{"id":21879,"date":"2019-03-30T19:30:38","date_gmt":"2019-03-30T18:30:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21879"},"modified":"2019-03-30T19:29:45","modified_gmt":"2019-03-30T18:29:45","slug":"%ef%bb%bfmund-te-hiqet-memesia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfmund-te-hiqet-memesia\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffMund t\u00eb hiqet m\u00ebm\u00ebsia?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! V\u00ebllai im ka qen\u00eb i martuar dhe ka nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Ata t\u00eb dy jan\u00eb divorcuar dhe vajz\u00ebn e mori ky n\u00eb kujdestari. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>E \u00ebma e vajz\u00ebs as nuk e takuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn as nuk ka kontribuar p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy vjet. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ka disa muaj q\u00eb v\u00ebllai \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb burg n\u00eb Greqi. Vajza e tij shkon n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb aty por tani e mban e dashura e tij. E kemi kontaktuar disa her\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb na jap\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn q\u00eb ta adoptojm\u00eb ne por nuk do. Un\u00eb jetoj n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb dhe dua ta mar vajz\u00ebn e tij k\u00ebtu dhe t\u00eb kujdesem p\u00ebr at\u00eb. Ekziston ndonj\u00eb ligj q\u00eb t\u2019ia heqesh m\u00ebm\u00ebsin\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs p\u00ebr persona q\u00eb nuk kujdesen dhe as nuk e k\u00ebrkon. I shkruajta\u00a0 para disa jav\u00ebsh t\u00eb shkoj ta mar\u00eb por nuk ktheu p\u00ebrgjigje.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Harbi\nAliaj, avokat, tel 0682044002:-<\/strong>\n&nbsp;P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Am\u00ebsia dhe at\u00ebsia e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb\nlindur nga martesa provohen nga akti i lindjes, i regjistruar n\u00eb regjistrin e\ngjendjes civile. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se n\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb,\npra ata biologjik\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb ngat\u00ebrrojm\u00eb definicionin e am\u00ebsis\u00eb, pra nuk\nmund t\u00eb shprehemi se si mund t\u00eb heqim m\u00ebm\u00ebsin\u00eb. Nga ajo q\u00eb ju relatoni kuptohet\nse b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr&nbsp; nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i cili\n\u00ebsht\u00eb i ekspozuar nga mungesa e p\u00ebrkujdesjes s\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb tij por edhe e babait,\np\u00ebr sa koh\u00eb ky i fundit vuan d\u00ebnimin me burgim. N\u00eb k\u00ebto kushte kuptohet se i\nmituri nuk ka nj\u00eb prind t\u00eb \u201cp\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm\u201d q\u00eb t\u00eb ushtroj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb\nprind\u00ebrore. M\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi prind\u00ebrore kuptohet t\u00ebr\u00ebsia e t\u00eb drejtave dhe\ndetyrave q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebr q\u00ebllim t\u00eb sigurojn\u00eb mir\u00ebqenien emocionale, sociale dhe\nmateriale t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, duke u kujdesur p\u00ebr t\u00eb, duke mbajtur raporte vetjake me\nt\u00eb, duke i siguruar atij mir\u00ebrritjen, edukimin, arsimimin, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsimin ligjor\ndhe administrimin e pasurive t\u00eb tij. F\u00ebmija ndodhet n\u00ebn p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb\nprind\u00ebrore deri n\u00eb arritjen e mosh\u00ebs madhore. N\u00eb kushte ideale p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia\nprind\u00ebrore u p\u00ebrket dhe ushtrohet s\u00eb bashku nga t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit n\u00eb lidhje me\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebn e lindur gjat\u00eb martes\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre ose jasht\u00eb martese, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb njohur\nnga t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se prind\u00ebrit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs kan\u00eb vdekur, jan\u00eb n\u00eb\npamund\u00ebsi t\u00eb ushtrojn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb prind\u00ebrore p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb pazot\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nvepruar, t\u00eb munges\u00ebs ose p\u00ebr arsye ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, f\u00ebmija mund t\u2019i\nbesohet nj\u00eb an\u00ebtari t\u00eb familjes, nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb caktuar si kujdestar, nj\u00eb\nfamiljeje kujdestare ose edhe nj\u00eb institucioni t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesjes. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast\nmerret mendimi i sektorit t\u00eb ndihm\u00ebs dhe sh\u00ebrbimeve sociale, sipas dispozitave\np\u00ebr kujdestarin\u00eb. Kur prindi shp\u00ebrdoron p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb prind\u00ebrore ose tregon\npakujdesi t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb n\u00eb ushtrimin e saj, ose me veprimet e tij ndikon n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb\nt\u00eb d\u00ebmshme n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, me k\u00ebrkes\u00ebn e prindit tjet\u00ebr, t\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmve\nt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs ose t\u00eb prokurorit, mund t\u2019i hiqet p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia prind\u00ebrore. Heqja e\np\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore b\u00ebhet me vendim t\u00eb gjykat\u00ebs, duke u thirrur si i\npaditur prindi, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin k\u00ebrkohet kjo heqje. Gjykata vendos q\u00eb heqja e\np\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore t\u00eb shtrihet mbi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ose mbi disa nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e\nlindur para vendimit t\u00eb gjykat\u00ebs p\u00ebr heqjen e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb. P\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia\nprind\u00ebrore mund t\u00eb kthehet me vendim t\u00eb gjykat\u00ebs, kur pushon shkaku p\u00ebr t\u00eb\ncilin \u00ebsht\u00eb hequr kjo p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi. Ju uroj gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! V\u00ebllai im ka qen\u00eb i martuar dhe ka nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Ata t\u00eb dy jan\u00eb divorcuar dhe vajz\u00ebn e mori ky n\u00eb kujdestari. E \u00ebma e vajz\u00ebs as nuk e takuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn as nuk ka kontribuar p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy vjet. Ka disa muaj q\u00eb v\u00ebllai \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb burg n\u00eb Greqi. Vajza e tij [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":19891,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[87],"tags":[2004],"class_list":["post-21879","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-avokati","tag-harbi-aliaj"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21879","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21879"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21879\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19891"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21879"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21879"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21879"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}