{"id":21801,"date":"2019-03-28T19:30:43","date_gmt":"2019-03-28T18:30:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21801"},"modified":"2019-03-28T19:16:35","modified_gmt":"2019-03-28T18:16:35","slug":"astrologia-shpjegon-72","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/astrologia-shpjegon-72\/","title":{"rendered":"Astrologia shpjegon…!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Motra me t\u00eb dashurin<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Motra ime ka par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur un\u00eb isha me kurriz, nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb flok\u00ebve i kisha t\u00eb gjata dhe pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, gjer te krah\u00ebt. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Motra at\u00eb dit\u00eb kishte sjell\u00eb t\u00eb dashurin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe pas disa minutash, ishte munduar ta fshihte at\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>Flok\u00ebt kan\u00eb shum\u00eb\nkuptime, tregojn\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi, p\u00ebr personin q\u00eb e ka par\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn; gjendjen e tij psikologjike,\nfizike dhe shpirt\u00ebrore. N\u00ebse motra ka par\u00eb flok\u00eb t\u00eb shndritsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe t\u00eb\nbukur, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha shqet\u00ebsimet q\u00eb ka patur do t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb dhe ju\npret nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb e bukur dhe e qet\u00eb. N\u00eb rast t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, tregojn\u00eb shqet\u00ebsime\nsh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore dhe shpirt\u00ebrore. Motra n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregon nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr mbrojtje dhe\nmb\u00ebshtetje nga njer\u00ebzit e familjes. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shum\u00eb vez\u00eb<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur vjehrra ime\nkishte shtruar kocka. Un\u00eb vajta atje dhe do t\u00eb mblidhja vez\u00eb. Mora nj\u00eb pjat\u00eb t\u00eb\nvog\u00ebl dhe po i mblidhja. Pastaj, ato m\u2019u b\u00ebn\u00eb zogj, por jo shum\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl,\nmesatar\u00eb. Pastaj, sikur e p\u00ebrmbysa pjat\u00ebn me gjith\u00eb zogj dhe u ndjeva si e\ntrembur, por kur u largova me vrap, pash\u00eb gjith\u00eb ato vez\u00eb t\u00eb bardha. Jam n\u00eb\npritje t\u00eb shpjegimit t\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbndrra,\nsi fillim, tregon nj\u00eb lloj ekuilibri shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb psiko-fizik. Vez\u00ebt tregojn\u00eb\nq\u00eb ju po p\u00ebrjetoni nj\u00eb moment shum\u00eb fatlum sidomos n\u00eb fush\u00ebn profesionale. Sa m\u00eb\nt\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb vez\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb ato tregojn\u00eb suksese dhe\nrealizime projektesh q\u00eb ju ia keni v\u00ebn\u00eb vetes si q\u00ebllim. Megjithat\u00eb, tani p\u00ebr\ntani, ju e keni gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb pjat\u00eb; suksesin, pun\u00ebn, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet, por duhet t\u00eb\nkeni kujdes sepse p\u00ebrmbysja e pjat\u00ebs tregon q\u00eb ju mund t\u2019ia vini shum\u00eb leht\u00eb\nshqelmin gjith\u00e7kaje q\u00eb keni treguar. Duhet t\u00eb jeni shum\u00eb e kujdesshme sepse \u00ebndrra\npo ju paralajm\u00ebron. Shpresoj t\u00eb jeni ende n\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb ta merrni p\u00ebr baz\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn\ndhe t\u00eb veproni me kujdes q\u00eb t\u00eb mos u vini shqelmin t\u00eb mirave q\u00eb keni rreth e\nrrotull vetes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mamaja e shtrir\u00eb n\u00eb krevat<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb maman\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur ishte\nshtrir\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb krevat tek dhe sikur babai im, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, i shoqi, me duar nga\nfytyra e saj, nuk e godiste, por nuk e linte t\u00eb \u00e7ohej, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb sikur po\ni m\u00ebsoja vajz\u00ebs greqisht. Pastaj, babi e kapi nga krahu dhe n\u00eb moment pash\u00eb\nmamin q\u00eb kishte veshur nj\u00eb triko me m\u00ebng\u00eb t\u00eb gjata dhe sikur ishte m\u00eb e re (ajo\ntani \u00ebsht\u00eb 75 vje\u00e7e). Jam n\u00eb pritje t\u00eb shpjegimit t\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs sime. Syri i p\u00ebrlotur.\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>E dashur\nlexuese, mamaja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr tregon shqet\u00ebsime q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju p\u00ebrkasin juve ose q\u00eb i\nkeni ju ndaj mamas\u00eb suaj. Ndiheni e pasigurt\u00eb dhe e p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb cil\u00ebn keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb merrni apo t\u00eb jepni k\u00ebshilla. Pra, \u00ebndrra ka lidhje me ju\ndhe maman\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj p\u00ebrzierjeje emocionesh, trishtim e shqet\u00ebsim q\u00eb\nka lidhje me familjen tuaj. Ndoshta jeni ju shum\u00eb e shqet\u00ebsuar ndaj asaj ose e\nkund\u00ebrta. Gjithsesi, \u00ebndrra ju sugjeron t\u00eb rrini m\u00eb af\u00ebr saj, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb as\nju dhe as ajo t\u00eb mos ndiheni vet\u00ebm. Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr k\u00ebshill\u00eb p\u00ebr maman\u00eb tuaj posa\u00e7\u00ebrisht\n\u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb shum\u00eb kujdes sh\u00ebndetin sepse fakti q\u00eb e keni par\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb re \u00ebsht\u00eb\nnj\u00eb shenj\u00eb q\u00eb tregon shqet\u00ebsime sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore. Duhet t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesni nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn\nsepse ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb moment delikat. Ju uroj sh\u00ebndet!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I dhash\u00eb maces paninen<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kisha nj\u00eb\npanine buke n\u00eb dor\u00eb dhe takova nj\u00eb \u00e7un p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin, n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, kam shum\u00eb antipati.\nAi m\u00eb ftoi p\u00ebr kafe dhe un\u00eb pranova. Paninen ia dhash\u00eb nj\u00eb maceje, por n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn\ne fundit t\u00eb panines zgjati dor\u00ebn nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb dukej i vuajtur. I dhash\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb\nkishte mbetur, un\u00eb pash\u00eb n\u00eb xhep p\u00ebr lek, por nuk kisha dhe kur ktheva kok\u00ebn p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb ikur, ai \u00e7uni ishte zhdukur. M\u00eb pas un\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb shoqja ime filluam ta k\u00ebrkonim\nat\u00eb \u00e7unin n\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet tjet\u00ebr. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Do t\u00eb\nkeni nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb ose takim t\u00eb papritur me dik\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb ky person q\u00eb keni\npar\u00eb ose dikush tjet\u00ebr, vet\u00ebm se duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes, pasi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u2019i\nbesoni menj\u00ebher\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb e tregon macja q\u00eb keni ushqyer. Ju do t\u00eb tregoheni shum\u00eb\ne dashur, mikprit\u00ebse, por personi p\u00ebrball\u00eb, fsheh di\u00e7ka. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, dikush\nq\u00eb ju e njihni, mbase ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, por ju nuk i kushtoni shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi, e\nlini pas dore dhe do ta humbisni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb mbyti nj\u00eb dallg\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha n\u00eb breg\nt\u00eb detit dhe papritur pash\u00eb para meje nj\u00eb dallg\u00eb t\u00eb madhe q\u00eb po i drejtohej\nbregut. Nuk ndjeja frik\u00eb dhe n\u00eb pak momente, e pash\u00eb veten t\u00eb mbytur nga dallga.\nPastaj u zgjova nga gjumi i trembur. Dallga i ngjante cunamit. Do t\u2019ju lutesha\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb jepnit nj\u00eb shpjegim k\u00ebt\u00eb jav\u00eb. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Bregu\ni detit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb q\u00eb tregon se jeni n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb shpirtit binjak. Ju\nndiheni i lir\u00eb t\u00eb ecni p\u00ebrpara dhe t\u00eb merrni at\u00eb rrug\u00eb q\u00eb ju duhet v\u00ebrtet, vet\u00ebm\nse harroni t\u2019i merrni gj\u00ebrat seriozisht. Hidheni shum\u00eb leht\u00eb drejt historive\npersonale, por nuk u kushtoni shum\u00eb seriozitet dhe n\u00eb fund, p\u00ebrfundoni vet\u00ebm.\nDallga p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb madhe emocionale e cila k\u00ebrkon v\u00ebmendjen tuaj.\nJu duhet t\u00eb ndryshoni sjelljet dhe zakonet e vjetra, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos l\u00ebndoni\nas veten dhe as ata q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb planin sentimental. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00eb preu rrug\u00ebn gjarp\u00ebri i zi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Para dy net\u00ebsh kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr\nsikur isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb mal me nja tre shoqe t\u00eb miat duke sh\u00ebtitur. D\u00ebshironim t\u00eb\nkalonim nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb. Shoqet e mia e kaluan, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb nuk e kap\u00ebrceja dot sepse\nm\u00eb doli p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb gjarp\u00ebr i zi. Ai m\u00eb q\u00ebndronte ball\u00ebp\u00ebrball\u00eb dhe nuk\nlargohej. Ashtu, e tmerruar, u zgjova nga gjumi. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Mali\nn\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ka kuptime t\u00eb ndryshme, megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb rastin tuaj p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb,\nsfidat dhe pengesat q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kap\u00ebrceni. D\u00ebshira juaj e brendshme \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb\nvazhdoni p\u00ebrpara at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb keni nisur, ama nj\u00eb person ose nj\u00eb penges\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ju\ndel p\u00ebrpara dhe ju bllokon, gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju shkaktoj\u00eb d\u00ebm. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, \u00ebndrra\nju k\u00ebshillon t\u00eb b\u00ebheni m\u00eb ambicioze dhe e vendosur q\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoni p\u00ebrpara. Vet\u00ebm\nn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb do t\u00eb kap\u00ebrceni pengesat dhe do t\u00eb mundni armiqt\u00eb tuaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tre vajza n\u00eb\nkrevatin e t\u00eb dashurit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nKam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur vajta te\nsht\u00ebpia e t\u00eb dashurit dhe te krevati yn\u00eb gjeta tre shoqet e tij, duke fjetur.\nAto m\u00eb k\u00ebrkuan falje dhe ik\u00ebn duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cNuk ndodhi asgj\u00eb\u201d. Po at\u00eb nat\u00eb,\nshoqja ime kishte par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur un\u00eb dhe ai ishim ndar\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb\nvajze. Ju lutem, m\u00eb ndihmoni. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\n\u00cbndrra tregon q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes nga shoq\u00ebria e t\u00eb dashurit tuaj.\nTregohuni vigjilente dhe mos jini shum\u00eb e hapur me to. S\u2019po them ta ruani t\u00eb\ndashurin, sepse problemi nuk q\u00ebndron tek ai, por te shoqet e tij q\u00eb mund t\u00eb\nkene synime jo t\u00eb mira ndaj jush. Gjithsesi, kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb b\u00ebni\nsherr dhe t\u00eb dilni me shpat\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb p\u00ebrpara t\u00eb dashurit, duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cS\u2019m\u00eb\np\u00eblqejn\u00eb shoqet e tua\u201d. Nuk duhet t\u00eb tregoheni xheloze, p\u00ebrkundrazi, jini e qet\u00eb\ndhe shum\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete. Kjo do t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb pathyeshme. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb\nmirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Motra me t\u00eb dashurin – Motra ime ka par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur un\u00eb isha me kurriz, nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb flok\u00ebve i kisha t\u00eb gjata dhe pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, gjer te krah\u00ebt. Motra at\u00eb dit\u00eb kishte sjell\u00eb t\u00eb dashurin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe pas disa minutash, ishte munduar ta fshihte at\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem? – Flok\u00ebt […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[266],"class_list":["post-21801","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-endrra","tag-endrra-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21801","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21801"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21801\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21801"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21801"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21801"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}