{"id":21816,"date":"2019-03-29T14:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-03-29T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21816"},"modified":"2019-03-29T13:17:07","modified_gmt":"2019-03-29T12:17:07","slug":"%ef%bb%bfeshte-e-bukur-lidhja-me-nje-burre-te-martuar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfeshte-e-bukur-lidhja-me-nje-burre-te-martuar\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeff\u00cbsht\u00eb e bukur lidhja me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb martuar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Historit\u0451 njer\u0451zore jan\u0451 nga m\u0451 t\u0451 \u00e7uditshmet. Edhe historit\u0451 q\u0451 kam lexuar n\u0451 k\u0451t\u0451 gazet\u0451 jan\u0451 shum\u0451 t\u0451 bukura dhe tregojn\u0451 realitetin e v\u0451rtet\u0451, jet\u0451n e v\u0451rtet\u0451 pa maska dhe pa e shtremb\u0451ruar aspak ngjarjen, por ekzakt\u0451sisht, ashtu si ka ndodhur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Duke marr\u0451 shkak nga k\u0451to histori, edhe un\u0451 dua t\u2019ju tregoj historin\u0451 time, e cila \u0451sht\u0451 aq e thjesht\u0451 dhe e bukur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jam beqare dhe akoma nuk jam martuar, por ka dy vjet q\u0451\nkam njohur dashurin\u0451 time. Kur punoja n\u0451 nj\u0451 firm\u0451 private, rash\u0451 n\u0451 dashuri me\np\u0451rgjegj\u0451sin e repartit tim. Ai \u0451sht\u0451 nj\u0451 burr\u0451 i ve\u00e7ant\u0451, ka tipare t\u0451\nrregullta dhe \u0451sht\u0451 shum\u0451 i \u0451mb\u0451l. Edhe nga pamja fizike ngjajm\u0451 shum\u0451. Ai nuk\n\u0451sht\u0451 shum\u0451 i gjat\u0451 dhe jo i sh\u0451ndosh\u0451. Edhe un\u0451 kam nj\u0451 fizik t\u0451 rregullt, pra,\na thua jemi b\u0451r\u0451 fiks p\u0451r nj\u0451ri-tjetrin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u0451 pun\u0451 nuk flisnim shum\u0451, por n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi shkonim me t\u0451 nj\u00ebjtin\nautobus, sepse jetojm\u0451 af\u0451r. Pra, ai \u0451sht\u0451 njeriu ideal p\u0451r mua. E keqja e\nk\u0451saj pune \u0451sht\u0451 se ai \u0451sht\u0451 i martuar. Dihej se do t\u0451 dilte ndonj\u0451 gj\u0451, sepse\nishte shum\u0451 e bukur p\u0451r t\u0451 qen\u0451 e v\u0451rtet\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7do dit\u0451 e b\u0451nim rrug\u0451n bashk\u0451. N\u0451 fillim flisnim p\u0451r pun\u0451n\np\u0451r koleg\u0451t. Nj\u0451 dit\u0451 m\u0451 ftoi p\u0451r nj\u0451 kafe. Pranova menj\u0451her\u0451. U ul\u0451m n\u0451 nj\u0451\ntavolin\u0451 n\u0451 qoshe dhe pas nj\u0451 bisede mbi pun\u0451n, ai tha:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Ti ndoshta e ke kuptuar se un\u0451 ndjej di\u00e7ka p\u0451r ty. Q\u0451 n\u0451\nmomentin e par\u0451 q\u0451 t\u0451 pash\u0451, nuk m\u0451 shqitesh nga mendja. Vij n\u0451 pun\u0451 me nj\u0451 g\u0451zim\naq t\u0451 madh, se je ti aty. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Oh, t\u0451 lutem\u2026 &#8211; e nd\u0451rpreva, por ai s\u2019m\u0451 la t\u0451 vazhdoja.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; E di \u00e7far\u0451 do t\u0451 thuash. Q\u0451 un\u0451 jam i martuar. Po ti\nnuk ke pse merakosesh, sepse un\u0451 gati jam ndar\u0451. Kemi shum\u0451 probleme. Un\u0451 me\ngruan ka dy vjet q\u0451 nuk jemi si m\u0451 par\u0451. L\u0451re pastaj q\u0451, kur t\u0451 kam par\u0451 ty, nuk\nm\u0451 hyn n\u0451 sy asnj\u0451 fem\u0451r tjet\u0451r e jo m\u0451 gruaja ime q\u0451 tani \u0451sht\u0451 b\u0451r\u0451 si mos m\u0451\nkeq. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai fliste dhe un\u0451, n\u0451 vend q\u0451 t`i ktheja p\u0451rgjigje e t`i\nthoja se nuk mund t\u0451 lidhesha me t\u0451, nuk thoja asgj\u0451, por dashurohesha p\u0451rher\u0451\ne m\u0451 shum\u0451 sa m\u0451 shum\u0451 fliste. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0451shtu, i pranova dhe dola me t\u0451 disa her\u0451. N\u0451 pun\u0451 nuk\nflisnim shum\u0451, por ai m\u0451 mbronte gjithmon\u0451 dhe shum\u0451 nga koleg\u0451t e kishin\nkuptuar se di\u00e7ka kishte mes nesh. Ndjehesha ndryshe. M\u0451 n\u00eb fund, jeta kishte\nfilluar t\u0451 ishte e bukur, por frika m\u00eb e madhe ishte se mos e merrte vesh e\nshoqja. Nj\u0451 dit\u0451 ia thash\u0451. Ai qeshi me t\u0451 madhe dhe tha:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Zem\u0451r, e mira e k\u0451saj pune do t\u0451 ishte ta merrte vesh e\npastaj do t\u0451 ishim t\u0451 lir\u0451. Ajo mezi po pret t\u0451 ndahemi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Mos ka edhe ajo ndonj\u0451? &#8211; i thash\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u0451 at\u0451 moment, ai u zbeh. Kaloi p\u0451shtym\u0451n dhe u kthye nga\nun\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Nuk m\u0451 intereson asgj\u0451 m\u0451 p\u0451r t\u0451. Le t\u0451 ket\u0451. Un\u0451 nuk e\ndua m\u0451. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u0451 fakt, ai ndjente akoma p\u0451r gruan e tij. K\u0451t\u0451 e vura re\nnga m\u0451nyra se si e b\u0451ri fytyr\u0451n kur un\u0451 i thash\u0451 se ajo mund ta tradhtonte. Nejse,\nlidhja jon\u0451 b\u0451hej \u00e7do dit\u0451 e m\u0451 e fort\u0451. Ne filluam ta donim aq shum\u0451 nj\u0451ri-tjetrin\nsa nuk pyesnim m\u0451 p\u0451r njeri. Nj\u0451 dit\u0451 m\u0451 ra telefoni kur isha n\u0451 pun\u0451. Ai nuk ishte\nn\u0451 pun\u0451 sepse ishte turni i dyt\u0451. Nuk e njihja numrin, megjithat\u0451, e hapa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Alo! &#8211; d\u0451gjova nj\u0451 z\u0451 gruaje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Alo, kush jeni ju? &#8211; e pyeta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po ju kush jeni? &#8211; m\u0451 tha &#8211; Numri juaj \u0451sht\u0451 ky?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Po \u2013 i thash\u0451, &#8211; por kush jeni\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fjala m\u0451 mbeti n\u0451 fyt. Ajo e mbylli telefonin. E kuptova menj\u0451her\u0451\nse kush mund t\u0451 ishte. E prisja k\u0451t\u0451 telefonat\u0451 prej shum\u0451 koh\u0451sh. Tani q\u0451 e\nmora k\u0451t\u0451 telefonat\u0451 nuk arrita t\u2019ia them fjalit\u0451 q\u0451 kisha koh\u0451 q\u0451 i kisha p\u00ebrgatitur\nn\u0451 mendje. U ndjeva shum\u0451 keq. Kushedi sa e l\u0451nduar ishte! Po sikur t\u0451 vinte n\u0451\npun\u0451 e t\u0451 p\u0451rballej me mua? \u201cAjo tani e di dhe un\u0451 duhet t\u0451 pregatitem\u201d,\nmendova, por a isha e zonja vall\u0451? Nuk besoj. Shkova te shefi dhe i k\u0451rkova\nleje. I thash\u0451 se ndjehesha keq e nuk mund t\u0451 rrija. Ika menj\u0451her\u0451 n\u0451 sht\u0451pi. Nuk\ni telefonova atij sepse mendoja se ata po ziheshin. Ndenja ashtu si e shushatur\nduke mallkuar veten se si kisha shkat\u0451rruar nj\u0451 familje. Nga ora 3, ra p\u0451rs\u0451ri\nzilja e telefonit. Kisha frik\u0451 ta prekja me dor\u0451. Besoja se ishte ajo, por n\u0451 t\u0451\nv\u0451rtet\u0451, nuk ishte k\u0451shtu. Ishte ai. E hapa e tmerruar se ndoshta mund dhe t\u0451\nishte e shoqja q\u0451 m\u0451 merrte me telefonin e tij, por \u00e7do dyshim u shua kur d\u0451gjova\nz\u0451rin e tij:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Zem\u0451r! Pse ke marr\u0451 leje? Je e s\u0451mur\u0451?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Jo &#8211; i thash\u0451 me gjys\u0451m z\u0451ri. &#8211; M\u0451 mori gruaja jote n\u0451\ntelefon. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; E \u00e7far\u00eb t\u0451 tha?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Asgj\u0451, e mbylli telefonin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; Mir\u0451, qet\u0451sohu tani se kur t\u0451 mbaroj pun\u0451, do t\u0451 vij nga\nti &#8211; m\u0451 tha ai. Fjal\u0451t e tij, si gjithmon\u0451, m\u0451 qet\u0451suan. Ai ishte nj\u0451 njeri\nshum\u0451 i \u0451mb\u0451l. U qet\u0451sova disi dhe prita mbr\u0451mjen. Ai erdhi dhe n\u0451 fakt, dukej\nse ishte i m\u0451rzitur, por jo aq sa un\u0451. Biseduam dhe ai habitej se pse ajo nuk i\nkishte th\u0451n\u0451 asgj\u0451 atij. Si duket, donte ta kapte n\u0451 befasi s\u0451 bashku me mua,\nq\u0451 pastaj i gjith\u0451 faji i divorcit t`i mbetej atij. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ishte nj\u0451 nat\u0451 e gjat\u0451. U mendova shum\u0451 dhe vendosa ta\nshk\u0451pus lidhjen, edhe pse ky do t\u0451 ishte nj\u0451 shkat\u0451rrim p\u0451r mua. N\u0451 m\u00ebngjes\nshkova n\u0451 pun\u0451. Erdhi edhe ai sepse e kishte nd\u0451rruar turnin. Gjat\u0451 pun\u0451s, nuk\nfol\u0451m shum\u0451. Pastaj dol\u0451m dhe shkuam nga sht\u0451pia ime. Ai m\u0451 tregoi se si i\nkishte th\u0451n\u0451 asaj se ishte i dashuruar me mua. Ajo n\u0451 fakt kishte koh\u0451 q\u0451 e\ndinte, por nuk ia kishte th\u0451n\u0451. Ishin z\u0451n\u0451 shum\u0451 keq. Pavar\u0451sisht nga ftohja e\nlidhjes s\u0451 tyre, ajo nuk besonte se ai do ta tradhtonte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cPo k\u0451shtu \u0451sht\u0451 kur nuk e mban burrin af\u0451r, i kishte th\u0451n\u0451\nai. I gjeta n\u0451 vend tjet\u0451r ato q\u0451 m\u0451 mohoje ti\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0451t\u0451 bised\u0451 e kishte d\u0451gjuar edhe djali i tij dhe ishte m\u0451rzitur\nshum\u0451. Ja pra \u00e7`t\u0451 sjell tradhtia! Megjith\u0451k\u00ebt\u0451 ne t\u0451 dy ndenj\u0451m me nj\u0451ri-tjerin\np\u0451r disa or\u0451, por nuk ishte si her\u0451t e tjera. Ishim m\u0451 t\u0451 ndrydhur dhe mendja e\nt\u0451 dyve fluturonte larg. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dit\u0451n tjet\u0451r, n\u00eb koh\u0451n e pushimit, i thash\u00eb se mendoja t\u0451\nlargohesha nga puna dhe t\u0451 ndaheshim p\u0451r pak koh\u0451. Ai u m\u0451rzit shum\u0451 dhe m\u0451 tha\nse kjo ishte e pamundur. Kur ja, pas k\u0451tij rrebeshi, erdhi koha me diell. Gruaja\ne tij do t\u0451 shkonte n\u0451 specializim jasht\u0451 vendit. Djalin do ta linte tek e \u0451ma\ndhe ne do t\u0451 ishim t\u0451 lir\u0451. Ai kishte koh\u0451 q\u0451 nuk kishte lidhje me gruan e tij,\npor prap\u0451 se prap\u0451, ajo nuk donte t\u0451 ndahej. Megjithat\u0451, p\u0451r momentin ishte\ndora e Zotit q\u0451 na dha liri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E dua \u00e7mendurisht k\u0451t\u0451 njeri sa nuk mendoj gjat\u0451 p\u0451r\nlidhjen ton\u0451. Ai m\u0451 do mua shum\u0451, por n\u00eb mes \u0451sht\u0451 djali i tij. T\u0451 dy besojm\u0451 se\nky largim i gruas s\u0451 vet jasht\u0451 shtetit, do t\u0451 jet\u0451 nj\u0451 fillim i mbar\u0451. Si kjo\nsurpriz\u0451, do t\u0451 ket\u0451 edhe t\u0451 tjera p\u0451r ne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pra, n\u0451 nj\u0451 lidhje, kryesore \u0451sht\u0451 dashuria. N\u00ebse ka\ndashuri, \u00e7do gj\u0451 mund t\u0451 b\u0451het e mundur. Pavar\u0451sisht se \u0451sht\u0451 thik\u0451 me dy presa;\nai mund t\u0451 humb\u0451 dashurin\u0451 e t\u0451 birit dhe n\u0451se nuk ndodh kjo, un\u0451 do t\u0451 jem\ngjithmon\u0451 n\u0451 plan t\u0451 dyt\u0451 e t\u0451 kem frik\u0451 t\u0451 dal hapur, t\u0451 mos mund t\u2019ua\nprezantoj shoqeve e shok\u0451ve, sepse e mir\u0451 apo e keqe, prind\u0451rit nuk jetojn\u0451 m\u0451\ne nuk m\u0451 ndalojn\u0451 dot ta \u00e7oj jet\u0451n d\u0451m me nj\u0451 burr\u0451 t\u0451 martuar. Megjithat\u0451,\n\u0451sht\u0451 bukur t\u0451 b\u0451sh marr\u0451zira. Po nuk shkove t\u0451 luftosh, nuk fiton dot. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Historit\u0451 njer\u0451zore jan\u0451 nga m\u0451 t\u0451 \u00e7uditshmet. Edhe historit\u0451 q\u0451 kam lexuar n\u0451 k\u0451t\u0451 gazet\u0451 jan\u0451 shum\u0451 t\u0451 bukura dhe tregojn\u0451 realitetin e v\u0451rtet\u0451, jet\u0451n e v\u0451rtet\u0451 pa maska dhe pa e shtremb\u0451ruar aspak ngjarjen, por ekzakt\u0451sisht, ashtu si ka ndodhur. Duke marr\u0451 shkak nga k\u0451to histori, edhe un\u0451 dua t\u2019ju tregoj historin\u0451 time, e [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21127,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[249],"class_list":["post-21816","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21816","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21816"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21816\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21127"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21816"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21816"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21816"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}