Shum\u00eb her\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ndodhen n\u00eb situata t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira dhe t\u00eb pazgjidhshme. N\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej k\u00ebtyre situatave jam ndodhur edhe un\u00eb. Ndodhi pik\u00ebrisht kur u lidha me t\u00eb dashurin tim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
U takuam, u njoh\u00ebm e m\u00eb pas u lidh\u00ebm. Ai kishte nj\u00eb shok me t\u00eb cilin rrinte gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn, e kishte si v\u00ebllan\u00eb e tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe un\u00eb, kur e njoha, m\u2019u duk djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb. Edhe pse ishte pak aventurier, mendova se e kishte si gjith\u00eb t\u00eb rrinjt\u00eb. Dilnim shum\u00eb shpesh bashk\u00eb, madje kur dilja me ta, fillova t\u00eb merrja me vete edhe shoqen time t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, dilnim t\u00eb kat\u00ebrt bashk\u00eb kudo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ndodhi q\u00eb shoqja ime dhe shoku i t\u00eb dashurit tim, p\u00eblqeheshin dhe u lidh\u00ebn.\nT\u00eb them t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn, kur e mora vesh, m\u2019u b\u00eb shum\u00eb qejfi sepse k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb\nishim t\u00eb lidhura dy shoqe me dy shok\u00eb. Koha kalonte dhe t\u00eb kat\u00ebrt ishim shum\u00eb t\u00eb\nlumtur. M\u00eb pas, shok\u00ebt tan\u00eb u fejuan dhe disa muaj pas fejes\u00ebs, shoqja ime mbeti\nshtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. T\u00eb dy nuk ishin n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb krijonin e t\u00eb mbanin nj\u00eb familje, pasi\nnuk ishin n\u00eb pun\u00eb, ndaj ai vendosi t\u00eb shkonte jasht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar. I dashuri\nim jetonte jasht\u00eb dhe i ofroi atij q\u00eb t\u00eb shkonte t\u00eb jetonte e t\u00eb punonte me t\u00eb.\nT\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb e kishte l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, me prind\u00ebrit e tij, por ata, edhe\npse kishte shum\u00eb pak koh\u00eb q\u00eb jetonte me ta, nuk e respektonin dhe nuk e donin\naspak. Nuk e pyesnin ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb a kishte nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb, duke qen\u00eb se\nishte shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmija q\u00eb mbante n\u00eb bark, do t\u00eb ishte nipi i tyre. M\u00eb vinte\nshum\u00eb keq p\u00ebr shoqen time, ndaj p\u00ebrpiqesha ta ndihmoja n\u00eb \u00e7do m\u00ebnyr\u00eb dhe e shoq\u00ebroja\np\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb vizita te mjeku, s\u00eb bashku me motr\u00ebn e saj. Koha kalonte dhe\nshtatzania avanconte. Sikur t\u00eb mos mjaftonte vuajtja q\u00eb ajo po e kalonte\nshtatzanin\u00eb e vetme, zbulova edhe di\u00e7ka t\u00eb tmerrshme prej t\u00eb dashurit tim. Ai m\u00eb\ntha se shoku i tij, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, burri i saj, kishte disa muaj q\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetonte\nme nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tjet\u00ebr atje ku ishte. Mbeta e shokuar dhe nuk dija \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb b\u00ebja. Nga\nnj\u00ebra an\u00eb m\u00eb dhimbsej shoqja ime, por kisha frik\u00eb t\u2019ia thoja t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, pasi\nmund t\u00eb rrezikonte f\u00ebmij\u00ebn q\u00eb priste. Sa her\u00eb shkoja ta takoja, nuk e shihja\ndot n\u00eb sy. Ajo m\u00eb tregonte se ai e merrte \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00eb telefon dhe e pyeste se\nsi ishte. Mendoja se nuk mund t\u00eb kishte bota njer\u00ebz m\u00eb cinik\u00eb se ai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shum\u00eb her\u00eb, matesha q\u00eb t\u2019ia tregoja t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, por m\u00eb pas, e mbaja veten.\nErdhi koha kur m\u00eb n\u00eb fund ai u kthye pas lindjes s\u00eb t\u00eb birit, sepse as n\u00eb\nmomentet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb lindja e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije, nuk denjoi\nq\u00eb t\u00eb ishte. Kur e shihja, m\u00eb ngjallte neveri. Shtirej sikur ishte i dashuruar\nme shoqen time. Ndenji thuajse dy muaj n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe, filloi\nt\u00eb b\u00ebhej xheloz dhe shum\u00eb posesiv. Nuk donte q\u00eb gruaja e tij t\u00eb dilte nga sht\u00ebpia,\nt\u00eb vishej e t\u00eb lyhej. Shoqja ime ndjehej shum\u00eb keq, pasi nuk e kuptonte arsyen\nse p\u00ebrse ai kishte ndryshuar kaq shum\u00eb. Ai vendosi t\u00eb shkonte s\u00ebrish jasht\u00eb\nshtetit sepse tashm\u00eb po e priste \u201ctjetra\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I k\u00ebrkoja shpesh shoqes sime t\u00eb dilnim p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb kafe, por ajo m\u00eb thoshte:\n\u201cHajde m\u00eb tako n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi m\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201d. Zbulova se ai nuk e linte as t\u00eb dilte m\u00eb nga\nsht\u00ebpia, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb vet\u00eb b\u00ebnte dy jet\u00eb. Mendova se tashm\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb\nndalonte m\u00eb asgj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ia tregoja t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn shoqes sime, pasi m\u00eb dukej sikur\npo bashk\u00ebpunoja edhe un\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tradhti. Bisedova me t\u00eb dashurin tim dhe e\npyeta n\u00ebse duhet t\u2019ia tregoja t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn shoqes sime apo jo, por ai m\u00eb k\u00ebshilloi\nq\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos p\u00ebrfshihesha fare n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb muhabet dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebja sikur nuk dija\ngj\u00eb. E kisha t\u00eb pamundur, m\u2019u b\u00eb jeta shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, pasi \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebja,\nmendja m\u00eb rrinte vet\u00ebm aty. M\u00eb ishte b\u00ebr\u00eb si makth, madje edhe n\u00eb gjum\u00eb shihja \u00ebndrra\nvet\u00ebm me ta. M\u00eb dukej sikur \u00e7do gj\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte q\u00eb t\u2019ia tregoja t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. E\nvendosa q\u00eb do t\u2019ia thoja dhe shkova ta takoja. Sapo hyra brenda n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e\nsaj, ajo filloi t\u00eb m\u00eb tregonte gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb i kishte d\u00ebrguar ai dhe ishte shum\u00eb e lumtur.\nE pyeta se \u00e7far\u00eb kishin nd\u00ebrmend, do t\u00eb shkonte edhe ajo q\u00eb t\u00eb jetonte me t\u00eb\njasht\u00eb? Ajo m\u00eb tha se i shoqi i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb se kjo gj\u00eb ishte e pamundur tashm\u00eb\nq\u00eb kishin djalin e vog\u00ebl, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ai do t\u00eb vazhdonte t\u00eb jetonte andej dhe kjo\nk\u00ebtej. Mblodha forcat dhe u b\u00ebra e fort\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
E pyeta: \u201cPo a ke menduar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00ebse jeni gjithmon\u00eb larg, ai mund t\u00eb\nt\u00eb tradhtoj\u00eb?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj se nuk donte ta mendonte k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, pasi e dinte q\u00eb ai e\ndonte dhe nuk do ta b\u00ebnte kurr\u00eb. Filloi t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitej me mua q\u00eb hidhja dyshime t\u00eb\ntilla, ndaj nuk durova dot m\u00eb e ia tregova t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, i thash\u00eb duke b\u00ebrtitur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i rrit f\u00ebmij\u00ebn brenda kat\u00ebr mureve t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, me prind\u00ebrit\ne tij q\u00eb t\u00eb nxin\u00eb jet\u00ebn gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn, ai ka muaj q\u00eb jeton me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo nuk donte q\u00eb ta besonte, por dit\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb zbulova se ajo kishte marr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn\ndhe kishte ikur nga sht\u00ebpia e tij. B\u00ebra t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebn p\u00ebr ta k\u00ebrkuar e m\u00eb n\u00eb\nfund e gjeta n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e motr\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Kur hyra brenda, mendoja se ajo ende\ndo t\u00eb ishte e m\u00ebrzitur me mua, por ajo m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoi dhe m\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoi q\u00eb i kisha\ntreguar gjith\u00e7ka. E pyeta se \u00e7far\u00eb kishte nd\u00ebrmend t\u00eb b\u00ebnte me jet\u00ebn e saj dhe\nm\u00eb tha: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cM\u00eb mir\u00eb e vetme dhe me shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrballur me jet\u00ebn, sesa t\u00eb\nrri brenda atyre kat\u00ebr mureve, duke luajtur rolin e budallaqes\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kaluan koh\u00eb, ajo gjeti nj\u00eb pun\u00eb, u rregullua shum\u00eb mir\u00eb ekonomikisht dhe\ntashm\u00eb jeton s\u00eb bashku me djalin, n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend shum\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt, n\u00eb Kanada, nga\nku nuk do t\u00eb kthehet m\u00eb kurr\u00eb. Tani, bisedojm\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb internet dhe un\u00eb jam i\nvetmi person me t\u00eb cilin ajo mban kontakt. M\u00eb vjen mir\u00eb q\u00eb lumturia e saj varej\nvet\u00ebm nga un\u00eb dhe q\u00eb e arriti at\u00eb, fal\u00eb meje. Tani, jam edhe un\u00eb shum\u00eb e lumtur\nq\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe q\u00eb arriti t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj dhe t\u00eb\ndjalit t\u00eb vet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Shum\u00eb her\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ndodhen n\u00eb situata t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira dhe t\u00eb pazgjidhshme. N\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej k\u00ebtyre situatave jam ndodhur edhe un\u00eb. Ndodhi pik\u00ebrisht kur u lidha me t\u00eb dashurin tim. U takuam, u njoh\u00ebm e m\u00eb pas u lidh\u00ebm. Ai kishte nj\u00eb shok me t\u00eb cilin rrinte gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn, e kishte si v\u00ebllan\u00eb e tij. Edhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":21093,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[249],"class_list":["post-21582","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21582","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21582"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21582\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21093"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21582"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21582"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21582"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}