{"id":21696,"date":"2019-03-21T23:00:25","date_gmt":"2019-03-21T22:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21696"},"modified":"2019-03-21T16:30:15","modified_gmt":"2019-03-21T15:30:15","slug":"%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-14","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-14\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffPyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– Kam shum\u00eb frik\u00eb mos ngel shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb sa her\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebj seks, sepse nuk di si t\u00eb veproj po t\u00eb ngelem me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Si t\u00eb veproj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb ngeleni shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, sa her\u00eb q\u00eb kryeni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale p\u00ebrdorni prezervativ, p\u00ebr ta hequr k\u00ebshtu nj\u00eb her\u00eb e mir\u00eb frik\u00ebn. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr jan\u00eb kontraceptiv\u00ebt, por ata duhen marr\u00eb rregullisht. Edhe mashkulli mund t\u00eb ruhet duke p\u00ebrdorur metod\u00ebn e t\u00ebrheqjes para ejakulimit, por kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb pak e sigurt\u00eb, pasi nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebta rastet q\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb pasur ndonj\u00eb shtatzani\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb derdhjes s\u00eb sperm\u00ebs n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme. Prandaj, kini parasysh, p\u00ebrdorni prezervativ dhe shmangni dit\u00ebt q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme sepse mund t\u00eb ngelesh shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– U b\u00ebn\u00eb\ndy vjet q\u00eb nuk arrij t\u00eb kem marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb rregullta seksuale me gruan sepse e\nhumbas ereksionin. Pas nj\u00eb periudhe depresioni, provuam marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet anale me t\u00eb\ncilat ndihem shum\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur dhe ime shoqe, ashtu shprehet. A jan\u00eb t\u00eb\nrrezikshme marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb tilla?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kur nj\u00eb \u00e7ift bie dakord dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur nga\nmarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia e tyre seksuale anale, s\u2019m\u00eb ngelet shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb nga kjo an\u00eb. Nga\nana mjek\u00ebsore, mund t\u2019ju them se marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet anale jan\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre t\u00eb\nrrezikshme dhe duhet nj\u00eb higjien\u00eb e dyfisht\u00eb n\u00eb krahasim me ato vaginale. N\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet\nmarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve anale, sidomos femra mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb infeksione shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, prandaj\nun\u00eb do t\u2019ju sugjeroja t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb tek andrologu, p\u00ebr mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e kryerjes\ns\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale normale joanale. P\u00ebrderisa ju keni ereksion n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet\nmarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve anale, p\u00ebrse t\u00eb mos keni dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb\nnormale dhe m\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme?! Mendoj se problemi juaj ka origjin\u00eb\npsikologjike, gj\u00eb q\u00eb duhet ta bisedoni me bashk\u00ebshorten n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb e pse\njo, edhe me nj\u00eb psikolog klinik apo androlog. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kur b\u00ebj seks,\npenisi merr ngjyr\u00eb t\u00eb kuqe mavi dhe koka m\u00eb dhemb n\u00ebse e prek. Mezi arrij t\u00eb\nb\u00ebj seks. Ku t\u00eb drejtohem? Faleminderit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nDuhet t\u00eb keni parasysh q\u00eb gjat\u00eb aktivitetit seksual kemi nj\u00eb shtim t\u00eb\nvaskularizimit dhe mikrovaskularizimit t\u00eb glanspenisit, pra, kemi daljen n\u00eb pah\nt\u00eb disa njollave q\u00eb ngjajn\u00eb si pu\u00e7rra t\u00eb vogla t\u00eb kuqe e q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr\nve\u00e7se mbaresat nervore q\u00eb realizojn\u00eb sensibilizimin apo ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb.\nSigurisht, ngjyra, nga roz\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, b\u00ebhet e kuqe. Gjithsesi, k\u00ebto\nfenomene jan\u00eb normale, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb rastin kur ju keni djegie apo v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi gjat\u00eb\naktit seksual, mendoj se kemi t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb me inflamacion, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin merret\nmjekim p\u00ebrkat\u00ebs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam grindur\nshpesh me t\u00eb dashurin dhe e kam ofenduar duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i aft\u00eb\nseksualisht. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, ka nj\u00eb muaj q\u00eb nuk kryejm\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale,\nedhe pse duhemi. Si ta rifitoj s\u00ebrish?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/strong>Duke\nqen\u00eb se ju jeni e bindur se duheni, mendoj se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb\nafroheni me t\u00eb s\u00ebrish seksualisht. Edhe pse e keni ofenduar n\u00eb pik\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt\nt\u00eb mashkullit, n\u00ebse tregoheni e ngroht\u00eb dhe e dashur me t\u00eb n\u00eb intimitet,\ngjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb kthehet si m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam djalin e\nvog\u00ebl 7 vje\u00e7. Ai, shpesh, m\u00eb pyet: \u201cNga dalin bebet e vogla?\u201d, prandaj ju pyes\njuve si doktor: A duhet t\u2019i themi t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn? Nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nE nderuar zonj\u00eb, ka plot libra tashm\u00eb edhe n\u00eb librarit\u00eb tona q\u00eb jan\u00eb\nparashkollor\u00eb e q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb p\u00ebr intimitetin n\u00eb syt\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Un\u00eb vet\u00eb mendoj\nse u duhet folur hapur f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, se u duhet th\u00ebn\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta, gjithnj\u00eb duke u\nbazuar te mosha e tij, te m\u00ebnyra se si i p\u00ebrcepton ai n\u00eb gjendjen e tij fizike\ndhe psikologjike. Nuk u duhen th\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebrralla t\u00eb tilla, si p\u00ebr shembull: \u201cF\u00ebmij\u00ebn\ne sjell lejleku, del nga lulelakra\u201d e t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj natyre. K\u00ebto do t\u00eb ishin\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, pasi ai, kur t\u00eb rritet edhe pak, do ta kuptoj\u00eb\ng\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebn q\u00eb i keni th\u00ebn\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb besim te ju si prind\u00ebr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Kam shum\u00eb frik\u00eb mos ngel shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb sa her\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebj seks, sepse nuk di si t\u00eb veproj po t\u00eb ngelem me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Si t\u00eb veproj? – \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb ngeleni shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, sa her\u00eb q\u00eb kryeni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale p\u00ebrdorni prezervativ, p\u00ebr ta hequr k\u00ebshtu nj\u00eb her\u00eb e mir\u00eb frik\u00ebn. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[320],"class_list":["post-21696","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-seksi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21696","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21696"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21696\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21696"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21696"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21696"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}