{"id":21585,"date":"2019-03-18T23:30:55","date_gmt":"2019-03-18T22:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21585"},"modified":"2019-03-18T19:30:32","modified_gmt":"2019-03-18T18:30:32","slug":"%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-12","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfpyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-12\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffPyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

– Un\u00eb me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time shohim shum\u00eb filma pornografik\u00eb sepse m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb pozicionet dhe fantazit\u00eb e tyre.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un\u00eb arrij t\u2019i b\u00ebj, por e dashura ime nuk i m\u00ebson dot dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb normale p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ift si ne. Si ta b\u00ebj t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time t\u00eb sillet si pornostaret?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk\nduhet absolutisht ta detyroni t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb sillet si pornostaret; b\u00ebni\nnj\u00eb gabim shum\u00eb t\u00eb madh. Ajo ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb q\u00eb ju \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb,\npasi e keni m\u00ebrzitur. Shum\u00eb meshkuj presin q\u00eb\nfemrat t\u00eb plot\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha fantazit\u00eb e tyre, duke u nisur nga ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb\npar\u00eb n\u00eb filma pornografik\u00eb, por mos harroni se fantazit\u00eb dhe pornoja jan\u00eb larg\nrealitetit. Pavar\u00ebsisht asaj q\u00eb shihni n\u00eb TV, n\u00eb pornografi (shum\u00eb prej\ntyre jan\u00eb edhe montime), n\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb nuk duhet t\u2019ia impononi t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs\ntuaj ato \u00e7far\u00eb shikoni. Shijojeni dashurin\u00eb si \u00e7ift normal si\u00e7 jeni, me\nfantazit\u00eb tuaja vetjake dhe jo duke imituar, le t\u00eb themi, pamje q\u00eb deri diku\njan\u00eb fallco. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– E\nkonsumoj shum\u00eb alkoolin, por jo se jam pijanec; e shoq\u00ebroj me ushqime. Un\u00eb doja\nt\u00eb dija, a ndikon ai te marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Si\u00e7 e\nkemi shkruar edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb, alkooli n\u00eb doza t\u00eb vogla, 1-2 teke, nj\u00eb got\u00eb ver\u00eb\napo nj\u00eb got\u00eb birr\u00eb, ndihmon n\u00eb aktivitetin seksual, n\u00eb ereksion dhe ejakulacion.\nP\u00ebrve\u00e7se largon pak ndrojtjen, ai shton imagjinat\u00ebn n\u00eb loj\u00ebrat seksuale dhe\nndihmon n\u00eb arritjen e nj\u00eb performance m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, p\u00ebr arsye se frenon emocionet\napo rregullat e moralit shoq\u00ebror. Por, n\u00eb rast se ju pini m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se\u00e7 duhet, alkooli\ne frenon aktivitetin seksual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Kam nj\u00eb problem. Un\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e\narrij orgazm\u00ebn me t\u00eb dashurin tim, nd\u00ebrsa kur masturbohem vet\u00eb, po. A \u00ebsht\u00eb\nnormale kjo gj\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Nuk\njeni femra e vetme q\u00eb ju ndodh k\u00ebshtu. Shumica e femrave kan\u00eb ndrojtje ose kan\u00eb\nfrik\u00ebn e ndonj\u00eb shtatzanie t\u00eb papritur, ndaj u ndodh t\u00eb mos arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm.\nGjat\u00eb momentit seksual, duke mos u p\u00ebrqendruar te partneri i vet, nga frika apo\nnga ndonj\u00eb shkak tjet\u00ebr, femra nuk arrin n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. Masturbimi te femrat mund\nt\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsoj\u00eb deri diku nj\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm n\u00eb aktivitet seksual, megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb\nrastin tuaj, punoni pak me veten dhe bashk\u00ebpunoni edhe me t\u00eb dashurin. Mendoni\nsikur jeni vet\u00ebm, \u00e7lirohuni nga emocionet dhe tregojini t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn t\u00eb dashurit\ntuaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– M\u00eb p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb seksi anal, por e\nfejuara ime m\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ndjen dhimbje dhe mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb infeksione. A \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ajo q\u00eb\nju thot\u00eb e fejuara \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Pastaj, duke qen\u00eb se ajo nuk e p\u00eblqen\nk\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, p\u00ebrse duhet ta praktikoni patjet\u00ebr? Sidomos po t\u00eb b\u00ebni seks anal dhe\nmenj\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00eb pas, seks vaginal, do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb gabim shum\u00eb i madh. Infeksionet\ndo t\u00eb ishin me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb problematike p\u00ebr femr\u00ebn dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira\np\u00ebr t\u2019u mjekuar. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, ato zgjasin shum\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb. Mendoj se ka rrug\u00eb t\u00eb\ntjera t\u00eb reja m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar forma k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie seksuale, sesa\nkjo q\u00eb keni zgjedhur ju. Rrug\u00ebt anale jan\u00eb p\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb dhe jo p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie\nseksuale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– T\u00eb dashurit tim i p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb seksi\noral, por ndihem shum\u00eb n\u00eb siklet, jo se nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen, por m\u00eb duket di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb\nintime dhe kam frik\u00eb nga er\u00ebrat e k\u00ebqia. A duhet ta lejoj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– P\u00ebrderisa\nju p\u00eblqen, p\u00ebrse t\u00eb mos e lejoni? E kuptoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb sikletin q\u00eb ndjeni ju,\npasi shum\u00eb femra e kan\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb problem. Ndodh shpesh te femrat q\u00eb n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb\nk\u00ebnaqen gjat\u00eb seksit oral nga partneri, shqet\u00ebsohen p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb arom\u00ebs intime.\n\u00cbsht\u00eb fakt q\u00eb \u00e7do organiz\u00ebm ka arom\u00ebn e tij\/saj, gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht\nnormale. Feromonet q\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb arom\u00ebn, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, edhe i t\u00ebrheqin\nmeshkujt. Mos u shqet\u00ebsoni kaq shum\u00eb. P\u00ebrderisa partneri juaj d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb\nseks oral, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ai nuk ndjen asnj\u00eb lloj bezdie, p\u00ebrkundrazi, i p\u00eblqen.\nE r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ruani higjien\u00eb intime n\u00eb maksimum. N\u00ebse jeni t\u00eb past\u00ebr,\nnuk keni pse t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb nga infeksionet. Vagina e femr\u00ebs, me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb mund\nt\u00eb ket\u00eb arom\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme gjat\u00eb infeksioneve ose s\u00ebmundjeve seksualisht t\u00eb\ntransmetuara, por p\u00ebrderisa jeni e sh\u00ebndetshme dhe keni higjien\u00eb personale, nuk\nduhet t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Burri im shikon shum\u00eb televizor n\u00eb\ndhom\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb gjumit, sa edhe kur b\u00ebjm\u00eb seks, ai e ka mendjen tek emisionet.\nNuk di si t\u00eb veproj, pasi marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet ton\u00eb seksuale m\u00eb duken shum\u00eb t\u00eb vak\u00ebta…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Duhet\nt\u2019ia b\u00ebni t\u00eb qart\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ju k\u00ebnaq aspak marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale. Burrat kan\u00eb ego\nt\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse i thoni se nuk ju k\u00ebnaq fare, ai mund t\u00eb zgjohet nga gjumi\ndhe t\u00eb heq\u00eb dor\u00eb nga shikimi i televizorit n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit. Nuk ia\nrekomandoj asnj\u00eb \u00e7ifti televizorin n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit, por edhe n\u00ebse e kan\u00eb, t\u00eb\npakt\u00ebn n\u00eb momente intime, duhet ta fikin at\u00eb. Televizori vret pasionin, sepse\nnuk inkurajon bashk\u00ebpunim n\u00eb mes t\u00eb \u00e7iftit. Rrezikon dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoni q\u00eb t\u00eb\nmos keni m\u00eb dialog apo p\u00ebrkujdesje p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, por <\/strong>ekziston\nnj\u00eb zgjidhje p\u00ebr t’i shp\u00ebtuar k\u00ebtij armiku t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Flisni hapur\nme t\u00eb dhe bini dakord t\u00eb mbani fikur televizorin n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb kryeni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie\nseksuale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Un\u00eb me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time shohim shum\u00eb filma pornografik\u00eb sepse m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb pozicionet dhe fantazit\u00eb e tyre. Un\u00eb arrij t\u2019i b\u00ebj, por e dashura ime nuk i m\u00ebson dot dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb normale p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ift si ne. Si ta b\u00ebj t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time t\u00eb sillet si pornostaret? – Nuk duhet […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21240,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[88],"tags":[2342],"class_list":["post-21585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seksologu","tag-pyetje-per-seksin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21585"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21585\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}