{"id":21754,"date":"2019-03-26T22:30:53","date_gmt":"2019-03-26T21:30:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21754"},"modified":"2019-03-26T19:47:29","modified_gmt":"2019-03-26T18:47:29","slug":"%ef%bb%bfte-besh-seks-edhe-ne-gjume","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfte-besh-seks-edhe-ne-gjume\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffT\u00eb b\u00ebsh seks edhe n\u00eb gjum\u00eb…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Fjetja dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebrit dashuri jan\u00eb dy nga aktivitetet m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme q\u00eb mund t\u00eb realizojm\u00eb n\u00eb shtrat. N\u00eb fakt, ato kan\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb lidhjeje mes tyre. Gjat\u00eb \u00e7lodhjes s\u00eb nat\u00ebs, vihen n\u00eb pun\u00eb disa mekanizma t\u00eb n\u00ebnnd\u00ebrgjegjes son\u00eb q\u00eb japin rezultate t\u00eb habitshme. Ja cilat jan\u00eb ato…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eb b\u00ebsh dashuri n\u00eb gjum\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kemi d\u00ebgjuar p\u00ebr\nnjer\u00ebzit somnambul\u00eb q\u00eb sh\u00ebtisin n\u00ebp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi n\u00eb gjum\u00eb, por paska njer\u00ebz q\u00eb\nb\u00ebkan edhe dashuri n\u00eb gjum\u00eb? Me sa duket, po. B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ashtuquajturin\n\u201cseksomnio\u201d, nj\u00eb lloj somnambulizmi gjat\u00eb t\u00eb cilit personi kryen marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie\nseksuale me partnerin. Kjo ndodh n\u00eb faz\u00ebn REM t\u00eb gjumit, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e\nthella. Kur zgjohet, personi nuk mban mend asgj\u00eb nga ajo q\u00eb i ka ndodhur, n\u00ebse\nnuk ia tregon partneri. Sjelljet seksuale gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtij stadi t\u00eb somnambulizmit\njan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme nga ato t\u00eb zakonshmet. Seksolog\u00ebt thon\u00eb se disa njer\u00ebz\ntregohen m\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, e marrin shtruar, tregojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00eblsi, por ka edhe\nt\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebhen m\u00eb agresiv\u00eb dhe t\u00eb apasionuar. Shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt nuk e din\u00eb pse\nndodh kjo, por dyshojn\u00eb se kjo sjellje lidhet me zona specifike t\u00eb trupit. Te\nseksomaniak\u00ebt, hipotalami, pjesa e trurit q\u00eb kontrollon nevojat bazike, si\u00e7\njan\u00eb uria dhe seksi, revolucionon dhe zgjon epshin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Edhe femrat mund t\u00eb shohin \u00ebndrra ejakuluese<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Megjith\u00ebse femrat\nnuk ejakulojn\u00eb si burrat, afro 40% e tyre provojn\u00eb orgazma kur flen\u00eb. Sipas\nseksolog\u00ebve, t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht nga rrethanat, kan\u00eb nevoja emocionale\np\u00ebr miq\u00ebsi, af\u00ebrsi dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi seksuale. Megjith\u00ebse p\u00ebr shumic\u00ebn nevojat\nemocionale jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme se ato seksuale, edhe k\u00ebto t\u00eb fundit kan\u00eb\npesh\u00ebn e tyre. Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebndrre erotike, p\u00ebrshpejtohet ritmi i zemr\u00ebs dhe\nfluksi i gjakut n\u00eb organet gjenitale, gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7on n\u00eb lubrifikim. Kjo mund t\u00eb\np\u00ebrs\u00ebritet disa her\u00eb brenda t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebs nat\u00eb, fal\u00eb gjendjes s\u00eb relaksimit q\u00eb\nshkakton gjumi e q\u00eb na b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb prirur p\u00ebr t\u00eb patur orgazma. \u00cbndrrat erotike\nndodhin n\u00eb faz\u00ebn REM t\u00eb gjumit, kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb zgjohesh. Ekspert\u00ebt\nthon\u00eb se k\u00ebto \u00ebndrra ndodhin kur kemi koh\u00eb pa patur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale.\nNatyra \u00ebsht\u00eb e men\u00e7ur dhe p\u00ebrdor gjumin p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur nevojat e trupit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mund t\u00eb reagosh ndaj stimulimeve duke qen\u00eb n\u00eb gjum\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb i je\nafruar partnerit kur ai ishte n\u00eb gjum\u00eb dhe ai t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur duke t\u00eb\np\u00ebrqafuar dhe p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur instiktivisht? Kjo ndodh sepse n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel t\u00eb\nn\u00ebnnd\u00ebrgjegjes, trupi yn\u00eb i p\u00ebrgjigjet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb automatike prekjes, megjith\u00ebse\nnuk jemi t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm sa e d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb af\u00ebrsin\u00eb dhe intimitetin. Ekspert\u00ebt\nshpjegojn\u00eb se ajo q\u00eb na mungon n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale manifestohet n\u00eb \u00ebndrra sepse\ntruri yn\u00eb na e kompenson k\u00ebt\u00eb munges\u00eb. Trupi dhe truri kan\u00eb reagime seksuale\nedhe kur jemi n\u00eb gjum\u00eb, sepse hipotalami kontrollon nevojat tona, mes tyre edhe\nkontaktin fizik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cil\u00ebsia e gjumit ndikon tek epshi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb flem\u00eb,\norganizmi rifurnizohet me hormone. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, personat q\u00eb flen\u00eb keq kan\u00eb\nnivele m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebta t\u00eb testosteronit, hormonit q\u00eb shton d\u00ebshir\u00ebn. Gjat\u00eb\npushimeve njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb relaksuar, pa orare p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur dhe me m\u00eb pak\nstres. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga arsyet se pse gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre periudhave shtohet\naktiviteti seksual. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, edhe gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs ka or\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebr\naktivitetin seksual dhe nuk jan\u00eb ato t\u00eb nat\u00ebs, por ato t\u00eb gjumit t\u00eb pasdites.\nSipas ekspert\u00ebve, periudha m\u00eb e p\u00ebrshtatshme \u00ebsht\u00eb nga ora 5 n\u00eb 7, kur\ntemepratura trupore \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e lart\u00eb, si te gruaja, ashtu edhe te burri dhe kur\nt\u00eb dy jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb relaksuar e m\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm ndaj stimulimit reciprok. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjumi i meshkujve pas seksit, \u00ebsht\u00eb i justifikuar<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Femra, duhet t\u2019i\nkuptoni partner\u00ebt tuaj kur ia fusin gjumit pasi b\u00ebjn\u00eb dashuri! Mashkulli \u00ebsht\u00eb\ni lodhur jo vet\u00ebm sepse procesi seksual dhe ejakulimi i marrin energji, por\nsepse organizmi i tij ka marr\u00eb nj\u00eb doz\u00eb hormoni prolaktine, q\u00eb i provokon nj\u00eb\nndjesi k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie, squlljeje dhe i sjell gjum\u00eb. Te grat\u00eb, prolaktina, ashtu si\noksitocina shtojn\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e komunikimit. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, grat\u00eb preferojn\u00eb m\u00eb\nshum\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet sesa gjumin…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebndrrash seksuale shohin grat\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb\nkontrollohen \u00ebndrrat dhe rrall\u00ebher\u00eb, ato mund t\u00eb interpretohen ashtu si\u00e7\nshihen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbnd\u00ebrron sikur po\nb\u00ebn dashuri me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb\nse di\u00e7ka shkon keq n\u00eb lidhjen tuaj. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fantazi e shpesht\u00eb dhe\npa pasoja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbnd\u00ebrron sikur po\nt\u00eb detyrojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh dashuri<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Edhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb\n\u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb shihet shpesh dhe jan\u00eb formuluar disa hipoteza n\u00eb lidhje me t\u00eb. Nj\u00ebra\nka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me mesazhet kontradiktore q\u00eb marrin grat\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me seksin: Atyre\nu thuhet t\u00eb tregohen josh\u00ebse dhe nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht t\u2019i thon\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d seksit; me nj\u00eb\nfjal\u00eb, t\u00eb duken seksi, pa qen\u00eb t\u00eb tilla n\u00eb realitet. N\u00eb gjum\u00eb, gruaja e\ndetyruar, nuk mban asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjesi p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb i ndodh. Kjo e ndihmon t\u00eb\neliminoj\u00eb fajin q\u00eb ndjen kur ndjehet seksualisht aktive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbnd\u00ebrrron sikur b\u00ebn\ndashuri me nj\u00eb njeri t\u00eb famsh\u00ebm<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Protagonisti i\nfantazis\u00eb nuk varet shum\u00eb nga shijet tona dhe jo gjithmon\u00eb \u00ebndrra ka nj\u00eb kuptim\nseksual. Ndodh m\u00eb shpesh q\u00eb \u00ebndrra t\u00eb jet\u00eb romantike: Mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr\nnj\u00eb flirt, nj\u00eb takim, nj\u00eb bised\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Fjetja dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebrit dashuri jan\u00eb dy nga aktivitetet m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme q\u00eb mund t\u00eb realizojm\u00eb n\u00eb shtrat. N\u00eb fakt, ato kan\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb lidhjeje mes tyre. Gjat\u00eb \u00e7lodhjes s\u00eb nat\u00ebs, vihen n\u00eb pun\u00eb disa mekanizma t\u00eb n\u00ebnnd\u00ebrgjegjes son\u00eb q\u00eb japin rezultate t\u00eb habitshme. Ja cilat jan\u00eb ato… T\u00eb b\u00ebsh dashuri n\u00eb gjum\u00eb Kemi d\u00ebgjuar p\u00ebr […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21083,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[306,905],"class_list":["post-21754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","tag-intimitet","tag-seks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21754"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21754\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21083"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}