{"id":21841,"date":"2019-03-29T22:00:38","date_gmt":"2019-03-29T21:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21841"},"modified":"2019-03-29T20:14:34","modified_gmt":"2019-03-29T19:14:34","slug":"a-mund-ta-zgjas-marredhenien-me-shume","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/a-mund-ta-zgjas-marredhenien-me-shume\/","title":{"rendered":"A mund ta zgjas marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien m\u00eb shum\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; Doktor Evi, un\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb nga Fieri, q\u00eb kam nj\u00eb problem intim.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong> Kam lidhje t\u00eb rregullt prej m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy vjet\u00ebsh me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e dua shum\u00eb. Q\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e lidhjes, kemi patur dhe kemi marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale t\u00eb rregullta, por muajt e fundit un\u00eb po kaloj m\u00eb shpejt n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nuk dua t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb, pasi d\u00ebshiroj q\u00eb edhe partnerja ime t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqet, por eksitimi dhe nxeht\u00ebsia e saj e tep\u00ebrt, m\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb kaloj shpejt. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj, pasi un\u00eb dua q\u00eb aktet tona t\u00eb zgjasin m\u00eb tep\u00ebr? Pse m\u00eb ndodh kjo gj\u00eb sipas jush dhe si mund t\u00eb rregullohet?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Dr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog, Poliklinika Qendrore, 0682213329:- <\/strong>Letra t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj natyre na vijn\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb redaksin\u00eb ton\u00eb dhe ne, jemi t\u00eb \u201cdetyruar\u201d n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, t\u00eb rip\u00ebrs\u00ebrisim p\u00ebrgjigjen. Ejakulacioni i parakohsh\u00ebm ose imatur, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dukuri shum\u00eb e shpesht\u00eb te meshkujt (n\u00eb 30% t\u00eb tyre) kryesisht t\u00eb moshave t\u00eb reja, por edhe n\u00eb moshat m\u00eb t\u00eb avancuara. Kjo dukuri \u00ebsht\u00eb e shpesht\u00eb dhe e kemi trajtuar edhe her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, por meqen\u00ebse na k\u00ebrkohet vazhdimisht ta diskutojm\u00eb, po e trajtojm\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri, duke shpresuar t\u2019ju informojm\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat nuk keni informacion. Ejakulacioni i parakohsh\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb problem i shum\u00eb meshkujve n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn. N\u00eb nj\u00eb nga kongreset ku un\u00eb kam marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb e ku flitej p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb problem, \u00ebsht\u00eb diskutuar shum\u00eb p\u00ebr shkaqet dhe zgjidhjen e ejakulacionit t\u00eb parakohsh\u00ebm. Ve\u00e7 k\u00ebtyre, u diskutuan edhe skemat e reja t\u00eb mjekimit, m\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme se ato t\u00eb m\u00ebparshmet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Shqet\u00ebsimi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i drejt\u00eb dhe me k\u00ebt\u00eb,\nn\u00ebnkuptoj q\u00eb akti juaj seksual l\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebshiruar n\u00eb cil\u00ebsi. Kjo mund t\u00eb\nb\u00ebhet shkak p\u00ebr ftohjen e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve, ndoshta deri n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb\ndhimbsh\u00ebm, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb ndarja. Ka \u00e7ifte q\u00eb mund ta pranojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje dhe n\u00eb\npraktik\u00ebn klinike kemi patur raste jo t\u00eb pakta ku \u00e7ifte p\u00ebr 25-30 vjet aktiv\u00eb\nn\u00eb jet\u00ebn seksuale, kan\u00eb vuajtur nga ejakulacioni i parakohsh\u00ebm q\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e\naktivitetit t\u00eb tyre seksual. \u00c7dokush q\u00eb do ta d\u00ebgjonte nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, do t\u00eb ndjente\nkeqardhje apo habi, por ja q\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e till\u00eb ndodh dhe e gjitha kjo sepse\nnjer\u00ebzit e konsiderojn\u00eb akoma tabu trajtimin e k\u00ebsaj patologjie e cila p\u00ebr fat\nt\u00eb mir\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga m\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshmet n\u00eb mjekim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Ejakulacioni i parakohsh\u00ebm, si\u00e7 e tregoni edhe ju,\n\u00ebsht\u00eb ai moment kur mashkulli arrin n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm pa e kontrolluar at\u00eb, shum\u00eb m\u00eb\np\u00ebrpara se partnerja e tij. Nj\u00eb gjendje e till\u00eb sigurisht q\u00eb e b\u00ebn mashkullin t\u00eb\nndihet keq, e zhvleft\u00ebson para pratneres, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, sjell shqet\u00ebsime\nedhe te femra, si: Dhimbje n\u00eb fund t\u00eb barkut, nervoziz\u00ebm, zhg\u00ebnjim etj. N\u00eb\nqoft\u00eb se kjo gjendje b\u00ebhet e shpesht\u00eb, mund t\u00eb ndodhin gj\u00ebra t\u00eb pad\u00ebshiruara.\nMjekimi b\u00ebhet me pomada t\u00eb ndryshme, teknika shtr\u00ebnguese, si edhe me ila\u00e7e nga\ngoja. Ju k\u00ebshilloj juve, apo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata meshkuj q\u00eb kan\u00eb probleme t\u00eb tilla, q\u00eb\nt\u00eb kontaktojn\u00eb me mjekun specialist dhe t\u00eb mos vuajn\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e\ncila tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht e kurueshme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Doktor Evi, un\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb nga Fieri, q\u00eb kam nj\u00eb problem intim. Kam lidhje t\u00eb rregullt prej m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy vjet\u00ebsh me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e dua shum\u00eb. Q\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e lidhjes, kemi patur dhe kemi marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale t\u00eb rregullta, por muajt e fundit un\u00eb po kaloj [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21275,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89],"tags":[2327],"class_list":["post-21841","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mjeku","tag-dr-evi-dani"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21841","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21841"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21841\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21275"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21841"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21841"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21841"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}