{"id":22010,"date":"2019-04-09T19:30:40","date_gmt":"2019-04-09T17:30:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=22010"},"modified":"2019-04-09T19:23:51","modified_gmt":"2019-04-09T17:23:51","slug":"%ef%bb%bfpo-rris-femijen-e-kunatit-alkoolist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/%ef%bb%bfpo-rris-femijen-e-kunatit-alkoolist\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffPo rris f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e kunatit alkoolist"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje zonja M.C. Faleminderit q\u00eb pranuat t\u00eb flisni me ne p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb ju mundon…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Asgj\u00eb. Shum\u00eb faleminderit juve, q\u00eb me\ngazet\u00ebn tuaj, na jepni mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb shprehemi. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb kjo p\u00ebr ne, q\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb\ne kemi t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, gjith\u00e7ka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nHistoria juaj nis…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam martuar n\u00eb vitet \u201980, me dashuri. Ishim\nnd\u00ebr t\u00eb paktat \u00e7ifte me fat ku nuk hyri n\u00eb mes mbles\u00ebria, por si te t\u00eb gjitha\n\u00e7iftet, edhe mes nesh ka jetuar xhelozia, nga ana e burrit. Kemi qen\u00eb familje e\nvuajtur. Un\u00eb kam jetuar bashk\u00eb me vjehrrit dhe kishim nga nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb secili;\nishim shum\u00eb ngusht\u00eb. Tre dhoma p\u00ebr shtat\u00eb vet\u00eb. Ishte koh\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe preu\nn\u00eb mes \u00ebndrr\u00ebn q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoja shkoll\u00ebn. Edhe sot, e kam peng q\u00eb nuk e\nvazhdova shkoll\u00ebn, q\u00eb t\u00eb isha dikushi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sa\nvje\u00e7e u martuat?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Shum\u00eb e vog\u00ebl… 18 vje\u00e7e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sa\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb keni?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam tre f\u00ebmij\u00eb; dy vajza e nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Nj\u00eb\nvajz\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb 30 vje\u00e7e, djali 28 vje\u00e7, kurse vajza tjet\u00ebr, 22 vje\u00e7e. Kam raporte\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb mira me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, m\u00eb duan dhe m\u00eb respektojn\u00eb, por edhe ata u rrit\u00ebn me\nhalle. As ata nuk g\u00ebzuan t\u00eb blinin di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re p\u00ebr ta veshur. Vet\u00ebm me gj\u00ebra t\u00eb\nfalura u vesh\u00ebm dhe me t\u00eb falura, jetuam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jan\u00eb\nt\u00eb martuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj tani?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Vajzat po, djali jo. Edhe vajzat, n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn\ntime u martuan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Meq\u00eb\njuve ju ka mbetur peng q\u00eb s\u2019e vazhduat shkoll\u00ebn e lart\u00eb, a i shtynit f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\ntuaj ta vazhdonin shkoll\u00ebn?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb mbaruar vet\u00ebm shkoll\u00ebn e mesme,\npasi kushtet e v\u00ebshtira ekonomike nuk ma mund\u00ebsonin q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u2019u jepja ndihm\u00eb\nekonomike q\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdonin shkoll\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Si\n\u00ebsht\u00eb gjendja juaj ekonomike tani?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe aq e mir\u00eb se vet\u00ebm gjysm\u00eb\nrrog\u00eb vjen n\u00eb shtepi. Burri ka punuar si shofer autobusi, por aktualisht \u00ebsht\u00eb\npa pun\u00eb dhe gjendja jon\u00eb ec\u00ebn me gjysm\u00eb rroge q\u00eb sjell un\u00eb. Kam vajzat q\u00eb m\u00eb\nndihmojn\u00eb me para dhe me ushqim e po ashtu, punoj edhe n\u00ebp\u00ebr familje. Aktualisht,\njam n\u00eb gjendje kritike ekonomike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Tani,\nju jetoni me burrin dhe djalin?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jo, jetoj me m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kaq. Para 10\nvjet\u00ebsh u martua kunati, por i ndodhi nj\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsi sepse gruaja e la. Nga martesa\nq\u00eb pati, kunatit i lindi nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe, pasi ai u nda nga e shoqja, vajza mbeti\npa njeri sepse e \u00ebma nuk e mori dhe i ati gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb i pir\u00eb e s\u2019mund t\u00eb\nkujdeset p\u00ebr t\u00eb bij\u00ebn. N\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb, mua m\u00eb erdhi vjehrra dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cT\u00eb lutem,\nma merr goc\u00ebn se un\u00eb jam shum\u00eb e s\u00ebmur\u00eb\u201d. Pas 6 muajsh vjehrra vdiq dhe vajz\u00ebn\ne mora un\u00eb, q\u00ebkur ishte 6 muajshe, me fukarall\u00ebkun tim dhe me zemr\u00ebn time t\u00eb\nmadhe. Ajo ka edhe t\u00eb atin, por ai nuk punon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po e\n\u00ebma, e takon vajz\u00ebn?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E \u00ebma nuk interesohet fare dhe as q\u00eb vjen ta\nshoh\u00eb vajz\u00ebn e saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po\nvajza, e k\u00ebrkon?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jo, as vajza nuk i flet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po me\nt\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e mamas\u00eb, flet vajza?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jo, jo, jo, ata e konsiderojn\u00eb t\u00eb vdekur,\nama as vajza nuk do t\u2019ia dij\u00eb p\u00ebr ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E di\najo q\u00eb ju nuk jeni prind\u00ebrit e saj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po, e di q\u00eb ne s\u2019jemi prind\u00ebrit e saj, por\nmua m\u00eb th\u00ebrret \u201cmami\u201d, se ajo mua m\u00eb njeh p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Si e priti\najo faktin q\u00eb ju nuk jeni prind\u00ebrit e saj biologjik\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Vajza e ndjen q\u00eb un\u00eb s\u2019jam e \u00ebma, ama po ta\ndonte e \u00ebma e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, do t\u00eb vinte ta takonte. K\u00ebt\u00eb ajo e thot\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb. Me\nmua ndjehet shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, ia plot\u00ebsoj t\u00eb gjitha me aq sa kam mund\u00ebsi. Ajo e\nshikon edhe vet\u00eb q\u00eb nuk kemi dhe nuk i k\u00ebrkon me ngulm gj\u00ebrat, si shoqet e saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sa\nvje\u00e7e \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo tani?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– 12 vje\u00e7e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00c7far\u00eb\nsjelljeje ka?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e rregullt, shum\u00eb e\nsjellshme dhe e edukuar. Edhe n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, po ashtu. Ajo gjithmon\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cUn\u00eb\ndo vazhdoj shkoll\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb mbaj ty nes\u00ebr, kur t\u00eb plakesh\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ka\nndodhur q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrballur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e saj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sigurisht… Jan\u00eb par\u00eb, por vajza nuk i flet\ndhe as ajo nuk i flet. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb dyja t\u00eb ftohta me nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po e\n\u00ebma e saj, me k\u00eb jeton?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar 2-3 her\u00eb, pasi ka\nbraktisur vajz\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Si\n\u00ebsht\u00eb jeta juaj tani?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sk\u00ebterr\u00eb! Un\u00eb mbaj 5 vet\u00eb; un\u00eb, vajza,\ndjali, kunati dhe burri me 80 mij\u00eb lek\u00eb t\u00eb vjetra dhe as buk\u00eb that\u00eb nuk na del.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb\nthat\u00eb se burri nuk punon…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Pa pun\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb… por sikur t\u00eb mos mjaftonte\nkjo, papun\u00ebsia e tij ka sjell\u00eb sherre t\u00eb vazhdueshme n\u00eb familje. Fukarall\u00ebku na\nka sjell\u00eb shum\u00eb d\u00ebme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ju ka\ndhunuar?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ka nj\u00eb sjellje jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb… edhe dhun\u00eb! Ka\nm\u00eb shum\u00eb se dhjet\u00eb vjet q\u00eb ai ushtron dhun\u00eb ndaj meje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Je\nankuar?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jo, jo, \u00ebsht\u00eb turp t\u00eb na shoh\u00eb lagjja; jemi edhe\nme krushqira. T\u00eb vij\u00eb policia n\u00eb mes t\u00eb lagjes, p\u00ebr sherret tona?! \u00cbsht\u00eb turp!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po te\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt, ka ushtruar dhun\u00eb ai?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jo, te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk ka ushtruar dhun\u00eb, vet\u00ebm\nu b\u00ebrtiste. Mbi mua po, vazhdimisht…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb\nthat\u00eb se djali juaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar dhe ju jetoni bashk\u00eb. Po ai, nuk punon?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kur punon, kur jo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ku\npunoni ju?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Pun\u00eb t\u00eb zez\u00eb, ku t\u00eb gjej… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E\np\u00ebrballoni ekonomikisht jetes\u00ebn, me rrog\u00ebn q\u00eb merrni?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Joooooo, e pamundur! Kemi ngr\u00ebn\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb me\nndihma nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Vet\u00ebm\nju e keni mbajtur ekonomikisht familjen?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po, un\u00eb kam mbi 13 vjet q\u00eb sjell para n\u00eb\nsht\u00ebpi. Burri pak koh\u00eb ka punuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Keni\nk\u00ebrkuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ndihm\u00eb n\u00eb zyrat e shtetit p\u00ebr gjendjen tuaj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam k\u00ebrkuar, por nuk t\u00eb pranon kush sot, jo!\nUn\u00eb dua q\u00eb ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, sepse un\u00eb nuk e\np\u00ebrballoj dot me kushtet q\u00eb kam. Dua q\u00eb z\u00ebri im t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb tek ata q\u00eb realisht\nmund t\u00eb na ndihmojn\u00eb, ndonj\u00eb biznesmen apo ndonj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb nga shteti\nekonomikisht, pasi v\u00ebrtet vajz\u00ebs i duhet, q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bisedoi:\nKlaudia MALAJ<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje zonja M.C. Faleminderit q\u00eb pranuat t\u00eb flisni me ne p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb ju mundon… – Asgj\u00eb. Shum\u00eb faleminderit juve, q\u00eb me gazet\u00ebn tuaj, na jepni mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb shprehemi. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb kjo p\u00ebr ne, q\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb e kemi t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, gjith\u00e7ka. – Historia juaj nis… – Jam martuar n\u00eb vitet \u201980, me dashuri. Ishim […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21711,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[249],"class_list":["post-22010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22010","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22010"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22010\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21711"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22010"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22010"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22010"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}