{"id":21947,"date":"2019-04-05T16:30:45","date_gmt":"2019-04-05T14:30:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21947"},"modified":"2019-04-05T16:16:29","modified_gmt":"2019-04-05T14:16:29","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-76","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/04\/astrologia-shpjegon-76\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon…!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

M\u00eb kafshoi qeni<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikosh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb qen\nt\u00eb zi duke t\u00eb kafshuar n\u00eb krahun e djatht\u00eb? Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, kur un\u00eb e prekja, ai\nmundohej t\u00eb m\u00eb largohej. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Qeni,\nn\u00eb bot\u00ebn e \u00ebndrrave, ka role t\u00eb shumta dhe shpjegime t\u00eb ndryshme, gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb\nvar\u00ebsi t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbajtjes s\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs. Qenin mund ta shohim si mikun ton\u00eb t\u00eb\nngusht\u00eb, t\u00eb pandash\u00ebm dhe besnik, q\u00eb na shoq\u00ebron n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb keqe,\nose q\u00eb na qorton edhe kur jemi kok\u00ebfort\u00eb, t\u00eb \u00e7oroditur dhe pa ekuilib\u00ebr. Qeni\nparaqitet p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht si simbol i besnik\u00ebris\u00eb dhe kuraj\u00ebs. N\u00eb rastin tuaj,\ntregon nj\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar t\u00eb shkaktuar nga dikush q\u00eb p\u00ebr ju ishte shum\u00eb\ni r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm. Do t\u00eb zbuloni papritur se nj\u00eb mik\/e shum\u00eb i shtrenjt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\narmiku juaj m\u00eb i madh. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb do ta zbuloni, nuk duhet ta justifikoni\naspak, p\u00ebrkundrazi, duhet t\u2019i tregoni vendin, duke e larguar nga vetja. Kjo\n\u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb n\u00ebse d\u00ebshironi v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb mos dilni t\u00eb d\u00ebmtuar. Largojeni\nnga vetja, kushdo qoft\u00eb ai person q\u00eb tregon q\u00ebllimet e tij\/saj jo t\u00eb mira. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Grumbull njer\u00ebzish<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb sikur isha n\u00eb mes t\u00eb nj\u00eb\ngrumbulli njer\u00ebzish. Nuk i njihja fare, por u gjenda papritur aty. N\u00eb fillim\nndihesha mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb pas sikur doja t\u00eb ikja, por sa isha larg, doja p\u00ebrs\u00ebri t\u00eb\nisha me ata, sepse trembesha nga vetmia. Kishte shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz dhe rrinin n\u00eb nj\u00eb\nvend, sepse ishin n\u00eb form\u00eb rrethi. Dua t\u00eb di, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka? Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>N\u00ebse n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e\ngjeni veten n\u00eb mes t\u00eb nj\u00eb grumbulli njer\u00ebzish, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u2019u\nbashkoheni atyre, pra, t\u00eb bashkoheni me shumic\u00ebn, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb zbuloni se ku\nmund t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtateni. N\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, ju nuk e dini se ku ndodheni shpirt\u00ebrisht,\npsikologjikisht. Jeni natyr\u00eb e ndjeshme dhe keni frik\u00eb nga gjith\u00e7ka. Nga nj\u00ebra\nan\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u2019u bashkoheni njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ndani me ta gjith\u00eb\nndjesit\u00eb q\u00eb keni, por m\u00eb pas i trembeni brisht\u00ebsis\u00eb suaj dhe paragjykimit. Kjo\ns\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju jeni frikacak, p\u00ebrkundrazi, \u00ebndrra tregon se keni nj\u00eb\nkarakter t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe, po t\u00eb doni, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballeni me gjith\u00e7ka e me k\u00ebdo.\nN\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen, ju do t\u2019i b\u00ebni ball\u00eb \u00e7do lloj mendimi negativ q\u00eb ju vjen n\u00eb kok\u00eb\ndhe do t\u00eb arrini t\u00eb fitoni zemrat e shum\u00eb personave rreth jush, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju\nb\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni shum\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se\u00e7 jeni tani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Argjend<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Dua t\u00eb di:\n\u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh argjend n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? E them k\u00ebt\u00eb sepse shoh shum\u00eb\nshpesh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr objekte argjendi, por s\u2019i mbaj mend ngjarjet, ndaj doja nj\u00eb\nshpjegim p\u00ebr argjendin, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Argjendi, n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson\nkarakterin e atij personi q\u00eb e shikon, tregon nj\u00eb lloj personi t\u00eb ngurt\u00eb i cili\nnuk lejon q\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshohet apo t\u00eb preket nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Argjendi simbolizon\nthesaret e fshehura q\u00eb ka n\u00eb vetvete \u00e7do person; mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb ajo q\u00eb thash\u00eb m\u00eb\nsip\u00ebr, ndonj\u00eb talent ose ide p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen. Ve\u00e7 t\u00eb tjerash, tregon d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb qen\u00eb sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb syt\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ju keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur\njeni duke mbajtur nj\u00eb objekt argjendi, \u00ebndrra tregon se n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen do ta\nkeni pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb gjeni q\u00ebndrimin e duhur dhe t\u00eb mbani nj\u00eb sjellje model\ngjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs. Ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb rreth jush do ta kuptojn\u00eb se shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra ju i\nkeni sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsore. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se shikoni nj\u00eb gur t\u00eb \u00e7muar t\u00eb veshur me argjend,\ndo t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju e vler\u00ebsoni shum\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe ajo ju vler\u00ebson shum\u00eb juve. N\u00eb\nqoft\u00eb se merrni dhurata argjendi, \u00ebndrra tregon q\u00eb keni shum\u00eb simpatizant\u00eb\nrreth jush, ama duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes q\u00eb t\u00eb mos mashtroheni nga lajkat. Gjith\u00e7ka\nduhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb me mas\u00eb dhe si t\u00eb till\u00eb, duhet ta pranoni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iu kthye\nish-e dashura<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam\npar\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur t\u00eb dashurit tim i ishte kthyer ish-e dashura nga Gjermania\ndhe ai rrinte me at\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb para meje, ia plot\u00ebsonte t\u00eb gjitha asaj,\nnd\u00ebrsa mua jo. Ai s\u2019m\u00eb fliste fare; vet\u00ebm m\u00eb shihte ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb serioz. Mua m\u00eb\nvinte plasja dhe thosha me vete: \u201cK\u00ebt\u00eb nuk ia fal!\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ju ndikoheni shum\u00eb nga e kaluara e t\u00eb dashurit\ntuaj. Kjo ju sjell shum\u00eb probleme n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen dhe do t\u2019ju sjell\u00eb edhe n\u00eb t\u00eb\nardhmen. Jeni shum\u00eb xheloze, por kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm pjes\u00eb e karakterit; kjo\nxhelozi ju \u00ebsht\u00eb ushqyer paksa edhe nga i dashuri, ndoshta sepse ai ju p\u00ebrmend\nish-t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn ose ajo q\u00eb ka pasur, po mundohet t\u00eb kontaktoj\u00eb s\u00ebrish me t\u00eb. Ju\nkeni shum\u00eb frik\u00eb se mos e humbisni dhe \u00ebndrra e tregon qart\u00eb se do t\u00eb keni\nkonflikte. Prandaj, ve\u00e7 t\u00eb tjerash, \u00ebndrra ju k\u00ebshillon t\u00eb keni kujdes n\u00ebse nuk\nd\u00ebshironi ta humbisni personin q\u00eb keni n\u00eb krah. Mos i jepni shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ish-t\u00eb\ndashur\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, duke e diskutuar disa her\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje, sepse kjo vet\u00ebm sa ju\nul n\u00eb syt\u00eb e t\u00eb dashurit tuaj dhe ai mund t\u00eb ftohet ndaj jush. Kini shum\u00eb\nkujdes, n\u00ebse nuk d\u00ebshironi ta humbisni djalin e zemr\u00ebs. Ruani qet\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe\nfalini aq dashuri sa e meriton, mos e doni m\u00eb shum\u00eb se veten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb humb\u00ebn\nk\u00ebpuc\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur shkova n\u00eb nj\u00eb institucion p\u00ebr t\u00eb paguar nj\u00eb taks\u00eb shkolle dhe p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb v\u00ebrtetim. M\u00eb pas shkova n\u00eb nj\u00eb dyqan dhe aty takova m\u00ebsuesen e\nhistoris\u00eb e dy shoqe t\u00eb miat. Ata m\u00eb takuan dhe m\u00eb pas, ik\u00ebn. Papritur, un\u00eb\nkisha hequr k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt dhe shit\u00ebsja m\u2019i kishte fshehur. Un\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja ngado, por k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt\ne mia nuk i gjeja. N\u00eb dyqan shihja shum\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb, por un\u00eb doja t\u00eb miat. M\u00eb pas\ndola nga dyqani me k\u00ebmb\u00eb zbathur dhe shkova n\u00eb nj\u00eb dyqan tjet\u00ebr, ku pash\u00eb nj\u00eb\nbluz\u00eb t\u00eb bardh\u00eb q\u00eb vendosa ta provoja. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>Ju po\nkaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe jeni shum\u00eb konfuz p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket t\u00eb ardhmes\nsuaj, sidomos asaj profesionale. K\u00ebpuc\u00ebt kan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, por n\u00eb\nrastin tuaj, q\u00eb i keni humbur, tregojn\u00eb stres dhe humbjen e di\u00e7kaje q\u00eb mund t\u00eb\njet\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore, materiale ose thjesht, shqet\u00ebsimet e k\u00ebsaj periudhe q\u00eb keni,\nju shfaqen n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Do t\u2019ju jepen shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb larguar stresin q\u00eb\nkeni, por ju vazhdoni t\u00eb ngulni k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn tuaj, e cila me sa shikojm\u00eb n\u00eb\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrr, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhja e duhur p\u00ebr ju. Pranoni t\u00eb ndihmoheni edhe nga\ndikush tjet\u00ebr. Duke qen\u00eb se po kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr\nmb\u00ebshtetje, por po nuk e k\u00ebrkuat ose nuk e pranuat, nuk keni si t\u00eb dilni nga\nkjo gjendje. Bluza e bardh\u00eb tregon pik\u00ebrisht mund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u2019ju jepet p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nndryshuar taktik\u00eb t\u00eb menduari apo t\u00eb ecuri n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Kjo do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb\ngjeni at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb keni k\u00ebrkuar prej koh\u00ebsh. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

M\u00eb kafshoi qeni – \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikosh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb qen t\u00eb zi duke t\u00eb kafshuar n\u00eb krahun e djatht\u00eb? Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, kur un\u00eb e prekja, ai mundohej t\u00eb m\u00eb largohej. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ju lutem? – Qeni, n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e \u00ebndrrave, ka role t\u00eb shumta dhe shpjegime t\u00eb ndryshme, gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-21947","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21947","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21947"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21947\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21947"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21947"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21947"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}