{"id":21619,"date":"2019-03-19T23:00:12","date_gmt":"2019-03-19T22:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21619"},"modified":"2019-03-19T14:30:40","modified_gmt":"2019-03-19T13:30:40","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-37","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-37\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– Jemi nj\u00eb \u00e7ift i martuar, por kam v\u00ebn\u00eb re q\u00eb m\u00eb ka ikur fare d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks me gruan. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theksoj q\u00eb e doja shum\u00eb dikur, por tani sikur s\u2019kam shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri me t\u00eb. Si duhet t\u00eb veproj n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb problem i pashmangsh\u00ebm n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste,\nte \u00e7iftet q\u00eb kan\u00eb vite q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb martuar, problem q\u00eb e hasin edhe\npsikoterapist\u00ebt. Jan\u00eb shum\u00eb arsye q\u00eb e \u00e7ojn\u00eb \u00e7iftin ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, mashkullin n\u00eb\nk\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb zem\u00ebrime t\u00eb akumuluara prej koh\u00ebsh, nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur\npasione t\u00eb reja, si dhe nuk p\u00ebrjashtohen ndryshimet hormonale. E megjithat\u00eb, ka\nedhe arsye t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb jan\u00eb akoma m\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuese dhe ato jan\u00eb psikologjike.\nNdoshta ju nuk ndiheni m\u00eb i aft\u00eb si m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e\nduhur dhe keni frik\u00eb mos d\u00ebshtoni n\u00eb syt\u00eb e gruas tuaj, por kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e gabuar.\nKa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb, kur shohin trupin e gruas s\u00eb tyre t\u00eb plakur, u humbet d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr\nseks. Edhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e gabuar sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb po ajo q\u00eb keni njohur kur ka qen\u00eb e\nre. Nd\u00ebrrimi i partneres nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhje sepse mund t\u2019i krijosh vetes\nprobleme dhe konflikte t\u00eb pazgjidhshme. Ky problem zgjidhet duke e diskutuar\nhapur me gruan tuaj, gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund ta ndihmoj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj. Ndoshta edhe\najo ndjen t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb si\u00e7 ndjeni edhe ju, por ajo ka ndjenja dhe nuk dor\u00ebzohet.\nDuke qen\u00eb se thoni se e keni dashur, at\u00ebhere vazhdoni ta doni, apo jo?! Duhet t\u00eb\nmundoheni ta p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoni jet\u00ebn tuaj seksuale me sjellje t\u00eb ngrohta dhe me shum\u00eb\nhumor. N\u00ebse edhe k\u00ebshtu nuk e p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoni dot, ju rekomandoj t\u00eb shkoni te ndonj\u00eb\npsikoterapist ose t\u00eb b\u00ebni ndonj\u00eb vizit\u00eb tek andrologu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Jam 50\nvje\u00e7 dhe kam sh\u00ebndet shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Un\u00eb b\u00ebj seks \u00e7do dit\u00eb. A  mund t\u00eb kem probleme m\u00eb von\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– P\u00ebrderisa nuk keni pasur shqet\u00ebsime,\nvazhdoni t\u00eb b\u00ebni seks \u00e7do dit\u00eb si deri tani sepse s\u2019do t\u00eb keni probleme. Uroj\nq\u00eb edhe bashk\u00ebshortja juaj t\u00eb jet\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqur dhe dakord me k\u00ebt\u00eb rit\u00ebm t\u00eb jet\u00ebs\ntuaj seksuale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– A mund\nt\u00eb zbulohet s\u00ebmundja e AIDS-it pa i dh\u00ebn\u00eb ende shenjat? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Sigurisht q\u00eb rastet mund t\u00eb\ndiagnostikohen pa filluar s\u00ebmundja, gjithmon\u00eb n\u00ebse do t\u2019i n\u00ebnshtroheni nj\u00eb\nanalize laboratorike p\u00ebr AIDS. Analizat b\u00ebhen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb vullnetare, pa\ndeklaruar emrin e personit. N\u00ebse dyshoni p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb\nb\u00ebni nj\u00eb analiz\u00eb gjaku. Laborator\u00ebt p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb pun\u00eb jan\u00eb kudo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam\nskuqje dhe kruarje t\u00eb lafsh\u00ebs s\u00eb kok\u00ebs s\u00eb penisit. \u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– <\/em><\/strong>Ju nuk na jepni\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb dh\u00ebna n\u00eb letr\u00ebn tuaj, megjithat\u00eb, patologji t\u00eb tilla t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb\nmendosh se kemi t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb me balanopastitis, q\u00eb ka pik\u00ebrisht ato shenja q\u00eb keni\np\u00ebrshkruar ju. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, ka edhe shtim t\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj sekrecioni me er\u00eb t\u00eb\nr\u00ebnd\u00eb, gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb avancoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb edem\u00eb t\u00eb zon\u00ebs s\u00eb prekur, duke\nshkuar deri aty sa t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsoj\u00eb kryerjen e aktit seksual. Ju k\u00ebshilloj nj\u00eb\nvizit\u00eb tek andrologu, q\u00eb t\u00eb jemi m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb p\u00ebr diagnoz\u00ebn.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Jemi nj\u00eb \u00e7ift i martuar, por kam v\u00ebn\u00eb re q\u00eb m\u00eb ka ikur fare d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks me gruan. Theksoj q\u00eb e doja shum\u00eb dikur, por tani sikur s\u2019kam shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri me t\u00eb. Si duhet t\u00eb veproj n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast? – Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb problem i pashmangsh\u00ebm n\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[323,322,320],"class_list":["post-21619","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seksologu","tag-pergjigje","tag-pyetje","tag-seksi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21619","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21619"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21619\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21619"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21619"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21619"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}