P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje t\u00eb gjith\u00eb lexuesve t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d! Dua t\u2019ju tregoj nj\u00eb histori q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vorbull me ngjarje q\u00eb ndodh\u00ebn n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time e q\u00eb e kan\u00eb zanafill\u00ebn k\u00ebtu, te gazeta juaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb t\u00eb shtun\u00eb t\u00eb vitit 2007, dola si gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb vrap nga liqeni, sepse un\u00eb e kam shum\u00eb qejf vrapin dhe vrapoj gjithmon\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Duke u kthyer nga vrapi, ndalova p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb gazet\u00ebn \u201cIntervista\u201d, ashtu si\u00e7 b\u00ebja prej vitesh, sepse t\u00eb them t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, m\u00eb p\u00eblqenin shum\u00eb rubrikat q\u00eb gazeta juaj kishte n\u00eb at\u00eb periudh\u00eb dhe q\u00eb vazhdon t\u2019i ket\u00eb edhe sot. Bleva gazet\u00ebn dhe e mora p\u00ebr ta lexuar shtruar n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Shfletova t\u00eb gjitha faqet me radh\u00eb dhe arrita te faqja \u201cDjemt\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb vajza\u201d, ku ndalova te nj\u00eb njoftim shum\u00eb i k\u00ebndshm\u00ebm i nj\u00eb djali q\u00eb jetonte n\u00eb Itali. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se isha shum\u00eb e dh\u00ebn\u00eb pas k\u00ebtyre gj\u00ebrave, sepse kur i thon\u00eb nj\u00eb fjale, ti ta kesh af\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb shohim sa e njeh dik\u00eb, jo larg, pa e ditur dhe pa e njohur. Pak p\u00ebr qejf dhe pak sepse m\u00eb ngacmoi shum\u00eb ai njoftim, mora telefonin dhe telefonova n\u00eb numrin e sh\u00ebnuar. Prita disa momente q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb hapte telefonin, por nuk ndodhi k\u00ebshtu dhe un\u00eb e mbylla. Pas disa minutash, m\u00eb telefonoi dikush dhe m\u00eb tha q\u00eb ishte ai personi q\u00eb un\u00eb e kisha marr\u00eb disa minuta m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara. Fol\u00ebm pak dhe un\u00eb i thash\u00eb q\u00eb numrin e tij e kisha gjetur te gazeta \u201cIntervista\u201d, te njoftimet dhe m\u00eb kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje m\u00ebnyra se si e kishte formuluar at\u00eb njoftim p\u00ebr\u00a0 t\u2019u njohur me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb p\u00ebr lidhje serioze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cUn\u00eb jam Ardiani, m\u00eb tha ai, jam nga Tropoja\ndhe jetoj n\u00eb Itali. Sikur t\u00eb mos jetoja\nn\u00eb Itali, por n\u00eb Tropoj\u00eb, a do t\u00eb m\u00eb kishe telefonuar?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
U habita paksa nga pyetja e tij dhe i thash\u00eb q\u00eb\np\u00ebr mua nuk kishte fare r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se nga ishte apo ku jetonte, p\u00ebr mua kishte r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi\nq\u00eb t\u00eb ishte njeri i mir\u00eb dhe i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebrkoja. Pastaj, b\u00ebm\u00eb\nmuhabet edhe p\u00ebr disa minuta t\u00eb tjera dhe e mbyll\u00ebm celularin, nd\u00ebrsa ai m\u00eb\npremtoi se shum\u00eb shpejt do t\u00eb vinte n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Nuk e kisha menduar kurr\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb\nnjoftim n\u00eb gazet\u00eb do m\u00eb kishte njohur me njeriun m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb special n\u00eb\njet\u00ebn time. Pas shum\u00eb bisedave n\u00eb telefon dhe pasi shk\u00ebmbyem shum\u00eb mesazhe, ai\nnjeri hyri n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time si diell, pa e par\u00eb dhe takuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb. Ai erdhi,\nashtu si\u00e7 kishte premtuar dhe pasi u sistemua n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi m\u00eb qira,\ndilnim dhe takoheshim pothuajse p\u00ebrdit\u00eb. \nIshim b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb jemi p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, sepse p\u00ebr ne t\u00eb dy\nekzistonim vet\u00ebm ne t\u00eb dy. Kuptoheshim me sy dhe mjaftonte nj\u00eb shikim q\u00eb ne t\u00eb\nkuptonim se \u00e7far\u00eb donim t\u2019i thonim nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. U b\u00ebm\u00eb \u00e7ift ideal. Shum\u00eb\nshpejt, ndodhi edhe fejesa dhe pa e kuptuar kaluan disa koh\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme.\nN\u00eb vitin 2008 un\u00eb ngela shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe ne b\u00ebm\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb parakohshme sepse\ndonim q\u00eb f\u00ebmija yn\u00eb t\u00eb lindte n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb rregullt. Martesa, edhe pse nuk\nishte nga ato mondanet dhe t\u00eb shtrenjtat, doli nj\u00eb mrekulli e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ashtu si\nun\u00eb e kisha \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar. Ishte martesa dhe njeriu im i jet\u00ebs!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lajmi i shtatzanis\u00eb sime, ishte lajm i\nmrekulluesh\u00ebm si p\u00ebr mua, p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb time, q\u00eb tashm\u00eb ishte bashk\u00ebshorti im,\nashtu edhe p\u00ebr familjar\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Shkoja dhe b\u00ebja vizita rregullisht sepse nuk doja q\u00eb p\u00ebr ngelizhenc\u00ebn time t\u00eb\nndodhte di\u00e7ka e pad\u00ebshiruar. N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment, n\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr vizitat, doktoresha m\u00eb\ntha q\u00eb un\u00eb duhet t\u00eb nd\u00ebrprisja shtatzanin\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb urgjente. U shokova, nuk e\nkuptoja se p\u00ebrse duhet ta b\u00ebja nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Un\u00eb isha shum\u00eb e lumtur me ato\ngj\u00ebra q\u00eb m\u00eb kishin ndodhur n\u00eb jet\u00eb, sikur m\u2019i kishte d\u00ebrguar Zoti me porosi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doktoresha u ul n\u00eb nj\u00eb karrige aty ngjitur me\nmua dhe m\u00eb shpjegoi q\u00eb n\u00ebse un\u00eb nuk nd\u00ebrprisja shtatzanin\u00eb, do kishte pasoja\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, sepse un\u00eb isha me kancer n\u00eb qaf\u00ebn e mitr\u00ebs, n\u00eb fazat e para. M\u00eb\nra si bomb\u00eb, nuk dija se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebja. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb absolute, nuk doja t\u00eb nd\u00ebrprisja\nshtatzanin\u00eb. E pyeta doktoresh\u00ebn se, n\u00ebse\ne mbaja, deri ku mund t\u00eb arrinin rreziqet dhe ajo m\u00eb tha q\u00eb f\u00ebmija nuk p\u00ebsonte\nasgj\u00eb, por problemet do t\u2019i kisha un\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb. Me mjekime pa fund, arrita t\u00eb\nlindja f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, frytin e dashuris\u00eb son\u00eb. Ishte nj\u00eb g\u00ebzim i pap\u00ebrshkruesh\u00ebm!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe sot e k\u00ebsaj dite, po t\u00eb kthehem prapa n\u00eb\nkoh\u00eb, nuk e di a do t\u00eb ndjeja t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat emocione, a do isha n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb\nshpjegoja gjendjen time n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb. Linda vajz\u00eb, nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme q\u00eb\ntani sapo i ka mbushur kat\u00ebr vje\u00e7e dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria q\u00eb mbush jet\u00ebn time.\nEmrin ia kemi v\u00ebn\u00eb Mirasol, em\u00ebr q\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti im e ka zgjedhur me kujdesin m\u00eb\nt\u00eb madh p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb kuptim edhe sakrific\u00ebs sime. Duke ju treguar p\u00ebr s\u00ebmundjen\ntime, ajo kishte p\u00ebrparuar goxha dhe kur linda vajz\u00ebn un\u00eb, duhej t\u00eb realizoja edhe\nnj\u00eb operacion tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbyllur mitr\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb kurr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb,\nsepse n\u00ebse b\u00ebja, nuk do kishte m\u00eb shp\u00ebtim p\u00ebr mua. E realizova edhe operacionin\ne tmerrsh\u00ebm dhe pas shum\u00eb vizitash, ila\u00e7esh e kimioterapish, fillova ta jetoja\njet\u00ebn time p\u00ebrs\u00ebri; n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet gazet\u00ebs suaj, gazet\u00ebs q\u00eb m\u00eb njohu me njeriun e\njet\u00ebs sime, gazet\u00ebs q\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre m\u00eb shp\u00ebtoi jet\u00ebn, gazet\u00ebs q\u00eb m\u00eb krijoi\nmund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb edhe un\u00eb t\u00eb quhem n\u00ebn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kem nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme,\nMirasolin tim, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet mrekullia e jet\u00ebs sime dhe arsyeja p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn\njetoj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fal\u00ebnderoj edhe bashk\u00ebshortin tim q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb ka braktisur p\u00ebr asnj\u00eb moment dhe q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb treguar kaq i mir\u00eb me mua. K\u00ebt\u00eb histori, historin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs sime, e shkrova edhe sepse doja t\u2019u b\u00ebja nj\u00eb thirrje t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri t\u00eb familjes t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb, nj\u00eb shok, shoqe apo mik, t\u00eb mos e braktisin asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, edhe sikur t\u00eb ken\u00eb ndonj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje t\u00eb pash\u00ebrueshme, sepse nuk t\u00eb gjen asgj\u00eb n\u00ebse fal pak dashuri apo koh\u00eb nga koha jote p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndenjur pak me ta. Kur un\u00eb kisha nevoj\u00eb, m\u2019u gjend\u00ebn t\u00eb gjith\u00eb familjar\u00ebt e mi, bashk\u00ebshorti im dhe shoq\u00ebria ime. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, ju fal\u00ebnderoj juve si gazet\u00eb, stafin tuaj q\u00eb b\u00ebn nj\u00eb pun\u00eb kaq t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe familjen time. Faleminderit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Me\nrespekt, Silvana Micaj<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje t\u00eb gjith\u00eb lexuesve t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d! Dua t\u2019ju tregoj nj\u00eb histori q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vorbull me ngjarje q\u00eb ndodh\u00ebn n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time e q\u00eb e kan\u00eb zanafill\u00ebn k\u00ebtu, te gazeta juaj. Nj\u00eb t\u00eb shtun\u00eb t\u00eb vitit 2007, dola si gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb vrap nga liqeni, sepse un\u00eb e kam shum\u00eb qejf […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21803,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[2106,750],"class_list":["post-21802","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-historia","tag-intervista"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21802","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21802"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21802\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21803"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21802"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21802"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21802"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}