{"id":21808,"date":"2019-03-28T22:00:11","date_gmt":"2019-03-28T21:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21808"},"modified":"2019-03-28T19:40:08","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T18:40:08","slug":"%ef%bb%bfsi-jetoj-i-ngujuar-per-shkak-te-gjakmarrjes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfsi-jetoj-i-ngujuar-per-shkak-te-gjakmarrjes\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffSi jetoj i ngujuar p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb gjakmarrjes"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Historia q\u00eb dua t`ju tregoj sot, \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo e nj\u00eb zot\u00ebrie me origjin\u00eb nga Puka. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

At\u00eb do ta prezantojm\u00eb jo me emrin e tij, por me nj\u00eb pseudonim, p\u00ebr faktin e thjesht\u00eb sepse ky zot\u00ebri ka problem gjakmarrjeje dhe nuk duam t`i hapim edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb probleme me an\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebtij shkrimi. S\u00eb bashku me zot\u00ebrin\u00eb, zgjodh\u00ebm emrin Petrit, por ky \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb detaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar historin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij dhe gjendjen e r\u00ebnduar n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn po jeton. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Petriti jeton n\u00eb nj\u00eb fshat t\u00eb Mirdit\u00ebs, i fshehur nga gjith\u00eb realiteti, jo sepse ashtu d\u00ebshiron, por i detyruar nga rrethanat e jet\u00ebs. Mosha e tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thyer, por pamja e tregon vuajtjen q\u00eb po p\u00ebrjeton dita dit\u00ebs. \u00cbsht\u00eb i gjat\u00eb, por pak i k\u00ebrrusur, me duar t\u00eb vrara nga puna q\u00eb b\u00ebn. Ndryshe nga \u00e7ka ndodhur me familjet e tjera q\u00eb kemi prezantuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb faqe, k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb, personi nuk b\u00ebn thirrje p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb sepse shprehet se shpresat e tij jan\u00eb shuar, por d\u00ebshiron vet\u00ebm t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb mjerimin n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin ka arritur ai dhe shoq\u00ebria shqiptare. Petriti jetonte n\u00eb nj\u00eb ambient t\u00eb braktisur q\u00eb s\u2019ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt me nj\u00eb ambient banimi. Mobiljet dhe \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr e nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie normale mungojn\u00eb. Nuk mund t\u00eb tregoj a kishte kuzhin\u00eb apo tualet sepse mjafton t\u00eb them se ai jeton n\u00eb nj\u00eb bunker dhe fjal\u00ebt e tjera dalin t\u00eb tep\u00ebrta. Un\u00eb b\u00ebra nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb me zotin Petrit dhe ai m\u00eb tregoi se si po mbijetonte n\u00eb ato fshatra t\u00eb thella t\u00eb mal\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb Mirdit\u00ebs, pasi ishte braktisur nga familjar\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tij t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kishte 10 vjet pa i par\u00eb. Un\u00eb u ula p\u00ebrball\u00eb tij dhe fillova t`i b\u00ebj pyetje p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb, duke m\u00eb impresionuar q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb m\u00eb kontaktoi n\u00eb telefon…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Petrit,\n\u00e7\u2019t\u00eb shtyu t\u00eb kontaktoje me mua?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kontaktova me ty pasi rast\u00ebsisht m\u00eb ra n\u00eb\ndor\u00eb gazeta juaj dhe lexova artikullin q\u00eb kishit shkruar p\u00ebr zonj\u00ebn Telallari.\nV\u00ebrtet m\u00eb r\u00ebndoi n\u00eb zem\u00ebr fati i saj dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb saj… N\u00eb at\u00eb moment, vendosa\nt\u00eb flas p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn q\u00eb po b\u00ebj un\u00eb sepse shoq\u00ebria shqiptare mendon vet\u00ebm an\u00ebn e\nmir\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillimit t\u00eb vendit dhe liberalizimin e vizave, kur ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb po\nvdesin urie dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, s\u2019do t\u2019ia dij\u00eb asnjeri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sa\nvje\u00e7 jeni?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam 49 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nga\njeni?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam nga Puka me origjin\u00eb, por e kam l\u00ebn\u00eb\nvendlindjen, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb gjakmarrjes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mund\nta dim\u00eb arsyen pse keni hyr\u00eb n\u00eb gjak?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sigurisht… Jam n\u00eb gjak sepse para disa\nvjet\u00ebsh kam kryer nj\u00eb vrasje, p\u00ebr arsye familjare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– P\u00ebr\nt\u00eb cil\u00ebn, disa vjet i keni kaluar n\u00eb burg, apo jo? Sa vjet u d\u00ebnuat dhe sa b\u00ebt\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Pas vrasjes, jam burgosur dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb\nedhe gjyqi, q\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebnoi me 18 vjet burg. Kam q\u00ebndruar n\u00eb burg p\u00ebr 18 vjet me\nrradh\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Edhe\npse keni b\u00ebr\u00eb burgun, ju ende keni probleme p\u00ebr aktin q\u00eb keni kryer?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po, edhe pse shteti m\u00eb ka d\u00ebnuar dhe kam\nhequr vitet e burgut, nuk m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb falur gjaku, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb jetoj si nj\u00eb hije n\u00eb\nk\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos rrezikuar veten.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sa\nkoh\u00eb ka q\u00eb jetoni n\u00eb k\u00ebto kushte, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bunker?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– U b\u00ebn\u00eb tashm\u00eb 10 vite q\u00ebkur un\u00eb kam dal\u00eb\nnga burgu, q\u00eb jetoj i vetmuar k\u00ebtu, ku nuk kam as uj\u00eb, as drita. Kam b\u00ebr\u00eb disa\np\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb rregulluar di\u00e7ka, por ka qen\u00eb e kot\u00eb. Uj\u00eb mbush diku k\u00ebtu af\u00ebr\nme kova, kurse drita kam k\u00ebrkuar disa her\u00eb, por banor\u00ebt e zon\u00ebs nuk m\u00eb kan\u00eb\nndihmuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ju\njetoni vet\u00ebm dhe gjith\u00e7ka duhet ta b\u00ebni vet\u00eb? Me \u00e7far\u00eb gatuani? \u00c7far\u00eb hani dhe\nme \u00e7far\u00eb i lani rrobat?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mundohem t\u00eb marr ushqime t\u00eb thata q\u00eb nuk\nkan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb gatim, kurse rrobat i laj me dor\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha. K\u00ebshtu m\u00eb ka\nvajtur halli se e kisha familjen shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, por ata s`desh\u00ebn nj\u00eb baba si un\u00eb,\nq\u00eb edhe pse b\u00ebri nj\u00eb gabim, mund t\u00eb ndryshonte…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb\ntregoni di\u00e7ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr familjen tuaj…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb par\u00eb kisha sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time, kisha gruan\ndhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, por pasi rash\u00eb n\u00eb burg, ata m\u00eb mohuan dhe un\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos b\u00ebr\u00eb\nndonj\u00eb budallall\u00ebk, ika sepse s`doja t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoja s\u00ebrish n\u00eb burg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I\ntakoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Absolutisht, jo. E \u00ebma nuk m\u00eb lejon t`i\ntakoj. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb breng\u00eb q\u00eb do ta mbaj n\u00eb zem\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs sepse v\u00ebrtet nuk\ne meritoja t\u00eb m\u00eb braktisnin edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sa\nvje\u00e7 jan\u00eb ata?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– 19 dhe 18 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Keni\nk\u00ebrkuar ndihm\u00eb n\u00eb shtet? Ku pik\u00ebrisht dhe \u00e7far\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjeje keni marr\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam k\u00ebrkuar te kryetari i komun\u00ebs, por kam\nmarr\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjen: \u201cSht\u00ebpin\u00eb time e kam n\u00eb rregull, p\u00ebr ty s`kam \u00e7`b\u00ebj!\u201d. As ai\ndhe as ndonj\u00eb pushtetar tjet\u00ebr nuk m\u00eb merr seriozisht sepse m\u00eb shikojn\u00eb njeri\npa njeri e t\u00eb r\u00ebnduar nga gjendja ime dhe vet\u00ebm m\u00eb p\u00ebrbuzin. Kam folur me\ndeputetin e zon\u00ebs dhe me Avokatin e Popullit, por s\u2019kam gjetur p\u00ebrkrahje tek asnj\u00ebri\nnga k\u00ebta. Duke qen\u00eb i krishter\u00eb, kam ikur edhe te kisha e Sh\u00ebn Ndoit, La\u00e7 dhe i\nkam treguar hallin tim nj\u00eb prifti, por m\u00eb tha q\u00eb s`t\u00eb ndihmoj dot vet\u00ebm me\nushqim se si ti, \u00ebsht\u00eb mbushur Shqip\u00ebria plot. Tani sa iki t`i takoj p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb\ndyt\u00eb, m\u00eb mbyllin dyert n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Me\nsa lek\u00eb e p\u00ebrballoni jetes\u00ebn dhe sa keni tani n\u00eb xhep?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam p\u00ebrkrahje vet\u00ebm 15 mij\u00eb lek\u00eb t\u00eb vjetra,\nt\u00eb cilat i marr n\u00eb muaj. Me ato blej ushqime dhe mundohem t\u00eb shtyj muajin. Tani\nq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mesi i muajit, kam vet\u00ebm 6 mij\u00eb lek\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat po i ruaj deri me dat\u00eb\n30.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Po n\u00ebse\nf\u00ebmij\u00ebt do k\u00ebrkonin t\u2019ju takonin, si do reagonit? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kjo gj\u00eb nuk ndodh dhe un\u00eb e di, por edhe n\u00ebse\nata kthehen tani, p\u00ebr mua s`ka m\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi sepse kan\u00eb zgjedhur n\u00ebn\u00ebn dhe un\u00eb po\np\u00ebrfundoj dita-dit\u00ebs n\u00eb \u00e7mendi. Nuk jam krenar p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn time, por ishin ngjarjet\ne jet\u00ebs q\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj k\u00ebto pasoja. Vet\u00ebm se… nuk mund ta konceptoja\ndot nj\u00eb p\u00ebrbuzje t\u00eb till\u00eb, jo vet\u00ebm nga gruaja dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, por edhe nga njer\u00ebzit\ne mi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Do\nt\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb thirrje p\u00ebr personat q\u00eb do t\u00eb donit t\u2019ju ndihmonin?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kujt t`i drejtohem, moj mot\u00ebr?! Mua s`po m\u00eb\nndihmojn\u00eb as shteti, as njer\u00ebzit e mi dhe nuk pres t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt e\nshkret\u00eb se k\u00ebto halle i kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebj thirrje p\u00ebr  ndihm\u00eb, por p\u00ebr sensibilizim. U uroj njer\u00ebzve\nn\u00eb hall: \u201cI ndihmoft\u00eb Zoti, se shteti na la n\u00eb m\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb fatit\u201d. T\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj\nty q\u00eb more p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebsh z\u00ebrin tim publik sepse deri m\u00eb sot, asnjeri s\u2019m\u00eb ka\nkushtuar as kaq v\u00ebmendje. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Historia q\u00eb dua t`ju tregoj sot, \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo e nj\u00eb zot\u00ebrie me origjin\u00eb nga Puka. At\u00eb do ta prezantojm\u00eb jo me emrin e tij, por me nj\u00eb pseudonim, p\u00ebr faktin e thjesht\u00eb sepse ky zot\u00ebri ka problem gjakmarrjeje dhe nuk duam t`i hapim edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb probleme me an\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebtij shkrimi. S\u00eb bashku me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21809,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21808","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21808","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21808"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21808\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}