{"id":21863,"date":"2019-03-30T22:30:34","date_gmt":"2019-03-30T21:30:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21863"},"modified":"2019-03-30T15:02:27","modified_gmt":"2019-03-30T14:02:27","slug":"%ef%bb%bf7-menyra-per-te-thyer-rutinen-ne-shtrat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bf7-menyra-per-te-thyer-rutinen-ne-shtrat\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeff7 m\u00ebnyra p\u00ebr t\u00eb thyer rutin\u00ebn n\u00eb shtrat"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Kur e ke kok\u00ebn t\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb me shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb shpesh gj\u00ebja e fundit q\u00eb t\u00eb shkon n\u00ebp\u00ebr mend. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fajin e ka kriza ekonomike, pun\u00ebt e p\u00ebrditshme dhe plot faktor\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb shtojn\u00eb stresin. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb pak\u00ebsuar k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fundit, p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjer\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb fort\u00eb me partnerin, duhet t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb jet\u00eb seksuale t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqshme. Kini parasysh dy faktor\u00eb: Zbavitjen dhe kufijt\u00eb tuaj personal\u00eb. M\u00eb posht\u00eb kemi renditur 7 m\u00ebnyra p\u00ebr t\u00eb thyer rutin\u00ebn n\u00eb seks…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ka gjithmon\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr seks t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mjaft i rrudhe buz\u00ebt! Seksi i shpejt\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb zbavit\u00ebs n\u00ebse jeni\nkrijuese dhe mbani q\u00ebndrimin e duhur. Pastaj, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ekspert\u00ebt e seksit mendojn\u00eb\nse, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb seks t\u00eb b\u00ebsh, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb shtohet d\u00ebshira. \u201cSeksi i shpesht\u00eb\nsjell edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb seks, pasi k\u00ebshtu q\u00ebndroni t\u00eb lidhur\u201d, thot\u00eb nj\u00eb seksolog.\nKur \u00e7iftet e shprehin fizikisht d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e tyre p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, kjo shton\nintimitetin. Pra, kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb te gjyshja dhe gjella \u00ebsht\u00eb duke zier n\u00eb\nzjarr, shtr\u00ebngoje pas vetes partnerin dhe tregoji se \u00e7\u2018do t\u00eb thot\u00eb seks \u201ci v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u201d!\nNuk ke nevoj\u00eb as t\u00eb heq\u00ebsh t\u00eb gjitha rrobat. N\u00ebse keni koh\u00eb q\u00eb jeni bashk\u00eb, nj\u00eb\nsulm erotik surpriz\u00eb do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroj\u00eb me syt\u00eb hapur p\u00ebr jav\u00ebt n\u00eb vazhdim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Dit\u00ebt e lavdishme nuk kan\u00eb marr\u00eb fund<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eb kujtohet fillimi i lidhjes suaj, kur ishit kaq t\u00eb ngjitur me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin\nsa nuk prisnit t\u00eb shkonit n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit p\u00ebr t\u00eb hequr rrobat? Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb\nnuk arrinit dot t\u00eb dilnit as nga makina. Her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, kur jeni duke u kthyer n\u00eb\nsht\u00ebpi nga nj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje, p\u00ebrgatitu m\u00eb par\u00eb dhe vish t\u00eb brendshme seksi. Kur\nmakina t\u00eb jet\u00eb parkuar n\u00eb garazh, ulu n\u00eb sediljen e pasme dhe joshe si dikur\n(tani e di se cil\u00ebt butona erotik\u00eb t\u00eb shtyp\u00ebsh). Mbase makinat nuk kan\u00eb qen\u00eb\nvendi ideal p\u00ebr ju, por mund t\u00eb gjeni nj\u00eb vend q\u00eb e frekuentonit dikur n\u00eb\nlidhjen tuaj. Strategjia \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb rizgjosh ato ndjesi magjike t\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb\npakontrolluar, me kusht q\u00eb ky vend t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb qen\u00eb sht\u00ebpia e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb\ntij…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Filloni loj\u00ebrat<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta bind\u00ebsh partnerin t\u00eb provoj\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb reja,\npor n\u00ebse keni ngecur n\u00eb pozicionin e misionerit pasi keni fikur dritat, ka\nardhur koha t\u00eb thyesh rutin\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebsh di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re. Fillojeni duke vizituar\nnj\u00eb \u201cdyqan p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur\u201d (sex shop). Keti, nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e z\u00ebn\u00eb me pun\u00eb, tregon p\u00ebr\nnj\u00eb dit\u00eblindje zbavit\u00ebse q\u00eb kishte kaluar me t\u00eb shoqin e saj prej 16 vjet\u00ebsh.\n\u201cNe shkuam n\u00eb nj\u00eb restorant dhe, kur u kthyem, u fut\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cdyqan p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nrritur\u201d. Nuk kishim par\u00eb kurr\u00eb aq shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb mund ta ndihmojn\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift t\u00eb\nmartuar, sa u desh t\u00eb mbanim nj\u00ebri-tjetrin mos qeshnim me t\u00eb madhe. Ishim si\nadoleshent\u00eb!\u201d. \u00c7ifti provoi disa nga lodrat e dyqanit dhe pat\u00ebn v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb dit\u00eblindje\np\u00ebr t\u2019u mbajtur mend. Nuk ke nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb blesh gjith\u00eb kompletin e dominueses (jo\nt\u00eb gjitha mund t\u00eb kopjojm\u00eb lukun e Madon\u00ebs, pa u dukur qesharake!). Mund t\u00eb\nblini disa gj\u00ebra si p\u00ebr shembull, zari i seksit dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebni \u00e7\u2019thot\u00eb ai, ose\nmund t\u00eb blini nj\u00eb \u201cloj\u00eb me letra\u201d, n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb shkruar gj\u00ebra pikante… Seksi\nduhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb zbavit\u00ebs, prandaj mos hezitoni t\u00eb luani me t\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Kurr\u00eb mos ji aq e z\u00ebn\u00eb sa ta l\u00ebsh seksin pas\ndore<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ia vlen t\u00eb hidhesh ti n\u00eb sulm. Nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb vitet \u201850, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb\nm\u00eb situata kur burri t\u00eb k\u00ebrkon seks dhe ti \u201cshtrihesh dhe e l\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pun\u00ebn e\nvet…\u201d. Shum\u00eb burra n\u00eb lidhjet afatgjata ankohen se partneret e tyre presin q\u00eb\nata t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb hapin e par\u00eb, sepse tradicionalisht, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb roli i mashkullit.\nTani, jo m\u00eb! Grat\u00eb lyejn\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb dhe riparojn\u00eb aparatet elektrike, ama p\u00ebrs\u00ebri\nt\u00eb mbetemi gra t\u00eb d\u00ebshirueshme p\u00ebr partner\u00ebt tan\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb edhe mund ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb\nhapin e par\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jemi seksi. B\u00ebje seksin zbavit\u00ebs, duke i lidhur duart ose\nsyt\u00eb dhe l\u00ebre ta gjej\u00eb vet\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si t\u00eb heq\u00eb rrobat e tua… P\u00ebrve\u00e7se do t\u00eb\nshkaktoj\u00eb t\u00eb qeshura, ky test i vog\u00ebl do t\u00eb t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb sa i shkath\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb\npartneri yt. K\u00ebshtu, do t\u00eb thyeni rutin\u00ebn e vjet\u00ebr t\u00eb heqjes s\u00eb rrobave dhe kjo\ndo t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb edhe si \u201czgjatje e loj\u00ebrave paraparake\u201d. Ai do t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb si ti\nje lojcakja e tij e prap\u00eb dhe e parezistueshme. Vet\u00ebm sigurohu q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb dy\ndakord p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. B\u00ebni fizkultur\u00eb s\u00eb bashku<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mund t\u00eb duket e \u00e7uditshme, por fizkultura s\u00eb bashku mund t\u2019ju eksitoj\u00eb t\u00eb\ndyve dhe jo vet\u00ebm sepse do t\u00eb vishni pak rroba. Sipas ekspert\u00ebve, n\u00ebse b\u00ebn\nbashk\u00eb fizkultur\u00eb me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr person t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, kjo shton dopamin\u00ebn\n(hormonin e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs) dhe qet\u00ebson ankthin, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kesh d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb\nluash edhe kur je e lodhur dhe e djersitur. Mendojeni fizkultur\u00ebn si nj\u00eb loj\u00eb\nparaprake p\u00ebr djegien e dhjam\u00ebrave, e cila nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e m\u00ebrzitshme dhe\nrutin\u00eb si p\u00ebr shembull t\u00eb rrish nj\u00eb or\u00eb n\u00eb bi\u00e7iklet\u00eb vet\u00ebm. Ja edhe nj\u00eb bonus\ntjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr partnerin: Djersa e tij p\u00ebrmban androstadienon, nj\u00eb derivat i\ntestosteronit q\u00eb shton eksitimin e femr\u00ebs kur ajo e nuhat. Pra, n\u00ebse t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebrzitur\nrutina e fizkultur\u00ebs, ka nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr me zbavit\u00ebse p\u00ebr t\u00eb djegur kalorit\u00eb,\nsesa t\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb kilomet\u00ebr vrap m\u00eb shum\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb tabu t\u2019i tregosh se e do n\u00eb publik<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti e do partnerin… Tani tregoja k\u00ebt\u00eb… n\u00eb publik! Dikur ishte e\npaimagjinueshme t\u2019i shfaqje partnerit shenja dashurie n\u00eb publik, por kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb\ndi\u00e7ka shum\u00eb stimuluese p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy, me kusht q\u00eb t\u00eb respektoni disa kufij.\nSigurisht, kapja p\u00ebrdore \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e mir\u00eb (ju doni t\u00eb rrini t\u00eb lidhur),\npor nj\u00eb f\u00ebrkim i leht\u00eb pas qafe ose nj\u00eb prekje e gjurit posht\u00eb tavolin\u00ebs n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb\ndiskrete, nuk do t\u00eb shkaktoj\u00eb asnj\u00eb skandal. Ti e di tashm\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb i p\u00eblqen\npartnerit t\u00ebnd. N\u00ebse i p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb puthje e leht\u00eb n\u00eb qaf\u00eb, at\u00ebhere, pse t\u00eb mos e\nb\u00ebsh? Shoq\u00ebroje me nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje t\u00eb prap\u00eb dhe ji e sigurt\u00eb se atij do t\u2019i\nlindin ide t\u00eb reja kur t\u00eb ktheheni n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Pajtohuni me seks<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kemi d\u00ebgjuar shum\u00eb vet\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb se \u201cseksi pas nj\u00eb z\u00ebnke \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i miri\u201d.\nN\u00eb realitet, \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb kesh d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr seks, kur gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb t\u00eb\nshkon n\u00ebp\u00ebr mend \u00ebsht\u00eb ta godas\u00ebsh… ama, \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh gjith\u00eb\npasionin q\u00eb krijon zem\u00ebrimi dhe ta kanalizosh at\u00eb n\u00eb energji seksuale. N\u00eb fund\nt\u00eb fundit, pas nj\u00eb lufte, trupi yt prodhon sasi t\u00eb madhe adrenaline dhe\ndopamine, p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00ebs shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm. Her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr,\nkur ti dhe partneri i futeni nj\u00eb grindjeje t\u00eb madhe, kujtohu se lufta fitohet m\u00eb\nmir\u00eb n\u00eb shtrat ose n\u00eb kanape, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb seks pasionant q\u00eb t\u00eb lejon t\u00eb ruash\nintimitetin edhe n\u00eb momentet e v\u00ebshtira. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kur e ke kok\u00ebn t\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb me shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb shpesh gj\u00ebja e fundit q\u00eb t\u00eb shkon n\u00ebp\u00ebr mend. Fajin e ka kriza ekonomike, pun\u00ebt e p\u00ebrditshme dhe plot faktor\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb shtojn\u00eb stresin. Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb pak\u00ebsuar k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fundit, p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjer\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":16393,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[405],"class_list":["post-21863","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seksologu","tag-seksologu-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21863","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21863"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21863\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16393"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}