{"id":21777,"date":"2019-03-27T16:00:37","date_gmt":"2019-03-27T15:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21777"},"modified":"2019-03-27T14:25:22","modified_gmt":"2019-03-27T13:25:22","slug":"%ef%bb%bfpse-me-terheqin-femrat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfpse-me-terheqin-femrat\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffPse m\u00eb t\u00ebrheqin femrat?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><br><strong>E dashur redaksi e &#8220;Intervista&#8221; m\u00eb vjen turp ta them, por \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 21 vje\u00e7are q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb shum\u00eb vajzat. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ndjej nj\u00eb t\u00ebrheqje fatale si me qen\u00eb \u00e7un, por jo me t\u00eb gjitha femrat. Nuk e di pse, por te 4-5 prej tyre, m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq di\u00e7ka. Pse m\u00eb ndodh kjo gj\u00eb? Nuk e di a do t\u00eb bie ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri&#8230; Pse jam e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb? Ada. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Redaksia: &#8211; <\/em><\/strong>Burime t\u00eb ndryshme kan\u00eb propozuar teori t\u00eb shumta p\u00ebr orientimin seksual, megjithat\u00eb, shum\u00eb profesionist\u00eb ndajn\u00eb mendimin se orientimi seksual formohet her\u00ebt n\u00eb jet\u00eb, p\u00ebrmes nd\u00ebrveprimit kompleks t\u00eb faktor\u00ebve biologjik\u00eb, psikologjik\u00eb dhe social\u00eb. Meqen\u00ebse nuk ekziston vet\u00ebm faktori biologjik, nuk mund t\u00eb themi q\u00eb orientimi seksual nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshohet apo detyrimisht, q\u00eb ai trash\u00ebgohet. At\u00ebhere, cilat jan\u00eb shkaqet e t\u00ebrheqjes p\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin seks? K\u00ebto t\u00ebrheqje vijn\u00eb tipikisht nga nj\u00eb kombinim i faktor\u00ebve t\u00eb temperamentit dhe t\u00eb ambientit n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin kalon f\u00ebmija gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb kontribues i zakonsh\u00ebm n\u00eb t\u00ebrheqjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin seks \u00ebsht\u00eb prishja n\u00eb zhvillimin e identitetit gjinor. Ky i fundit u referohet pik\u00ebpamjeve t\u00eb personit p\u00ebr gjinin\u00eb e tij\/saj, p\u00ebr sensin e maskinilitetit ose feminilitetit. Identiteti gjinor formohet p\u00ebrmes marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve q\u00eb ka f\u00ebmija me prindin dhe moshatar\u00ebt e t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit seks. P\u00ebrmes k\u00ebtyre marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve, ju keni zbuluar \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb dini p\u00ebr t\u00eb qenit fem\u00ebr, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb kush \u00ebsht\u00eb fem\u00ebr, si flet nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr, si ec\u00ebn ajo etj<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; N\u00ebse ky zhvillim normal prishet, f\u00ebmija\nshk\u00ebputet psikologjikisht nga n\u00ebna dhe nga ajo \u00e7ka n\u00ebna p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson;\nfeminiliteti. Arsye t\u00eb tjera jan\u00eb perceptimet negative p\u00ebr feminilitetin, q\u00eb\nmund t\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shk\u00ebputje t\u00eb vetes nga feminiliteti. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00ebse\nnj\u00eb vajz\u00eb shikon t\u00eb atin duke abuzuar me n\u00ebn\u00ebn, ajo arrin n\u00eb konkluzionin se,\nt\u00eb jesh fem\u00ebr, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh e dob\u00ebt, prandaj shk\u00ebputet nga identiteti\nfem\u00ebror p\u00ebr t\u2019u mbrojtur nga efektet negative t\u00eb t\u00eb qenit fem\u00ebr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Abuzimi seksual \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb arsye tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr\norientimin homoseksual. N\u00eb k\u00ebto raste, meshkujt shihen si t\u00eb pasigurt\u00eb dhe\nlidhjet me femrat b\u00ebhen nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e mbrojtjes nga e keqja q\u00eb mund t\u00eb vij\u00eb nga\nmeshkujt. P\u00ebr disa t\u00eb tjera, mund te jet\u00eb nj\u00eb shk\u00ebputje nga n\u00ebna dhe p\u00ebrmes\nlidhjeve me femra, k\u00ebrkohet dashuria m\u00ebm\u00ebsore. P\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera, t\u00ebrheqjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb\nnj\u00ebjtin seks mund t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb t\u00eb dukshme q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, por mund t\u00eb zhvillohen\nm\u00eb von\u00eb, si rezultat i hyrjes n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie joseksuale, duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb\nemocionalisht e varur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; N\u00ebse nuk je e k\u00ebnaqur me orientimin t\u00ebnd seksual, kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ai nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb proces i shpejt\u00eb, por p\u00ebrmes terapis\u00eb mund t\u00eb arrihen ndryshime t\u00eb mundshme. P\u00ebrgjigjja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjithshme dhe mbase mund t\u00eb duket e pakuptueshme, por n\u00ebse e ke mund\u00ebsin\u00eb, mund t\u00eb konsultohesh me nj\u00eb psikolog. Takimet individuale nuk mund t\u00eb krahasohen me p\u00ebrgjigjen q\u00eb japim ne me aq informacion sa disponojm\u00eb p\u00ebr ju. Faleminderit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E dashur redaksi e &#8220;Intervista&#8221; m\u00eb vjen turp ta them, por \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 21 vje\u00e7are q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb shum\u00eb vajzat. Ndjej nj\u00eb t\u00ebrheqje fatale si me qen\u00eb \u00e7un, por jo me t\u00eb gjitha femrat. Nuk e di pse, por te 4-5 prej tyre, m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq di\u00e7ka. Pse m\u00eb ndodh kjo gj\u00eb? 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