{"id":21721,"date":"2019-03-22T23:00:56","date_gmt":"2019-03-22T22:00:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21721"},"modified":"2019-03-22T21:02:26","modified_gmt":"2019-03-22T20:02:26","slug":"%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-15","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-15\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffPyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– Un\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj jam 17 vje\u00e7e dhe jam shum\u00eb e turpshme, s\u2019kam pasur asnj\u00ebher\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale kjo gj\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sigurisht q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb normale, \u00e7dokush ka personalitetin, karakterin e natyr\u00ebn e vet dhe hapin drejt marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale, e hedh kur e ndjen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prandaj nuk keni pse t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni apo t\u2019ju vij\u00eb turp nga kjo gj\u00eb. Nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha vajzat nj\u00ebsoj, edhe pse moshataret tuaja tashm\u00eb do ta ken\u00eb kaluar at\u00eb faz\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb n\u00ebse n\u00eb mes t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj q\u00ebndron frika juaj. K\u00ebtu ju duhet t\u00eb kuptoni se \u00e7far\u00eb ju pengon drejt k\u00ebtij hapi. Do t\u2019ju b\u00ebnte mir\u00eb t\u00eb flisni me nj\u00eb person shum\u00eb t\u00eb besuesh\u00ebm t\u00eb familjes tuaj p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, sepse t\u00eb hapurit me dik\u00eb do t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni mir\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam\nprobleme me p\u00ebrmasat e penisit. Kam komplekse dhe kam frik\u00eb se nuk do t\u00eb arrij\nt\u00eb k\u00ebnaq asnj\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Duhet t\u2019i jepni kurajo vetes dhe t\u2019i hiqni k\u00ebto\nlloj kompleksesh q\u00eb keni n\u00eb vetvete sepse nuk jan\u00eb p\u00ebrmasat ato q\u00eb t\u00eb japin k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi.\nSi\u00e7 e kemi th\u00ebn\u00eb edhe her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, organi fem\u00ebror \u00ebsht\u00eb elastik, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb\ncentimetrat e penisit nuk kan\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi fare. E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenja, k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia\ndhe cil\u00ebsia e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Un\u00eb\njam pak e sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb dhe kur vjen puna te marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale me t\u00eb fejuarin,\nkam ndrojtje sepse s\u2019m\u00eb p\u00eblqen trupi im. Jam b\u00ebr\u00eb me fiksime sepse shoh q\u00eb i\nfejuari im komenton femrat me trup t\u00eb bukur q\u00eb shikon n\u00eb televizor. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ju duhet t\u00eb qet\u00ebsoheni, sepse jo m\u00eb kot ju ka\nzgjedhur si t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn tuaj, partneri q\u00eb keni n\u00eb krah. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ju\ndashuron, gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Ai ju konsideron si femr\u00ebn e jet\u00ebs\ns\u00eb tij, ju p\u00eblqen n\u00eb krevat etj., prandaj s\u2019e kuptoj se pse i keni k\u00ebto\nkomplekse p\u00ebr trupin. Duhet t\u00eb dini q\u00eb trupat e p\u00ebrkryer t\u00eb femrave q\u00eb shohim n\u00eb\nTV, internet, reklama, revista etj. jan\u00eb fotografi joreale t\u00eb bukuris\u00eb fem\u00ebrore.\nAto fotografi apo imazhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrkryera q\u00eb komenton i fejuari juaj, kalojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet\nshum\u00eb procedurave fotoshopi apo rregullimi n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet teknologjis\u00eb kompjuterike,\np\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb dalin n\u00eb pah p\u00ebr shikuesit si ne. Pastaj, mos u d\u00ebshp\u00ebroni nga\nkomentet q\u00eb b\u00ebn ai. Meshkujt p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht t\u00ebrhiqen n\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb nga\nimazhi. M\u00eb pas, \u00ebsht\u00eb tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb q\u00eb i b\u00ebn t\u00eb bien n\u00eb dashuri, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb rasti\njuaj, q\u00eb ju ka zgjedhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb fejuar. P\u00ebrpiquni t\u2019i hiqni nga mendja k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra\nsepse mund t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb p\u00ebr keq n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj seksuale. Mendoni se jeni perfekte,\nkeni trup shum\u00eb josh\u00ebs dhe se i fejuari juaj ju do v\u00ebrtet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– I\ndashuri im s\u2019e ka problem t\u00eb eksitohet, por kur b\u00ebjm\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale, ai\nnuk arrin n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. Kemi provuar metoda t\u00eb ndryshme, por asnj\u00ebher\u00eb s\u2019ka\narritur t\u00eb prishet. Kjo gj\u00eb po m\u00eb m\u00ebrzit shum\u00eb sepse m\u00eb duket sikur \u00ebsht\u00eb faji\nim. Jam n\u00eb hall. Si t\u00eb veproj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– S\u00eb pari, duhet ta lini m\u00ebnjan\u00eb k\u00ebrkimin se kush e\nka fajin. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb as faji yt, as faji i tij. Shpeshher\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb stresi ai q\u00eb\nshkakon probleme t\u00eb tilla seksuale. Mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb shum\u00eb arsye, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb\nfizike; ndoshta merr ila\u00e7e p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb dhe k\u00ebto ndikojn\u00eb. Sidomos\nantidepresant\u00ebt, shkaktojn\u00eb probleme t\u00eb tilla. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb ndonj\u00eb frik\u00eb e\npashpjegueshme nga ana e tij etj. N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, ky problem ka natyr\u00eb\npsikologjike dhe pjesa tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb problem sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor. Flisni hapur me\nt\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkojini t\u2019ju tregoj\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb i p\u00eblqen m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb krevat, b\u00ebni loj\u00ebra\nparaprake seksuale. L\u00ebreni t\u00eb dashurin tuaj t\u00eb shprehet lirsh\u00ebm, mos shfaqni\nfrik\u00ebn e ndonj\u00eb shtatzanie para tij, kaloni sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb s\u00eb bashku, lexoni\ninformacione mbi seksin, largoni shqet\u00ebsimet e streset e dit\u00ebs n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb\njeni n\u00eb intimitet dhe ndoshta t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto do t\u2019ju ndihmojn\u00eb ta kaloni k\u00ebt\u00eb\nfaz\u00eb. N\u00ebse edhe pas k\u00ebtyre p\u00ebrpjekjeve, partneri vazhdon t\u00eb ket\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin\nproblem, do t\u2019i rekomandoja nj\u00eb konsult\u00eb me andrologun p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtuar\nmund\u00ebsin\u00eb e nj\u00eb problemi fizik sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor ose me psikologun, p\u00ebr terapi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Un\u00eb q\u00eb ju shkruaj jam 17 vje\u00e7e dhe jam shum\u00eb e turpshme, s\u2019kam pasur asnj\u00ebher\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale kjo gj\u00eb? – Sigurisht q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb normale, \u00e7dokush ka personalitetin, karakterin e natyr\u00ebn e vet dhe hapin drejt marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale, e hedh kur e ndjen. Prandaj nuk keni pse t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni apo t\u2019ju vij\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[320],"class_list":["post-21721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seksologu","tag-seksi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21721","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21721"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21721\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21721"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21721"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21721"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}