{"id":21840,"date":"2019-03-29T23:00:04","date_gmt":"2019-03-29T22:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21840"},"modified":"2019-03-29T20:05:55","modified_gmt":"2019-03-29T19:05:55","slug":"%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-18","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-18\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffPyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb djali im 6 vje\u00e7 ia ka treguar organin e tij seksual nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije tjet\u00ebr po t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb tij?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong> Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb ka tronditur jasht\u00eb mase, prandaj pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje sa m\u00eb shpejt, ju lutem. Un\u00eb reagova shum\u00eb keq kur e pash\u00eb, e q\u00ebllova me p\u00ebll\u00ebmb\u00eb e m\u00eb pas u pendova. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po t\u00eb shikoni me v\u00ebmendje ose t\u00eb pyesni edhe prind\u00ebr\nt\u00eb tjer\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb par\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs 3-6 vje\u00e7are u p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb t\u00eb luajn\u00eb\n\u201cdoktorash\u201d dhe disa nga prind\u00ebrit reagojn\u00eb duke u t\u00ebrhequr veshin ose duke i\nq\u00eblluar, si\u00e7 keni vepruar ju. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e p\u00ebrshtatshme. Uluni dhe\nbisedoni me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj, shpjegojini se ju e kuptoni q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ai apo ajo do\nt\u00eb rritet, por nuk duhet t\u00eb dal\u00eb pa rroba para t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Gjithashtu, duhet\nt\u2019u tregoni se ka prekje t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb keqe, tregojini se trupi i vet u p\u00ebrket\nvet\u00ebm atyre dhe se ata kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr intimitet; nuk mund t\u2019ua tregojn\u00eb pjes\u00ebt\ne trupit t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve. M\u00ebsojini se askush nuk duhet t\u2019i prek\u00eb pa d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e tyre\ndhe n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ndokush i prek n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme ose t\u00eb dhunshme, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\nduhet t\u2019u tregojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrve. Pastaj, nuk duhet t\u00eb harroni q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb shum\u00eb\nkurioz\u00eb t\u00eb din\u00eb p\u00ebr intimitetin e tyre. Ka nga ata f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb kur pyesin rreth\norganeve, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj si t\u00eb pyesin: \u201cSi rri H\u00ebna n\u00eb Qiell?\u201d etj. Jemi ne, t\u00eb\nrriturit, q\u00eb u japim pyetjeve t\u00eb tyre kuptimin dhe dometh\u00ebnien e duhur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; <strong>N\u00eb \u00e7\u2019mosh\u00eb vajzat duhet t\u00eb vihen n\u00eb dijeni rreth<\/strong> <strong>menstruacioneve? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Vajzat duhet t\u00eb informohen n\u00eb\nmosh\u00ebn 8 vje\u00e7are. Ka edhe libra t\u00eb shumt\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u2019u vijn\u00eb n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb, por\nmamat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ndajn\u00eb me vajzat e tyre eksperiencat personale, t\u2019u tregojn\u00eb si\nu ndjen\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb q\u00eb u erdh\u00ebn periodat, a u shqet\u00ebsuan e t\u00eb tjera si k\u00ebto t\u00eb\nk\u00ebsaj natyre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211;\nJam shum\u00eb e shqet\u00ebsuar, jam e lidhur prej disa muajsh me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb shum\u00eb\nsimpatik dhe ndihem e dashuruar me t\u00eb. Ne b\u00ebnim seks shum\u00eb shpesh, kurse tani\nsikur m\u00eb ka ikur d\u00ebshira, s\u2019e kuptoj se pse ai nuk m\u00eb josh m\u00eb. Theksoj q\u00eb jam e\ndashuruar pas tij. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndikuar n\u00eb uljen e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs\nsime p\u00ebr seks?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Nuk mendoj se nuk ju josh i\ndashuri. Mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb arsye t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb cilat un\u00eb thjesht po i rreshtoj k\u00ebtu\nsepse nuk e di cila mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb arsyeja juaj: E para, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb pilula n\u00ebse\ne p\u00ebrdor prej shum\u00eb koh\u00ebsh; mbase organizmi yt ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb\nkontraceptivin. Shpesh, p\u00ebrdorimi i gjat\u00eb i nj\u00eb pilule ndikon n\u00eb ndryshimin e\nniveleve hormonale, duke pak\u00ebsuar paksa d\u00ebshir\u00ebn seksuale. Arsye tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb\njet\u00eb stresi, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb t\u00eb cilit trupi mund t\u00eb reagoj\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme.\nKa femra te t\u00eb cilat stresi ndikon shum\u00eb n\u00eb uljen e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs seksuale. Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr\narsye \u00ebsht\u00eb frika q\u00eb mund t\u00eb keni n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb shtatzani t\u00eb pad\u00ebshirueshme\netj. Edhe p\u00ebrdorimi i tepruar i alkoolit ndikon shum\u00eb n\u00eb uljen e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs\nseksuale, prandaj un\u00eb do t\u2019ju thoja t\u00eb shikoni brenda jush se \u00e7far\u00eb jua\nshkakton k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje dhe ta zgjidhni problemin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211;\nPara dy net\u00ebsh e gjeta bashk\u00ebshortin tim duke u masturbuar n\u00eb banjo; jam tmerr\u00ebsisht\ne tronditur. Ne kemi nj\u00eb vit t\u00eb martuar. Si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb\nq\u00eb nga un\u00eb nuk i mungon asgj\u00eb? A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale kjo gj\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Duhet t\u00eb dini q\u00eb shumica e\nmeshkujve masturbohen \u00e7do dit\u00eb, madje edhe disa her\u00eb brenda asaj kohe. Nuk\nduhet t\u00eb trembeni apo ta mendoni k\u00ebt\u00eb si tradhti apo munges\u00eb d\u00ebshire ndaj jush,\nsepse shpesh, masturbimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj teknike relaksimi p\u00ebr ata. Ndoshta n\u00eb\nato momente ai ka pasur nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb seks, ju s\u2019keni qen\u00eb aty dhe ai ka gjetur\nm\u00ebnyren tjet\u00ebr, masturbimin. Ju duhet t\u00eb flisni hapur dhe t\u00eb mos tregoheni e\nashp\u00ebr me t\u00eb, por me zgjuarsi t\u00eb kuptoni arsyen se pse e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb veprim t\u00eb\ntill\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb nga ju s\u2019i mungon asgj\u00eb. Pastaj, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb e\n\u201ctmerrshme\u201d q\u00eb t\u00eb tronditeni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb\nmasturbohet sesa t\u2019ju tradhtoj\u00eb realisht me nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr. Shikoni an\u00ebn\npozitive t\u00eb k\u00ebtij veprimi dhe mundohuni t\u00eb kuptoni arsyen. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb djali im 6 vje\u00e7 ia ka treguar organin e tij seksual nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije tjet\u00ebr po t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb tij? Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb ka tronditur jasht\u00eb mase, prandaj pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje sa m\u00eb shpejt, ju lutem. Un\u00eb reagova shum\u00eb keq kur e pash\u00eb, e q\u00ebllova me p\u00ebll\u00ebmb\u00eb e m\u00eb pas u [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[1237],"class_list":["post-21840","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seksologu","tag-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21840","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21840"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21840\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21840"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21840"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21840"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}