{"id":21756,"date":"2019-03-26T22:00:47","date_gmt":"2019-03-26T21:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21756"},"modified":"2019-03-26T19:55:12","modified_gmt":"2019-03-26T18:55:12","slug":"%ef%bb%bfmotra-e-tij-eshte-xheloze-per-ne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfmotra-e-tij-eshte-xheloze-per-ne\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffMotra e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb xheloze p\u00ebr ne!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur redaksi. Jam 21 vje\u00e7 dhe kam lidhje q\u00eb prej nj\u00eb vitI e gjys\u00ebm me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 23 vje\u00e7. Ia kalojm\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb bashk\u00eb, por kemi nj\u00eb penges\u00eb, motr\u00ebn e tij. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb 30 vje\u00e7e dhe na nd\u00ebrhyn vazhdimisht. Kur jemi bashk\u00eb, d\u00ebrgon vazhdimisht mesazhe ose e merr n\u00eb telefon t\u00eb dashurin tim dhe e mban gjys\u00ebm ore. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nuk e di \u00e7far\u00eb ndjen p\u00ebr mua, por kur m\u00eb takon, m\u00eb shikon me ironi. I kam folur shum\u00eb her\u00eb shokut tim p\u00ebr sjelljen e saj, por ai o do nd\u00ebrroj\u00eb muhabet, ose do nxehet. Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb at\u00eb nuk e shqet\u00ebson sjellja e saj dhe as q\u00eb b\u00ebn di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Mendoj se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb xheloze p\u00ebr ne. \u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Redaksia:- N\u00eb \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie \u00e7ifti, nd\u00ebrhyrja e nj\u00eb t\u00eb treti (burr\u00eb, grua, prind\u00ebr, shok\u00eb, v\u00ebllez\u00ebr e t\u00eb tjer\u00eb) nuk e lejon \u00e7iftin t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb. Diskutoje me shokun t\u00ebnd dhe mundohu t\u00eb kuptosh p\u00ebrse ai i l\u00eb kaq hap\u00ebsira motr\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyj\u00eb n\u00eb momentet e tij personale. Mos u nxito t\u00eb nxjerr\u00ebsh konkluzione n\u00ebse at\u00eb e bezdis kjo gj\u00eb apo jo. Ndoshta ai e ka merak p\u00ebr disa arsye, ndaj e lejon. N\u00ebse ti thjesht i ankohesh apo nevrikosesh duke e sulmuar dhe duke th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cajo na ka zili\u201d, at\u00ebhere ti e akuzon dhe pa e kuptuar, nuk interesohesh se si ndihet shoku yt. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, ai do t\u00eb nxehet dhe do t\u00eb nd\u00ebrroj\u00eb muhabet sa her\u00eb q\u00eb ti do t\u00eb reagosh k\u00ebshtu. P\u00ebrderisa me shokun t\u00ebnd ia kaloni shum\u00eb bukur, mundohu t\u00eb kuptosh se \u00e7far\u00eb e shqet\u00ebson at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e mbron jet\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebrsonale. Fakti n\u00ebse t\u00eb simpatizon apo jo motra e tij, nuk e ndryshon faktin q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mbroni lidhjen tuaj, por m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoni thelb\u00ebsisht ndjenjat e njeriut q\u00eb keni pran\u00eb. Ne ju urojm\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur redaksi. Jam 21 vje\u00e7 dhe kam lidhje q\u00eb prej nj\u00eb vitI e gjys\u00ebm me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 23 vje\u00e7. Ia kalojm\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb bashk\u00eb, por kemi nj\u00eb penges\u00eb, motr\u00ebn e tij. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb 30 vje\u00e7e dhe na nd\u00ebrhyn vazhdimisht. Kur jemi bashk\u00eb, d\u00ebrgon vazhdimisht mesazhe ose e merr n\u00eb telefon t\u00eb dashurin [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21757,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[2240],"class_list":["post-21756","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-redaksia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21756","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21756"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21756\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21757"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21756"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21756"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21756"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}