{"id":21561,"date":"2019-03-16T22:30:59","date_gmt":"2019-03-16T21:30:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=21561"},"modified":"2019-03-16T19:11:35","modified_gmt":"2019-03-16T18:11:35","slug":"%ef%bb%bfsi-te-joshesh-nje-burre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2019\/03\/%ef%bb%bfsi-te-joshesh-nje-burre\/","title":{"rendered":"\ufeffSi t\u00eb josh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb burr\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><strong><em>Nuk ekziston nj\u00eb metod\u00eb e pagabueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb joshur dik\u00eb, por disa truke t\u00eb vogla i kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb tashm\u00eb provat e tyre.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Ne i kemi rishikuar dhe po ju parashtrojm\u00eb gjith\u00eb sekretet e tyre. Ju takon juve t\u00eb zgjidhni at\u00eb q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrshtatet m\u00eb shum\u00eb&#8230;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Metoda klasike<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Merrni q\u00ebndrimin e nj\u00eb zonje t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe respektoni tradit\u00ebn. Me nj\u00eb\nfjal\u00eb, mos b\u00ebni asnj\u00eb l\u00ebvizje. N\u00ebse ju p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb burr\u00eb, l\u00ebreni at\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb\ndrejt jush. Shumic\u00ebs s\u00eb burrave nuk u parap\u00eblqen q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb rolet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kujdes! Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb burrat mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb pak t\u00eb ndrojtur apo t\u00eb hutuar. Ata\nshpesh kan\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb hapin e par\u00eb, nga frika e refuzimit. Pra, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb\nu duhet dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb e vog\u00ebl, nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb inkurajimi: Nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje, nj\u00eb\nshikim pak i zgjatur dhe sidomos, mos rrini gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn ngjitur pas shoqeve,\npasi grupi mund t\u2019i tremb\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>L\u00ebreni trupin tuaj t\u00eb flas\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne nuk e kuptojm\u00eb, por gjestet e q\u00ebndrimi yn\u00eb flasin shum\u00eb dhe i d\u00ebrgojn\u00eb\nsinjale t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme bashk\u00ebbiseduesit ton\u00eb. Pse t\u00eb mos i p\u00ebrdorni p\u00ebr t\u00eb\njoshur pren\u00eb tuaj?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fillohet me t\u00eb famshmin \u201ckontakt vizual\u201d, tre her\u00eb. Nj\u00eb shikim i par\u00eb\nvjedhurazi, disa minuta m\u00eb pas nj\u00eb shikim pak m\u00eb i gjat\u00eb dhe her\u00ebn e tret\u00eb, nj\u00eb\nshikim i ngulitur p\u00ebr disa sekonda\u2026 Nuk mund t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e qart\u00eb se kaq, pa e hapur\ngoj\u00ebn fare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mos i kryq\u00ebzoni krah\u00ebt n\u00eb gjoks, pasi \u00ebsht\u00eb shenj\u00eb mbylljeje, por luani loj\u00ebn\ne pasqyr\u00ebs, duke kopjuar, pa r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sy, l\u00ebvizjet e djalit. P\u00ebrkuluni pak para\n(shenj\u00eb hapjeje) dhe, nd\u00ebrsa ai ju tregon jet\u00ebn e tij, merrni nj\u00eb pamje t\u00eb frym\u00ebzuar\ne t\u00eb pasionuar, duke p\u00ebrkulur leht\u00eb kok\u00ebn anash e duke pohuar. Burrave u p\u00eblqen\nshum\u00eb t\u2019i d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb me v\u00ebmendje! Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb parad\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl\ndashurie, sekretin e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs e zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb mir\u00eb kafsh\u00ebt!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kujdes! Kjo metod\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e garantuar dhe ju mund t\u00eb d\u00ebrgoni sinjale\nkontradiktore. Nuk duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqeni vet\u00ebm duke b\u00ebr\u00eb rolin e memecit; nevojitet\nedhe nj\u00eb bised\u00eb e leht\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Versioni i amazon\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E thon\u00eb edhe reklamat: Rregullat e loj\u00ebs kan\u00eb ndryshuar! Sot, femrat, t\u00eb\nndikuara edhe nga seriale si \u201cSeksi dhe qyteti\u201d e k\u00ebshillat e mediave, nuk kan\u00eb\nm\u00eb frik\u00eb ta hedhin ato hapin e par\u00eb. Ato e din\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019duan dhe mundohen t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb\nm\u00ebnyrat p\u00ebr ta arritur. N\u00ebse keni caktuar objektivin, p\u00ebrparoni drejt tij pa\nfrik\u00eb, filloni bised\u00ebn dhe mos hezitoni t\u00eb vendosni nj\u00eb kontakt fizik: Duke i prekur\nlehtas krahun, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb sikur ka shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz rreth e rrotull p\u00ebr t\u2019iu afruar\nm\u00eb shum\u00eb, duke i folur n\u00eb vesh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kujdes! Burrat jan\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb brisht\u00eb dhe s\u2019din\u00eb si t\u00eb veprojn\u00eb. Disa\nmund t\u00eb ndjehen edhe t\u00eb sulmuar dhe t\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb sikur i kan\u00eb prekur n\u00eb burr\u00ebri n\u00ebse\ne b\u00ebni t\u00eb gjith\u00eb pun\u00ebn ju! T\u00eb tjer\u00eb do t\u2019ju marrin p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb shkon me t\u00eb\nparin q\u00eb i del\np\u00ebrpara. Ju takon juve t\u00eb vendosni se \u00e7far\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Joshja me an\u00eb t\u00eb internetit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Keni gjetur nj\u00eb koleg, nj\u00eb shok t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr klase n\u00eb Facebook apo nj\u00eb t\u00eb\npanjohur q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen? Edhe grat\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojtura mund t\u00eb flirtojn\u00eb sa t\u00eb duan\nt\u00eb fshehura pas kompjuterit, pa pasur rrezik se do t\u00eb d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb. Duhet filluar\nshum\u00eb leht\u00eb&#8230; N\u00eb fillim, k\u00ebrkoni subjekte t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta dhe neutrale: Udh\u00ebtimet,\nkinemaja, studimet, aktualiteti (pa hyr\u00eb n\u00eb polemika). K\u00ebshtu, do t\u00eb krijohet\nnj\u00eb af\u00ebrsi intelektuale. Kalohet n\u00eb etap\u00ebn e m\u00ebtejshme duke b\u00ebr\u00eb pak si hutaqe:\n\u201cKisha koh\u00eb pa \u00e7atuar me dik\u00eb\u2026\u201d, ose: \u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb k\u00ebndsh\u00ebm t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh me dik\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\nn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gjat\u00ebsi val\u00ebsh\u2026\u201d. Ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ai t\u00eb jet\u00eb i pari q\u00eb do t\u2019ju\npropozoj\u00eb nj\u00eb takim. M\u00eb pas, ju takon juve t\u00eb vendosni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kujdes! Zhg\u00ebnjimet nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb rralla dhe, p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, nuk jan\u00eb\nvirtuale. Ish-shoku i klas\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb barkalec pa flok\u00eb; ai q\u00eb\npretendonte se i ngjante Xhad Los\u00eb, ngjan me aktorin vet\u00ebm nga ngjyra e qimeve\nt\u00eb hund\u00ebs, por, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn ju do t\u00eb keni m\u00ebsuar metod\u00ebn e veprimit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>K\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00ebn e nj\u00eb\nprofesionisti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sot, n\u00eb epok\u00ebn e trajnimit p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka, mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00ebn e nj\u00eb\nprofesionisti joshjeje ose nj\u00eb psikologu. Do t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb takim t\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar\npersonalitetin e nevojat tuaja, k\u00ebshilla n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, shpesh nj\u00eb etap\u00eb\nndryshimi luku dhe p\u00ebrfundon me pun\u00eb praktike e situata konkrete. Q\u00ebllimi i par\u00eb\n\u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb krijohet besimi n\u00eb vetvete; hapi i par\u00eb i nevojsh\u00ebm q\u00eb duhet p\u00ebr t\u00eb\njoshur tjetrin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kujdes! Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb k\u00ebto kurse t\u00eb heqin gjith\u00eb spontaneitetin dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr\nt\u00eb ardhur keq, pasi kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e sharmit t\u00eb gjithsecilit prej nesh.\nEvitoni edhe sharlatan\u00ebt q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb nj\u00eb shum\u00eb kolosale p\u00ebr hi\u00e7mosgj\u00eb.\n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nuk ekziston nj\u00eb metod\u00eb e pagabueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb joshur dik\u00eb, por disa truke t\u00eb vogla i kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb tashm\u00eb provat e tyre. Ne i kemi rishikuar dhe po ju parashtrojm\u00eb gjith\u00eb sekretet e tyre. Ju takon juve t\u00eb zgjidhni at\u00eb q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrshtatet m\u00eb shum\u00eb&#8230; Metoda klasike Merrni q\u00ebndrimin e nj\u00eb zonje t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":16393,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[306,2335],"class_list":["post-21561","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","tag-intimitet","tag-joshje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21561","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21561"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21561\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16393"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21561"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21561"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21561"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}