Quhem Entela dhe jetoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb fshat af\u00ebr Beratit. Jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e p\u00ebrkushtuar dhe bashk\u00ebshorte e zonja. U b\u00ebn\u00eb 10 vjet martes\u00eb dhe familja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb shtuar me dy \u00e7una. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Burrin e dua shum\u00eb sepse e kam marr\u00eb me dashuri, por \u00e7unat mund t\u00eb them se jan\u00eb drita e syve t\u00eb mi. Dy vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb linda \u00e7unin e dyt\u00eb dhe q\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb, trupi im p\u00ebsoi nj\u00eb transformim total. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Un\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb peshoja 75 kile, por i mbaja mir\u00eb sepse jam e gjat\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa tani, q\u00eb pas lindjes, kam shkuar 120 kg, jam gati dyfish. M\u00eb p\u00ebrpara dilja n\u00eb qytet me familjen e b\u00ebnim xhiro, iknim p\u00ebr pushime n\u00eb det ose dhe kot, dilja me shoqet gjithandej sepse jam tip shum\u00eb i shoq\u00ebruesh\u00ebm dhe burri nuk m\u00eb ndalon t\u00eb dal me to. Ne q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim kur jemi njohur, i kemi ditur difektet e qejfet e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit dhe kjo ka b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb ta pranojm\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin ashtu si\u00e7 jemi. M\u00eb p\u00ebrpara, kur kisha vet\u00ebm \u00e7unin e vog\u00ebl, pavar\u00ebsisht se po b\u00ebj gati 33 vje\u00e7e, e merrja burrin, shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb time dhe iknim n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrcyer. K\u00ebnaqeshim pa mas\u00eb. Kur vinte fundjava, shoqet e mia e dinin q\u00eb, se s\u2019b\u00ebn do dilnim dhe m\u00eb thoshin:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 H\u00eb, si do t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh sonte? \u00c7far\u00eb\ndo t\u00eb ndryshosh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuk duhej shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar\nse jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb isha me e paraqitshmja mes tyre, por edhe mbahesha shum\u00eb. Burri im\ngjithmone krenohej me mua. \u201cShikoni, u thoshte miqve tan\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb gruaje seksi q\u00eb\nkam! S`ka Anzhelin\u00eb Zholi q\u00eb t\u00eb m`ia kaloj\u00eb!\u201d. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb g\u00ebzonte pa mas\u00eb. Buz\u00ebqeshja\nme shpirt. Por, nga viti i tet\u00eb i martes\u00ebs, burri m\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnim edhe nj\u00eb\nf\u00ebmij\u00eb. Ky vdes pas gocave dhe m\u00eb lutej shum\u00eb. Un\u00eb s\u2019doja t\u00eb b\u00ebja m\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb\nngaq\u00eb mendoja: \u201cKush u vete nga pas!\u201d, mir\u00ebpo e d\u00ebgjova burrin dhe mbeta shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb\nme \u00e7unin tim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Nuk pendohem sepse e kam si engj\u00ebll, e dua shum\u00eb dhe na e\nka mbushur sht\u00ebpin\u00eb me g\u00ebzim e dashurin\u00eb na e ka shtuar, mir\u00ebpo gjat\u00eb shtatzanis\u00eb,\nun\u00eb haja shum\u00eb. Kisha oreks t\u00eb papar\u00eb dhe s\u2019ndalesha dot duke ngr\u00ebn\u00eb brum\u00ebra.\nBlija \u00e7do tip byreku, paste, \u00ebmb\u00eblsirash e i mbaroja p\u00ebr pes\u00eb minuta. T\u00eb gjitha\nshoqet m\u00eb thonin se e kisha nga barra e megjith\u00ebse me \u00e7unin e par\u00eb s\u2019kam patur\nt\u00eb tilla probleme, mendova se trupi im pas lindjes do merrte form\u00ebn e m\u00ebparshme.\nPor, ja q\u00eb nuk ndodhi ashtu e un\u00eb mbeta shum\u00eb e sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb. Mbeta me bark t\u00eb\npapar\u00eb e vithet po ashtu, me shum\u00eb celulit. Kur linda djalin, iu p\u00ebrkushtova totalisht\natij dhe nuk e mendova q\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb do t\u00eb kisha probleme, mir\u00ebpo u b\u00ebn\u00eb dy vjet\nq\u00eb nga ajo dit\u00eb dhe megjith\u00ebse po b\u00ebj ushtrime, p\u00ebrdit\u00eb, vet\u00ebm vazhdoj t\u00eb sh\u00ebndoshem.\nNuk e di pse, por kam shum\u00eb oreks. Duke qen\u00eb se nuk jam n\u00eb pun\u00eb, por vet\u00ebm n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi,\nrri e p\u00ebrgatis drek\u00eb e dark\u00eb, por un\u00eb ha dyfish. N\u00eb familjen ton\u00eb tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\nsi m\u00eb par\u00eb, vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb ndryshim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl; kjo pesh\u00eb q\u00eb kam marr\u00eb, m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb\nshum\u00eb t\u00eb pasigurt\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete si n\u00eb raport me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ashtu edhe me bashk\u00ebshortin.\nTashm\u00eb, kur dal vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb rast te familjar\u00ebt e mi. Me shoqet i kam eliminuar\ndaljet pothuajse t\u00eb gjitha sepse me duket vetja shum\u00eb keq para tyre dhe vet\u00ebm\nkur vijn\u00eb ato tek un\u00eb. Ju betohem se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje e r\u00ebnd\u00eb kjo e imja sepse\ndhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb buk\u00ebn n\u00eb dyqan pres \u00e7unin e madh t\u00eb m\u00eb vij\u00eb nga\nshkolla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jam e shqet\u00ebsuar edhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb\ngj\u00eb tjt\u00ebr… Burri im m\u00eb thot\u00eb se nuk e ka problem e kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje.\nPo si mund t\u00eb mos e ket\u00eb problem q\u00eb un\u00eb tashm\u00eb s`mund t\u00eb dal m\u00eb e t\u00eb jem po aq\ne bukur dhe e mbajtur sa m\u00eb par\u00eb? Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb fut n\u00eb mendime t\u00eb shumta sepse\nmendoj se edhe fizikisht, jemi larguar. Ne t\u00eb dy s`jemi m\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ai tashm\u00eb\nvet\u00ebm n\u00eb pun\u00eb rri e un\u00eb i jam p\u00ebrkushtuar vet\u00ebm sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Nuk ka m\u00eb fundjava q\u00eb\nne t\u00eb dalim p\u00ebr t\u2019u arg\u00ebtuar, kjo p\u00ebr fajin tim, se ai del me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e un\u00eb\npreferoj t\u00eb rri n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. E shikoj nganj\u00ebher\u00eb me nj\u00eb hije dyshimi e mendoj: \u201cPo\nsi \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur qe ai s`ka ndryshuar fare, bile m\u00eb duket akoma m\u00eb i bukur?\u201d.\nUn\u00eb jam b\u00ebr\u00eb v\u00ebrtet keq\u2026 S`m\u00eb b\u00ebhet as t\u00eb b\u00ebhem m\u00eb e bukur, as t\u00eb lyhem, as t\u00eb\nb\u00ebj flok\u00ebt. Mendoj se mos kjo gjendje po na \u00e7on n\u00eb largim ne t\u00eb dyve. Mendoj se\nmos ndoshta ai tashm\u00eb ka ndonj\u00eb fem\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr e cila b\u00ebhet e bukur p\u00ebr t\u00eb sepse\ns`ka shanse q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb shikoj\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje e prap\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cMos e vrit mendjen,\nmir\u00eb je!\u201d…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u2019e di se si t\u2019jua shpjegoj gjendjen\nku ndodhem tani, por jam tej mase konfuze. A thua kjo qet\u00ebsi q\u00eb ka mbizot\u00ebruar n\u00eb\nfamiljen ton\u00eb do t\u00eb na largoj\u00eb nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri apo mos ndoshta edhe ne jemi\nplakur e duhet t`i p\u00ebrkushtohemi m\u00eb shum\u00eb familjes?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Quhem Entela dhe jetoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb fshat af\u00ebr Beratit. Jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e p\u00ebrkushtuar dhe bashk\u00ebshorte e zonja. U b\u00ebn\u00eb 10 vjet martes\u00eb dhe familja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb shtuar me dy \u00e7una. Burrin e dua shum\u00eb sepse e kam marr\u00eb me dashuri, por \u00e7unat mund t\u00eb them se jan\u00eb drita e syve t\u00eb mi. Dy vjet […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":20625,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-21584","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21584","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21584"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21584\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20625"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21584"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21584"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21584"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}