk kam t\u0451\nb\u0451j fare me burrin t\u0451nd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po pse i d\u0451rgon mesazhe, pra?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Sepse e kam koleg dhe k\u0451shtu e kalojm\u0451 orarin e pun\u0451s\nne. Pastaj, un\u0451 jam shum\u0451 e qeshur dhe e dashur me t\u0451 gjith\u0451 &#8211; tha ajo, por\nharroi se kishte burrin e saj aty. \u2013 Ne jemi koleg\u0451 t\u0451 af\u0451rt sepse jemi gjith\u0451\ndit\u0451n bashk\u0451 dhe, si do ta shtyjm\u0451 dit\u0451n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Se si do ta shtysh dit\u0451n, at\u0451 e di ti. Me pun\u0451, ndoshta?\n&#8211; i thash\u0451 me n\u0451nkuptim. &#8211; Pastaj, n\u0451se ishte nj\u0451 gj\u0451 e zakonshme, pse nuk ia\nthe me z\u0451? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po shefi nuk na lejon\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Pra, qenka di\u00e7ka e ndaluar, &#8211; i thash\u0451. &#8211; Megjithat\u0451, me\nkoleg\u0451 punoj edhe un\u0451. Me koleg\u00eb kam punuar gjithmon\u0451, por nuk kam \u00e7uar ndonj\u0451her\u0451\nasnj\u0451 lloj mesazhi, por m\u0451 kurioze jam t\u0451 di se kur \u0451sht\u0451 ajo \u201cpastaj\u201d. Ti i ke\nshkruar: \u201cTa them pastaj\u201d. Kur \u0451sht\u0451 ajo \u201cpastaj\u201d, q\u0451 lejohet t`ia thuash? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burri i saj vet\u0451m d\u0451gjonte. Ai n\u0451 fillim erdhi me iden\u0451\nse kishte qen\u0451 thjesht nj\u0451 mesazh mes koleg\u0451sh, por tani, po fillonte edhe ai\nta mendonte m\u0451 thell\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Pastaj, kur t\u0451 dilnim p\u0451r pushimin e kafes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Ia the? &#8211; i thash\u0451<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po \u00e7`jan\u0451 k\u0451to tani? Nj\u0451 mesazh ishte! Edhe ai m\u0451\nparalajm\u0451roi p\u0451r ty&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; E \u00e7`t\u0451 tha? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Para se t\u0451 vija, e pyeta a t\u0451 vija vet\u0451m apo me burrin e\nai tha: \u201cMe burrin, q\u0451 t\u00eb mos&nbsp; flas\u00eb \u00e7`t\u0451\nmundet\u201d. Un\u0451 i thash\u0451: \u201cPse \u0451sht\u0451 kaq e fiksuar?\u201d e ai m\u0451 tha: \u201cEpo, k\u0451shtu\n\u0451sht\u0451, se mendon se kam nj\u0451 t\u0451 dashur e tani ty t\u0451 ra, por duroje se do t\u0451\nkaloj\u0451\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u0451 at\u0451 \u00e7ast, pash\u0451 burrin e saj q\u00eb u ngrys. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; E pse t\u0451 tha k\u0451shtu? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po ja, i erdhi keq p\u0451r mua e donte t\u0451 m\u0451 qet\u0451sonte\nsepse isha shum\u0451 e shqet\u0451suar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po t\u0451 qet\u0451sonte ty duke m\u0451 shar\u0451 mua? Duke th\u0451n\u0451 gj\u00ebra\nq\u0451 nuk ekzistojn\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Ai duhet t\u0451 qet\u0451sonte gruan e vet, se ty t\u0451 qet\u0451soj un\u0451;\njam un\u0451 burri yt! &#8211; ia priti burri i saj. Ai tani po e kuptonte se gj\u0451rat ishin\nm\u0451 keq sesa nj\u0451 miq\u0451si mes koleg\u0451sh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po ai \u0451sht\u0451 m\u0451suar t\u0451 m\u0451 shoh\u0451 vet\u0451m duke qeshur dhe i erdhi\nkeq q\u00eb un\u0451 nuk isha mir\u0451 nga telefonata jote&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ajo po mundohej t\u0451 qart\u0451sonte gj\u0451rat, po sa fjal\u0451 thoshte,\nt\u0451 nxirrnin n\u0451 p\u0451rfundimin se ata t\u0451 dy shkonin m\u0451 shum\u0451 se \u00e7\u2019duhet me nj\u0451ri-tjetrin.\nTani n\u0451 bised\u0451 ishte futur edhe burri i saj, megjithat\u0451, ai ishte shum\u0451 i qet\u0451\ndhe i arsyesh\u0451m, jo si burri im q\u0451 sa filloja t\u0451 thoja di\u00e7ka, nervozohej, sepse\ndonte t\u0451 fshihte ato q\u0451 kishte b\u0451r\u0451. Biseda zgjati shum\u0451. Ajo mundohej t\u0451\nfshihte gj\u0451rat q\u0451 dukeshin sheshit. Ju tregova vet\u0451m nj\u0451 pjes\u0451, sepse sa her\u0451 i\np\u0451rmend gj\u0451rat q\u0451 d\u0451gjova at\u0451 dit\u0451, ndihem shum\u0451 keq. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po ju them se pasi u ndam\u0451, burri i saj m\u0451 k\u0451rkoi falje\np\u0451r gjith\u0451 k\u0451t\u0451 shqet\u0451sim q\u0451 m\u0451 kishin sjell\u0451 (ishte nj\u0451 burr\u0451 shum\u0451 i zgjaur\ndhe i sjellsh\u0451m). Edhe ajo premtoi se s`do t`i shkruante m\u0451 e do t\u0451 sillej\nformalisht me burrin tim. Kjo ishte vet\u0451m p\u0451r t\u0451 qet\u0451suar mendjen time, se mos\ndo t\u2019i ruaja dot. L\u0451re, se un\u0451 nuk jam as tip i till\u0451, por pak u qet\u0451sova p\u0451r\nmomentin. Ata t\u0451 dy mund t\u0451 b\u0451jn\u0451 \u00e7`t\u0451 duan dhe as un\u0451, as burri i saj, nuk do\nt\u0451 mund t\u0451 marrim vesh gj\u0451, mjafton q\u0451 ata t\u0451 dy t\u0451 kujdesshem e t\u0451 fshijn\u0451 t\u0451\ngjitha mesazhet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kjo ishte historia q\u0451 doja t`ju tregoja, e cila v\u0451rteton\nedhe nj\u0451her\u0451 se sa jam e dashuruar me burrin tim. \u00c7far\u0451do gj\u0451je t\u0451 b\u0451j\u0451 ai,\nedhe m\u0451 t\u00eb r\u0451nd\u0451 se kjo, un\u0451 prap\u0451 se prap\u0451 nuk do t\u0451 mund ta nd\u0451rroj me asnj\u0451\ntjet\u0451r&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u00eb dashur lexues, mund t\u2019ju them me pak fjal\u0451 se kjo ka qen\u0451 java m\u0451 e keqe e jet\u00ebs sime. N\u00eb fakt, tani q\u00eb jam qet\u00ebsuar, mendoj ndryshe. Mendoj se gj\u0451ja m\u0451 e r\u0451nd\u0451sishme p\u0451r nj\u0451 grua e sidomos p\u0451r nj\u0451 n\u0451n\u0451 \u0451sht\u0451 sh\u0451ndeti dhe lumturia e f\u0451mij\u0451s, por n\u0451 fillim isha fiksuar pas gj\u0451rave [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":22012,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[95],"tags":[245],"class_list":["post-22011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-rrefime-mekatesh","tag-mekat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22011","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22011"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22011\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22012"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}