{"id":21880,"date":"2019-03-30T20:00:57","date_gmt":"2019-03-30T19:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21880"},"modified":"2019-03-30T19:40:24","modified_gmt":"2019-03-30T18:40:24","slug":"%ef%bb%bfcfare-te-bej-per-ta-rifituar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfcfare-te-bej-per-ta-rifituar\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeff\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj p\u00ebr ta rifituar?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam 30 vje\u00e7e dhe sapo kam dal\u00eb nga nj\u00eb lidhje q\u00eb zgjati dy vjet. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb kolegu im n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe kjo i b\u00ebn gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr mua. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm dhimbja e ndarjes, por m\u00eb vjen edhe shum\u00eb turp nga koleg\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kisha thurur shum\u00eb \u00ebndrra p\u00ebr at\u00eb njeri, b\u00ebra gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ta rifitoja, u b\u00ebra e fort\u00eb, e dob\u00ebt, qava para tij, u trgova egoiste, por ai ishte me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dhe dukej i lumtur me t\u00eb. Do t\u00eb b\u00ebja akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i treguar se sa meritoj dhe se sa bosh m\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb. M\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj? Po vuaj shum\u00eb. Kam menduar t\u00eb largohem nga ajo pun\u00eb, por kam frik\u00eb se nuk do t\u00eb gjej tjet\u00ebr si ajo…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Redaksia:- Duket se kjo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb tema qendrore n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj: K\u00ebrkoni t\u2019i tregoni se sa meritoni, k\u00ebrkoni ta rifitoni at\u00eb. Pyetja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb: Keni humbur (dhe k\u00ebrkoni) nj\u00eb person apo veten? Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, njohim dik\u00eb q\u00eb na b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihemi mir\u00eb, na b\u00ebn t\u00eb krijojm\u00eb \u00ebndrra, na mbush me optimiz\u00ebm p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb dhe, kur largohet, na l\u00eb nj\u00eb boshll\u00ebk. Mendojm\u00eb se ky boshll\u00ebk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me faktin q\u00eb ai na la, se n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se kthehet, gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb jet\u00eb mir\u00eb, por e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshe. Boshll\u00ebku \u00ebsht\u00eb brenda nesh, tjetri thjesht plot\u00ebsonte boshll\u00ebqet tona, me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e tij. Kur largohet, e ndjejm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se di\u00e7ka mungon n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, por ajo q\u00eb mungon nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht ai (q\u00eb nuk na d\u00ebshiron), por vetvetja. Mosha rreth t\u00eb tridhjetave \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb kritike p\u00ebr shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz, sepse at\u00ebhere ne pyesim veten: \u201cKush jam, ku shkoj, sa meritoj, \u00e7far\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time?\u201d etj. T\u2019u jap\u00ebsh p\u00ebrgjigje k\u00ebtyre pyetjeve \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ndaj ne kemi tendenc\u00ebn t\u00eb \u201cngjitemi\u201d pas njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb dashur, pas dashurive, ideve, \u00ebndrrave. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jeta, n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ka shum\u00eb t\u00eb paprituara\ndhe \u00ebsht\u00eb gjynah q\u00eb ju nuk mund t\u00eb shihni disa nga cil\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja: Forc\u00ebn e\nk\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljes, t\u00eb dini t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni, t\u00eb luftoni p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e d\u00ebshironi… Ju\nvet\u00ebm duhet t\u00eb gjeni se ku duhet t\u2019i drejtoni k\u00ebto aft\u00ebsi dhe t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb nuk i\nkeni zbuluar ende te vetja. Un\u00eb ju uroj gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat, e dashur!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lexuesit\np\u00ebrgjigjen: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– T\u00eb b\u00ebhesh l\u00ebmsh t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh, me gjith\u00eb at\u00eb! \ud83d\ude1b Bleri <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ta harrosh, si\u00e7 t\u00eb harroi edhe ai. Marinela <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ha kos… rregullohet \u00e7do gj\u00eb. :))) Luani<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Le t\u2019ia luaj\u00eb syrin t\u00eb parit q\u00eb i del para\ndhe e garantoj un\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shum\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb. AI Bisha<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam 30 vje\u00e7e dhe sapo kam dal\u00eb nga nj\u00eb lidhje q\u00eb zgjati dy vjet. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb kolegu im n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe kjo i b\u00ebn gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr mua. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm dhimbja e ndarjes, por m\u00eb vjen edhe shum\u00eb turp nga koleg\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb. Kisha thurur shum\u00eb \u00ebndrra p\u00ebr at\u00eb njeri, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20625,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-21880","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21880","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21880"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21880\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20625"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21880"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21880"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21880"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}