{"id":21668,"date":"2019-03-20T23:00:39","date_gmt":"2019-03-20T22:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21668"},"modified":"2019-03-20T19:43:45","modified_gmt":"2019-03-20T18:43:45","slug":"%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-13","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-13\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffPyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– T\u00eb dashurit tim i p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb seksi oral, por ndihem shum\u00eb n\u00eb siklet. Jo se nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen, por m\u00eb duket di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb intime dhe kam frik\u00eb nga er\u00ebrat e k\u00ebqia. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A duhet ta lejoj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nP\u00ebrderisa ju p\u00eblqen, pse t\u00eb mos e lejoni? E kuptoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb sikletin q\u00eb\nndjeni ju, pasi shum\u00eb femra e kan\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb problem. Ndodh shpesh te femrat q\u00eb n\u00eb\nvend q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqen gjat\u00eb seksit oral nga partneri, shqet\u00ebsohen p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb\narom\u00ebs intime. \u00cbsht\u00eb fakt q\u00eb \u00e7do organiz\u00ebm ka arom\u00ebn e tij, gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\nkrejt\u00ebsisht normale. Feromonet q\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb arom\u00ebn, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, edhe i\nt\u00ebrheqin meshkujt. Mos u shqet\u00ebsoni kaq shum\u00eb. P\u00ebrderisa partneri juaj d\u00ebshiron\nt\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb seks oral, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ai nuk ndjen asnj\u00eb lloj bezdie,\np\u00ebrkundrazi, i p\u00eblqen. E r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ruani higjien\u00eb intime n\u00eb\nmaksimum. N\u00ebse jeni t\u00eb past\u00ebr, nuk keni pse t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb nga infeksionet.\nVagina e femr\u00ebs, me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb arom\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme gjat\u00eb\ninfeksioneve ose s\u00ebmundjeve seksualisht t\u00eb transmetueshme, por p\u00ebrderisa jeni e\nsh\u00ebndetshme dhe keni higjien\u00eb personale, nuk duhet t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Burri im shikon shum\u00eb televizor n\u00eb\ndhom\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb gjumit, sa edhe kur b\u00ebjm\u00eb seks, ai e ka mendjen tek emisionet.\nNuk di si t\u00eb veproj, pasi marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet ton\u00eb seksuale m\u00eb duken shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nvak\u00ebta…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Duhet\nt\u2019ia b\u00ebni t\u00eb qart\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ju k\u00ebnaq aspak marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale. Burrat kan\u00eb ego\nt\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse i thoni se nuk ju k\u00ebnaq fare, ai mund t\u00eb zgjohet nga gjumi\ndhe t\u00eb heq\u00eb dor\u00eb nga shikimi i televizorit n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit. Nuk ia\nrekomandoj asnj\u00eb \u00e7ifti televizorin n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit, por edhe n\u00ebse e kan\u00eb, t\u00eb\npakt\u00ebn n\u00eb momente intime, duhet ta fikin at\u00eb. Televizori vret pasionin, sepse\nnuk inkurajon bashk\u00ebpunim n\u00eb mes t\u00eb \u00e7iftit. Rrezikon dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoni q\u00eb t\u00eb\nmos keni m\u00eb dialog apo p\u00ebrkujdesje p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, por ekziston nj\u00eb zgjidhje p\u00ebr t’i shp\u00ebtuar k\u00ebtij armiku t\u00eb jet\u00ebs\nsuaj n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Flisni hapur me t\u00eb dhe bini dakord t\u00eb mbani fikur televizorin n\u00eb\nmomentin q\u00eb kryeni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb turp p\u00ebr pyetjen time,\npor s\u2019di kujt t\u2019i drejtohem. A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb mua m\u00eb vijn\u00eb shum\u00eb gazra gjat\u00eb\nmarr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies seksuale? Kjo gj\u00eb po m\u00eb b\u00ebhet penges\u00eb p\u00ebr kryerje marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniesh, jo\nse m\u00eb thot\u00eb gj\u00eb burri, por ndihem keq un\u00eb…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb\nshum\u00eb normale. \u00c7donj\u00ebri prej nesh \u00e7liron gazra t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 14 her\u00eb brenda dit\u00ebs\ndhe kjo vlen si p\u00ebr femrat, ashtu edhe p\u00ebr meshkujt. Ka plot femra q\u00eb n\u00eb\nmomentet kur jan\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb \u00e7liruara, mund t\u2019u ndodh\u00eb lirimi i \u201cturpsh\u00ebm\u201d\ni gazrave dhe kjo gj\u00eb rrall\u00eb kalon pa u skuqur vet\u00eb femra, por kjo nuk duhet t\u00eb\njet\u00eb arsye q\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni, pasi \u00ebsht\u00eb normale. L\u00ebreni m\u00ebnjan\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimin,\nturpin dhe kryeni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie lirsh\u00ebm. N\u00ebse ju ndodh q\u00eb t\u00eb keni gazra, qoft\u00eb\nedhe vaginale, kalojeni k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb me t\u00eb qeshur, bashk\u00eb me partnerin tuaj.\nKjo gj\u00eb mund t\u2019i ndodh\u00eb edhe partnerit tuaj dhe e kalon pa problem fare.\nMeshkujt nuk i v\u00ebn\u00eb re k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, n\u00eb krevat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– \nNuk ndjehem shum\u00eb e lubrifikuar kur kryej marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb\narsye, ndjej djegie. Pse m\u00eb ndodh kjo gj\u00eb? Pse nuk lagem?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

–\nZakonisht, jan\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet dhe puthjet paraprake q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb femr\u00ebn t\u00eb\neksitohet dhe mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb si edhe n\u00eb rastin tuaj, q\u00eb vagina t\u00eb jet\u00eb e that\u00eb.\nSigurisht, ju shqet\u00ebsoheni dhe e mbani mendjen aty, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb rrini e qet\u00eb.\nNdonj\u00ebher\u00eb shkak p\u00ebr moslubrifikim jan\u00eb hormonet e femr\u00ebs. Shpesh ndodh q\u00eb\nfemrat q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb menopauz\u00eb ose ato q\u00eb japin gji, nuk jan\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm t\u00eb\nlag\u00ebshta, por kjo gj\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb edhe n\u00eb periudha t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, qofshin\nedhe n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re. Arsye mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe ndonj\u00eb infeksion i leht\u00eb. Duke p\u00ebrjashtuar\nmund\u00ebsin\u00eb e infeksioneve, gj\u00eb q\u00eb ju do ta v\u00ebrtetoni duke b\u00ebr\u00eb vizit\u00eb te mjeku\ngjinekolog, zgjidhja e k\u00ebtij problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorni nj\u00eb lubrifikant me baz\u00eb\nuji. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– T\u00eb dashurit tim i p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb seksi oral, por ndihem shum\u00eb n\u00eb siklet. Jo se nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen, por m\u00eb duket di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb intime dhe kam frik\u00eb nga er\u00ebrat e k\u00ebqia. A duhet ta lejoj? – P\u00ebrderisa ju p\u00eblqen, pse t\u00eb mos e lejoni? E kuptoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb sikletin q\u00eb ndjeni ju, pasi shum\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219],"tags":[322,405],"class_list":["post-21668","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje","tag-pyetje","tag-seksologu-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21668","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21668"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21668\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21668"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21668"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21668"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}