{"id":21811,"date":"2019-03-28T23:00:41","date_gmt":"2019-03-28T22:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21811"},"modified":"2019-03-28T19:45:28","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T18:45:28","slug":"%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-17","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-17\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffPyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb t\u00eb fejuarin tim menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale, e z\u00eb gjumi top? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb normale. Pothuajse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb meshkujve u ndodh kjo gj\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pas arrijn\u00eb orgazm\u00ebn, meshkujt hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb faz\u00ebn e relaksit, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb endorfinave q\u00eb prodhon trupi yn\u00eb pas nj\u00eb ore aktiviteti fizik, q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb efekt t\u00eb leht\u00eb \u00e7tensionimi. Pas k\u00ebsaj, vjen relaksi q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7on drejt gjumit dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb se normale. Mos t\u2019ju duket \u00e7udi po t\u2019ju them se k\u00ebshtu ndodh edhe me nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb femrash, sepse seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb moment relaksi dhe me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, t\u00eb \u00e7on edhe drejt gjumit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam\nshum\u00eb dhimbje kur b\u00ebj marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. Duket sikur organi im \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i\nvog\u00ebl n\u00eb krahasim me at\u00eb t\u00eb partnerit tim. Nuk besoj se kam ndonj\u00eb infeksion,\nsepse dhimbjet i kam gjat\u00eb dep\u00ebrtimit t\u00eb organit t\u00eb mashkullit…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Dhimbja gjat\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale mund t\u00eb vij\u00eb\nnga nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb faktor\u00ebsh, mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb shkak emotiv, psikologjik, infeksion ose ta\nsjell\u00eb forma jo e zakonshme e vagin\u00ebs suaj. Mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast,\npartneri juaj t\u00eb mos k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00eb p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie gjersa t\u00eb gjendet shkaku i k\u00ebsaj\ndhimbjeje q\u00eb ndjeni ju. Ju duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni patjet\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb analiz\u00eb te mjeku\ngjinekolog, q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtoni mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e ndonj\u00eb infeksioni. N\u00ebse nuk keni\ninfeksion dhe dilni e past\u00ebr n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb, duhet shikuar se mos keni ndonj\u00eb\nndrydhje psikologjike ose duhet par\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si b\u00ebni dashuri ju. Duhet t\u00eb\nprovoni t\u00eb gjeni k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos b\u00ebni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb\nkeni dhimbje sepse kjo mund t\u00eb sjell\u00eb si pasoj\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjim dhe humbje d\u00ebshire p\u00ebr\nmarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– T\u00eb\ndashur\u00ebs sime nuk i p\u00eblqen fare seksi oral, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb ia plot\u00ebsoj t\u00eb\ngjitha nuk i mungon asgj\u00eb. P\u00ebrse nuk pranon ajo t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj seksi me mua?\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jo t\u00eb gjitha femrave u p\u00eblqen seksi oral. Te disa\nprej tyre, kjo gj\u00eb shakton nj\u00eb ndjesi neverie. N\u00ebse ndodh k\u00ebshtu edhe me t\u00eb\ndashur\u00ebn tuaj, nuk duhet ta detyroni apo t\u00eb ushtroni presion mbi t\u00eb q\u00eb ta b\u00ebj\u00eb.\nKa nga ato femra q\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb \u201cposht\u00ebruara\u201d po ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb sepse para\ndisa vitesh, kjo praktik\u00eb njihej si tabu dhe pik\u00ebrisht burrat ishin ata q\u00eb i\nparagjykonin r\u00ebnd\u00eb femrat q\u00eb b\u00ebnin seks oral, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb thell\u00eb brenda tyre, u\np\u00eblqen kjo gj\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb ta detyrosh partneren t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb\ngjeste t\u00eb tilla. Ka plot m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndier i k\u00ebnaqur dhe i lumtur\nn\u00eb intimitet, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm seksi oral. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– U b\u00ebn\u00eb\ntre muaj q\u00eb kam probleme me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale, kam disfunksion seksual.\n\u00c7far\u00eb e shkakton k\u00ebt\u00eb? Mos e kam psikologjike? Ku duhet t\u00eb drejtohem? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/em><\/strong>Disfunksioni\nerektil seksual mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb me natyr\u00eb psikogjene ose organike, ndaj mjekimi\nmund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet andrologut ose psikoseksologut. Terapia me\npsikoseksolog vazhdon p\u00ebr nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb sesa ajo me androlog, me m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb se 7 seanca. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se shpenzimet jan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha,\nedhe rezultati \u00ebsht\u00eb 20%. Andrologu, ndoshta me nj\u00eb apo dy konsulta, bashk\u00eb me\nmjekimin p\u00ebrkat\u00ebs, ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb rezultate 80-90 % pozitive. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, ju takon\njuve t\u00eb zgjidhni rrug\u00ebn q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ndiqni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nKaloj shpejt n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. A sh\u00ebrohet kjo gj\u00eb? A mund ta zgjas aktin?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\n<\/strong>Sigurisht q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje e\nkurueshme dhe ky sh\u00ebrim vjen pas konsult\u00ebs me mjekun androlog.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb t\u00eb fejuarin tim menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale, e z\u00eb gjumi top? – \u00cbsht\u00eb normale. Pothuajse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb meshkujve u ndodh kjo gj\u00eb. Pas arrijn\u00eb orgazm\u00ebn, meshkujt hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb faz\u00ebn e relaksit, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb endorfinave q\u00eb prodhon trupi yn\u00eb pas nj\u00eb ore aktiviteti fizik, q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb efekt t\u00eb leht\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219,88],"tags":[1237],"class_list":["post-21811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje","category-seksologu","tag-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21811","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21811"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21811\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21811"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21811"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21811"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}